FabSwingers.com forum: When you say flirting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you mean?

I see folks say they 'enjoy the flirting and the build up to a meet'

What does that mean?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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Exactly that. Swapping of fantasies and things you like. The process of getting to know one another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I presume they are chatting in PMs about how much they want to see each other.

'I can't wait to feast my eyes on your heaving bosoms.'

'Why sir you make me blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I presume they are chatting in PMs about how much they want to see each other.

'I can't wait to feast my eyes on your heaving bosoms.'

'Why sir you make me blush

You leave my moobs outta this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'm a simple soul

Victoria Sponge with fresh vanilla cream

Never buttercream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'm a simple soul

Victoria Sponge with fresh vanilla cream

Never buttercream"

This is me too, always fresh cream.

I am partial to coffee and walnut too, but I rarely have it on a meet because I don't want him thinking that I'm not on point cake wise...I'm very conscious that Coffee and Walnut is not a popular choice with people...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

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I'd go for a drive out spot ... let's see what cake is available

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Exactly that. Swapping of fantasies and things you like. The process of getting to know one another. "

See this is what confuses

I get to know people by chatting shit (which is why The Forums are a draw)

The whole 'fantasy' talk thing I find really uncomfortable mainly cos I don't have any

At this age, I've done most of what I want to and those that are left are more head fantasies as opposed to things I'd be comfortable with in reality

My imagination is very much stifled

Does that make me an awful flirt?

That could be another thread... What does it take to be a good flirt?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'm a simple soul

Victoria Sponge with fresh vanilla cream

Never buttercream

This is me too, always fresh cream.

That was my other choice

It's the cake equivalent of being a bi man

More people are into it than we know, but they don't say in case people judge them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'm a simple soul

Victoria Sponge with fresh vanilla cream

Never buttercream

This is me too, always fresh cream.

Coffee and walnut.... When and where!?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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It's just a way of connecting and i find fantasies insightful on two levels even if they are things you would never actually do. The content of the fantasy tells volumes about a person and talking about something so intimate can really help forge a trust bond. But it's rare to have that kind of connection from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly that. Swapping of fantasies and things you like. The process of getting to know one another.

See this is what confuses

I get to know people by chatting shit (which is why The Forums are a draw)

The whole 'fantasy' talk thing I find really uncomfortable mainly cos I don't have any

At this age, I've done most of what I want to and those that are left are more head fantasies as opposed to things I'd be comfortable with in reality

My imagination is very much stifled

Does that make me an awful flirt?

That could be another thread... What does it take to be a good flirt?

I've been called an intelligent flirt on the forum which I think means I am probing the mind more than the body.

Me: 'Have you read Wittgenstein?

Her: 'He's a hot philosopher

Me: 'Show me your tits.'

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t think I do it

I just chat and if there are possibilities there then I have been known to meet, but fantasies and all that stuff doesn’t really work for me it’s more likely to put me off than turn me on

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I assume they mean sexting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'd go for a drive out spot ... let's see what cake is available

I'll take lemon drizzle at a push.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'm a simple soul

Victoria Sponge with fresh vanilla cream

Never buttercream

This is me too, always fresh cream.

That was my other choice

It's the cake equivalent of being a bi man

More people are into it than we know, but they don't say in case people judge them

This is very true, great analogy

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

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"I assume they mean sexting?

Flirting I would say isn't the same as sexting, it's more subtle, suggestive and hinting than straight out describing what your going to do with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I do it

I just chat and if there are possibilities there then I have been known to meet, but fantasies and all that stuff doesn’t really work for me it’s more likely to put me off than turn me on

I die on the inside when asked about fantasies, I just don't have them....

I usually respond with 'Just stop asking stupid questions get to know me on a non sexual level and you never know we might get to bang at some point...If he is truly interested in me then he will accept that. If not then I know he just wanted an outlet to help him cum

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

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I'm a big fan of coffee and walnut, the married lass I flirt with at work occasionally makes me coffee and walnut cakes, and they are heavenly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big fan of coffee and walnut, the married lass I flirt with at work occasionally makes me coffee and walnut cakes, and they are heavenly."

Eh??? You lucky bugger! I need to find me a lass like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you mean?

I see folks say they 'enjoy the flirting and the build up to a meet'

What does that mean? "

It means the put this emoji after every comment

I’ll see you at the Spoons at 8

Ok, I’ll be wearing a poncho!

Hi, we can’t make it tonight, the dog is depressed!

You said that last week!

Sorry, we meant the cat!

He’s depressed too ?

Yep, same time next week ?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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"Exactly that. Swapping of fantasies and things you like. The process of getting to know one another.

See this is what confuses

I get to know people by chatting shit (which is why The Forums are a draw)

The whole 'fantasy' talk thing I find really uncomfortable mainly cos I don't have any

At this age, I've done most of what I want to and those that are left are more head fantasies as opposed to things I'd be comfortable with in reality

My imagination is very much stifled

Does that make me an awful flirt?

That could be another thread... What does it take to be a good flirt?

I've been called an intelligent flirt on the forum which I think means I am probing the mind more than the body.

Me: 'Have you read Wittgenstein?

Her: 'He's a hot philosopher

Me: 'Show me your tits.'"

There you go grade a flirting.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"What do you mean?

I see folks say they 'enjoy the flirting and the build up to a meet'

What does that mean?

It means the put this emoji after every comment

I’ll see you at the Spoons at 8

Ok, I’ll be wearing a poncho!

Hi, we can’t make it tonight, the dog is depressed!

You said that last week!

Sorry, we meant the cat!

He’s depressed too ?

Yep, same time next week ?

That’s how it’s done! It has made me a bit wet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My flirting has got all rusty and needs some practise.

Or some WD40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you mean?

I see folks say they 'enjoy the flirting and the build up to a meet'

What does that mean?

It means the put this emoji after every comment

I’ll see you at the Spoons at 8

Ok, I’ll be wearing a poncho!

Hi, we can’t make it tonight, the dog is depressed!

You said that last week!

Sorry, we meant the cat!

He’s depressed too ?

Yep, same time next week ?

That’s how it’s done! It has made me a bit wet

Damn it, why didn’t I use this

earlier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly that. Swapping of fantasies and things you like. The process of getting to know one another.

See this is what confuses

I get to know people by chatting shit (which is why The Forums are a draw)

The whole 'fantasy' talk thing I find really uncomfortable mainly cos I don't have any

At this age, I've done most of what I want to and those that are left are more head fantasies as opposed to things I'd be comfortable with in reality

My imagination is very much stifled

Does that make me an awful flirt?

That could be another thread... What does it take to be a good flirt?

I've been called an intelligent flirt on the forum which I think means I am probing the mind more than the body.

Me: 'Have you read Wittgenstein?

Her: 'He's a hot philosopher

Me: 'Show me your tits.'

There you go grade a flirting. "

Have you read Wittgenstein?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I assume they mean sexting?

Flirting I would say isn't the same as sexting, it's more subtle, suggestive and hinting than straight out describing what your going to do with someone."

That’s where I’ve been going wrong

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

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"My flirting has got all rusty and needs some practise.

Or some WD40

Do you require some assistance with application, or help with removal of said rust from those hard to reach places?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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"Exactly that. Swapping of fantasies and things you like. The process of getting to know one another.

See this is what confuses

I get to know people by chatting shit (which is why The Forums are a draw)

The whole 'fantasy' talk thing I find really uncomfortable mainly cos I don't have any

At this age, I've done most of what I want to and those that are left are more head fantasies as opposed to things I'd be comfortable with in reality

My imagination is very much stifled

Does that make me an awful flirt?

That could be another thread... What does it take to be a good flirt?

I've been called an intelligent flirt on the forum which I think means I am probing the mind more than the body.

Me: 'Have you read Wittgenstein?

Her: 'He's a hot philosopher

Me: 'Show me your tits.'

There you go grade a flirting.

Have you read Wittgenstein?

I can't ever think of him without thinking of socks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'm a simple soul

Victoria Sponge with fresh vanilla cream

Never buttercream

This is me too, always fresh cream.

According to the well known cake bible 'The book of Cake- chapter 5: Cake and sex', Cake can be a window into your erotic soul

Classic Victoria Sponge - still waters run deep

Lemon Drizzle - likes restraints & spanking

Flapjacks - dogging

Carrot cake - outdoor sex

Coffee & Walnut - Does he want pegging / he's getting 8 inches anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I assume they mean sexting?

Flirting I would say isn't the same as sexting, it's more subtle, suggestive and hinting than straight out describing what your going to do with someone.

That’s where I’ve been going wrong

Or if you are middle class....A combination of the two. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly that. Swapping of fantasies and things you like. The process of getting to know one another.

See this is what confuses

I get to know people by chatting shit (which is why The Forums are a draw)

The whole 'fantasy' talk thing I find really uncomfortable mainly cos I don't have any

At this age, I've done most of what I want to and those that are left are more head fantasies as opposed to things I'd be comfortable with in reality

My imagination is very much stifled

Does that make me an awful flirt?

That could be another thread... What does it take to be a good flirt?

I've been called an intelligent flirt on the forum which I think means I am probing the mind more than the body.

Me: 'Have you read Wittgenstein?

Her: 'He's a hot philosopher

Me: 'Show me your tits.'

There you go grade a flirting.

Have you read Wittgenstein?

I can't ever think of him without thinking of socks. "

Socks? I'm obviously missing something there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do you mean?

I see folks say they 'enjoy the flirting and the build up to a meet'

What does that mean?

It means the put this emoji after every comment

I’ll see you at the Spoons at 8

Ok, I’ll be wearing a poncho!

Hi, we can’t make it tonight, the dog is depressed!

You said that last week!

Sorry, we meant the cat!

He’s depressed too ?

Yep, same time next week ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means I tell them how I'm gonna sit on their face right up until the moment I sit on their face

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By *JessSRosexCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

A good exchange of flirts and teases always helps in the build up to meets and what is to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m notoriously bad at flirting so I’m just going to sit here and try to pick up some tips

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

I love flirting - something I've always been able to do quite naturally apparantly.

For me it's all about the suggestion, the tease, the promise of things to come, the subtle sharing of ideas until you get to the point of trust - and then sharing the intimate details by any medium both parties find to enhance the experience. There's a huge element of control in the flirting experience

Interestingly the stopping of being able to meet because of Covid has really brought back the flirt in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'm a simple soul

Victoria Sponge with fresh vanilla cream

Never buttercream

This is me too, always fresh cream.

According to the well known cake bible 'The book of Cake- chapter 5: Cake and sex', Cake can be a window into your erotic soul

Classic Victoria Sponge - still waters run deep

Lemon Drizzle - likes restraints & spanking

Flapjacks - dogging

Carrot cake - outdoor sex

Coffee & Walnut - Does he want pegging / he's getting 8 inches anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno, the closest I get to flirting prior to a meet is debating what cake I am going to have with the coffee and where the nearest parking space is

I'm a simple soul

Victoria Sponge with fresh vanilla cream

Never buttercream

This is me too, always fresh cream.

According to the well known cake bible 'The book of Cake- chapter 5: Cake and sex', Cake can be a window into your erotic soul

Classic Victoria Sponge - still waters run deep

Lemon Drizzle - likes restraints & spanking

Flapjacks - dogging

Carrot cake - outdoor sex

Coffee & Walnut - Does he want pegging / he's getting 8 inches anyway

I generally drift between the Victoria Sponge and Lemon drizzle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting makes me cringe..(mrs) probably because i feel to self conscious doing it...hubby is an outrageous flirt and enjoys it..i blush sending dirty txts..

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