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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn

So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, you up for fucking anybody then?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fab is what you make it or want it to be. Ignore the profiles that don't meet your preferences.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's a swinging site op.

Some do find love on here, me included

People can used fab however they want though, as long as its not harming anyone else

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"So, you up for fucking anybody then? "

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ?

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I think it's those who are struggling to get people to meet them who mostly complain that women and couples are picky and demanding.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It is whatever you want it to be

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

People can ask for whatever they want. They should just understand that asking isn't the same as getting. Nobody has to agree to give them what they want. They might ask for something and have to go without. That's on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All those exceptional requirements make for a good swinging fuck though surely. Otherwise its just a mediocre fuck with any old body and who wants that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

What does that mean?

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"I think it's those who are struggling to get people to meet them who mostly complain that women and couples are picky and demanding. "

Now that’s called taking something completely out of context just to be inflammatory! I didnt say picky or demanding but maybe that’s your own findings though!

It’s not a complaint, just a question? Not meant as a personal attack on anyone or in the way they search for a partner. Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My standards for sex looks wise is the same as for dating. I’m not lowering my standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

Would you care to clarify what you mean by that?

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ?

What does that mean? "

I mean so many a seem to be looking for a life partner as opposed to the name of the site…swingers being that part in question.

It’s not an attack on anyone, or what they seek but purely an observation.

People already seem to be taking it personally! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.... apparently all of us should drop our knickers for every person that mails....

Get the female to open the mail, guaranteed knee-deep in clunge!

Yup, that's the way it works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

So because were swingers were expected to fuck everyone who asks?

Thats not swinging mate

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though."

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ?

What does that mean?

I mean so many a seem to be looking for a life partner as opposed to the name of the site…swingers being that part in question.

It’s not an attack on anyone, or what they seek but purely an observation.

People already seem to be taking it personally! Lol"

“But it’s a swinging site after all” comes across to me that you think our standards should be lower.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ?

What does that mean?

I mean so many a seem to be looking for a life partner as opposed to the name of the site…swingers being that part in question.

It’s not an attack on anyone, or what they seek but purely an observation.

People already seem to be taking it personally! Lol"

But this question gets asked all the time, usually by men who are frustrated as not getting replies to their scattergun messages and seemingly confused that women are dropping their knickers on command.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ?

So because were swingers were expected to fuck everyone who asks?

Thats not swinging mate "

No, that’s not the point I am making at all. Of course we all have standards , well nearly all!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Before looking I just knew a man was the op !

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ?

What does that mean?

I mean so many a seem to be looking for a life partner as opposed to the name of the site…swingers being that part in question.

It’s not an attack on anyone, or what they seek but purely an observation.

People already seem to be taking it personally! Lol

But this question gets asked all the time, usually by men who are frustrated as not getting replies to their scattergun messages and seemingly confused that women are dropping their knickers on command."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often times considered this myself OP. The conclusion I've reached is that if I'm honest to myself, I believe we're all fussier than we might wish to admit. Would you really want to turn up to a last minute dot com affair from a message like (cum over now missus needs another cock) with a profile status of (Whatever u like etc) I'd rather meet with people I've built rapport with and some trust to engage in a safe and memorable meet for all.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ?

What does that mean?

I mean so many a seem to be looking for a life partner as opposed to the name of the site…swingers being that part in question.

It’s not an attack on anyone, or what they seek but purely an observation.

People already seem to be taking it personally! Lol

But this question gets asked all the time, usually by men who are frustrated as not getting replies to their scattergun messages and seemingly confused that women are dropping their knickers on command."

Haha, well I apologise as I haven’t seen this raised in the forum before.

I am just making conversation, not casting aspersions on anyone’s choices.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"I've often times considered this myself OP. The conclusion I've reached is that if I'm honest to myself, I believe we're all fussier than we might wish to admit. Would you really want to turn up to a last minute dot com affair from a message like (cum over now missus needs another cock) with a profile status of (Whatever u like etc) I'd rather meet with people I've built rapport with and some trust to engage in a safe and memorable meet for all. "

Oh absolutely, I am totally in agreement with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

Swinging ? shagging anything that moves.

Like any ‘hobby’ people have likes and dislikes. And some people are fussier than others.

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

no


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

Honestly I just out the wants profile and keep the ones that don’t have much and honestly you get a lot of twats on this website so they probably don’t want to deal with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for good food and bad company!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

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As this might become a bit heated, would you clarify which bits you think are 'dating' and which bits are 'swinging'? That might help to make your observation clearer for people to comment on

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So, you up for fucking anybody then? "

Well, he is a man. I thought that was general consensus.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

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I think couples tend to use it as a swinging site whereas singles are a bigger set of variables, that are impossible to quantify.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

As this might become a bit heated, would you clarify which bits you think are 'dating' and which bits are 'swinging'? That might help to make your observation clearer for people to comment on "

Jeez, I dont know if I should!! They seem to be making plenty judgements all by themselves!! That’s another topic for discussion maybe, why can debate not just be debate with turning it into personal attacks and twisting it to suit own agendas? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

Well, he is a man. I thought that was general consensus. "

Trust me, some really are! Whatever works for you I spose but I wouldn't want to be the "anybody"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

As this might become a bit heated, would you clarify which bits you think are 'dating' and which bits are 'swinging'? That might help to make your observation clearer for people to comment on

Jeez, I dont know if I should!! They seem to be making plenty judgements all by themselves!! That’s another topic for discussion maybe, why can debate not just be debate with turning it into personal attacks and twisting it to suit own agendas? Lol"

Debate requires some evidence or reasoning not just statements of opinion! And I haven't seen any personal attacks. Remember that this is a frequently raised topic, and sadly is often guys equating swinging with not being fussy. That's why I asked for the detail, it would go some way to explaining your opinion, and distancing you from the herd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

As this might become a bit heated, would you clarify which bits you think are 'dating' and which bits are 'swinging'? That might help to make your observation clearer for people to comment on

Jeez, I dont know if I should!! They seem to be making plenty judgements all by themselves!! That’s another topic for discussion maybe, why can debate not just be debate with turning it into personal attacks and twisting it to suit own agendas? Lol"

Maybe clarity would prevent that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've often times considered this myself OP. The conclusion I've reached is that if I'm honest to myself, I believe we're all fussier than we might wish to admit. Would you really want to turn up to a last minute dot com affair from a message like (cum over now missus needs another cock) with a profile status of (Whatever u like etc) I'd rather meet with people I've built rapport with and some trust to engage in a safe and memorable meet for all.

Oh absolutely, I am totally in agreement with you."

View and respect peoples' specifics as gate keepers to find what's right for them. You/I do likewise. You might only meet once a year, but it's one more meet than not being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

I think couples tend to use it as a swinging site whereas singles are a bigger set of variables, that are impossible to quantify."

For us, the swinging bit is about sexual experience you have with others outside of the standard couple dynamic. It's important for us that were both involved, even if we're not both there. A single hooking up with another single, seems more like t**der

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want a 13 inch glittery willy. I don't know why that's seen as such an exceptional requirement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap! & totally agree.

I look at the type of people I would date & not just sleep with.

I would say more on this but I may offend the person that seems to have it in for single guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

I think couples tend to use it as a swinging site whereas singles are a bigger set of variables, that are impossible to quantify."

Wise words from a lovely lady. Even if she's not playing a proper chord in her guitar pose photo.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

I think you need to re-think your chat up mate!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of zero standards on here....

Plain to see..

How can that be exciting??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s called having preferences…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want a 13 inch glittery willy. I don't know why that's seen as such an exceptional requirement! "

I didn't realise it was exceptional. I thought it was common, I've got one and most of my friends dwarf me.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's whatever each of us as individual members choose it to be OP - the key is finding those that match our own view, rather than worrying about those who view it differently

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

How cone you can have requiremebts but no one else can

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

Just want to remind thd op of his opening list as his responses throughout this thread seem to be in cintrafoction yo thd point he was trying to make lol

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

Did some mention something about fucking someone?

Where do you want me? I am fluent in 3 different love makings

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Most have said it but whatever I'm bored so here we go.

What is a swinging site to you?

What is a dating site to you?

What are the differences?

What is meant to happen on one and not the other?

Explain why you feel such a way. Do that and then maybe you might get a discussion, instead of giving the most basic of opening statements with very little meat to them. Then you might get responses worthy of the question asked. You want a discussion, make it worthy of a discussion.

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool


"My standards for sex looks wise is the same as for dating. I’m not lowering my standards! "

I totally agree with your comment, I feel the same way!!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

We all have to start somewhere, with some basic requirements that we find attractive. Some will be more specific than others but ultimately it will rule out lots of people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

Yes, cause the first thing a woman asks for on a dating site is a 10 inch dick, it’s usually right before ‘must like windy walks on the beach’ and ‘cosy nights in by an open fire.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like having "shopping list" on their profile. Usually those who are very particular or have very busy inbox. Let them. Do it your way.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"Most have said it but whatever I'm bored so here we go.

What is a swinging site to you?

What is a dating site to you?

What are the differences?

What is meant to happen on one and not the other?

Explain why you feel such a way. Do that and then maybe you might get a discussion, instead of giving the most basic of opening statements with very little meat to them. Then you might get responses worthy of the question asked. You want a discussion, make it worthy of a discussion. "

Yes, you bore me too.

It’s meant ad a topic of debate, why can it not be left to others to reason why? Why does a topic of debate seem to be taken so personally. Ffs, some people could cause a fight in an empty house!!!

Chill out people, join in if you can without being pissy, or else move on if you don’t have anything positive to say. ?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

As someone whose profile this is possibly aimed at - I need my mind engaged to be properly aroused. Simple as that really.

There is also a lot of 'play' aspects that I very much enjoy but would only do with someone I trust - not a one off meet.

Eventually I would love to meet someone I can enjoy this life with - in the mean time I will continue to choose play partners in a way I feel safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

Which kind of implies you think people should OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone whose profile this is possibly aimed at - I need my mind engaged to be properly aroused. Simple as that really.

There is also a lot of 'play' aspects that I very much enjoy but would only do with someone I trust - not a one off meet.

Eventually I would love to meet someone I can enjoy this life with - in the mean time I will continue to choose play partners in a way I feel safe "

I read a woman’s biggest organ is her brain, but seeing some of the boobs on here I dunno if that’s correct.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"As someone whose profile this is possibly aimed at - I need my mind engaged to be properly aroused. Simple as that really.

There is also a lot of 'play' aspects that I very much enjoy but would only do with someone I trust - not a one off meet.

Eventually I would love to meet someone I can enjoy this life with - in the mean time I will continue to choose play partners in a way I feel safe

I read a woman’s biggest organ is her brain, but seeing some of the boobs on here I dunno if that’s correct. "

My boobs are definitely bigger

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By *rabtiedMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Hopefully everyone has their own quirky ways and preferences, these individualism’s will attract a like minded soul which in turn will lead to a more complimentary sexual bonding. So I feel being stringent in the picking process is definitely beneficial.

I am new on here and a single fella so the odds are stacked against me but I still would not fall into the abyss of meaningless sexual exploits. I want to swing with the type of lady I would also date. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering...

Would we put those sorts of requirements on our tinder profile? Most definitely not.

Do we put them on a swingers site? Some do yes.

One site is for finding a partner and one is for sex.

So I don't think looking for a certain dick size means I'm looking for a life partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evan I have standards... Its basic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its whatever you make of it.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Its whatever you make of it. "

So you could say its a bit like Lego?

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By *rabtiedMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I think the site has just evolved to encompass what different people seek. As long as someone has written clearly what they seek, it is for others to choose whether to contact them if they seek similar.

There are other sites to choose from if this one doesn't suit. For some reason these threads tend to be started by men. Sexual frustration maybe.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Its whatever you make of it.

So you could say its a bit like Lego? "

I love lego!! Wanna share?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Hopefully everyone has their own quirky ways and preferences, these individualism’s will attract a like minded soul which in turn will lead to a more complimentary sexual bonding. So I feel being stringent in the picking process is definitely beneficial.

I am new on here and a single fella so the odds are stacked against me but I still would not fall into the abyss of meaningless sexual exploits. I want to swing with the type of lady I would also date. X"

Welcome to the forum

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Neither, its a swingers site. People are of course free to use it however they wish within the site rules.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's whatever anyone wants it to be. I don't know why it bothers some people what others do on here or how they use the site. Everyone has their own reasons to be on here.

I know I've enjoyed my journey so far I've met some great people and had some amazing sex with some of them. And hopefully when things get back to a bit more normality then I will get to more mng and maybe even a club at some stage.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's both. It's also a site to get camping tips, talk about motorbikes, chat politics etc, etc. It's a lifestyle site for people in the lifestyle to do and explore numerous things.

I think maybe there is a slightly growing trend of people looking for something more. I guess because people are becoming more aware that you can have a swinging/alternative relationship. So being more open about wanting this and not settling for less. I mean swinging is great but who better to share it with than your best freind and soul mate? And what better site to find it?

I get its frustrating that not everyone on fab is available for a NSA fuck on demand. Unfortunately the site is also for us to follow the wider community and explore different things

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I can’t get turned on to someone, who doesn’t turn me on. Dating or swinging, simple.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"My standards for sex looks wise is the same as for dating. I’m not lowering my standards! "

That's completely understandable. I myself have found my standards lean more towards higher on here than if I'm looking for a partner. Almost as if this world is a fantasy.

Dating I look more in depth at personality over looks, where as on here, I seem to like looks more so than personality. In saying that either way, there has to be a physical and mental attraction for situation to work.

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By *pectressWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I am completely within my rights to arrange meets with whom I want, when I want and with my own set of rules and expectations.

I wouldn’t shag anyone I wouldn’t date. As there has to be attraction, chemistry and a good rapport. I like what I like.

As a single woman, I have my own set of rules for meets, this is to make me safe and comfortable, if anyone doesn’t like it, well I simply won’t meet them.

Not hard!

If I found love on here that would be wonderful but honestly, I genuinely don’t think it exists, so at least I can have fun here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

It is a site based around swinging.

What's your definition of that, Swinging?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Get this lad a shovel cuz he’s digging

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"People can ask for whatever they want. They should just understand that asking isn't the same as getting. Nobody has to agree to give them what they want. They might ask for something and have to go without. That's on them. "

I agree, asking doesn't mean you'll get it for sure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes loving the women's opinions

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live


"My standards for sex looks wise is the same as for dating. I’m not lowering my standards!

I totally agree with your comment, I feel the same way!!"

Me too... I have to be attracted to them, physically & mentally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what if you want exceptional sex?!? Or a specific experience?

Surely 'your' body, 'your' experience, 'your' fantasy... There is someone for everyone if you are prepared to wait what you desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re on a swinger site then your knickers should be permanently off in book

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's whatever you want it to be and people just prefer certain things. I'm always dissapointed when someone wants a dick big enough to fill 2 women and I like them but some have bigger insides than normal anatomy I guess

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live


"I think it's those who are struggling to get people to meet them who mostly complain that women and couples are picky and demanding. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want a 13 inch glittery willy. I don't know why that's seen as such an exceptional requirement! "

Ooh glitter in your foof- that would be painful

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't get how having specific requirements for the men I want to give my body to means I'm looking for a boyfriend.

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

Our initial thoughts are; Where's the popcorn? , Here we go again!

You should probably Google the definition of swinging, it's a swinging site, it's not a dating site, or a sex site.

If you want to meet people for sex without the 'exceptional requirements' you should probably join one of the 'fuck now' sites. If you're lucky you'll find someone to empty your balls into on there!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I use the site for dating. I don’t care how others use it.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree! I’m finding it hard to even meet someone let alone talk to them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

I'll tell you what I think when the rings on my finger n not before.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

Still doesn't mean that I'll personally fuck anyone offering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This confusion annoys me woman just want to date lol other to prude to even meet lol

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

.


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

Typical single guy.

Or are you single??

Swinging is not all about fucking.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

.


"This confusion annoys me woman just want to date lol other to prude to even meet lol "

Very honest and truthful status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

I think my profile is just this side of perfect

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

Swingers don’t fuck everybody

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

.


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ?

Swingers don’t fuck everybody "

Problem is most guys thing swingers fuck anybody!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was set up as a swinging site, hence the name.

People use the site in many different ways though.

Yes, but do you think it’s still essentially a swinging site or going more toward a dating site? That’s basically the question I am asking, I am bot questioning people’s reasons, just if people think it’s changing?

As this might become a bit heated, would you clarify which bits you think are 'dating' and which bits are 'swinging'? That might help to make your observation clearer for people to comment on

Jeez, I dont know if I should!! They seem to be making plenty judgements all by themselves!! That’s another topic for discussion maybe, why can debate not just be debate with turning it into personal attacks and twisting it to suit own agendas? Lol"

I think it could be the bit about a good swinging fuck .. that has got to people .. not the actual question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want a 13 inch glittery willy. I don't know why that's seen as such an exceptional requirement! "

I might buy one of these let me know if you find one hahaha

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think it’s a paradox

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

For me fab is about fulfilling sexual desires and fantasies. Sometimes that might be A, sometimes it might be B. Just because I might have a fancying for a 6ft well built, tattooed rough tough guy. That doesn't mean I want to marry him.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

It's what a person/person's want it to be! Things happen sometimes even if it's not what you was expecting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's both. I say never say no to true love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This confusion annoys me woman just want to date lol other to prude to even meet lol "

Why prude?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"This confusion annoys me woman just want to date lol other to prude to even meet lol "

What confusion. Is it confusing that people get different things from being here? Seems perfectly easy to understand to me.

V x

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx"

And a very good opinion … in my opinion

V x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

99% of women have a type 99% of men do not. Such is life! Good luck o/p!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"My standards for sex looks wise is the same as for dating. I’m not lowering my standards! "

Exactly this.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"This confusion annoys me woman just want to date lol other to prude to even meet lol "

No we don't. We want sex too, but a lot of us want a connection too, and that means you need to put some effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very picky. If I just wanted sex I'd be paying for sex (which I have done before).

I'm here to connect with 'like minded' people (which I have) which may stay virtual or, once COVID has settled, may move into social meets. Anything more than that is a bonus. I don't want a girlfriend but I don't want just sex. And I hate dating apps. So I am here using the forum.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx

And a very good opinion … in my opinion

V x "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for sex, but I still have preferences, I won't fuck anyone. I might do the anonymous glory hole, darkroom, or blindfolded things at a club. But for a meet I need to be attracted to and like the person xx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I am only interested in true fwbs. Therefore yes they have to be the full package in order to satisfy both the f and the b. I would struggle to find this on normal dating sites as i also want enm. Fbs easy to find anywhere but quality fwbs i have had much more success here. Am i a true swinger? No probably not as a single although i do have ambitions to visit a club and have meets with couples.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx

And a very good opinion … in my opinion

V x

Thank you xx"

I think it’s a pants opinion.

It’s completely irrelevant to my original post as I have never once mentioned a lack of success or struggling to get a meet, whining or moaning.

It was posted as there seems to be a social change within Fab that I have noticed, it seems to be changing a lot toward a more dating game.

I have no problem with this, I just asked for other people’s thoughts, without it turning into a pissing match.

FFS people, why do so many trolls drag it to a personal level, can’t we discuss without slurs and accusations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

ABSOFUCKINGLUTELY. This is my Fantasy world. I come here to get what I would like and if thats being fussy putting requirements that is exactly what I do. This may be a swinging site but that doesn't mean to are obligated to fuck anybody because it is. If that is your perception of the site good for you. But im sure there are a lot who do not agree with you. But good luck anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx

And a very good opinion … in my opinion

V x

Thank you xx

I think it’s a pants opinion.

It’s completely irrelevant to my original post as I have never once mentioned a lack of success or struggling to get a meet, whining or moaning.

It was posted as there seems to be a social change within Fab that I have noticed, it seems to be changing a lot toward a more dating game.

I have no problem with this, I just asked for other people’s thoughts, without it turning into a pissing match.

FFS people, why do so many trolls drag it to a personal level, can’t we discuss without slurs and accusations?

"

There are a couple of posts further up where people have asked for you to outline what you see as dating and what you see as swinging. What is the change, what has happened that has prompted the question? You've mentioned debate and discussion, but you haven't put any work in. A skim of your initial post reads like a whinge. If it isn't flesh it out a bit so people can discuss it with you.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx

And a very good opinion … in my opinion

V x

Thank you xx

I think it’s a pants opinion.

It’s completely irrelevant to my original post as I have never once mentioned a lack of success or struggling to get a meet, whining or moaning.

It was posted as there seems to be a social change within Fab that I have noticed, it seems to be changing a lot toward a more dating game.

I have no problem with this, I just asked for other people’s thoughts, without it turning into a pissing match.

FFS people, why do so many trolls drag it to a personal level, can’t we discuss without slurs and accusations?

"

I'm sorry if you took exception to my comments. My intention was not to start a paissing contest. I object to your comments about trolling, slurs and accusations. Again that was not my intention and I was unaware I was trolling, etc.

I unreservedly offer my apologises x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This confusion annoys me woman just want to date lol other to prude to even meet lol "

Yep... That's why nobody is meeting you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re on a swinger site then your knickers should be permanently off in book "

I have a book mark for that but my knickers are often off

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx

And a very good opinion … in my opinion

V x

Thank you xx

I think it’s a pants opinion.

It’s completely irrelevant to my original post as I have never once mentioned a lack of success or struggling to get a meet, whining or moaning.

It was posted as there seems to be a social change within Fab that I have noticed, it seems to be changing a lot toward a more dating game.

I have no problem with this, I just asked for other people’s thoughts, without it turning into a pissing match.

FFS people, why do so many trolls drag it to a personal level, can’t we discuss without slurs and accusations?

"

Exactly where did she level her opinion at you personally? Why have you chosen to take offence at a generalised opinion? When you point a finger at someone else you point three back at yourself. Perhaps take your own advice and don't take everything so personally.

Your opening post was a whinge at women who you accuse of having demands that you feel don't fit with the ethos of swinging and that you feel should be more on dating sites than here.

You have certain traits and physical requirements for meets. Why is it wrong for others to want a 10" dick as you quoted in your op? This isn't me 'getting personal', as you have accused so many of. This is simply Tring to clarify the discussion point you are so keen for people to debate.

If the start of the debate is unclear people will ask questions of the one posing it. That's how debates and conversatoons work but you seem to think it's some sort of witch hunt and get excessively defensive (IMHO of course).

Saucy.... There was absolutely no need for you to apologise. Your point was valid.....imho, again

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

.


"I think it's those who are struggling to get people to meet them who mostly complain that women and couples are picky and demanding. "

This is very very true.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx

And a very good opinion … in my opinion

V x

Thank you xx

I think it’s a pants opinion.

It’s completely irrelevant to my original post as I have never once mentioned a lack of success or struggling to get a meet, whining or moaning.

It was posted as there seems to be a social change within Fab that I have noticed, it seems to be changing a lot toward a more dating game.

I have no problem with this, I just asked for other people’s thoughts, without it turning into a pissing match.

FFS people, why do so many trolls drag it to a personal level, can’t we discuss without slurs and accusations?

Exactly where did she level her opinion at you personally? Why have you chosen to take offence at a generalised opinion? When you point a finger at someone else you point three back at yourself. Perhaps take your own advice and don't take everything so personally.

Your opening post was a whinge at women who you accuse of having demands that you feel don't fit with the ethos of swinging and that you feel should be more on dating sites than here.

You have certain traits and physical requirements for meets. Why is it wrong for others to want a 10" dick as you quoted in your op? This isn't me 'getting personal', as you have accused so many of. This is simply Tring to clarify the discussion point you are so keen for people to debate.

If the start of the debate is unclear people will ask questions of the one posing it. That's how debates and conversatoons work but you seem to think it's some sort of witch hunt and get excessively defensive (IMHO of course).

Saucy.... There was absolutely no need for you to apologise. Your point was valid.....imho, again "

See, you cannot make your point without adding just that little thing to incite a retort! If you read my OP how can it be taken as a whinge? If you read further down the thread you will see some clarification, but no, you would rather just throw in something to cause trouble as opposed to normal and intelligent discussion!!

Why can people not chat without it becoming personal? You included.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"As others have said people use this site however they wish. Yes, some are hoping to find more than a casual one off, some are looking for something a little bit more and some are looking for love.

As men far out number women its inevitable that many men will have little or no success.

My advice, for whats it worth, is for men who are struggling to get a meet, instead of whinging and moaning check out the profiles of more successful men and then compare it to their own and see if they can learn something.

Just my opinion xx

And a very good opinion … in my opinion

V x

Thank you xx

I think it’s a pants opinion.

It’s completely irrelevant to my original post as I have never once mentioned a lack of success or struggling to get a meet, whining or moaning.

It was posted as there seems to be a social change within Fab that I have noticed, it seems to be changing a lot toward a more dating game.

I have no problem with this, I just asked for other people’s thoughts, without it turning into a pissing match.

FFS people, why do so many trolls drag it to a personal level, can’t we discuss without slurs and accusations?

Exactly where did she level her opinion at you personally? Why have you chosen to take offence at a generalised opinion? When you point a finger at someone else you point three back at yourself. Perhaps take your own advice and don't take everything so personally.

Your opening post was a whinge at women who you accuse of having demands that you feel don't fit with the ethos of swinging and that you feel should be more on dating sites than here.

You have certain traits and physical requirements for meets. Why is it wrong for others to want a 10" dick as you quoted in your op? This isn't me 'getting personal', as you have accused so many of. This is simply Tring to clarify the discussion point you are so keen for people to debate.

If the start of the debate is unclear people will ask questions of the one posing it. That's how debates and conversatoons work but you seem to think it's some sort of witch hunt and get excessively defensive (IMHO of course).

Saucy.... There was absolutely no need for you to apologise. Your point was valid.....imho, again

See, you cannot make your point without adding just that little thing to incite a retort! If you read my OP how can it be taken as a whinge? If you read further down the thread you will see some clarification, but no, you would rather just throw in something to cause trouble as opposed to normal and intelligent discussion!!

Why can people not chat without it becoming personal? You included.

"

Why are you do defensive it's quite hilarious really.

How is asking you questions about your thread causing trouble?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

I think the intention of the original owners is that the clue is in the name…

But if you are looking for something else and you manage to find it then god bless you… but if you don’t then it’s not like you weren’t warned…

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

"

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez. "

Can anyone on a sex site be called 'classy'?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

Can anyone on a sex site be called 'classy'? "

Of course they can!

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We are looking for friendship/play and repeat meets, cant have repeat meets without some kind of friendship and somethings in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking for friendship/play and repeat meets, cant have repeat meets without some kind of friendship and somethings in common. "

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By *looneytoonMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Nicely said very true love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you supposed to just want to shag anyone? Is this where I'm going wrong??

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Are you supposed to just want to shag anyone? Is this where I'm going wrong?? "

Got it.

That is exactly where we are going wrong going wrong.

Single women and couples should fuck any guy that asks.

Otherwise they moan on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site op.

Some do find love on here, me included

People can used fab however they want though, as long as its not harming anyone else

"

100% as long as the two partys understand what the other is on here for then this site is what you make it.

Will point out it should be discrete unless you're both openly happy to discuss it publicly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you supposed to just want to shag anyone? Is this where I'm going wrong?? "

No as most of us have standards and particular attractions. Unfortunately some people think it's just a shag competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on here for swinging and still am. I met a guy on here last year and we fell in love. I'm my wildest dreams I would never have thought that would have happened.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"I was on here for swinging and still am. I met a guy on here last year and we fell in love. I'm my wildest dreams I would never have thought that would have happened. "

That’s fantastic, all the best to you both, truly.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

It is a swing site, not a sex site as far as I am concerned. So for me that means no instant fucks, a bit of getting to know the person/ couple before engaging in more.

That said, that is just me, my preferences and my philosophy. If other people consider fabs something different, who am I to judge that?

The main thing is that people accept that not everybody has the same ambitions and needs when using the site and to be respectful of this when contacting them. For me that includes they read my profile as I read theirs if I am interested.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yes why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is a swing site, not a sex site as far as I am concerned. So for me that means no instant fucks, a bit of getting to know the person/ couple before engaging in more.

That said, that is just me, my preferences and my philosophy. If other people consider fabs something different, who am I to judge that?

The main thing is that people accept that not everybody has the same ambitions and needs when using the site and to be respectful of this when contacting them. For me that includes they read my profile as I read theirs if I am interested.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo can’t we get those on here?!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Are you supposed to just want to shag anyone? Is this where I'm going wrong??

No as most of us have standards and particular attractions. Unfortunately some people think it's just a shag competition."

Some people just think "free sex".

Some people this it is a platform for married people to cheat.

Nothing surprises us anymore.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think the majority of people are looking for something in the middle. Very few people will just fuck anybody , but probably more than you’d expect are looking for partners

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

People can use the site however they wish.

Not sure why you have an issue with that, OP.

You do you and don't worry about what other people are doing, or not doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez. "

I think you need to reconsider what you think is a personal attack....

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez. "

Don't you just love people looking for classy people on a free site

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

I think you need to reconsider what you think is a personal attack.... "

Where have I mentioned a personal attack in any correspondence with you? You pull what you want from a sentence and make up the rest! Troll like if ever there was!! It seems like you would start bother in an empty house!

Read the posts, all of them, then try and engage your thinking before your typo finger.

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

Don't you just love people looking for classy people on a free site "

The thing about a joke is you have to leave the funny bit in…… or maybe you were not intending to be funny? Did I say I was looking for classy people? No, another person that chooses to pull what they want from a sentence and twist it to suit their own agenda for whatever reason!

Its mainly the fakes that use it as a free site, or the profiles that are on for about 2 days then mysteriously vanish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on here for swinging and still am. I met a guy on here last year and we fell in love. I'm my wildest dreams I would never have thought that would have happened.

That’s fantastic, all the best to you both, truly.

"

Thank you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a site that people use how they wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly a, sex site that's what swingers do not date but fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a site that people use how they wish"

Yeah you can’t pigeon hole this site in to just one category ! You can find anything on here

It’s no tinder or POF that’s for sure !

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By *adbod7519Man
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s a hookup site

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

When I was meeting one of my criteria and standards that I held myself to was "don't shag anyone you wouldn't be willing to date if you wanted to date"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some might suggest, OP, that if you're askingbthis question, then perhaps you don't fully understand swinging.

It's not just about sex

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Mainly a, sex site that's what swingers do not date but fuck"

It’s a swingers site not a sex site and it’s more than just fucking!

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Neither. Although for many its considered a lack of sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. Although for many its considered a lack of sex site

"

No doubt we’ll see another thread pop up today about some dude not getting attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. Although for many its considered a lack of sex site

No doubt we’ll see another thread pop up today about some dude not getting attention "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a meet similar mind-setted people and do something with them site.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think? "

Well for me personally, I am sexually aroused by the mind and to want to feel safe with who ever I am with. Not going to meet someone who either bore me to tears or make me feel really nervous: total turn off and not gona get my juices flowing

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Mainly a, sex site that's what swingers do not date but fuck

It’s a swingers site not a sex site and it’s more than just fucking!"

Definitely more new members on this site sending messages like its a quick hook up site. Like meet me now and ride me bare back... jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly a, sex site that's what swingers do not date but fuck

It’s a swingers site not a sex site and it’s more than just fucking!

Definitely more new members on this site sending messages like its a quick hook up site. Like meet me now and ride me bare back... jeez "

Ffs !

And you turned him down ? Ha

Na I’m kidding but No wonder half these plonkers can’t get attention If that’s really the type of chat there saying to women straight off the bat actually I’m not even one bit surprised !

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Mainly a, sex site that's what swingers do not date but fuck

It’s a swingers site not a sex site and it’s more than just fucking!

Definitely more new members on this site sending messages like its a quick hook up site. Like meet me now and ride me bare back... jeez

Ffs !

And you turned him down ? Ha

Na I’m kidding but No wonder half these plonkers can’t get attention If that’s really the type of chat there saying to women straight off the bat actually I’m not even one bit surprised !

"

This is totally what we get. Some Guys make no effort on their profile and expect sex on tap. I think they soon realise it’s not happening then get all upset with status updates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly a, sex site that's what swingers do not date but fuck

It’s a swingers site not a sex site and it’s more than just fucking!

Definitely more new members on this site sending messages like its a quick hook up site. Like meet me now and ride me bare back... jeez

Ffs !

And you turned him down ? Ha

Na I’m kidding but No wonder half these plonkers can’t get attention If that’s really the type of chat there saying to women straight off the bat actually I’m not even one bit surprised !

This is totally what we get. Some Guys make no effort on their profile and expect sex on tap. I think they soon realise it’s not happening then get all upset with status updates!"

Only the foolish bitter ones with bigger ego’s then personality that can’t take been knocked back loose there shit !

But with one liners like that how can you expect it to turn out any other way !

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Long time since this site has been a swinging site, although there is an element of swinging still.

A lot of people came to this site because, free and CAMs You only need to look how many directing rooms there are - how many chat rooms.

Many people claim that people do not understand swinging and what its is - many of them don't actually understand swinging and have their own version of what they think it is.

Swinging was a lifestyle, lifestyles change demographics change. Argue this is lifestyle still a lifestyle site, swinging only a very small part

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By *lyreel OP   Man
over a year ago

King's lynn


"Long time since this site has been a swinging site, although there is an element of swinging still.

A lot of people came to this site because, free and CAMs You only need to look how many directing rooms there are - how many chat rooms.

Many people claim that people do not understand swinging and what its is - many of them don't actually understand swinging and have their own version of what they think it is.

Swinging was a lifestyle, lifestyles change demographics change. Argue this is lifestyle still a lifestyle site, swinging only a very small part"

At last, someone who has also noticed a change within Fab and can chat about it in a calm and intelligent manner without adding stupid untrue comments re the post.

I agree with you about it this site being more a lifestyle, what was swinging is changing, maybe due to the lives we lead, or to the way the web has portrayed the swing lifestyle?

I think it’s all very interesting how things have changed.

Cheers.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

I think you need to reconsider what you think is a personal attack....

Where have I mentioned a personal attack in any correspondence with you? You pull what you want from a sentence and make up the rest! Troll like if ever there was!! It seems like you would start bother in an empty house!

Read the posts, all of them, then try and engage your thinking before your typo finger. "

Where do d I say the personal attack was against me? You're the one who keeps bringing up things being taken to a personal level. Maybe you need to go and read through your responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

I think you need to reconsider what you think is a personal attack....

Where have I mentioned a personal attack in any correspondence with you? You pull what you want from a sentence and make up the rest! Troll like if ever there was!! It seems like you would start bother in an empty house!

Read the posts, all of them, then try and engage your thinking before your typo finger.

Where do d I say the personal attack was against me? You're the one who keeps bringing up things being taken to a personal level. Maybe you need to go and read through your responses. "

Looks like you love stirring

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

I think you need to reconsider what you think is a personal attack....

Where have I mentioned a personal attack in any correspondence with you? You pull what you want from a sentence and make up the rest! Troll like if ever there was!! It seems like you would start bother in an empty house!

Read the posts, all of them, then try and engage your thinking before your typo finger.

Where do d I say the personal attack was against me? You're the one who keeps bringing up things being taken to a personal level. Maybe you need to go and read through your responses.

Looks like you love stirring "

You looking in a mirror?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

I think you need to reconsider what you think is a personal attack....

Where have I mentioned a personal attack in any correspondence with you? You pull what you want from a sentence and make up the rest! Troll like if ever there was!! It seems like you would start bother in an empty house!

Read the posts, all of them, then try and engage your thinking before your typo finger.

Where do d I say the personal attack was against me? You're the one who keeps bringing up things being taken to a personal level. Maybe you need to go and read through your responses.

Looks like you love stirring

You looking in a mirror?! "

What does that even mean? Stop trolling

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

I went to the butcher the other day. Bought some sausages AND some eggs and a nice sauce.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"So, you up for fucking anybody then?

No, not at all, but it’s a swinging site after all. ? "

Everyone has different wants and desires.

Not sure why you would expect everyone to have the same standards.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So many people seem to be putting exceptional requirements up for meets… must be this, must be that, must have this, must be able to do that, have 10 inch dicks that last all night etc etc, it seems to be more like looking for a life partner as opposed to a good swinging fuck?

What do others think?

This is such a whinge!

Why do people have preferences for people they'd like to fuck on a swinging site?! The mind boggles

If you are able to read the further comments, read the responses that some thought has gone into, unlike yours.

What do others think, re my question is not a whinge, but I could complain about the thick and oh so pious people that are unable to reply without taking it to a personal level and try to cause insult.

It was simply a question re how I think the site has changed, maybe for the best, maybe not but no slur or complaint was ever intended.

The site is also changing in other ways, less classy people, you only have to look at some of the profile pictures to see that. Jeez.

I think you need to reconsider what you think is a personal attack....

Where have I mentioned a personal attack in any correspondence with you? You pull what you want from a sentence and make up the rest! Troll like if ever there was!! It seems like you would start bother in an empty house!

Read the posts, all of them, then try and engage your thinking before your typo finger.

Where do d I say the personal attack was against me? You're the one who keeps bringing up things being taken to a personal level. Maybe you need to go and read through your responses.

Looks like you love stirring

You looking in a mirror?!

What does that even mean? Stop trolling "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What age is that dude ? Look in the mirror ye’s got chat this lad !

Next he’ll be slagging my ma !

Very boring

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"Long time since this site has been a swinging site, although there is an element of swinging still.

A lot of people came to this site because, free and CAMs You only need to look how many directing rooms there are - how many chat rooms.

Many people claim that people do not understand swinging and what its is - many of them don't actually understand swinging and have their own version of what they think it is.

Swinging was a lifestyle, lifestyles change demographics change. Argue this is lifestyle still a lifestyle site, swinging only a very small part

At last, someone who has also noticed a change within Fab and can chat about it in a calm and intelligent manner without adding stupid untrue comments re the post.

I agree with you about it this site being more a lifestyle, what was swinging is changing, maybe due to the lives we lead, or to the way the web has portrayed the swing lifestyle?

I think it’s all very interesting how things have changed.

Cheers. "

Late to this “fun” party and not read every post!

Swinging means different things to different people. As a couple to US it means finding like-minded people who we fancy (physically and mentally) to have sex with. As this involves people from outside of our relationship, we regard that as not being vanilla/normal life. So by that definition it is a form of “kink”.

The change we have noticed in 15+ yrs of swinging is the increased number of singles (overwhelmingly men) who have entered “swinging” for purely casual sex reasons, often in addition to being on other well known 1-2-1 casual sex apps.

A large number (possibly the majority) of these would be hard pressed to explain the difference between a Hotwife Couple, a Stag/Vixen Couple and a Cuckold Couple. Many assume that most couples fall into the Cuckold territory = big fail!

The guys who do get a lock of action from Fab or the club scene are those who “get” swinging and are looking for “kink” rather than just casual sex.

However, Fab is whatever you make it. If you don’t like profiles making demands, pass them by! That is your right just as it is their right to make demands!

Final point - on the forums there have been a LOT of threads started in this similar topic. They are always started by men. And always by men who seem to not be having much luck. Perhaps study those men who do appear to be getting lucky!

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