FabSwingers.com forum: Mirrors..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.. and other reflective surfaces

(I'm not entirely sure where i am going with this thread btw.. it's just ramblings... HAHA)

I often feel that my mood changes because of them.. I can try clothes on and feel incredible and then i look into a mirror and feel shit because they don't show me how i feel.

I own several mirrors around my home and won't get rid of them because in the same vain if i don't like something its a gentle reminder that i do perhaps need to adjust and modify things so i can like how i look more.

So guys and girls.. Do you think the world would be a better place with or without mirrors?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've nothing against mirrors, just the reflection in it first thing in the morning

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

With mirrors I d say - I can check BEFORE going out, whether I have my skirt tucked into my knickers (yep, that has happened!)

Also, I think people's reaction to me as a person are a kind or mirror even if it is not shiny or completely accurate.

We live with reflections of ourselves, don't we?

And yes, sometimes I don't like what I see in the mirror... but it is temporary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've nothing against mirrors, just the reflection in it first thing in the morning

So if you covered the mirror up and didnt see yourself would you generally be more positive do you think? x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Meant to add, I used to know a guy who covered all his mirrors up because he hated his looks so much. I thought it was so, so sad.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Do not surround yourself with illusion...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I've nothing against mirrors, just the reflection in it first thing in the morning

So if you covered the mirror up and didnt see yourself would you generally be more positive do you think? x "

The thing is with me is acceptance .. I don't like my face and I don't like looking at it , but I've long since accepted its the only one I have so fuck it . I mainly look at my arse now, it's prettier

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

The reflection in the mirror is more than your physical appearance though. It's your mood on that day, your emotional state, a Tuesday. Lots of things make up how we see each other.

I don't shy away from them. In fact I'll focus on what I like. My outfit, my hair, my legs in that skirt, changes I can see in me.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I have one small face mirror in the bathroom. That’s it

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

In my head, I'm a sex goddess; in the mirror, I'm just darn normal.

I say keep the mirrors - in fact I'd like more, so we can see more of the eroticism and hunger we create

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I love mirrors but some are less kind than others.

Depends on the lighting also.

Find a kind one and stick to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made a decision to only look into a mirror for a minute once I'm ready. The longer you stare at it, the more likely you are to start picking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. and other reflective surfaces

(I'm not entirely sure where i am going with this thread btw.. it's just ramblings... HAHA)

I often feel that my mood changes because of them.. I can try clothes on and feel incredible and then i look into a mirror and feel shit because they don't show me how i feel.

So guys and girls.. Do you think the world would be a better place with or without mirrors?

Being Autosexual I adore mirrors, however I understand that lots do have some issues. It's important they're placed correctly so the light is hitting it from the front and not side daytime.

You can buy full length slim mirrors now which apparently are a thing and good for confidence.

However I think you're better addressing why you feel uncomfortable gazing into one and do what your heart tells you, then you too can have a love affair with yourself darling. Must love yourself!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I do honestly find some mirrors and lighting give a better reflection of yourself than others.

If the mirror has really messed my head I tend to take a quick picture of myself instead.

Remember also your make up and pores etc look good until you get the magnifier mirror out and omg

Don't be your own magnifier mirror.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister was born blind and couldn’t see mirrors, yet she had horrific body dysmorphia and died from anorexia. So seeing in a mirror in my opinion doesn’t make things worse, I actually think seeing yourself in a mirror can give you more self wellbeing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got them to put a full length mirror in one of the rest rooms in work

Got mirrors in every room in the house and two in the hallway actually I don’t have one in the kitchen.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I have alot of mirrors in the garden I love them! Have an illusion door and window plus lots dotted round I'm carefull where I place them so as not to confuse the birds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them....sorry lady but i always feel great regardless of how i look...and so should you, forget the rest...end of the day i think most of us judge ourselves when in reality...no one else really gives a fuck how you look...and if they do...who cares

Now stop with the depressing threads...its FUCKING FRIDAY

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't mind mirrors. I don't know if the world would be better without them because I think if anybody feels bad about themselves their visual reflection is only part of what causes that feeling.

I sometimes see a photograph and think "when did I get that old?"

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

If you got rid of mirrors people would look in puddles or in car surfaces....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have body dymorphia and mirrors really fuck with my head, because I'll feel OK and then I'll catch sight of myself and I feel like crying and it can ruin my mood. It's the same with taking photos and videos too. I try to avoid it unless I know I can handle a breakdown.

I just wish we could live in a world where we aren't judged for our appearance.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I have body dymorphia and mirrors really fuck with my head, because I'll feel OK and then I'll catch sight of myself and I feel like crying and it can ruin my mood. It's the same with taking photos and videos too. I try to avoid it unless I know I can handle a breakdown.

I just wish we could live in a world where we aren't judged for our appearance. "

One thing I can say to this is that yes we live in a world where we are judged on appearance. We are not judged the same way by everyone.

Somebody may judge you in a negative way, somebody may judge you in a positive way, and another person will judge you by not giving a fuck how you look but how they see you.

We often dwell on what is bad, wish for what is bad to be good. What we really should do is accept it, but also know not everything is bad. Focus on those that like you, and not the meat bag you carry round. Embrace both outcomes.

Note. I am using the royal "you" but it applies to you also!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I don't mind mirrors, I just don't look in them unless I really have to.

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