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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question "I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them. | |||
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"Maybe they think they are the most interesting person on here? " If they think that, then they clearly aren’t. | |||
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"I’m really avoid those threads….irksome  "It’s very predictable, woe is me type of threads, it’s very tedious. | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them. "Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny. They all come back to the OP somehow. | |||
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"Would you take it as a slight or compliment if I renamed myself to Town_Trousers? " I’d feel indifferent, how would you feel if I called myself Dissolute_Cornwall ? | |||
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"I’m really avoid those threads….irksome
It’s very predictable, woe is me type of threads, it’s very tedious."Everyone’s different though. Some people find support and comfort in those type of threads. Like “I need a hug” “cheer me up” type thing. I get where you’re coming from in a way but different folks different strokes. | |||
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"Would you take it as a slight or compliment if I renamed myself to Town_Trousers? I’d feel indifferent, how would you feel if I called myself Dissolute_Cornwall ?" I’d recommend you chose Carnal_Cornwall How about Village_Slacks? | |||
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"Aren’t all threads self referential in part? " Yup. No one starts a thread because they want to stay out of the limelight and every thread has a bit of the OP in it, some more so than others though | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow."I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently. | |||
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…..but to be serious for a moment, I understand what you mean but some of these people have no outlet, no one to turn to and the threads are their means to ‘talk’, be heard, be seen. That’s all. It isn’t necessarily a call for attention or sympathy. Just a listening ear or a shoulder to lean on.
What may seem irksome and perhaps trifling to many is an enormous help, or call for one, for them. | |||
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"If I have a problem or a situation and I want peoples opinions, is the thread really about myself and wanting to talk about myself or is it just me saying right this is what’s happened blah blah blah now over to the forum what would you do, what do you think, what’s your interpretation? Yeah the original post is about myself but it’s other peoples opinions and views I’m looking for. " I like your threads. They’re open and honest. As you’ve said, the threads are about you but in that, I glean a little from each one that I may find familiar in myself or those I know. | |||
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"Are we talking about narcissism here OP? Or someone who is a bit self absorbed maybe? I think plenty on here like talking about their own life experiences though, and found many a thread uplifting when everyone shares their experiences so you don't feel so alone in your struggles. " Everyone’s favourite subject is themselves and most people on here are trying to put themselves ‘out there’ to be seen, so want to talk about their thoughts and opinions. I don’t see an issue with it, it’s just people making connections. The forums would be a weird place if people didn’t express themselves from their own experiences or thoughts | |||
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"I miss the old days with threads such as “Sit on my face Saturday” “Smurfette was in a toxic relationship….discuss” And that old forum favourite How many donuts can you fit on your cock (or up your chuff, for the ladies). Still there’s no going back, eh? "
Halcyon days indeed. | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! " I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass?  | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass? "10 | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass? "It’s lovely and I am available to feed your need for attention. | |||
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"That’s me then the threads I’ve started this last year are boings and drawing, both self satisfying but hopefully others get pleasure from it to from participating " And for that we thank you ! | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass?
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass?
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass?
It’s lovely and I am available to feed your need for attention. "Feed me, feed me nowwwwww! | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass?
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it is x"Bless you, that's so kind. Mwah | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! " Why? Is it that forums could become a place of adult social, conversation and interaction about interesting subjects. Not oh woe is me, who's hot and who's not god forbid, threads that aren't about attention. Whatever next, alians landing, people getting along Could the forums cope or would they crash and burn. | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass?
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Is that out of 10? "I would have thought it will be 10 spanks on each cheeks would
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"And those Narcissistic vile types that turn every post/conversation into 'them'
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently. "I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now  | |||
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"And those Narcissistic vile types that turn every post/conversation into 'them'
It's the only attention I get in life " | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now "Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x"I already worry hence the last of those threads began: “ At the risk of getting boring, I thought I’d share my next step on my journey…” | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
I already worry hence the last of those threads began: “ At the risk of getting boring, I thought I’d share my next step on my journey…”"Please do carry on. Like people always say, if they’re not interested they can scroll on x | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x"To be fair CJ did clarify a bit more further down from his OP on what he means. | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now "No! No one should apologise for a thread. Your personal experience is as valid and interesting as anyone elses. Let your audience find you don't try to find the audience. | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
To be fair CJ did clarify a bit more further down from his OP on what he means."Did he. I tend to the read the title and maybe the last few comments when I comment. If he did then fair enough. Although I’m sure not everyone reads whole threads, I rarely do so I stick by what I said. | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! " Depends on how interesting the person is. Someone who expresses their genuine personal experiences is usually far more interesting than someone who gropes for original topics or tries to be funny all the time. | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! Depends on how interesting the person is. Someone who expresses their genuine personal experiences is usually far more interesting than someone who gropes for original topics or tries to be funny all the time." | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
To be fair CJ did clarify a bit more further down from his OP on what he means.
Did he. I tend to the read the title and maybe the last few comments when I comment. If he did then fair enough. Although I’m sure not everyone reads whole threads, I rarely do so I stick by what I said. "Yeah not always helpful, I've done similar myself, found I need to add more to explain my op better. Its another reason why we need an edit post feature to help avoid situations like this. But also why careful consideration at times is critical to making a post. | |||
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"I quite like personal threads. I think we learn from each other and our shared experiences and they often turn into opportunities for everyone to pipe up and bring their own thoughts and experience into it. It's ok to have diva moments or to take the limelight every now and then. If Im not in the mood for listening to someone's personal thread.. I'll just go elsewhere. It's all good. " | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
To be fair CJ did clarify a bit more further down from his OP on what he means.
Did he. I tend to the read the title and maybe the last few comments when I comment. If he did then fair enough. Although I’m sure not everyone reads whole threads, I rarely do so I stick by what I said.
Yeah not always helpful, I've done similar myself, found I need to add more to explain my op better.
Its another reason why we need an edit post feature to help avoid situations like this. But also why careful consideration at times is critical to making a post. "An edit post feature would allow you to completely change the question once you have a set of answers though. Open to abuse. | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
I already worry hence the last of those threads began: “ At the risk of getting boring, I thought I’d share my next step on my journey…”"You haven't done an update for a while. I like your transition threads. | |||
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"Aren’t all threads self referential in part? Yup. No one starts a thread because they want to stay out of the limelight and every thread has a bit of the OP in it, some more so than others though" | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
I already worry hence the last of those threads began: “ At the risk of getting boring, I thought I’d share my next step on my journey…”
You haven't done an update for a while. I like your transition threads. "Contemplating another but not sure I have much more new material to share. | |||
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"Are we talking about narcissism here OP? Or someone who is a bit self absorbed maybe? I think plenty on here like talking about their own life experiences though, and found many a thread uplifting when everyone shares their experiences so you don't feel so alone in your struggles. Everyone’s favourite subject is themselves and most people on here are trying to put themselves ‘out there’ to be seen, so want to talk about their thoughts and opinions. I don’t see an issue with it, it’s just people making connections. The forums would be a weird place if people didn’t express themselves from their own experiences or thoughts" I hear what you are saying. But I do think there is a difference between those who only speak of themselves Vs those who speak of themselves and listen and converse about a subject, if that makes sense? | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
I already worry hence the last of those threads began: “ At the risk of getting boring, I thought I’d share my next step on my journey…”"Please doesn’t think that. I find your transition journey fascinating | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
I already worry hence the last of those threads began: “ At the risk of getting boring, I thought I’d share my next step on my journey…”
Please doesn’t think that. I find your transition journey fascinating "Don’t think that | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! " Some people are just a bit self absorbed, Mr Jeans. But enough about you, back to me | |||
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ " You'll get piles of replies | |||
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ You'll get piles of replies " ive just spat my yoghurt all over my desk | |||
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ You'll get piles of replies "Waaa | |||
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"Phew! That excludes me, I talk about all sorts of shite, often rambling and waffling on to no end. I hope nobody notices... "I ramble too. Verbally and physically (walking) | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! " Meow | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! " I've started two that aren't about me, will that help? PW | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! " You mean they’re attention seeking on a site where they need to be noticed in order to achieve their goal? That will be a turn off to some, myself included. Everyone plays the game differently or they have their own agenda and they do what works for them | |||
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ You'll get piles of replies
ive just spat my yoghurt all over my desk "It wasn’t that exciting
Shame I wasn’t there to catch your ‘yoghurt’
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ You'll get piles of replies
ive just spat my yoghurt all over my desk "My yoghurt’s just spat in my face as I opened it | |||
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ You'll get piles of replies
ive just spat my yoghurt all over my desk
My yoghurt’s just spat in my face as I opened it "Are we all talking about the same type of yogurt? | |||
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ You'll get piles of replies
ive just spat my yoghurt all over my desk
My yoghurt’s just spat in my face as I opened it
Are we all talking about the same type of yogurt? "This is Fab so probably not but I’m definitely talking about yoghurt  | |||
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ You'll get piles of replies
ive just spat my yoghurt all over my desk
My yoghurt’s just spat in my face as I opened it
Are we all talking about the same type of yogurt?
This is Fab so probably not but I’m definitely talking about yoghurt "Me too | |||
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"For my next thread: ‘Rate my haemorrhoids.’ You'll get piles of replies
ive just spat my yoghurt all over my desk
My yoghurt’s just spat in my face as I opened it
Are we all talking about the same type of yogurt?
This is Fab so probably not but I’m definitely talking about yoghurt
Me too "There should be a thread for us angels | |||
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"I would do buy I don't want to. I like to relate things to my personal experiences. I hope that you understand my point of view on this matter as it is important to me to know you understand where I am coming from. I hope I have answered your question
I’m not talking about personal experiences, I’m talking about people who are so completely self absorbed that every topic some how comes back to them.
Aren't they all tho? I mean, even if we're asking people how they feel about something, what they want or anything else, it's because the OP wants to either spread some joy, gain knowledge or perspective, start a barny.
They all come back to the OP somehow.
I probably didn’t explain it very well, it’s more the self pitying aspect that irks me, if people are talking about themselves to include everyone and their experiences that’s fine, it’s when it’s only about themselves and we have to discuss them solely, I see it more and more recently.
I feel I should be apologising for my ‘transition’ threads now
Absolutely not. I enjoy reading those! This is what I don’t like about threads like these. I see no need for them and it makes people think “ I wonder if I do that” etc and therefore people are more reluctant to post x
I already worry hence the last of those threads began: “ At the risk of getting boring, I thought I’d share my next step on my journey…”
You haven't done an update for a while. I like your transition threads.
Contemplating another but not sure I have much more new material to share. "Echo a lot of others, your Transition threads are fascinating and valuable for us who are interested in your journey. It’s a massive difference to what I think the Op is alluding to. | |||
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"Don’t really see it as a problem. The forums are full of all different threads. Some are predictably tedious from the usual suspects. Some are insightful about serious issues. Some are just a bit of fun. Get involved in the ones you enjoy, and avoid those you don’t. Life is often not as complicated as we would think. But I do get your point CJ and tend too avoid those type of threads most of the time. " X | |||
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"Or only comment about themselves. Why don’t you try mixing things up and talk about other things, it will make you far more interesting! I think I know what you mean. Like when a thread gets turned from its original intent, by someone who just wants people to notice them and isn't really interested in the thread topic. Anyhow, could could someone rate my ass?
10
Is that out of 10?
I would have thought it will be 10 spanks on each cheeks would
Love to see your belly dance outfit in action "Spanking? Not for me thanks. Now, if you'd said hair pulling...  | |||
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"You're so vain. You probably think this thread is about you. Got that song in my head now "Me too... | |||
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"And those Narcissistic vile types that turn every post/conversation into 'them'
"Confirmation bias....I'll say something vile to someone on a thread before starting another thread to justify it/look for affirmation from others therefore seeking approval from others to continue behaving like a twat | |||
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"And those Narcissistic vile types that turn every post/conversation into 'them'
Confirmation bias....I'll say something vile to someone on a thread before starting another thread to justify it/look for affirmation from others therefore seeking approval from others to continue behaving like a twat"I've seen this so many times with work colleagues so it doesn't surprise me in here. They try to justify their comments or actions by using their Daily Affirmation approach and announcing I'm a cunt and this is who I am and you need to accept me as I am! Bullying takes many forms and claiming you are a survivor because no-one has succeeded in beating you down just shows a lack of understanding of any opinion apart from your own and proves only that you have a belligerent personality. | |||
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"And those Narcissistic vile types that turn every post/conversation into 'them'
Confirmation bias....I'll say something vile to someone on a thread before starting another thread to justify it/look for affirmation from others therefore seeking approval from others to continue behaving like a twat
I've seen this so many times with work colleagues so it doesn't surprise me in here.
They try to justify their comments or actions by using their Daily Affirmation approach and announcing I'm a cunt and this is who I am and you need to accept me as I am!
Bullying takes many forms and claiming you are a survivor because no-one has succeeded in beating you down just shows a lack of understanding of any opinion apart from your own and proves only that you have a belligerent personality. "Absolutely agree....Especially when people say "oh you know what they're like" um I know that they are a grown adult who should be able to conduct themselves appropriately when at work home or in the pub or on Fab | |||
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"And those Narcissistic vile types that turn every post/conversation into 'them'
Confirmation bias....I'll say something vile to someone on a thread before starting another thread to justify it/look for affirmation from others therefore seeking approval from others to continue behaving like a twat
I've seen this so many times with work colleagues so it doesn't surprise me in here.
They try to justify their comments or actions by using their Daily Affirmation approach and announcing I'm a cunt and this is who I am and you need to accept me as I am!
Bullying takes many forms and claiming you are a survivor because no-one has succeeded in beating you down just shows a lack of understanding of any opinion apart from your own and proves only that you have a belligerent personality.
Absolutely agree....Especially when people say "oh you know what they're like" um I know that they are a grown adult who should be able to conduct themselves appropriately when at work home or in the pub or on Fab"100% agree | |||
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