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Finishing off on a blowjob

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never finished off on bj Before,

Im Starting to think i never will have any other lads had the same before?

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By *eanoD90Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-Sea


"Never finished off on bj Before,

Im Starting to think i never will have any other lads had the same before?

"

I'm with ya fella

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Used to be like that, one woman opened the flood gates so to speak, now not a problem.

Probably a mental thing.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Used to be like that, one woman opened the flood gates so to speak, now not a problem.

Probably a mental thing. "

This

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"Used to be like that, one woman opened the flood gates so to speak, now not a problem.

Probably a mental thing. "

Same here.

Learning to simply relax and ‘go with it’ seems to be a key.

It’s kind of difficult to describe

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket


"Never finished off on bj Before,

Im Starting to think i never will have any other lads had the same before?

"

Need to find a better giver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this for years, discovered 69 helped bridge the gap and then finally someone managed it alone. Very much a mental thing

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Never finished off on bj Before,

Im Starting to think i never will have any other lads had the same before?

"

I will if I want to.

Or she asks me to. I’m very suggestible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, never knew this was a thing. You mean psychologically getting over the idea of climaxing from it? Honestly didn't know it can be tricky to reach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. I've never had a problem finishing from a blow job....more than happy to keep researching though...

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Ive had some amazing BJ's but it is very rare I can cum.

It's like getting edged, I get so far, then it just starts all over again.

I've tried to relax, but nothing seems to work, it's very frustrating for me, and the woman giving it, as a few have taken it personally

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I had blow jobs that have done nothing much for me and she's had to stop because of jaw ache and I've had ones that blew my mind.

It's all down to the giver and sometimes meds or things playing on your mind

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I think it's a mental thing in my head. As in my experience yes they can be very pleasurable but I can only ever seem to orgasm from a bj if she is wanking me at the same time

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By *eanoD90Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-Sea


"Used to be like that, one woman opened the flood gates so to speak, now not a problem.

Probably a mental thing.

This "

Must be....I fucking loveeee the head, but getting to the cum point, just don't happen. Been very close a few times

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By *eanoD90Man
over a year ago

Clacton-on-Sea


"I had blow jobs that have done nothing much for me and she's had to stop because of jaw ache and I've had ones that blew my mind.

It's all down to the giver and sometimes meds or things playing on your mind "

this makes sense

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

never ever have that issue. normally it's the opposite, hoping they don't cum too quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if it's done slow, sensuous and the whole cock is paid attention. Not hard n' fast. Even without cumming the sensation of it for me is incredible.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

Never had this problem - although had some where I wouldn’t come in a year but that was the quality of the BJ - not an issue with inability to relax Unbelievable but some women aren’t very good at it

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!


"never ever have that issue. normally it's the opposite, hoping they don't cum too quickly "

With that gorgeous bum why am I not shocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never finished off on bj Before,

Im Starting to think i never will have any other lads had the same before?

"

Guy walks into a pub and orders six whiskies in the same glass. The barman asks him why he wants so many and the guy says i’m Celebrating my first blowjob, the barman says fantastic here I will give you a seventh and the guy says fuck that, if six won’t get rid of the taste what’s a seventh going to do!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Start communicating with your lovers and letting each other know what feels good. Everyone is different in style and technique and in needs.. So if you want to achieve orgasm through oral sex, start by finding someone you can feel super relaxed with to experiment with.. With curiosity and lightness with no pressure on either of you.

I love this kind of sex.. Taking away the performance pressure and just pleasuring each other and exploring.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!


"Start communicating with your lovers and letting each other know what feels good. Everyone is different in style and technique and in needs.. So if you want to achieve orgasm through oral sex, start by finding someone you can feel super relaxed with to experiment with.. With curiosity and lightness with no pressure on either of you.

I love this kind of sex.. Taking away the performance pressure and just pleasuring each other and exploring."

this!!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Never had this problem - although had some where I wouldn’t come in a year but that was the quality of the BJ - not an issue with inability to relax Unbelievable but some women aren’t very good at it "

Or perhaps what they do doesn't quite work for you. It may however work for someone else.

So Educate them..respectfully. If someone was giving me head and it didn't feel very good I'm not gonna lie there and let them carry on.. That's no good for either of us. Instruction, communication and informing can be really hot.

Why should we be expected to know exactly what makes each unique partner tick and turn. Part of the fun is finding out.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!


"Never had this problem - although had some where I wouldn’t come in a year but that was the quality of the BJ - not an issue with inability to relax Unbelievable but some women aren’t very good at it

Or perhaps what they do doesn't quite work for you. It may however work for someone else.

So Educate them..respectfully. If someone was giving me head and it didn't feel very good I'm not gonna lie there and let them carry on.. That's no good for either of us. Instruction, communication and informing can be really hot.

Why should we be expected to know exactly what makes each unique partner tick and turn. Part of the fun is finding out. "

Agree but I guess there’s only so much direction you can give - sometimes you’re just not connected I think. It is about communication and we are all different - more importantly we don’t all like the same things. Just sometimes I think you don’t match and you just have to accept it. Love the guitar pics by the way x

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Never had this problem - although had some where I wouldn’t come in a year but that was the quality of the BJ - not an issue with inability to relax Unbelievable but some women aren’t very good at it

Or perhaps what they do doesn't quite work for you. It may however work for someone else.

So Educate them..respectfully. If someone was giving me head and it didn't feel very good I'm not gonna lie there and let them carry on.. That's no good for either of us. Instruction, communication and informing can be really hot.

Why should we be expected to know exactly what makes each unique partner tick and turn. Part of the fun is finding out.

Agree but I guess there’s only so much direction you can give - sometimes you’re just not connected I think. It is about communication and we are all different - more importantly we don’t all like the same things. Just sometimes I think you don’t match and you just have to accept it. Love the guitar pics by the way x"

Yes, chemistry and compatability help. Thanks x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Never finished off on bj Before,

Im Starting to think i never will have any other lads had the same before?

"

Ask your cousin.

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