FabSwingers.com forum: Does this make sense to you...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As the in boxes of women and couples creak at the seams would a face pic on their profile solve it?

There is of course, a catch 22 situation as we're all concerned with privacy. Conversely, we all agree on attraction having to be there. So wouldn't it be a time saver to see faces on profiles at sign up. Probably stop fake accounts too.

If I saw the face of a women and didn't feel attraction, I wouldn't message her. If I can't see her face, I will message her and even if I receive a reply and we chat, I/we will want to see a face pic at some point only to realise there might be no or only one way attraction. All messages up until then were therefore a waste of both our time, while adding to the mass of mail women/couples get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a big flaw in this idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Request a face pic option which automatically sends you a face pic and deletes it after a set amount of time. Can be turned on and off in settings.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Whilst there is a certain logic to what you say - there's a number of factors to consider one of them being that flipping huge Catch 22 you pointed out - women would be throwing themselves open to being stopped in the street, supermarket etc if they did that so am sure a creaking inbox would be preferable.

Then you have the thing that many on here would cast aside the basics of attraction and building a connection in their desperation for a shag and it all starts to make less and less logical sense.

Unfortunately you'll never stop the creaking inboxes while men have cocks and there's a huge imbalance in numbers of men to women, and women don't apply appropriate filters.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

No OP. This does not make sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones. "

* Some men.

We're not all like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

* Some men.

We're not all like that"

Oh yes, I forgot, there's always one man who comes in with #NotAllMen

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones. "

That's not true.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

That's not true. "

Just me then?

I was just winding up to Javelin (ningningnaning) your inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

* Some men.

We're not all like that

Oh yes, I forgot, there's always one man who comes in with #NotAllMen

He’s right though

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"No OP. This does not make sense to me. "

Nor me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

* Some men.

We're not all like that

Oh yes, I forgot, there's always one man who comes in with #NotAllMen

He’s right though

Neeeeever said he wasn't, and Neeeeever said all men in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Request a face pic option which automatically sends you a face pic and deletes it after a set amount of time. Can be turned on and off in settings."

Let's go with your idea. It beats mine.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

That's not true.

Just me then?

I was just winding up to Javelin (ningningnaning) your inbox "

No. Not just you , but i'm not snowed under with sack after sack ...... Leaaaaaaaaaaveeeeeeeee it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance. I’m very selective about who I send my face pic to.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

So if you was chatting with a woman whose messages impressed you with their intelligence and wit, they matched your personality perfectly, and wooed you with personality , you would say no because their face is not a 10/10.

I am attracted to people not faces.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whilst there is a certain logic to what you say - there's a number of factors to consider one of them being that flipping huge Catch 22 you pointed out - women would be throwing themselves open to being stopped in the street, supermarket etc if they did that so am sure a creaking inbox would be preferable.

Then you have the thing that many on here would cast aside the basics of attraction and building a connection in their desperation for a shag and it all starts to make less and less logical sense.

Unfortunately you'll never stop the creaking inboxes while men have cocks and there's a huge imbalance in numbers of men to women, and women don't apply appropriate filters."

Yes, you make some valid points I'd overlooked.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

No. You would drive the women away.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

You can have a male silhouette as your avatar and still get messaged with “your beautiful”

I’ve watched males on other sites sit and swipe right or left (don’t know the difference) to every face pic in front of them….. edging their bets one might do the same and be a match

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

That's not true.

Just me then?

I was just winding up to Javelin (ningningnaning) your inbox

No. Not just you , but i'm not snowed under with sack after sack ...... Leaaaaaaaaaaveeeeeeeee it!"

Just to confirm. That was a request, right? I shall find the prettiest one I have, just for you granny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones. "

Even at mine!

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By *ojobinksMan
over a year ago

swindon

There definitely logic to it, but as above have all said it wouldn’t work and scare a lot away, but some men will fling said cocks anywhere in the hope of a score but we aren’t all built like that but obviously attraction absolutely helps so you need to see there face at some point but also you need to gel with them and have chemistry as well.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I wouldn't be on fab if a face picture was mandatory but i will send one fairly quickly on if i am enjoying the interaction.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Request a face pic option which automatically sends you a face pic and deletes it after a set amount of time. Can be turned on and off in settings."

Automatically because someone we don’t know ticks a box to ask for one? That’s worse than choosing to share on your avatar or privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

Even at mine!"

Nice tits tho

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We repel messages even without a face picture, it's our super power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn’t work for me. What would reduce my inbox to a manageable level would be the option not to receive cock pics in a message or avatar. Not sure it’s possible but would definitely save me and the sender a lot of time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it wouldn't solve it. Men fling their cock pics at any profile labelled as a woman, even the obvious spambot ones.

Even at mine!

Nice tits tho

Tit job and hand job in one.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I would be inundated if I had a face pic up.

It's my body men are revolted by.

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By *lison DrakeTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds/Alnwick/Cambridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow... Talk about a meat market

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So if you was chatting with a woman whose messages impressed you with their intelligence and wit, they matched your personality perfectly, and wooed you with personality , you would say no because their face is not a 10/10.

I am attracted to people not faces."

I suggest you re-read my post. Where did I state a women's face needs to be 10/10? I expressed I'd wish to be attracted to their face. Her smile,eyes it could be anything. Everything you describe has happened to myself many times here. I've enjoyed a women's intellect,wit and banter only to send my own face pic and be greeted with... silence. Of course a womens personality is valued and attractive but I standby my choice that I'm allowed to find her attractive to look at also.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I am attracted to people not faces.

We aren't cattle up for sale, maybe only men should have to show theirs instead, so we can shop around.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. If people want their face public they’d have it public. I rarely send my face to people. I don’t want it public.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"No. If people want their face public they’d have it public. I rarely send my face to people. I don’t want it public. "

Also it would scare people!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No. If people want their face public they’d have it public. I rarely send my face to people. I don’t want it public.

Also it would scare people!

Haha. Well yes. You’ve seen it, you know how scary it is!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"No. If people want their face public they’d have it public. I rarely send my face to people. I don’t want it public.

Also it would scare people!

Haha. Well yes. You’ve seen it, you know how scary it is!"

I can’t unsee it! It haunts me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pictures so expect to see face pictures in return immediately.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes would do it for me! So important to see a face pic! So many without I dont even open them messages! X

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