FabSwingers.com forum: Views/Opinions needed

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Not at all. It’s probably the best way in fact; no subsequent drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say meet who you want to meet if and your preference

As that’s what fabs all about

It’s your experience

Well that’s the way I look at it anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How is it double standards?

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I don’t understand why it would be double standards. Surely you can meet whoever you like whether they are in the forums or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it double standards?"

I can't see how it's a double standard either?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"How is it double standards?"

I've no idea. That's why I asked the question to see if someone could enlighten me

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Your life, your rules

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

No, it’s just disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if it is double standards, so what?

Sounds like someone trying to make you feel guilty for something.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

The minute you stop giving a shit about other peoples opinion of what you do, is the first time you take a breath of the free air.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"How is it double standards?

I've no idea. That's why I asked the question to see if someone could enlighten me

I can't help because it isn't a double standard. No case to answer

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No, it’s just disappointing

I did say the odd one slips through

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Coz people like to throw "double standards" about in an effort to make the person feel guilty/ashamed/bad in any way or reconsider their choices.

Heaven forbid they saw it as what someone else prefers to do for their own reasons and bitching about it gets them nowhere.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??"

Not at all. Meet who you want. Although if you’d make an exception

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"No, it’s just disappointing

I did say the odd one slips through

They don’t get much odder than me!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No it's not. You do who you want to do, forum user or not.

Did you say something negative about forum users? Maybe that's what makes the person think it's double standard.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"How is it double standards?

I've no idea. That's why I asked the question to see if someone could enlighten me

Nope can’t see how it’s a double standard

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No it's not. You do who you want to do, forum user or not.

Did you say something negative about forum users? Maybe that's what makes the person think it's double standard. "

I just said that there seems to be less drama revolving around non forum users than ones who do as some people can get a bit touchy if you get overly friendly with a fellow forum poster. I don't need nor want to court any drama. I've been there and done it x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"No it's not. You do who you want to do, forum user or not.

Did you say something negative about forum users? Maybe that's what makes the person think it's double standard.

Fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it double standards?

I can't see how it's a double standard either?"

And me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the forums too but have never met anyone from them! All double standards me ... and a lot of mileage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The minute you stop giving a shit about other peoples opinion of what you do, is the first time you take a breath of the free air. "

Might even discover a use for diaphragm! Liberating muscles and mind.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The minute you stop giving a shit about other peoples opinion of what you do, is the first time you take a breath of the free air. "

This

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??"

I see no double standards… I chat to many on the forums, some I would like to meet, some I wouldn’t… Who you meet is up to you, How you use the forums is also up to you. The two things can be completely separate

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"No it's not. You do who you want to do, forum user or not.

Did you say something negative about forum users? Maybe that's what makes the person think it's double standard.

Fact "

Yep, that's definitely true.

I can see why the other person would cry "double standards" to a certain degree (not saying they are right) but honestly - there is a lot more drama around forum users. There are members who exist out of the forum who are decent humans and know how to have sex. I don't blame you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, none of my previous meets or planned meets are on the forums either. Just do you lovely, forget the opinions of others

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

99.5% of my meets are not on the forum. Doubt they even know the forums exist

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??"

Does this mean I have to leave the forums

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The minute you stop giving a shit about other peoples opinion of what you do, is the first time you take a breath of the free air. "

To be honest, what other people think is no concern of mine. I do who I want when I want.

It was just a question to gain insight as to why someone would think its 'double standards'

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Even if it were double or even triple standards....

surely utterly irrelevant if it is somebody else's opinion whom you are unlikely to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your body,your life. It's your choice what you want to do with it. It's nobody else's business xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I wouldn't say it's double standards, but I am curious to know why you have that preference.

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By *icky007Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do what you like to do .... dont listen to people ..... people love moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it double standards?

I've no idea. That's why I asked the question to see if someone could enlighten me

At the end of the day as long as your happy with how things are surely what other people say/do

Isn’t up to them but you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it’s not double standards x

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By *tamina260Man
over a year ago

west midlands

Meet whoever you like too meet. People can be far to opinionated if it works for you then who cares what people view as right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet someone and they make you unhappy straight away then don’t meet them again. Double standard patter day 1, what rubbish day 3?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No it's not. You do who you want to do, forum user or not.

Did you say something negative about forum users? Maybe that's what makes the person think it's double standard.

Fact

Yep, that's definitely true.

Exactly, the forum is just a very small part of this place x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wouldn't say it's double standards, but I am curious to know why you have that preference. "

Less drama surrounding non forum users x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Who told you it was a double standard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the question

Is what double standards??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t see how it’s double standards. Iv never met anyone via the forum.

All meets have been through non forum members.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Who told you it was a double standard? "

Someone who was given the no entry sign to the vag I'm gonna guess at.

Oooo am I right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you mean about the drama. Could be ones who won't bring that but I guess you just never know.

But anyways, it's your life and you live it how you want, to make yourself happy! No double standards at all!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Who told you it was a double standard? "

A friend on here

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

What a bizarre question? A few men seem to grab on any reason why you might reject them. I live in Reading does that mean it's double standards if a lover is from Bagshot?

There's something in the water today.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I don't get the question

Is what double standards??"

Not really sure but I was told it's because I usually don't meet forum users but yet I use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the question

Is what double standards??

Not really sure but I was told it's because I usually don't meet forum users but yet I use the forums"

Then this again is your choice sparkle do what ever makes you happy

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I don't get the question

Is what double standards??

Not really sure but I was told it's because I usually don't meet forum users but yet I use the forums

Then this again is your choice sparkle do what ever makes you happy "

Oh believe me, I do

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Forums is the only place people will speak to me. I can’t really see why it’d make a difference but it’s your informal inclination. Some folk don’t want locals etc.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don't get the question

Is what double standards??

Not really sure but I was told it's because I usually don't meet forum users but yet I use the forums"
But theres not that many guys on the forum.Im not usually attracted to forum guys its a small pool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the question

Is what double standards??

Not really sure but I was told it's because I usually don't meet forum users but yet I use the forums

Then this again is your choice sparkle do what ever makes you happy

Oh believe me, I do

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I don't get the question

Is what double standards??

Not really sure but I was told it's because I usually don't meet forum users but yet I use the forumsBut theres not that many guys on the forum.Im not usually attracted to forum guys its a small pool"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saves on you having to bleach the smell of piss on the lamp post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The minute you stop giving a shit about other peoples opinion of what you do, is the first time you take a breath of the free air.

To be honest, what other people think is no concern of mine. I do who I want when I want.

It was just a question to gain insight as to why someone would think its 'double standards'"

You'd be better to ask the person that said it

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Saves on you having to bleach the smell of piss on the lamp post. "

Best answer yet...thanks for that giggle, very much needed x

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It doesn't really make sense to me, I don't understand how it's double standards. If you were on two lifestyle sites and met people from both sides would that make it double standards?

I can't get my head around it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

OP - if you find someone you like then meet them, if you want to.

Why should it makes any difference if you become friends via the forums or not???

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Saves on you having to bleach the smell of piss on the lamp post. "

council should do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'A double standard is the application of different sets of principles for situations that are, in principle, the same.'

I am presuming the 'double standard' is you are treating forum users differently to non-forum users. But because all users are on Fab they should all be given equal consideration.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The minute you stop giving a shit about other peoples opinion of what you do, is the first time you take a breath of the free air.

To be honest, what other people think is no concern of mine. I do who I want when I want.

It was just a question to gain insight as to why someone would think its 'double standards'

You'd be better to ask the person that said it"

I did ask why and the answer I got was "its double standards because I use the forum

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"I don't get the question

Is what double standards??

Oh.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You might not want everyone knowing your business, and let's be honest, sometimes forum people can't have a shit without it being common knowledge before you've finished wiping

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"'A double standard is the application of different sets of principles for situations that are, in principle, the same.'

I am presuming the 'double standard' is you are treating forum users differently to non-forum users. But because all users are on Fab they should all be given equal consideration."

I'm not treating them differently. I speak to everyone the same. I just prefer the drama free side of Fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saves on you having to bleach the smell of piss on the lamp post.

Best answer yet...thanks for that giggle, very much needed x"

My pleasure. A bit more graphic than I would normally post but hey we have all been on the end of it

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"You might not want everyone knowing your business, and let's be honest, sometimes forum people can't have a shit without it being common knowledge before you've finished wiping "

So true and the backroom bitching is rife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'A double standard is the application of different sets of principles for situations that are, in principle, the same.'

I am presuming the 'double standard' is you are treating forum users differently to non-forum users. But because all users are on Fab they should all be given equal consideration.

I'm not treating them differently. I speak to everyone the same. I just prefer the drama free side of Fab x"

I'm not saying it is a double standard. I'm just trying to work out the possible logic behind the stated double standard.

The treating differently would be not giving forum users an oppurtunity to meet you based on whatever criteria you use to meet non-forum users.

But by that logic you could say a straight man has double standards by meeting only women and not affording the same consideration to men.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??"

There is a lot of people throwing around the phrase "double standards" on these forums lately. Be it talking about people who wont meet Bi men but will meet bi women, people who wont meet married whilst being married, etc etc. It is becoming a constant in these forums and it's very unpleasant. What right does a stranger have to decide on who you do or do ot meet or on what terms?

You do you and ignore everyone but the person or people you choose to spend your time with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it double standards?

I've no idea. That's why I asked the question to see if someone could enlighten me

Not really! It's entirely up to you how you manage your life and meets!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

That is your preference end of.

I will stop asking

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I can't see why it would be a double standard.

Only 3 of my men were from forum show your face threads.

I've met one other who uses the forums occasionally, but we met through a forum social.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"You might not want everyone knowing your business, and let's be honest, sometimes forum people can't have a shit without it being common knowledge before you've finished wiping

So true and the backroom bitching is rife! "

I do get your reasoning and totally get it’s your choice and it’s not double standards BUT if a meet with an non-forum meet went south for what ever reason and the person decided they wanted to vent or be a pest, then it would be easy for them to do so. In here.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

By the way I'm not saying I only meet non forum users. I was looking back through my verifications and it's just the majority have never used the forum.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??

You do you and ignore everyone but the person or people you choose to spend your time with.

I've seen it loads lately too, getting right on my tits.

People hold themselves to individual "standard", they do what works and feels comfortable for them.

I serve fish at work but don't eat it myself, it ain't to my taste but it is to some other people. Who gives a shit, my mouth, I choose what I'm putting in it, their mouth they choose what they put in it, and if I don't wanna kiss them coz they taste like fish so be it, if they don't wanna kiss me coz I taste like fags and shame, again... so be it.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"You might not want everyone knowing your business, and let's be honest, sometimes forum people can't have a shit without it being common knowledge before you've finished wiping

So true and the backroom bitching is rife!

Lucky for me then none have went south then

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"You might not want everyone knowing your business, and let's be honest, sometimes forum people can't have a shit without it being common knowledge before you've finished wiping

So true and the backroom bitching is rife!

Lucky for me then none have went south then

Oops. I go south on occasions

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"You might not want everyone knowing your business, and let's be honest, sometimes forum people can't have a shit without it being common knowledge before you've finished wiping

So true and the backroom bitching is rife!

Lucky for me then none have went south then

Oops. I go south on occasions

Another box ticked

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??

You do you and ignore everyone but the person or people you choose to spend your time with.

I've seen it loads lately too, getting right on my tits.

People hold themselves to individual "standard", they do what works and feels comfortable for them.

Exactly this. A is not equal to B.so.people.need to stop acting like it is.

Weird you should use the fish analogy though. We where litteraly just discussing about how it's getting on these forums and I acctually said to.my wife " I'll eat cod but wont touch shellfish but in their eyes, theyd make out your a hypocrite or worse, your persecuting the shellfish". That is litterally the point its getting to.

I'd like to say the mods should step up their game but everyone is entitled to their own opinions, no matter how ridiculous they are.

A lot of people really need to take a step back on these forums and think about what they are saying. It isnt all about them and their wants and needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??"

That’s all type of strange !? What’s the issue with you shooting the shit on here and meeting new people ?

You get a glimpse of what people are really like on the threads as opposed to just hitting someone up cause they look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it's not. You do who you want to do, forum user or not.

Did you say something negative about forum users? Maybe that's what makes the person think it's double standard.

Understand this completely. You meet someone off the forum, someone else could have their eye on him or her, people get jealous people start messaging people shit. It can be drama.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No it's not. You do who you want to do, forum user or not.

Did you say something negative about forum users? Maybe that's what makes the person think it's double standard.

Understand this completely. You meet someone off the forum, someone else could have their eye on him or her, people get jealous people start messaging people shit. It can be drama. "

Exactly this. I don't mind having a laugh and joke with people on the forum but as you say 'jealously' rears it's head and I just think "fuck it" I'm not being dragged into a unneccesary bitch fight...you can have him

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

That makes no sense

I have a feeling whoever said that doesn't understand what that means.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??

That’s all type of strange !? What’s the issue with you shooting the shit on here and meeting new people ?

You get a glimpse of what people are really like on the threads as opposed to just hitting someone up cause they look good "

On the forum as someone said earlier it is mostly lamppost pissing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all of my time on Fab (coming and going) I've not met anyone through the forums.

I've created online friendships through the forum but only had meets with none forum posters.

I'm not sure how double standards come into it

Maybe just a desperate attempt to sway your choice.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

The few people I’ve met from here had never really heard of the Forum. That surprised me.

Perhaps the non Forum users have it right. They are all for meeting and having super sexy fun while we debate and put the world to rights. Or at least try to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all of my time on Fab (coming and going) I've not met anyone through the forums.

I've created online friendships through the forum but only had meets with none forum posters.

I'm not sure how double standards come into it

Maybe just a desperate attempt to sway your choice. "

This lad is on point !

It’s fab what you do on here is nobody’s business unless your in a relationship

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"No it's not. You do who you want to do, forum user or not.

Did you say something negative about forum users? Maybe that's what makes the person think it's double standard.

Understand this completely. You meet someone off the forum, someone else could have their eye on him or her, people get jealous people start messaging people shit. It can be drama.

I hate being fought over like that.

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over a year ago

"In all of my time on Fab (coming and going) I've not met anyone through the forums.

I've created online friendships through the forum but only had meets with none forum posters.

I'm not sure how double standards come into it

Maybe just a desperate attempt to sway your choice.

This lad is on point !

It’s fab what you do on here is nobody’s business unless your in a relationship "
. Are you saying we’re in a relationship now.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Scenario: I have noticed that say around 98% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums (a couple have slipped through who do) as it's my preference....however

I've recently been told that this is "double standards" as I use them.....

Question: Is it really double standards??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what u want to do it’s ur life no one else’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all of my time on Fab (coming and going) I've not met anyone through the forums.

I've created online friendships through the forum but only had meets with none forum posters.

I'm not sure how double standards come into it

Maybe just a desperate attempt to sway your choice.

This lad is on point !

It’s fab what you do on here is nobody’s business unless your in a relationship . Are you saying we’re in a relationship now.

Wer going steady the last 2 weeks you nut

but it’s official now !

Congratulations x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

They're just jealous

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"They're just jealous

No need for it...there are plenty to go around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all of my time on Fab (coming and going) I've not met anyone through the forums.

I've created online friendships through the forum but only had meets with none forum posters.

I'm not sure how double standards come into it

Maybe just a desperate attempt to sway your choice.

This lad is on point !

It’s fab what you do on here is nobody’s business unless your in a relationship . Are you saying we’re in a relationship now.

Wer going steady the last 2 weeks you nut

but it’s official now !

Congratulations x

Congratulations to you too, I’m a fucking catch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your body, your rules. Anyone calling you out for "double standards" is probably just jealous because you won't hump them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all of my time on Fab (coming and going) I've not met anyone through the forums.

I've created online friendships through the forum but only had meets with none forum posters.

I'm not sure how double standards come into it

Maybe just a desperate attempt to sway your choice.

This lad is on point !

It’s fab what you do on here is nobody’s business unless your in a relationship . Are you saying we’re in a relationship now.

Wer going steady the last 2 weeks you nut

but it’s official now !

Congratulations x

Congratulations to you too, I’m a fucking catch! "

So I believe

it’s a verbal contract your fucked now x

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