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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

People don't usually dislike someone for just one reason

R

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By *ictoriaathomeTV/TS
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Ignore them, just be who you are. Look great yo me.

Ankle smasher makes me a bit skeptical!!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Jealousy

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Ignore them

You have a heart of gold x

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

People don't need much of a reason to be mean, unfortunately.

And a lot of research suggests good looking people generally get treated a fair bit better than those of us not so hot.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"People don't need much of a reason to be mean, unfortunately.

And a lot of research suggests good looking people generally get treated a fair bit better than those of us not so hot. "

Your hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

Welcome to fab xx

I’ll never understand x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I quite like you, and as you say, you are definitely beautiful.

But you go on too much about you being so good looking. Some people are insecure. So it winds them up. Some men might feel very frustrated that they won’t get anywhere with you and some women might feel threatened/intimidated.

So just do your own thing. Interact with the people who might interest you and just delete whomever doesn’t. Simple. I also know it’s easier said than done...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People don't need much of a reason to be mean, unfortunately.

And a lot of research suggests good looking people generally get treated a fair bit better than those of us not so hot. "

Yeah if you want someone to let you jump the queue in greggs or say your phone died and you’re in work, you want a twirl from the machine but can’t pay, some lad steps up and buys it for you, or you get away with not pulling your weight but it’s a whole different kettle of fish on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them. No point giving any attention or energy to them.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Tbf only one guy had a pop at you. Everyone else was nice.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've always found people to be very nice to me.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I've always found people to be very nice to me.

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Your nice x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It says more about their character than you.

I go by if I don’t know them, their words are irrelevant and can’t offend me, just keyboard plods jerking off and trying to stretch their muscles.

Ignore and let your silence be your response

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By *hejippyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

People deflect their insecurities onto others, lack of confidence in images = bash others the consider attractive

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I've always found people to be very nice to me.

Your nice x"

Thank you

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I've always found people to be very nice to me.

Your nice x

Thank you "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbf only one guy had a pop at you. Everyone else was nice. "

Not just today/yesterday. My whole 11 years on here I’ve had shit. Was looking at a thread of mine earlier from 6 years ago and it’s like woah, no need for half the stuff people say.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Sometimes is frustration (...with a big dollop of jealousy )

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Tbf only one guy had a pop at you. Everyone else was nice.

Not just today/yesterday. My whole 11 years on here I’ve had shit. Was looking at a thread of mine earlier from 6 years ago and it’s like woah, no need for half the stuff people say. "

Well if you do post about contraversial subjects like cuckoo spit you have to take the rough with the smooth. You'll be on the virus threads next saying you are sure that covid has something to do with cuckoo spit cos you read it on Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive, confident woman can equal arrogance in some people's eyes - 'Look at her, who does she think she is? She needs taking down a peg or two.' type of thing.

Some of your posts may very well be perceived by some as 'Look at me, I'm better than you.' which will annoy some people.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Agree, holistic happiness is a stunning thing.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"Tbf only one guy had a pop at you. Everyone else was nice.

Not just today/yesterday. My whole 11 years on here I’ve had shit. Was looking at a thread of mine earlier from 6 years ago and it’s like woah, no need for half the stuff people say.

Well if you do post about contraversial subjects like cuckoo spit you have to take the rough with the smooth. You'll be on the virus threads next saying you are sure that covid has something to do with cuckoo spit cos you read it on Facebook. "

Agree..that won’t help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause the place is full of pricks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbf only one guy had a pop at you. Everyone else was nice.

Not just today/yesterday. My whole 11 years on here I’ve had shit. Was looking at a thread of mine earlier from 6 years ago and it’s like woah, no need for half the stuff people say.

Well if you do post about contraversial subjects like cuckoo spit you have to take the rough with the smooth. You'll be on the virus threads next saying you are sure that covid has something to do with cuckoo spit cos you read it on Facebook. "

almost did a thread about frog spawn as I couldn’t see much down the nature reserve today but some chap down there explained that it’s feb to March time where you can see it the most so I was happy with that response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf only one guy had a pop at you. Everyone else was nice.

Not just today/yesterday. My whole 11 years on here I’ve had shit. Was looking at a thread of mine earlier from 6 years ago and it’s like woah, no need for half the stuff people say. "

There are a lot of cunts around... not just on here, but all over social media... the trick is to recognise they're just cunts with a keyboard, and ignore them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

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By *agan gentlemenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

Jealous ppl ppl you may have refused ppl who know they have no chance. (neging basicly reverse psychology)

Some have asked me where I am on the scale because I prefer to use *words* and others admit they are intimidated....

Welcome to fab. But could be worse you could be a bloke on here lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

"

Soppy sausage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

Soppy sausage "

Did you mention a lend of a 5er ? didn’t write that for nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

Soppy sausage

Did you mention a lend of a 5er ? didn’t write that for nothing "

If you can get over to my country I’ll lend you a fiver!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

Soppy sausage

Did you mention a lend of a 5er ? didn’t write that for nothing

If you can get over to my country I’ll lend you a fiver! "

is this gonna be one of those times where I do come over then left to sleep in my car in a Mc Donald’s car park cause you ghosted me and I was relying on that 5er ?

Cause I wasn’t joking the first time !

I can’t canoe but I’d give it a whirl if it speeds things up ! ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

Soppy sausage

Did you mention a lend of a 5er ? didn’t write that for nothing

If you can get over to my country I’ll lend you a fiver! is this gonna be one of those times where I do come over then left to sleep in my car in a Mc Donald’s car park cause you ghosted me and I was relying on that 5er ?

Cause I wasn’t joking the first time !

I can’t canoe but I’d give it a whirl if it speeds things up ! ?"

We don’t have McDonalds here they’re in Scotland. We have Jones and Davies.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

Soppy sausage

Did you mention a lend of a 5er ? didn’t write that for nothing

If you can get over to my country I’ll lend you a fiver! is this gonna be one of those times where I do come over then left to sleep in my car in a Mc Donald’s car park cause you ghosted me and I was relying on that 5er ?

Cause I wasn’t joking the first time !

I can’t canoe but I’d give it a whirl if it speeds things up ! ?

We don’t have McDonalds here they’re in Scotland. We have Jones and Davies. "

That sounds like a poor mans clothes shop that sells shirts made from Sheep wool

And shoes carved from oak wood ?

I’m assuming not but by any chance do they sell raw potatoes? Or Leafs dipped in batter ?

I know irish cuisine can be very boring

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

Soppy sausage

Did you mention a lend of a 5er ? didn’t write that for nothing

If you can get over to my country I’ll lend you a fiver! is this gonna be one of those times where I do come over then left to sleep in my car in a Mc Donald’s car park cause you ghosted me and I was relying on that 5er ?

Cause I wasn’t joking the first time !

I can’t canoe but I’d give it a whirl if it speeds things up ! ?

We don’t have McDonalds here they’re in Scotland. We have Jones and Davies.

That sounds like a poor mans clothes shop that sells shirts made from Sheep wool

And shoes carved from oak wood ?

I’m assuming not but by any chance do they sell raw potatoes? Or Leafs dipped in batter ?

I know irish cuisine can be very boring

"

A comment so shit you had to write it twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

Attractiveness is subjective

Pig ugly people are no more deserving of nastiness than attractive people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m amazed at that post, you are funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your opinion is the only one that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Annie some people are only taking the side of you that you show on the threads which is very witty and brash and obviously some people look at how good you look and automatically think the worst !

People love to hate on here for there own fucked up reasons !

You know who you really are and at the end of the day nobody’s opinion on here means anything ! Literally nothing !

The people around you is the only opinions that really matter !

Oh and mine x

Soppy sausage

Did you mention a lend of a 5er ? didn’t write that for nothing

If you can get over to my country I’ll lend you a fiver! is this gonna be one of those times where I do come over then left to sleep in my car in a Mc Donald’s car park cause you ghosted me and I was relying on that 5er ?

Cause I wasn’t joking the first time !

I can’t canoe but I’d give it a whirl if it speeds things up ! ?

We don’t have McDonalds here they’re in Scotland. We have Jones and Davies.

That sounds like a poor mans clothes shop that sells shirts made from Sheep wool

And shoes carved from oak wood ?

I’m assuming not but by any chance do they sell raw potatoes? Or Leafs dipped in batter ?

I know irish cuisine can be very boring

A comment so shit you had to write it twice "

wouldn’t let me say t ? Still don’t think it would of made a difference in fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion is the only one that matters. "

You have a confidence that is lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion is the only one that matters.

You have a confidence that is lovely"

Neccessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy to say if you are confident, although I also see it as a necessity

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Haters are going to hate. Arrogance is a very ugly trait though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I don’t think attractive people garner any more hate than others on here. People seem to hate all types for a variety of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want"

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times "

You are so cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute "

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

"

A bit sarcastic but also a bit of banter, I’m Scottish that’s what we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

A bit sarcastic but also a bit of banter, I’m Scottish that’s what we do. "

Usually better then that tho !

Be nice to see you broaden your obvious comic genius and maybe write more then one line !

Your hilarious I’ll give you that you crack me up not been sarcastic one liners are lazy mate

Complete banter I’m Irish it’s what we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

A bit sarcastic but also a bit of banter, I’m Scottish that’s what we do.

Usually better then that tho !

Be nice to see you broaden your obvious comic genius and maybe write more then one line !

Your hilarious I’ll give you that you crack me up not been sarcastic one liners are lazy mate

Complete banter I’m Irish it’s what we do "

one liners are brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

A bit sarcastic but also a bit of banter, I’m Scottish that’s what we do.

Usually better then that tho !

Be nice to see you broaden your obvious comic genius and maybe write more then one line !

Your hilarious I’ll give you that you crack me up not been sarcastic one liners are lazy mate

Complete banter I’m Irish it’s what we do "

It was a nice comment you made, I was having a laugh. Didn’t mean to take your self worth away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

A bit sarcastic but also a bit of banter, I’m Scottish that’s what we do.

Usually better then that tho !

Be nice to see you broaden your obvious comic genius and maybe write more then one line !

Your hilarious I’ll give you that you crack me up not been sarcastic one liners are lazy mate

Complete banter I’m Irish it’s what we do

It was a nice comment you made, I was having a laugh. Didn’t mean to take your self worth away "

Fuck me You really are funny bro ! You take great stock in your little one liners !

Mate hit me back when you actually have banter !

And Don’t worry bout my self worth I’ve a feeling your banter ain’t gonna effect that

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

You repeatedly post about how much you think of yourself.

And feel superior.

And need to be popular.

That can be an irritant for many.

It's the Internet, it isn't a popularity contest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

A bit sarcastic but also a bit of banter, I’m Scottish that’s what we do.

Usually better then that tho !

Be nice to see you broaden your obvious comic genius and maybe write more then one line !

Your hilarious I’ll give you that you crack me up not been sarcastic one liners are lazy mate

Complete banter I’m Irish it’s what we do

one liners are brilliant "

Don’t you get me started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

A bit sarcastic but also a bit of banter, I’m Scottish that’s what we do.

Usually better then that tho !

Be nice to see you broaden your obvious comic genius and maybe write more then one line !

Your hilarious I’ll give you that you crack me up not been sarcastic one liners are lazy mate

Complete banter I’m Irish it’s what we do

It was a nice comment you made, I was having a laugh. Didn’t mean to take your self worth away

Fuck me You really are funny bro ! You take great stock in your little one liners !

Mate hit me back when you actually have banter !

And Don’t worry bout my self worth I’ve a feeling your banter ain’t gonna effect that "

Apologies it’s 3:30 in the morning, I thought from comments earlier you liked banter. Maybe you don’t like mine that’s life, I’m hoping people like yours

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Play nice grown men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Play nice grown men

"

I was playing nice he needs a cuddle

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Play nice grown men

I was playing nice he needs a cuddle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not of a fan of arrogance to be honest but you are free to say whatever you want

I genuinely believe some of the people on threads portray themselves in a different light then who they really are

Im not talking about OP let’s be clear !

just saying some people in general maybe like to act arrogant,brash confident whatever it might be cause the threads can be uncomfortable at times

You are so cute

No idea if your been sarcastic ! ?

Fuck it ha

I’ll take it been called far worse on here that’s a first

A bit sarcastic but also a bit of banter, I’m Scottish that’s what we do.

Usually better then that tho !

Be nice to see you broaden your obvious comic genius and maybe write more then one line !

Your hilarious I’ll give you that you crack me up not been sarcastic one liners are lazy mate

Complete banter I’m Irish it’s what we do

It was a nice comment you made, I was having a laugh. Didn’t mean to take your self worth away

Fuck me You really are funny bro ! You take great stock in your little one liners !

Mate hit me back when you actually have banter !

And Don’t worry bout my self worth I’ve a feeling your banter ain’t gonna effect that

Apologies it’s 3:30 in the morning, I thought from comments earlier you liked banter. Maybe you don’t like mine that’s life, I’m hoping people like yours "

funniest thing you wrote so far ! And more then one line !

I’m impressed!

Na look course I like a laugh mate but I’d rather get completely roasted then subtle sly digs !

I expect more from the Scottish ! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Play nice grown men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Play nice grown men

"

Generally no offence meant, let’s call it a draw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Play nice grown men

Generally no offence meant, let’s call it a draw "

Honestly absolutely no offense taken ! Try harder next time !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay dokey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!! "

I knew you where gonna stick your head in with some perverse idea at some stage !

Every time with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!! "

I’d rather kiss you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!!

I’d rather kiss you "

Well played !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!!

I’d rather kiss you

Well played ! "

Love my one liners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!!

I’d rather kiss you

Well played !

Love my one liners "

I give credit where it’s due mate !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!!

I’d rather kiss you

Well played !

Love my one liners

I give credit where it’s due mate !

"

Prince amongst men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!!

I’d rather kiss you

Well played !

Love my one liners

I give credit where it’s due mate !

Prince amongst men "

I’m gonna say king ! But if that pans out for you ye can thank me tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!!

I knew you where gonna stick your head in with some perverse idea at some stage !

Every time with you "

You almost know me well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys..... snog and make up.....ffs.....

Only, do it on webcam so i can watch!!

I’d rather kiss you

Well played !

Love my one liners

I give credit where it’s due mate !

Prince amongst men

I’m gonna say king ! But if that pans out for you ye can thank me tomorrow "

I’m golfing but I’ll keep you in my mind,

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Envy. Schadenfreude.

Some people are just mean-spirited, and from my experience, it's getting worse.

If possible, ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractiveness is subjective.. people are either good or not. Everyone gets shit from others, that's life unfortunately

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Tbf only one guy had a pop at you. Everyone else was nice.

Not just today/yesterday. My whole 11 years on here I’ve had shit. Was looking at a thread of mine earlier from 6 years ago and it’s like woah, no need for half the stuff people say. "

Your sense of humour is an acquired taste Annie, it can be hard to tell if you are serious or not and some will take offense to your thoughts if they are not used to your posts.

Not an excuse BTW as its shitty behaviour regardless of reasons, its just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annie ive bit my tongue for a long time with your self obsessed posts. Quite honestly i dont think its down to attractiveness as what attractiveness is down to the beholder, its more likely your elitist, self obsessed, child like attitude.

Ive seen many of your replies & posts over the months you've been frankly disgusting in some of your replies picking on physical attributes of others, be it weight, hair, facial or bodily features.

Your attitude stinks.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Personally, I'm not a fan of people who call themselves attractive. As mentioned before it's subjective and smacks of arrogance.

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By *orace pinkerMan
over a year ago

North west


"Annie ive bit my tongue for a long time with your self obsessed posts. Quite honestly i dont think its down to attractiveness as what attractiveness is down to the beholder, its more likely your elitist, self obsessed, child like attitude.

Ive seen many of your replies & posts over the months you've been frankly disgusting in some of your replies picking on physical attributes of others, be it weight, hair, facial or bodily features.

Your attitude stinks.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annie ive bit my tongue for a long time with your self obsessed posts. Quite honestly i dont think its down to attractiveness as what attractiveness is down to the beholder, its more likely your elitist, self obsessed, child like attitude.

Ive seen many of your replies & posts over the months you've been frankly disgusting in some of your replies picking on physical attributes of others, be it weight, hair, facial or bodily features.

Your attitude stinks.

"

Where’s the applause Gifs when you really like a post.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Maybe your portray yourself in a way that being attractive and having a good figure is all that’s important to you, you advertise quite openly that your preference is for the extremely good looking or the elite which could come off as arrogant to some people or intimidating.

Your good heart or morals will only be seen by those you choose to show it too not everyone who messages you so I would take the opinions of others with a pinch of salt or perhaps look at what your actually saying as this could come off as you thinking that being attractive eliminates you from mean people, everyone will receive the odd mean message or comment it’s life unfortunately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People don't usually dislike someone for just one reason

R"

They absolutely do. That’s complete rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

Because you put posts up like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t read the whole thread so I’m sure everything I’ll say has already been said before but basically the reason for this is simple : some people can be c*nts.

However it’s not something exclusive for good looking people - people can be incredibly mean to unattractive and average people too.

Being attractive also opens many opportunities that the rest of us don’t get, so it’s definitely a double edged sword.

We all see and experience life from our own perspective. So if someone is mean to you then life is unfair. We tend not to be as acutely aware of all the advantages afforded to us.

So OP you see people being horrible to attractive people, because they’re attractive. I see people being horrible to people with a face like a slapped arse, because they’ve got a face liked a slapped arse.

The truth is that most people experience people being horrible to them, for no apparent fair reason, because as I said at the start, the sad reality is that lots of people are basically c*nts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your portray yourself in a way that being attractive and having a good figure is all that’s important to you, you advertise quite openly that your preference is for the extremely good looking or the elite which could come off as arrogant to some people or intimidating.

Your good heart or morals will only be seen by those you choose to show it too not everyone who messages you so I would take the opinions of others with a pinch of salt or perhaps look at what your actually saying as this could come off as you thinking that being attractive eliminates you from mean people, everyone will receive the odd mean message or comment it’s life unfortunately x"

pretty much this here . Won’t say what I really think, but this person summed it up and articulated it well .

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

I can empathise. For I am the world's best looking guy and I too would give someone a fiver.

Disclaimer: I will only give you a fiver if my cupboards are fully stocked, I_m about to get paid and losing that fiver will have no impact on my life whatsoever

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

People can be cruel at times with no apparent reason, even if you sat them down and asked why they just said a horrid thing about someone or to someone, they probably couldn’t give an intelligent and viable answer.

Myself personally...I put it down to lack of intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annie ive bit my tongue for a long time with your self obsessed posts. Quite honestly i dont think its down to attractiveness as what attractiveness is down to the beholder, its more likely your elitist, self obsessed, child like attitude.

Ive seen many of your replies & posts over the months you've been frankly disgusting in some of your replies picking on physical attributes of others, be it weight, hair, facial or bodily features.

Your attitude stinks.

"

Yep. Attractiveness comes from within. If you are ugly inside doesn't matter how good you look on the outside

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

That's Life.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like you, and as you say, you are definitely beautiful.

But you go on too much about you being so good looking. Some people are insecure. So it winds them up. Some men might feel very frustrated that they won’t get anywhere with you and some women might feel threatened/intimidated.

So just do your own thing. Interact with the people who might interest you and just delete whomever doesn’t. Simple. I also know it’s easier said than done... "

I think this post hits the nail on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can be mean

I think that statement stands on its own two feet

The fact it is directed at someone attractive is superfluous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt read the comments.

I don't know the answer. Here just to point out that psychology says attractive people have it easier in life. They often get away with more bad behaviour here too - you are hot=ill agree with you and bask in your limelight this could be it. People's sensing unjust roll of the dice. Not jealousy per se, more like feeling its unfair. What does it matter what you look like.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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People can be mean, I don’t think it’s just attractive people that are victims of that, in fact I know they’re not

I’m not saying it’s acceptable or easy to take, but it does happen and not necessarily looks related.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can be mean regardless of how you look.

I think on here sometimes, they don't even need an excuse.

Hidden behind a phone screen somehow gives more confidence to say things they may not in person.

Everyone experiences someone being horrible to them at some point on here if you're around long enough.

Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf only one guy had a pop at you. Everyone else was nice.

Not just today/yesterday. My whole 11 years on here I’ve had shit. Was looking at a thread of mine earlier from 6 years ago and it’s like woah, no need for half the stuff people say. "

Its the old keyboard bully syndrome, easy to be horrible n nasy behind keyboard but boring to be nice, you get less attention attitude. Look im short fat n a face Quasimodo wud be happy with, i get stick for having the affrontary to talk to beautiful people, you are stunning, beautiful, incredible figure and are getting stick because you are what they want to be n feel down coz they arent. For me i like to be boring, if someone looks like you Annie well its one thing only for me...."will you marry me ?" hehehehe XXX

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've not read the thread so this may have already been said.

But people in general don't like being told you're better than them constantly. It happens here on threads about those who have gone to university. Clearly many are academically intelligent but the amount of people who feel the need to point out oh they never have common sense to pull them down. It's kind of how humanity works is it good no but it's the way it is.

But I guess if I posted many threads saying I'm in the top 1.5% educated people in the UK. I only date highly educated people not those other plebs I would be opening myself to fair criticism, cause no one feature makes intelligence same as attractiveness.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Try being fugly. No fucker wants you either even though you have an awesome personality

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

Because they can't stand people knowing their worth. On here no one knows about your cars and your cupboards etc but they see someone who is very open and honest about what they look for and are pissed you're not looking for them. We all know they'd kill to be with you but they don't like the fact that you'll turn them down so they get in first with the public rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not read the thread so this may have already been said.

But people in general don't like being told you're better than them constantly. It happens here on threads about those who have gone to university. Clearly many are academically intelligent but the amount of people who feel the need to point out oh they never have common sense to pull them down. It's kind of how humanity works is it good no but it's the way it is.

But I guess if I posted many threads saying I'm in the top 1.5% educated people in the UK. I only date highly educated people not those other plebs I would be opening myself to fair criticism, cause no one feature makes intelligence same as attractiveness.

"

If we were all the same how boring life wud be. We all have something to give and feel good about, even if its just you make a great fishfinger butty, someone will adore you for it ! X

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

Are they being mean though op? Maybe they're just being honest and you find it hard to take rejection or critisicm? From your posts I feel you read into people's comments and statements far too much, often interpreting the meaning as a direct attack on you. Just let things pass you by more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like you, and as you say, you are definitely beautiful.

But you go on too much about you being so good looking. Some people are insecure. So it winds them up. Some men might feel very frustrated that they won’t get anywhere with you and some women might feel threatened/intimidated.

So just do your own thing. Interact with the people who might interest you and just delete whomever doesn’t. Simple. I also know it’s easier said than done... "

Exactly this I'm good looking I have a good body look at me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annie ive bit my tongue for a long time with your self obsessed posts. Quite honestly i dont think its down to attractiveness as what attractiveness is down to the beholder, its more likely your elitist, self obsessed, child like attitude.

Ive seen many of your replies & posts over the months you've been frankly disgusting in some of your replies picking on physical attributes of others, be it weight, hair, facial or bodily features.

Your attitude stinks.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely do find that if you feel like everyone hates you, it's usually because you are the problem and not everyone else.

I'm not mean to pretty people. If they are a good person, I don't suddenly dislike them because they are beautiful.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I've not read the thread so this may have already been said.

But people in general don't like being told you're better than them constantly. It happens here on threads about those who have gone to university. Clearly many are academically intelligent but the amount of people who feel the need to point out oh they never have common sense to pull them down. It's kind of how humanity works is it good no but it's the way it is.

But I guess if I posted many threads saying I'm in the top 1.5% educated people in the UK. I only date highly educated people not those other plebs I would be opening myself to fair criticism, cause no one feature makes intelligence same as attractiveness.

If we were all the same how boring life wud be. We all have something to give and feel good about, even if its just you make a great fishfinger butty, someone will adore you for it ! X"

Agreed, every single person brings something different to the table. Knowing what you bring is important. Love a fish finger sandwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like the fox and the grapes.

And a little bit of steel panthers song burden of being beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not read the thread so this may have already been said.

But people in general don't like being told you're better than them constantly. It happens here on threads about those who have gone to university. Clearly many are academically intelligent but the amount of people who feel the need to point out oh they never have common sense to pull them down. It's kind of how humanity works is it good no but it's the way it is.

But I guess if I posted many threads saying I'm in the top 1.5% educated people in the UK. I only date highly educated people not those other plebs I would be opening myself to fair criticism, cause no one feature makes intelligence same as attractiveness.

If we were all the same how boring life wud be. We all have something to give and feel good about, even if its just you make a great fishfinger butty, someone will adore you for it ! X

Agreed, every single person brings something different to the table. Knowing what you bring is important. Love a fish finger sandwich "

YUM !!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

What we have to remember is our words on here can stick in peoples' minds, and if we're memorable people more will be remembered.

That's a lot of mem sounds.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I've not read the thread so this may have already been said.

But people in general don't like being told you're better than them constantly. It happens here on threads about those who have gone to university. Clearly many are academically intelligent but the amount of people who feel the need to point out oh they never have common sense to pull them down. It's kind of how humanity works is it good no but it's the way it is.

But I guess if I posted many threads saying I'm in the top 1.5% educated people in the UK. I only date highly educated people not those other plebs I would be opening myself to fair criticism, cause no one feature makes intelligence same as attractiveness.

If we were all the same how boring life wud be. We all have something to give and feel good about, even if its just you make a great fishfinger butty, someone will adore you for it ! X

Agreed, every single person brings something different to the table. Knowing what you bring is important. Love a fish finger sandwich "

Fish finger sandwich is a metaphor right?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Everyone is lovely to me, which must mean......oh no

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Ah! The curse of being gorgeous! It’s a terrible burden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now don't take this the wrong way (never a good way to start but bear with me....)

I don't think your experience on the forums is due to your attractiveness- which no one can dispute how hot you are - but you are a strong, opinionated, honest and not afraid to voice opposing or unpopular opinions. Sometimes perhaps you come across as a bit arrogant. Many people don't like that. Me personally, if I see a thread started by you or with you as a last comment I immediately click on it!

As you said in a previous thread (god I sound like a stalker now, I am more a voyeur of the forums...) you haven't had any issues with people in DMs, even when you've turned them down, so I would put it to the fact some people can't handle an opinionated female. I'd wear that an a badge of honour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not read the thread so this may have already been said.

But people in general don't like being told you're better than them constantly. It happens here on threads about those who have gone to university. Clearly many are academically intelligent but the amount of people who feel the need to point out oh they never have common sense to pull them down. It's kind of how humanity works is it good no but it's the way it is.

But I guess if I posted many threads saying I'm in the top 1.5% educated people in the UK. I only date highly educated people not those other plebs I would be opening myself to fair criticism, cause no one feature makes intelligence same as attractiveness.

If we were all the same how boring life wud be. We all have something to give and feel good about, even if its just you make a great fishfinger butty, someone will adore you for it ! X

Agreed, every single person brings something different to the table. Knowing what you bring is important. Love a fish finger sandwich

Fish finger sandwich is a metaphor right? "

Hahaha nope just plain n gorgeous fishfinger butty, with hellmans !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll find there is a deep underlying root cause very few people are mean to good looking people because they really enjoy it, it can be about empowerment, it can be jealousy it can be many things. If you need some help or advice do read my profile (you’ll see why!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw your original comment in the ‘Picky women’ thread about how you only meet the elite, handsome men and no one replied to it, so you started a thread off the back of it saying how does that make you entitled, no one mention you were entitled in the thread, the comment was ignored, so I dunno if it was said in pm, it doesn’t make you entitled,

but calling humans ‘elite’ indicates others aren’t up to standard and that makes people feel like shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know who you are, what you are and what you do.

Fuck others opinions of you if you don’t know them or haven’t met them.

Only worry of your family n friend’s opinions, as these are what matter.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

To be honest I’ve never really taken your posts too seriously. I see them and think nooooo way has she posted that . You’re not stupid and I do think you know what you’re doing with these threads. They always make a good read and to be honest some of your threads have had me in absolute stitches over the years! You bring a bit of entertainment here and that’s what I like so crack on. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now don't take this the wrong way (never a good way to start but bear with me....)

I don't think your experience on the forums is due to your attractiveness- which no one can dispute how hot you are - but you are a strong, opinionated, honest and not afraid to voice opposing or unpopular opinions. Sometimes perhaps you come across as a bit arrogant. Many people don't like that. Me personally, if I see a thread started by you or with you as a last comment I immediately click on it!

As you said in a previous thread (god I sound like a stalker now, I am more a voyeur of the forums...) you haven't had any issues with people in DMs, even when you've turned them down, so I would put it to the fact some people can't handle an opinionated female. I'd wear that an a badge of honour x"

Hmm. Sometimes but most of the time it’s due to something more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know who you are, what you are and what you do.

Fuck others opinions of you if you don’t know them or haven’t met them.

Only worry of your family n friend’s opinions, as these are what matter. "

Well, that’s an interesting train of thought but much easier said than done. Those that I work with have deep underlying issues that revolve around peoples opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe people form a negative opinion of your personality, perhaps because you seem to place a high value on “looks” - your own and that of others. It’s not a criticism, just an observation, since you asked.

I know very little about you - I’m sure your heart is made of

Gold and you have a tremendous personality - but sometimes our own self-perception is very different from those of people around you, especially in a place where people jump to conclusions based on only

what they can see, rather than what’s behind the headline. FAB is not unlike the media in that sense, where the image often belies the reality.

Keep being you and keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now don't take this the wrong way (never a good way to start but bear with me....)

I don't think your experience on the forums is due to your attractiveness- which no one can dispute how hot you are - but you are a strong, opinionated, honest and not afraid to voice opposing or unpopular opinions. Sometimes perhaps you come across as a bit arrogant. Many people don't like that. Me personally, if I see a thread started by you or with you as a last comment I immediately click on it!

As you said in a previous thread (god I sound like a stalker now, I am more a voyeur of the forums...) you haven't had any issues with people in DMs, even when you've turned them down, so I would put it to the fact some people can't handle an opinionated female. I'd wear that an a badge of honour x

Hmm. Sometimes but most of the time it’s due to something more than that."

Why? There are plenty of very good looking people on here who don't get the same reaction as the OP. I truly believe it goes beyond how she looks. Very strong opinions on things, bags of self assurance/confidence PLUS the way people behave on the Internet tends to lead in this direction IMO.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

You are a good looking and very intelligent woman and I do enjoy reading your posts, they definitively make a really welcome change from the forever "love/ hate/fuck or do whatever to the poster above".

Personally, I do not feel threatened by your looks or posts and I think if people are genuinely secure in themselves they would probably agree with me and not feel threatened either. So I do not have a need to be horrible or disrespectful towards you - on the contrary.

I would suggest you continue as you are and take the flack as part of being an interesting person. If you find at times it is getting too much, take a break from posting, otherwise please continue.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

I’ve had some bad meets of late and it seems to becoming more frequent. Sex is fun but the reality seems to have been hi jacked by a selfish creed.

But Anne you are always welcome here and if you need a choccy bar I’ll always send you one x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Because they can't stand people knowing their worth. On here no one knows about your cars and your cupboards etc but they see someone who is very open and honest about what they look for and are pissed you're not looking for them. We all know they'd kill to be with you but they don't like the fact that you'll turn them down so they get in first with the public rejection. "

Evie I know you’ve known me years on here. Am I a bully?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now don't take this the wrong way (never a good way to start but bear with me....)

I don't think your experience on the forums is due to your attractiveness- which no one can dispute how hot you are - but you are a strong, opinionated, honest and not afraid to voice opposing or unpopular opinions. Sometimes perhaps you come across as a bit arrogant. Many people don't like that. Me personally, if I see a thread started by you or with you as a last comment I immediately click on it!

As you said in a previous thread (god I sound like a stalker now, I am more a voyeur of the forums...) you haven't had any issues with people in DMs, even when you've turned them down, so I would put it to the fact some people can't handle an opinionated female. I'd wear that an a badge of honour x"

this!

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I've not read the thread so this may have already been said.

But people in general don't like being told you're better than them constantly. It happens here on threads about those who have gone to university. Clearly many are academically intelligent but the amount of people who feel the need to point out oh they never have common sense to pull them down. It's kind of how humanity works is it good no but it's the way it is.

But I guess if I posted many threads saying I'm in the top 1.5% educated people in the UK. I only date highly educated people not those other plebs I would be opening myself to fair criticism, cause no one feature makes intelligence same as attractiveness.

If we were all the same how boring life wud be. We all have something to give and feel good about, even if its just you make a great fishfinger butty, someone will adore you for it ! X

Agreed, every single person brings something different to the table. Knowing what you bring is important. Love a fish finger sandwich

Fish finger sandwich is a metaphor right?

Hahaha nope just plain n gorgeous fishfinger butty, with hellmans !"

Oooh yeah! Or with tartar sauce if I'm feeling posh lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The term judging a book by its cover springs to mind.

People only see what they want to see too.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

People are mean.

If you think they’re mean when you’re attractive and people want to fuck you, try life when you’re not and they don’t. That’s when people aren’t just mean, they don’t treat you like a person

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve never taken your threads seriously Annie, I think you are just a top class wind up merchant. I think you like to stir things up a bit and, at times, court controversy.

I don’t see you getting a hard time unless you post a thread/comment along the lines above, but you always seem quick to point out (or others do) it’s because they’re jealous. And I think you are aware of all of this. You choose your words very carefully.

But sometimes folk react how they do because it’s just because people don’t like what you’ve said/how you said it. It’s as simple as that. Nobody here really knows you (except those that have met you) and for all we know you could be completely different off here.

It’s not always all about your looks.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I've not read the thread so this may have already been said.

But people in general don't like being told you're better than them constantly. It happens here on threads about those who have gone to university. Clearly many are academically intelligent but the amount of people who feel the need to point out oh they never have common sense to pull them down. It's kind of how humanity works is it good no but it's the way it is.

But I guess if I posted many threads saying I'm in the top 1.5% educated people in the UK. I only date highly educated people not those other plebs I would be opening myself to fair criticism, cause no one feature makes intelligence same as attractiveness.

If we were all the same how boring life wud be. We all have something to give and feel good about, even if its just you make a great fishfinger butty, someone will adore you for it ! X

Agreed, every single person brings something different to the table. Knowing what you bring is important. Love a fish finger sandwich

Fish finger sandwich is a metaphor right?

Hahaha nope just plain n gorgeous fishfinger butty, with hellmans !

Oooh yeah! Or with tartar sauce if I'm feeling posh lol

"

I hate tartar sauce, you've made me think of my gran and auntie who used to argue who'd get mine when I got scampi and chips in the pub. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Personally, I do not feel threatened by your looks or posts and I think if people are genuinely secure in themselves they would probably agree with me and not feel threatened either. So I do not have a need to be horrible or disrespectful towards you - on the contrary.

I would suggest you continue as you are and take the flack as part of being an interesting person. If you find at times it is getting too much, take a break from posting, otherwise please continue.

"

this.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Now don't take this the wrong way (never a good way to start but bear with me....)

I don't think your experience on the forums is due to your attractiveness- which no one can dispute how hot you are - but you are a strong, opinionated, honest and not afraid to voice opposing or unpopular opinions. Sometimes perhaps you come across as a bit arrogant. Many people don't like that. Me personally, if I see a thread started by you or with you as a last comment I immediately click on it!

As you said in a previous thread (god I sound like a stalker now, I am more a voyeur of the forums...) you haven't had any issues with people in DMs, even when you've turned them down, so I would put it to the fact some people can't handle an opinionated female. I'd wear that an a badge of honour x

Hmm. Sometimes but most of the time it’s due to something more than that.

Why? There are plenty of very good looking people on here who don't get the same reaction as the OP. I truly believe it goes beyond how she looks. Very strong opinions on things, bags of self assurance/confidence PLUS the way people behave on the Internet tends to lead in this direction IMO. "

There are plenty of other strong opinioned women on here too, that don't get the same reaction. Very strong and opinionated.

Their attitudes with those opinions are a whole different thing though.

People don't like others with a view of superiority attitude. People turn on those who present it, especially when it is solely focused on "me". It's nothing new.

It is really not difficult to connect the dots and see what people have an issue with. There is a pattern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

There just mean people hun don’t let them get u down your beautiful inside n out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg.

Because they can't stand people knowing their worth. On here no one knows about your cars and your cupboards etc but they see someone who is very open and honest about what they look for and are pissed you're not looking for them. We all know they'd kill to be with you but they don't like the fact that you'll turn them down so they get in first with the public rejection.

Evie I know you’ve known me years on here. Am I a bully? "

Annie why explain urself !

Your always going to cause controversy on here cause that’s the personality you are !

Why give a shit cause some people on a swingers site disapprove of your sense of humor or the fact you say exactly what you think !

Your not on here to please anyone ! That’s abundantly clear !

you definitely love to rustle a few feathers and it’s hilarious to see

Best thread in days !

Keep not giving a fuck Annie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

Don’t listen to them, they are the ones who maybe are feeling insecure in themselves and they take it out on others.

You have a heart of gold and a good soul!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or

Dear forums

Please blow smoke up my ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or

Dear forums

Please blow smoke up my ass "

Why are you so unkind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant. "

If you were truly confident in your looks then you wouldn't have to say anything about them hence why people may think you're arrogant about them ... you can be seriously lots of other things ie fucked up emotionally and arrogant at the same time ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant. "

You don't act like you're superior when it comes down to what is inside, but you do when it comes to your appearance, and you always seem to bring looks into everything. You are arrogant and obsessed with what you look like. And I feel sorry for you, because it is like everything is only about appearance.

I've also seen you put down others to bring yourself up multiple times throughout my time on here.

I am in complete agreement with Gatsby.

Maybe in real life it is different, but on the forums you don't come across well at all.

I wish I could say it was jealousy or that I can't handle a strong minded woman, but it's honestly not... so many incredibly beautiful women on here who hold strong opinions and they've never come across like you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant.

If you were truly confident in your looks then you wouldn't have to say anything about them hence why people may think you're arrogant about them ... you can be seriously lots of other things ie fucked up emotionally and arrogant at the same time ... "

Transpose you for a person though as didn't mean exactly you

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant. "

Haters gonna hate and sometimes the written word comes across different to how you actually meant it to come across.

You should be able to write what you want but sadly when you do that you open yourself up to the not so sharp crayons in the box.

Yesterday's post that you only want sex with "elite" obscenely handsome men is fair enough and it's your choice and doesn't bother me at all, but it does sadly open you up to a small % of men who see it as arrogance.

I think that Something's are best kept to yourself unless you do enjoy getting a negative reaction on the forums ?

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or

Dear forums

Please blow smoke up my ass

Why are you so unkind?"

In his case it’s the only way he’d get somebody like me to interact with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or

Dear forums

Please blow smoke up my ass

Why are you so unkind?

In his case it’s the only way he’d get somebody like me to interact with him. "

This is exactly what I mean.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I find you a bit of an enigma OP. I can’t make up my mind how much your tongue is in your cheek or whether you are genuinely unknowing!

I was on the fence but I like you. You bring a different perspective to the forums. It’s always entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant.

You don't act like you're superior when it comes down to what is inside, but you do when it comes to your appearance, and you always seem to bring looks into everything. You are arrogant and obsessed with what you look like. And I feel sorry for you, because it is like everything is only about appearance.

I've also seen you put down others to bring yourself up multiple times throughout my time on here.

I am in complete agreement with Gatsby.

Maybe in real life it is different, but on the forums you don't come across well at all.

I wish I could say it was jealousy or that I can't handle a strong minded woman, but it's honestly not... so many incredibly beautiful women on here who hold strong opinions and they've never come across like you do. "

Can I have some examples of where I’ve put down others to bring myself up. When such strong claims are made I need evidence to back it up. I’d like to see where I’ve done what you’re claiming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant.

You don't act like you're superior when it comes down to what is inside, but you do when it comes to your appearance, and you always seem to bring looks into everything. You are arrogant and obsessed with what you look like. And I feel sorry for you, because it is like everything is only about appearance.

I've also seen you put down others to bring yourself up multiple times throughout my time on here.

I am in complete agreement with Gatsby.

Maybe in real life it is different, but on the forums you don't come across well at all.

I wish I could say it was jealousy or that I can't handle a strong minded woman, but it's honestly not... so many incredibly beautiful women on here who hold strong opinions and they've never come across like you do.

Can I have some examples of where I’ve put down others to bring myself up. When such strong claims are made I need evidence to back it up. I’d like to see where I’ve done what you’re claiming. "

I'm not wasting my time to look back for you. I know I've rolled my eyes at your cruel comments multiple times. If you believe you're innocent then that's fine. But I think this thread proves I'm not the only one who has seen your unkind comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find you a bit of an enigma OP. I can’t make up my mind how much your tongue is in your cheek or whether you are genuinely unknowing!

I was on the fence but I like you. You bring a different perspective to the forums. It’s always entertaining. "

Take most things mate with a pinch of salt I’m surprised nobody else can see through the humor !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what Iv read on the forums you can come across as a bit arrogant

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"Or

Dear forums

Please blow smoke up my ass

Why are you so unkind?

In his case it’s the only way he’d get somebody like me to interact with him.

This is exactly what I mean.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are mean.

If you think they’re mean when you’re attractive and people want to fuck you, try life when you’re not and they don’t. That’s when people aren’t just mean, they don’t treat you like a person"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant.

You don't act like you're superior when it comes down to what is inside, but you do when it comes to your appearance, and you always seem to bring looks into everything. You are arrogant and obsessed with what you look like. And I feel sorry for you, because it is like everything is only about appearance.

I've also seen you put down others to bring yourself up multiple times throughout my time on here.

I am in complete agreement with Gatsby.

Maybe in real life it is different, but on the forums you don't come across well at all.

I wish I could say it was jealousy or that I can't handle a strong minded woman, but it's honestly not... so many incredibly beautiful women on here who hold strong opinions and they've never come across like you do.

Can I have some examples of where I’ve put down others to bring myself up. When such strong claims are made I need evidence to back it up. I’d like to see where I’ve done what you’re claiming.

I'm not wasting my time to look back for you. I know I've rolled my eyes at your cruel comments multiple times. If you believe you're innocent then that's fine. But I think this thread proves I'm not the only one who has seen your unkind comments. "

Same. I’ve rolled my eyes at you when you referred to peoples behaviour when they’ve got mental health issues as bull shit.

Unless you have evidence of me saying these cruel comments then they don’t exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or

Dear forums

Please blow smoke up my ass

Why are you so unkind?

In his case it’s the only way he’d get somebody like me to interact with him. "

#BeKind works both ways, two wrongs don’t make a right etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant.

You don't act like you're superior when it comes down to what is inside, but you do when it comes to your appearance, and you always seem to bring looks into everything. You are arrogant and obsessed with what you look like. And I feel sorry for you, because it is like everything is only about appearance.

I've also seen you put down others to bring yourself up multiple times throughout my time on here.

I am in complete agreement with Gatsby.

Maybe in real life it is different, but on the forums you don't come across well at all.

I wish I could say it was jealousy or that I can't handle a strong minded woman, but it's honestly not... so many incredibly beautiful women on here who hold strong opinions and they've never come across like you do.

Can I have some examples of where I’ve put down others to bring myself up. When such strong claims are made I need evidence to back it up. I’d like to see where I’ve done what you’re claiming.

I'm not wasting my time to look back for you. I know I've rolled my eyes at your cruel comments multiple times. If you believe you're innocent then that's fine. But I think this thread proves I'm not the only one who has seen your unkind comments. "

I’ve been rolling my eyes all

Morning !

If someone is rude or trying to bully you on a thread they deserve unkind comments I’d love to know the context Annie was rude to someone out of pure nastiness just for the sake of putting someone down !

I’ll have her back all day on this

I’ve been accused of the same and I’m not out to makes these threads uncomfortable for anyone but there are dick heads at times that need to be put in there place !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or

Dear forums

Please blow smoke up my ass

Why are you so unkind?

In his case it’s the only way he’d get somebody like me to interact with him.

This is exactly what I mean.

"

Exactly this ^^^ equals arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way to be a judge of any of each our own comments to a thread; a post or an individual, is to write it out and show your mother. If any of you - not just OP - think that what you’ve written would be palatable to the person that brought you into the world and raised you, then its probably ok. If you think she’d turn up her nose at what you’ve written and scold you for it, then you might wish to question whether you want to commit it to print.

#beyourmum

(Or #dad, for men).

(Or #either/both, for TV/TS!)

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant.

You don't act like you're superior when it comes down to what is inside, but you do when it comes to your appearance, and you always seem to bring looks into everything. You are arrogant and obsessed with what you look like. And I feel sorry for you, because it is like everything is only about appearance.

I've also seen you put down others to bring yourself up multiple times throughout my time on here.

I am in complete agreement with Gatsby.

Maybe in real life it is different, but on the forums you don't come across well at all.

I wish I could say it was jealousy or that I can't handle a strong minded woman, but it's honestly not... so many incredibly beautiful women on here who hold strong opinions and they've never come across like you do.

Can I have some examples of where I’ve put down others to bring myself up. When such strong claims are made I need evidence to back it up. I’d like to see where I’ve done what you’re claiming.

I'm not wasting my time to look back for you. I know I've rolled my eyes at your cruel comments multiple times. If you believe you're innocent then that's fine. But I think this thread proves I'm not the only one who has seen your unkind comments.

Same. I’ve rolled my eyes at you when you referred to peoples behaviour when they’ve got mental health issues as bull shit.

Unless you have evidence of me saying these cruel comments then they don’t exist. "

Ah yes, I remember that. When the woman was banging and making a huge scene at the door of a man she slept with twice. When he had his kids with him and he barely knew the woman.

Yes, her behaviour was bullshit. And I'm not sorry for saying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god I only come on this site when I’m having a wee drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should try being ugly.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank god I only come on this site when I’m having a wee drink. "

I’m

Actually happy to see you !

How was golf you prick

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester


"Why is that?

Like I’m attractive with a good figure but my heart and morals are fucking ginormous and would give someone my last fiver as long as I had food in the cupboards and fuel in the car and I was a day away from being paid.

So I just don’t understand why people can be mean sometimes and want to knock me down a peg. "

I'm sorry, I'm more curious about what the Sledgehammer Shop is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank god I only come on this site when I’m having a wee drink.

I’m

Actually happy to see you !

How was golf you prick "

Leaving shortly big fella, thank god it’s hard work on here

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Annie ive bit my tongue for a long time with your self obsessed posts. Quite honestly i dont think its down to attractiveness as what attractiveness is down to the beholder, its more likely your elitist, self obsessed, child like attitude.

Ive seen many of your replies & posts over the months you've been frankly disgusting in some of your replies picking on physical attributes of others, be it weight, hair, facial or bodily features.

Your attitude stinks.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank god I only come on this site when I’m having a wee drink.

I’m

Actually happy to see you !

How was golf you prick

Leaving shortly big fella, thank god it’s hard work on here "

The struggle is real mate !

I could really do with some one liners right about now

I’m still having a wee drink and I’m just about hanging in there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A really good figure at that one

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"But how can people truly honestly believe I think I’m better than anyone else when I constantly go on about how fucked up I am. How in having counselling for the many issues I’ve got, how I struggle with personal relationships.

Someone who thought they were superior to everyone else wouldn’t openly discuss their faults.

Just because I’m confident with my exterior, looks and figure doesn’t mean I’m arrogant.

You don't act like you're superior when it comes down to what is inside, but you do when it comes to your appearance, and you always seem to bring looks into everything. You are arrogant and obsessed with what you look like. And I feel sorry for you, because it is like everything is only about appearance.

I've also seen you put down others to bring yourself up multiple times throughout my time on here.

I am in complete agreement with Gatsby.

Maybe in real life it is different, but on the forums you don't come across well at all.

I wish I could say it was jealousy or that I can't handle a strong minded woman, but it's honestly not... so many incredibly beautiful women on here who hold strong opinions and they've never come across like you do.

Can I have some examples of where I’ve put down others to bring myself up. When such strong claims are made I need evidence to back it up. I’d like to see where I’ve done what you’re claiming. "

Is this not an example?

In his case it’s the only way he’d get somebody like me to interact with him.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Thank god I only come on this site when I’m having a wee drink.

I’m

Actually happy to see you !

How was golf you prick

Leaving shortly big fella, thank god it’s hard work on here

The struggle is real mate !

I could really do with some one liners right about now

I’m still having a wee drink and I’m just about hanging in there ! "

Talla! Just read through and spotted your latest bromance

Sorry I couldn't have joined in xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank god I only come on this site when I’m having a wee drink.

I’m

Actually happy to see you !

How was golf you prick

Leaving shortly big fella, thank god it’s hard work on here

The struggle is real mate !

I could really do with some one liners right about now

I’m still having a wee drink and I’m just about hanging in there ! "

I had 30 mins kip, otherwise I wouldn’t be entertaining the mad post and replies from that wee lassie. You seem nice enough though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs, someone hit the 175, please?? This is carcrash reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, anyone fancy a cuppa?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Annie, I'm starting to change my mind about you. I used to see your name, groan & ignore the thread. I'm not one for endless self analytical threads (by you or anyone)

However, you've been so open about your counseling, so I'm happy to see that it has been working wonders for you. You're starting to mellow & obsess less.

I think the perceived arrogance in constantly carping on about your looks is what seems to wind people up. But then, it IS mean of them to attack you for it. And I feel some people may have used this thread as permission to abuse.

I would suggest this as a topic for your next counseling session, as your own self worth is so tightly bound to your looks. Why is this?

Also, of course you are gorgeous, intelligent & full of confidence and some people will just enjoy running you down.

Ignore the mean people. Don't assume it's all due to your looks. Try to be a little more gracious, but not that much that you lose yourself xx

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