FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think of me; debrief

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Now that the thread has been running for a little while, I think that it’s time to review and take stock a little.

For those of you that have taken part, how do you think that it has gone?

Was it overwhelmingly positive? Did you get any surprises? If there were negatives, will you take them on board? Will it change how you post or how you approach fab?

This is a large part of the process folks so please, don’t hold back and be honest...

As an additional part of this, can I also ask that people post how many people they sent and received from please? That way it helps to understand the level of response

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Noone messaged me

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Noone messaged me"

Did you message anyone?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Noone messaged me

Did you message anyone? "
yes

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Takes up his seat and reaches for another bag popcorn, this time with cold beer

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I messaged a select few. Most have been offline since. But I did reaffirm a friendship with one of my favourite forumites.

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

No one took the time to slate me. I'm sad about that

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I sent one and received a message back. Plus received a message from a wise soul, who it was good to chat to again.

There are those that I just don’t know or have had my thoughts before.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I sent 13, got ten

To those who did respond thank you

Overall very positive, you got me spot on.

Very little in the way of negative comments, but the few that did pick up somethings, I am doing my best to be more positive, I've sort of found my mojo again, and feeling a lot happier in myself as a result.

I still have a way to go, but I will get there,

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I sent 3 or 4 out and I've actually hopefully made a couple of new friends, lovely ladies .

A great laid back guy who's cool and a frank but honest conversation with a certain someone and that was cool too .

A success in my eyes

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Noone messaged me

Did you message anyone? yes"

I’d say to give it a bit of time for people to respond.

Hopefully you get some good feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what did i miss? i dont get many messages anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent 5 and got 5 replies. Got 1 unsolicited. 1 surprise. All positive. 2 spot-on. And I made one person laugh heartily.

All good

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

People have been very kind. But I targeted nice people

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"what did i miss? i dont get many messages anyway"

There's a thread called "what do you think of me' if you post that you're in on it people can message you and tell you what they think of you. The idea is that you do the same for others

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've had some lovely ones...and one made me really quite proud to be viewed that way, especially by someone who I really like

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive had one now and it was nice

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Had some lovely positive messages, and sent out a few

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Had a few now all very posotive

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We, well I am part of the forum furniture so to speak and I'm kind and caring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some lovely messages

. It’s interesting sometimes, that certain aspects of me show when I didn’t think they did.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I had some lovely messages

. It’s interesting sometimes, that certain aspects of me show when I didn’t think they did. "

That’s part of the point with these threads; people see more than you expect them to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve sent a few and received a few lovely ones in return. And some from people I’ve not chatted to previously, which was nice, all fair comments and nice…

I like today’s thread OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had some lovely messages

. It’s interesting sometimes, that certain aspects of me show when I didn’t think they did.

That’s part of the point with these threads; people see more than you expect them to"

Yes, it’s interesting.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I had two lovely messages, not had chance to send any as I was working x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my head is gone..can someone explain to me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"my head is gone..can someone explain to me"

I did up thread if you check back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my head is gone..can someone explain to me

I did up thread if you check back

aaah...i get it now...i have my moments

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"my head is gone..can someone explain to me

I did up thread if you check back

aaah...i get it now...i have my moments"

don't we all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my head is gone..can someone explain to me

I did up thread if you check back

aaah...i get it now...i have my moments

don't we all

ive messaged one person...doubt ill get any

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"my head is gone..can someone explain to me

I did up thread if you check back

aaah...i get it now...i have my moments

don't we all

ive messaged one person...doubt ill get any"

Did you go on the original thread and say you're in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my head is gone..can someone explain to me

I did up thread if you check back

aaah...i get it now...i have my moments

don't we all

ive messaged one person...doubt ill get any

Did you go on the original thread and say you're in?

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sent 6 got 6. All good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent some. I got some back and one unexpected.. positive, which I'm very grateful for.

One surprised me - I am "quite mysterious", but also made me tearful a little in the other part- the one how I care very much. Thank you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I messaged 4 people and had 4 back. All were interesting and i was grateful for them.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"my head is gone..can someone explain to me

I did up thread if you check back

aaah...i get it now...i have my moments

don't we all

ive messaged one person...doubt ill get any

Did you go on the original thread and say you're in?

nope"

If you post in the original thread then you can see who’s taking part and who to message. It also explains everything in the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a relative newbie, it's been a great post OP; decided to get involved and messaged a few.

Only one not replied (as yet unread), but everone else returned in kind. Thank you.

And one sent of the bat without my starting, an extra thank you!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Are there any more from this?

I know that more of you took part in the first thread, care to share your experiences?

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Are there any more from this?

I know that more of you took part in the first thread, care to share your experiences? "
I had a nice little private chat with a delectable Welsh lady. Seems I need a photographer.

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