FabSwingers.com forum: Living with parents

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Hi just finished work talking to a lad and he was saying got to move back in with his parents could you fit in with there set ways again

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I did when my marriage broke down, two kids and a sofa bed.

Not fantastic but safe and happy.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm caring for my mum

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"I did when my marriage broke down, two kids and a sofa bed.

Not fantastic but safe and happy. "
Yes fair comment his marriage has broke down no kids he said his mum doesn't want any rent off him win win ? X

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"I'm caring for my mum

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good on you my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could only do it for a short period of time - after that I'd want to get out from the nagging and mothering and back to having my own space!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still live with my parents. It's a culture thing where you don't move out straight away but I don't mind it.

I still have my independence and I get on well with them. There seems to be negative connotations that come with it though, unfortunately.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Hi just finished work talking to a lad and he was saying got to move back in with his parents could you fit in with there set ways again "

Or from the parents point of view, they have to go back to considering youngsters again.

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Hi just finished work talking to a lad and he was saying got to move back in with his parents could you fit in with there set ways again

Or from the parents point of view, they have to go back to considering youngsters again.

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Yes again fair point x

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

No f-ing way with my sad excuses for parents. (Fem). I estranged from them when I was 18, I only ever speak to my twin in occassion, and avoid most of the extended family.

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

Recently moved back in with my elderly dad to look after him. It's going OK but very little chance of getting out to meet and none at all of accommodating which with some automatically means I am married and cheating

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Mine moved back in not long ago. Not easy!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

My mum lives with me, bless her. It’s all cool. Life goes in circles.

I say “lives” with me, to be fair, I haven’t been in the shed in ages

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Had my daughter and 3 grandcildren move back about 15 years ago for 6 months was hard going! As I had 3 children same ages as grandkids but we got through it i slept on a blow up bed in my girls room ! X

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

My dad died five years ago and I want nothing to do with the guy my mum moved in there very quickly afterwards, so no.

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Had my daughter and 3 grandcildren move back about 15 years ago for 6 months was hard going! As I had 3 children same ages as grandkids but we got through it i slept on a blow up bed in my girls room ! X"
wow total respect there my friend

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would only move back in with my parents under extreme circumstances and if there was no alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I moved back in with my mum I wouldn’t move out...l she’d make my lunch for work, tea on the table, washing done lol... she would be stuck with me xxx

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I had to move back in with parents with my 2 kids when my relationship with their dad ended. Was a tough 6 months been cooped up in one room at bedtimes, but forever grateful to have loving supportive parents, not everyone does. X

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I did with my 2 kids when my kitchen was getting done and walls knocked down. 2 weeks of breakfast lunch and dinner getting made and good banter. Couldn't do it long term but it was nice to get looked after hand and foot with great company

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"I did with my 2 kids when my kitchen was getting done and walls knocked down. 2 weeks of breakfast lunch and dinner getting made and good banter. Couldn't do it long term but it was nice to get looked after hand and foot with great company

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what sort of banter was it remenenissing about when you were your children's age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lord, no. I moved out at 15 for good reason. You couldn't pay me to ever go back. 15 years was torture.

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By *ojobinksMan
over a year ago

swindon

I did it when I wanted to buy myself a house it was a hard year, but I was proper looked after

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Went back a couple of times between jobs but only for a few weeks at a time. Sadly they have passed on now but they made sure both me and my sisters were financially secure

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I had to move in with family when my relationship broke down and I moved back to my hometown, was hard to start as obviously had to respect their rules etc and the loss of privacy etc, but it worked out just fine, was there nearly two years and finally able to move out last November to my own place

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"If I moved back in with my mum I wouldn’t move out...l she’d make my lunch for work, tea on the table, washing done lol... she would be stuck with me xxx"

Haha this was me, had dinner cooked, washing done etc, was lovely, have to do it all myself again now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not possible.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I managed a couple of weeks 20yrs ago.

Now I’d just go insane immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i live with mum as i also look after her due to old age. as soon as i have a family member look after her, i get my free time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could only do it for a short period of time - after that I'd want to get out from the nagging and mothering and back to having my own space!"

Sounds a lot like being married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest son moved back in with me for "a few months" almost 3 years ago, having been gone for 5 years. It means I couldn't host my fwb anymore, which I do miss. But my son was previously very unwell, so I was happy to take him in. X

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Rwhat sort of banter was it remenenissing about when you were your children's age

Was mostly just every day life but the odd embarrassing story came up haha

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I moved back in with my mum when my marriage ended.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

We (myself and my kids) have lived with my mum since 2015. I sold up and we moved in to allow me to look after her as her mobility is deteriorating and also learnt recently that she has wet eye Macular degeneration so her eyesight is deteriorating also.

Doesn’t sound very cool or very rock n roll but hey ho. We make it work. We have our own living areas and that helps massively as she watches some right rubbish on the telly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We (myself and my kids) have lived with my mum since 2015. I sold up and we moved in to allow me to look after her as her mobility is deteriorating and also learnt recently that she has wet eye Macular degeneration so her eyesight is deteriorating also.

Doesn’t sound very cool or very rock n roll but hey ho. We make it work. We have our own living areas and that helps massively as she watches some right rubbish on the telly

My mother is currently moving in with me, following the passing of my sister earlier this year. But she is awesome and she provides me a lifeline in terms child support. And I cook for her. Win win! She rocked up with 5 suitcases a few weeks ago!

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