FabSwingers.com forum: Condom or No Condom

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My preference is bareback.. there is nothing else like it. Condoms feel too tight and weird.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Maybe try a different brand and size that fits properly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This new Noel Edmonds quiz show is a bit shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Condom always for me OP xx

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Remember OP - No glove, No love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only strap up if the female wants to tbh, apart from that I prefer bareback

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I would think that’s most people’s preference in an ideal world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt you'll find anyone who actually prefers sex with a condom over bareback, but the reality is that the swinging lifestyle increases the risk of picking up a STD and so many of us take the responsible approach to protect ourselves and others.

But then you're only 22 and are of an age where you feel you are completely invincible. We've all been there.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong"

What about STIs??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong"

I don’t want to state the obvious… but it’s not just about your comfort, there are other issues at play no matter how ‘strong your pull out’

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

In an ideal world bareback of course. But with anyone I'd meet on fab which the chance of an STI, unwanted pregnancies etc etc condom all the way. If they are tight you may want to look into different sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to Covid I've opted for the xxxxxl size that you can fit your whole body in. Totally safe, lots of room to manoeuvre and if the meet is going a bit shit you only have to endure it for 5 minutes before you pass out due to lack of oxygen.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong"

Enjoy the Sti fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember, no rubbery, no shrubbery

Or something like that

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong"

Believe me av seen men 9” pmus and pretty girthy wear them!! So size isn’t an excuse am afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms are definitely required. Maybe once you become regulars it's fine to not use them though

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Condom. Not taking chances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she'll shag you without a johnny, she'll shag anyone.

So stick a condom on it and don't risk dickrot.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

"This new Noel Edmonds quiz show is a bit shit"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess they just feel weird then

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge"

What question??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If she'll shag you without a johnny, she'll shag anyone.

So stick a condom on it and don't risk dickrot."

A Johnny

. Not heard that for years

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge

What question??"

"Can I shag you without a johnny?"

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I would think that’s most people’s preference in an ideal world. "

I agree with this to be honest, if there were no need for them I doubt anyone would say "I really enjoy the condom feeling we should always use one!" because it just feels better without.

That said! Doesn't matter how good it feels, they are needed for good reasons and that always tops a good feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge"

Erm… and that’s the test? Sounds fool proof

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Wear a sock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless its long term, exclusive and tested, condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong"

You do realise that semen can leak out during sex....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge"

That's all well and good, and she maybe telling the truth best to her knowledge. Even with regular testing there are still risks that things go undetected as they haven't had the disease long enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that"

Oooooh with talk like that this should be in the dirty talk thread

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge

What question??

"Can I shag you without a johnny?"

Howling

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge

Erm… and that’s the test? Sounds fool proof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that"

UTIs?! That would be the least of your problems! All the best… I don’t know what else to say!

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

"I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge

Erm… and that’s the test? Sounds fool proof

Good thing that nobody ever lies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always ask my partners before hand a multitude of questions.. if I think theu're lying I won't indulge

What question??

"Can I shag you without a johnny?"

haha!! Made me chuckle

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that"

You can’t catch a UTI

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong"

What's a "pull out"?

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By *oldie_locks33Woman
over a year ago

Durham

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that"

Can tell you’re only 22.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback, as we all know, is far superior ... the sex is so much better. Of this there is no doubt.

But swinging and fucking strangers off t’internet? Gloved up for me, every time!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I only do bareback when I’m bumming a lady as it’s got to mean something

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong

What's a "pull out"?"

Pulling out before one cums I imagine. Totally safe. No risk at all there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong

What's a "pull out"?"

Withdrawal method

As he’s about to shoot his muck, pull out and give the carpet a soaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing worse than a lobster on your piano is a crab on your organ..so cover up and be safe

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I only do bareback when I’m bumming a lady as it’s got to mean something

Defo love that mind

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Urinary tract infections

Are a water infection

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I only do bareback when I’m bumming a lady as it’s got to mean something

When you free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My preference is bareback.. there is nothing else like it. Condoms feel too tight and weird. "

With my partner bareback...with others,no fecking way!!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Bareback, as we all know, is far superior ... the sex is so much better. Of this there is no doubt.

But swinging and fucking strangers off t’internet? Gloved up for me, every time!"

What Willy said.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong

What's a "pull out"?

Pulling out before one cums I imagine. Totally safe. No risk at all there

Indeed. No man has ever dribbled some spodge before reaching the grand finale, so he's entirely fine in that regard.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that

You can’t catch a UTI

I think there’s some confusion between UTIs and STIs perhaps!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I only do bareback when I’m bumming a lady as it’s got to mean something

Mine still need smashing

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I was faithful for 11 years.

My ex swore blind he didn't cheat, will still maintain it to this day, yet somehow I managed to get chlamydia.

People lie to those they supposedly love so they'll sure as shit lie to someone they'll probably never see again

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong

What's a "pull out"?

Pulling out before one cums I imagine. Totally safe. No risk at all there

Definitely no babies in 9 months then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on, give the guy a break. He asks questions

‘A/s/l?’

‘Do you mind if I wipe my knob on the curtains (non beef variety) afterwards?’

‘Do you know the way to San Jose?’

‘Is your foof crawling with crabs?’

He’s a good guy

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

In the ideal world no condoms but in the real world when swinging condom all the way.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

"My preference is bareback.. there is nothing else like it. Condoms feel too tight and weird. "

Oh dear -

Never mind being 22 - You might not make it to 32 with that train of thought - unless you're committing yourself sexually to one person of course - but then I doubt you are or why be here.

Why risk your health & that of anyone else you want to meet?

Honestly it's really not worth it - a little bit of discomfort now may save you a life of it later

Keep safe young man

L x

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that

You can’t catch a UTI

I think there’s some confusion between UTIs and STIs perhaps!

Definitely a risk of UTI's - more for women - with increased sexual activity although are not transmitted by sexual activity.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that

You can’t catch a UTI

I think there’s some confusion between UTIs and STIs perhaps!

Definitely a risk of UTI's - more for women - with increased sexual activity although are not transmitted by sexual activity. "

To add to that, UTIs can occur after unprotected anal sex. It's the bacteria in the arse that can cause it you see

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry

"In the ideal world no condoms but in the real world when swinging condom all the way."

True in an ideal world!!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safety first however upon becoming regular with STI test negative then the rubber can collect dust

And no chance of unwanted children due to disconnection many years ago

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Safe sex only unless exclusive for me, I've gone my whole life without catching anything and I don't want to change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that"

. I really worry about sex education in schools these days… and even more glad I don’t have a daughter.

HSV

Genital warts

Chlamydia

Gonorrhoea

Trichomoniasis

HPV

HIV

Syphillis

Hepatitis

Lice

Scabies

To name a few….

You think a few questions could give you the answer to someone carrying those? Especially when early on a lot or those don’t show symptoms and not all are curable. UTIs are not something you catch. You catch STIs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that

You can’t catch a UTI

I think there’s some confusion between UTIs and STIs perhaps!

Definitely a risk of UTI's - more for women - with increased sexual activity although are not transmitted by sexual activity.

To add to that, UTIs can occur after unprotected anal sex. It's the bacteria in the arse that can cause it you see"

They can occur but they can’t be ‘caught’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that

You can’t catch a UTI

I think there’s some confusion between UTIs and STIs perhaps!

This actually concerns me about the standard of sex education in our schools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that

You can’t catch a UTI

I think there’s some confusion between UTIs and STIs perhaps!

This actually concerns me about the standard of sex education in our schools"

The standard of education overall has dropped massively in recent years, not just sex ed. I don't want to get all political but they've really ballsed it up by allowing ideologists to run education from Government.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are multiple sizes and brands available for them not to feel tight and weird

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that"

Sweet Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many women have you got pregnant that way?

Not sure? Wait a year and see all the claims for child support land on your doormat!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The lack of knowledge ny young people amazes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a partner or trusted exclusive fwb yes id go without.... apart from that no.

Ive never had a std... i dont wana start now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are multiple sizes and brands available for them not to feel tight and weird

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only do bareback when I’m bumming a lady as it’s got to mean something

How romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This new Noel Edmonds quiz show is a bit shit"

Lmao!!

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"This new Noel Edmonds quiz show is a bit shit"

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

STI or no STI? Tough one

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"This new Noel Edmonds quiz show is a bit shit"
phone up the wanker to see what's on offer

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Haven’t we learned enough yet?? Sorry is on for moi!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong"
wow did they not do sex education at school with you.. its not about if you can pull out. If you wear one regularly it will feel more normal. Often suggested is to find one that fits well and self pleasure.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Only with an exclusive fwb or partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a boner contention

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"STI or no STI? Tough one "

Can I phone a friend(with benefits)?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Most people prefer no condom but outside of a monogamous relationship, it isn't really a sensible option for most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback always

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

Always safe me so condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms are a bit rubbish really if you are just considering the pleasure aspect of things. Although as a treat whilst in a relationship we would use them to have some 'clean' sex. Always a novelty with no mess left behind, although it leaves me a little bereft as I like messy.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No bareback for me not even with a regular friend that is trusted. That regular friend may also have a trusted friend - and so it goes on.

Take full responsibility for your own sexual health, you can’t trust other people with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was faithful for 11 years.

My ex swore blind he didn't cheat, will still maintain it to this day, yet somehow I managed to get chlamydia.

People lie to those they supposedly love so they'll sure as shit lie to someone they'll probably never see again

Same happened to me. My ex husband swore blind he was faithful and I only found out I had chlamydia when I was in process of being diagnosed with endometriosis. It can take up to three months for some STIs to show up on a test so it’s best to be safe.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No bareback for me not even with a regular friend that is trusted. That regular friend may also have a trusted friend - and so it goes on.

Take full responsibility for your own sexual health, you can’t trust other people with it. "

Exactly this. I’m afraid I wouldn’t trust anyone that much, no matter how regular and close we were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember for a goodyear invest in rubber

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"This new Noel Edmonds quiz show is a bit shit"

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I was faithful for 11 years.

My ex swore blind he didn't cheat, will still maintain it to this day, yet somehow I managed to get chlamydia.

People lie to those they supposedly love so they'll sure as shit lie to someone they'll probably never see again

And Chlamydia is very often symptomless but doing unseen damage, so no amount of questioning from the OP would uncover such things

No glove, no love.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"And you OP are the reason why my son’s have to endure regular sex-ed chats with me!!! And I go in to a lot of detail.

I think you need to grow up & stop taking women at face value.

J - you don’t even get the little kiss because I think you’re daft "

My son had only one from me then promptly announced he was asexual!

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

Sti's

Unwanted pregnancy and having to have terminations (and the trauma that can go with such experiences)

Women having to take all the responsibility for birth control

Birth control sometimes messing with women's mood and causing other health problems

Female swinging partners, it's ok though he prefers the feeling without and his pullout is strong.

Ever heard of 'pre ejaculate'? You can be slowly releasing clear ejaculate during intercourse without realising it which can contain sperm in some circumstances.

Also try Trojans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms every time. Latex free condoms, flavoured condoms, ribbed condoms, glow in the dark condoms, female condoms. I just really like condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My preference is bareback.. there is nothing else like it. Condoms feel too tight and weird. "

Of course feeling wise bareback is the best x feels natural x but still need to be safe x luckily prep helps ha x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The only man I have sex with without a condom, is my husband.

I can't get pregnant but I want to do my best avoid an STI.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a better fitting one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that

. I really worry about sex education in schools these days… and even more glad I don’t have a daughter.

HSV

Genital warts

Chlamydia

Gonorrhoea

Trichomoniasis

HPV

HIV

Syphillis

Hepatitis

Lice

Scabies

To name a few….

Maybe the OP was ill and missed his schools Sex Education Lessons?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I only asked a preference and here I am getting dragged lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bare for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lass!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only asked a preference and here I am getting dragged lol."

Bareback vs safer sex is a very divisive topic on here OP. Search for previous bareback threads on forum and you will understand. Some even use it as a filter and block people over the topic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah i didn't know hon. I don't understand the hostility..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are usually a great way of finding out those who will readily glove up and those who will try and persuade a meet to go bare.

You thought you were struggling on here before OP, you've probably managed to get yourself on a few block lists now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No issues here dude, rarely log on now

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Ah i didn't know hon. I don't understand the hostility.."

I don't think it was hostile, more concerned for your welfare and lack of actual vetting.

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By *iddentalent26Man
over a year ago

glasgow (outside)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely suit up I can never understand ppl that make out like it's the end of the world if they are asked to use a condom as the is a lot more to the act than the feel of a naked willy

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I definitely prefer bareback but safe sex is a must to me if it's not with someone regular and both have proof of testing!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"If she'll shag you without a johnny, she'll shag anyone.

So stick a condom on it and don't risk dickrot."

He could be the one spreading dickrot diseases around.

Women have to catch it from someone.

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge

Don’t be silly, Get that condom on your Willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hands down; thread of the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear your wellies.

You never know wahat shit your going to be stepping into...

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Dont be silly, put a condom on your willy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried those new snake skin condoms? Actual skin from a Burmese python.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Durex have definitely missed a trick with not using snake skin as they are scaled for the ladies pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No condom obviously.. where's your fun gone guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that"

And they say romance is dead.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"No bareback for me not even with a regular friend that is trusted. That regular friend may also have a trusted friend - and so it goes on.

Take full responsibility for your own sexual health, you can’t trust other people with it.

Exactly this. I’m afraid I wouldn’t trust anyone that much, no matter how regular and close we were. "

Same here Nora

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

"This new Noel Edmonds quiz show is a bit shit"

I've seen that game what happens is you fuck the box then open it to find out what STI you have got or if you have got the box pregnant.

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By *edheadjMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong

What's a "pull out"?"

Isn't it those posters you used to get in the middle of magazines back in the day?

Finding a proper sized condom is key. There's a great site called TheFit, that has over 60 different sizes. You enter your measurements (truthfully!) and they'll match you too the correct size. Game changer

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"I doubt you'll find anyone who actually prefers sex with a condom over bareback, but the reality is that the swinging lifestyle increases the risk of picking up a STD and so many of us take the responsible approach to protect ourselves and others.

But then you're only 22 and are of an age where you feel you are completely invincible. We've all been there."

I do honestly prefer sex with a guy using a condom, so you've found one

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

"Maybe try a different brand and size that fits properly? "

His cock is so fat I think he should use a binbag, either that or he could paint one on and hope his partner doesn't notice.

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By *alentino7Man
over a year ago

London

Safe play only. No exceptions.

Simple as.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have some class..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Remember for a goodyear invest in rubber"

Today is actually the anniversary of Goodyear buying his first rubber plantation in 1837.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" Condoms feel too tight and weird. "

My vagina feels too tight and weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This new Noel Edmonds quiz show is a bit shit"

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By *orkshire_roses999Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

"Last time they had sex, anything weird, UTIs stuff like that"

And this is why some women think us men are wierd OP………..

UTIs have very little to do with STDs or STIs…….

Plz plz plz don’t think they do lol

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Mr. T says "don't be a fool, cover yo tool!"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Jezza would say - stick something on the end of it!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

Do you really trust someone that much though? What about the trusted friends of their trusted friends and so on and so on……. ?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"No condom obviously.. where's your fun gone guys

To the clap clinic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No condom obviously.. where's your fun gone guys

To the clap clinic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As stated earlier, condoms do take away some of the sensation for everyone. But then again I've heard gonorrhea does the same.. if your just meeting people for nsa, then really should wear one.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We only meet guys who insist on using condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

Do you really trust someone that much though? What about the trusted friends of their trusted friends and so on and so on……. ?"

Very good question. Surely it’s even more risky when one is attached and may still be having sex at home to then have unprotected sex with “trusted friends”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a condom with everyone but my husband, I'd never even consider doing otherwise. It just isn't worth the risk.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

Do you really trust someone that much though? What about the trusted friends of their trusted friends and so on and so on……. ?

Very good question. Surely it’s even more risky when one is attached and may still be having sex at home to then have unprotected sex with “trusted friends”. "

I take my health, and the health of my friends seriously, and becoming 'trusted' isn't an overnight thing

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

Do you really trust someone that much though? What about the trusted friends of their trusted friends and so on and so on……. ?

Very good question. Surely it’s even more risky when one is attached and may still be having sex at home to then have unprotected sex with “trusted friends”.

I take my health, and the health of my friends seriously, and becoming 'trusted' isn't an overnight thing

I was wondering the relevance of that comment in reply to mine but then clicked it was in obviously aimed at you! x

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Peeling even the incredibly thin skin off a nectarine just now reminded me adequately why nobody really likes condoms

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"...becoming 'trusted' isn't an overnight thing

Certainly not a 'quickie' in the daytime thing!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

Do you really trust someone that much though? What about the trusted friends of their trusted friends and so on and so on……. ?

Very good question. Surely it’s even more risky when one is attached and may still be having sex at home to then have unprotected sex with “trusted friends”.

I take my health, and the health of my friends seriously, and becoming 'trusted' isn't an overnight thing

I was wondering the relevance of that comment in reply to mine but then clicked it was in obviously aimed at you! x "

It's all good Nora

Well, apart from me, obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either I get checked out anyway

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think everybody's preference is bareback. I doubt anybody would say a condom enhances the experience, although it makes no difference to some.

However, I reckon quite a lot of people also have a preference for staying healthy and not pregnant, and those things top the bareback preference.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

If you’re not my hubby, you need a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

Do you really trust someone that much though? What about the trusted friends of their trusted friends and so on and so on……. ?

Very good question. Surely it’s even more risky when one is attached and may still be having sex at home to then have unprotected sex with “trusted friends”.

I take my health, and the health of my friends seriously, and becoming 'trusted' isn't an overnight thing

That’s all well and good, I just wonder how does one know what the other “trusted friend” is doing when they’re not around.

It can’t be 100% foolproof.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

No raincoat in this day and age is like playing Russian roulette with 2 Chambers loaded ffs,

Are ye mental or what.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

Do you really trust someone that much though? What about the trusted friends of their trusted friends and so on and so on……. ?

Very good question. Surely it’s even more risky when one is attached and may still be having sex at home to then have unprotected sex with “trusted friends”.

I take my health, and the health of my friends seriously, and becoming 'trusted' isn't an overnight thing

That’s all well and good, I just wonder how does one know what the other “trusted friend” is doing when they’re not around.

It can’t be 100% foolproof. "

Hence the use of the term 'trusted'

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I've tried multiple brands and they just don't feel comfortable, anyways I prefer sex with no condom, my pull out is strong"

You can still get people pregnant and catch diseases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she'll shag you without a johnny, she'll shag anyone.

So stick a condom on it and don't risk dickrot.

He could be the one spreading dickrot diseases around.

Women have to catch it from someone. "

Wouldn't surprise me in the slightest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Condoms for randoms, no condoms for trusted friends

Do you really trust someone that much though? What about the trusted friends of their trusted friends and so on and so on……. ?

Very good question. Surely it’s even more risky when one is attached and may still be having sex at home to then have unprotected sex with “trusted friends”.

I take my health, and the health of my friends seriously, and becoming 'trusted' isn't an overnight thing

That’s all well and good, I just wonder how does one know what the other “trusted friend” is doing when they’re not around.

It can’t be 100% foolproof.

Hence the use of the term 'trusted'

This isn’t a dig at you, I’ve seen people say similar before, and as you said it here I replied.

There’s always going to be a risk whether it be trusted friend or not, trust goes so far.

Of course you choose the element of risk you want to take that’s everyone’s right regardless.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"As Jezza would say - stick something on the end of it! "

Diane ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms every time.

Just how it is.

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By *rotic desiresWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

"My preference is bareback.. there is nothing else like it. Condoms feel too tight and weird. "

That's always preferable - BUT - safe sex to safeguard my health always unless in a committed relationship.

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