FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think of me?

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I thought that I’d bring this back again, as flawed as it might be!

Let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.

It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.

Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.

Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise.

The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...

Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.

Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also didn’t send any.

Away you go folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ready! Hit me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Interesting.

I'm game

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Anything for a work distraction

Jo x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I already know what people think of me so is a mute question.

But in the studio and its hot and just waiting for a suitable time to open a cold beer.

So interested to see how the thread evolves.

Will it follow the same tack or will it take a new direction

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I'm in, need to be told otherwise I'll never change

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm in, always nice to see how I am regarded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In....*closes eyes

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im in

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in. Genuine interest in how I'm percieved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill jump in too! I have a a feisty profile, go gain from it as you wish!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in. Be kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in… I’m feeling fragile. Be kind please lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in. Be good to know where I'm going wrong

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm in. Intrigued to see how "non friends" perceive me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I like these, they usually throw up a couple of surprises as to how others see me, which gives me something to reflect on...especially if it's not all positive.

I'm in

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd love to know please. Honestly.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’m in xx

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like this one. Honest good or bad. Bring it.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm in too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind hearing people’s thoughts xx

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I like these, they usually throw up a couple of surprises as to how others see me, which gives me something to reflect on...especially if it's not all positive.

I'm in

I agree, it’s the negatives and the criticism that gives the most scope for growth in my opinion

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Go on then, always interesting. I’m not around much so will struggle with the newer names to the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in

A really nice, funny and interesting guy to chat to, I think we could chat shit all day over a few beers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in xx"

What can I say that people don’t already know,

Selfless, caring, funny, stunning and makes me smile constantly… also great at dinosaur impressions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to know please. Honestly."

A really nice caring lady, and always sounds like she’s up for mischief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I'm in, go easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok go on then

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

In x

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I like this one. Honest good or bad. Bring it. "

I like your level headedness, and how you look at things from all perspectives

Some rather horny pictures too

Jo x

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By *opknightMan
over a year ago

uttoxeter

Im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on then- had a bit of a shock last time, but I will risk it!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Go on then- had a bit of a shock last time, but I will risk it!

You're alright you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t offend me. Do your worst

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By *ojobinksMan
over a year ago

swindon

I’ll give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in....

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Go on then- had a bit of a shock last time, but I will risk it!

Flighty, moody, sometimes mysterious but a very good friend.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Go on then, be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gulp um ok I'm in

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I know who I am.

I'm a miserable needy old fucker.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Go on then- had a bit of a shock last time, but I will risk it!

Flighty, moody, sometimes mysterious but a very good friend."

Via PM please

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I like this one. Honest good or bad. Bring it.

I like your level headedness, and how you look at things from all perspectives

Some rather horny pictures too

Jo x

Let’s keep it via PM please?

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’m in

A really nice, funny and interesting guy to chat to, I think we could chat shit all day over a few beers "

Tom!

Don’t make me come over there!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"I’m in

A really nice, funny and interesting guy to chat to, I think we could chat shit all day over a few beers

Tom!

Don’t make me come over there!

I’ve gave him a warning, such a naughty boy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay let's do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in

A really nice, funny and interesting guy to chat to, I think we could chat shit all day over a few beers

Tom!

Don’t make me come over there!

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in

A really nice, funny and interesting guy to chat to, I think we could chat shit all day over a few beers

Tom!

Don’t make me come over there!

I’ve gave him a warning, such a naughty boy x"

Yes she promised I could spank her though

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I like this one. Honest good or bad. Bring it.

I like your level headedness, and how you look at things from all perspectives

Some rather horny pictures too

Jo x

Let’s keep it via PM please? "

Did actually press wrong button

*Scuttles off to corner and decides not to post again today....*

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I've tried this I had one message each time. Not sure I want to again but I'll wait for the debrief post to see what happens. Its kinda fascinating in a weird way.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Every time I've tried this I had one message each time. Not sure I want to again but I'll wait for the debrief post to see what happens. Its kinda fascinating in a weird way.

PW"

Don’t forget to send some out as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Count me in… I’m feeling fragile. Be kind please lol"

10/10 would bang.

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By *beeMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

count me in

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Good afternoon lovelies. I'm in for this.

This is a interesting one. We tend to perceive the world through our own filters so often what you perceive in someone else can show you something about yourself. Win win.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Done a few, will do more when I get a chance. Will reply to those I've been sent too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done a few, will do more when I get a chance. Will reply to those I've been sent too. "

Same, done some and replied to others. I am always interested in how I am perceived on the forum (good or bad).

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By *nourdreamsCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Count us in to, always nice to have a bit of feedback

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’ll do Tea Monkey (not in a sexual way mind)

A lovely chap and a wonderful contributor to the forums with consistently superb and thoughtful threads which often require we as readers, to both introspect ourselves and be more respectful of others

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By *antric ecstasyMan
over a year ago

Co Durham

I'm in. I have no idea how others perceive me.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Would have been nice to take part but age restrictions don’t permit so I’m out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m trying to stay away from people that I’ve already given feedback to on previous threads, unless something has drastically changed.

Newbies, I’m sorry if I haven’t seen enough of you to get a good read on you

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Would have been nice to take part but age restrictions don’t permit so I’m out"

That’s no good. I’m sorry that you can’t engage as you would like to

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’ll do Tea Monkey (not in a sexual way mind)

Via PM fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in please

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"I’ll do Tea Monkey (not in a sexual way mind)

Via PM fella! "

Ahhhh sorry

(Do I still qualify for the blandishment bribe though?)

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m open to feedback

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Oh I'm in

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

With trepidation I’m in. I must admit I find it difficult not to be sycophantic.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Hat officially thrown in the ring.

Do your worst or best

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’ll do Tea Monkey (not in a sexual way mind)

Via PM fella!

Ahhhh sorry

(Do I still qualify for the blandishment bribe though?)

Absolutely!

I’ll square up with you later

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in please

I'd have to break the thread rules to tell you! Damn Pesky Filters, they're worse than those meddling kids in Scooby Doo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in please

I'd have to break the thread rules to tell you! Damn Pesky Filters, they're worse than those meddling kids in Scooby Doo

Oh yes, hang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In. Eek

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Sexville

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Interesting thread but I don't post here often enough for anyone to know much about me and visa versa so I don't expect any feedback.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yeah I’m in, why not ….

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Hat officially thrown in the ring.

Do your worst or best

Your just an all round Mr Nice guy who doesn’t sit on anyone’s fence but doesn’t suffer fools!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Go on then- had a bit of a shock last time, but I will risk it!

You’re a straight talking, no nonsense similar to me person but sometimes you take things in a way it wasn’t intended…. For which I apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always a first time.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.

Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.

Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli

Via PM DC!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.

Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli

Via PM DC! "

yes boss!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.

Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli

Via PM DC! "

But it was so sweet! And accurate.

Thank you DC. I'll send you yours via PM before Dicktator Tea starts growing a dodgy 'tache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will tell people what I think of them.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"Count me in… I’m feeling fragile. Be kind please lol

10/10 would bang. "

What feedback!!! Haha wish I’d been that lucky!!!

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By *hrisjABCMan
over a year ago

Blackheath

Im in

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.

Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli

Via PM DC!

But it was so sweet! And accurate.

Thank you DC. I'll send you yours via PM before Dicktator Tea starts growing a dodgy 'tache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in! I'll try and keep criticism (if any) constructive and yes, I'm aware it's my own opinion.

Forum dictionary and just a gorgeous person inside and out Meli

Via PM DC!

But it was so sweet! And accurate.

Thank you DC. I'll send you yours via PM before Dicktator Tea starts growing a dodgy 'tache.

woah woah woah, what's wrong with dodgy taches!? ...or am I to now expect new facial hair related feedback?

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Any more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will tell people what I think of them. "

I haven’t done this yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed this but the way today has been I already know I'm insignificant.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I shall send some in a bit x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I missed this but the way today has been I already know I'm insignificant. "

No-one is insignificant. You cone across as a lovely, caring woman x

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I’m in if anyone knows me.

As for you OP,from how you come across on the forums I think you’re a sound guy

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m back in for the evening shift

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"No-one is insignificant. "

Is insignificant but ok with it

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Aw go on... I’m in...

as soon asxI’ve had some dinner will send some messages

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"Would have been nice to take part but age restrictions don’t permit so I’m out

That’s no good. I’m sorry that you can’t engage as you would like to"

Thank you. I understand that people have age preferences so with something like this I adjust mine temporarily in case people want to comment as you said not to comment in the thread. Some people I’d like to offer a comment to have age limits which preclude me from sending a message. C’est la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm in.. could be interesting!

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm in , could be fun

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