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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh

Following up another topic on the forums, regarding finding people on here you known, I did a local search with filters open. Didn't find anyone I knew but was astounded by the sense of entitlement from some men on their profile. The ratio on here must be 80% men to 20% women so it's never going to be easy, why blow your chances coming over all cocky (bit of Carry on humour there). The profiles in question must make women feel used just reading them, let alone wanting to meet the man. Maybe it's me but I imagine if you come across entitled on your profile how must women feel you would be like in real life?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Shitty guys don’t get meets and act shitty in their profile and in life. Someone stop the press. This is brand new information

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Following up another topic on the forums, regarding finding people on here you known, I did a local search with filters open. Didn't find anyone I knew but was astounded by the sense of entitlement from some men on their profile. The ratio on here must be 80% men to 20% women so it's never going to be easy, why blow your chances coming over all cocky (bit of Carry on humour there). The profiles in question must make women feel used just reading them, let alone wanting to meet the man. Maybe it's me but I imagine if you come across entitled on your profile how must women feel you would be like in real life? "

Nothing new.. its not just males either

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Most men's profiles I've been messaged by have very little written on them.

I don't think I've come across an entitled sounding one.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Following up another topic on the forums, regarding finding people on here you known, I did a local search with filters open. Didn't find anyone I knew but was astounded by the sense of entitlement from some men on their profile. The ratio on here must be 80% men to 20% women so it's never going to be easy, why blow your chances coming over all cocky (bit of Carry on humour there). The profiles in question must make women feel used just reading them, let alone wanting to meet the man. Maybe it's me but I imagine if you come across entitled on your profile how must women feel you would be like in real life?

Nothing new.. its not just males either "
Suzi, how can you say that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Following up another topic on the forums, regarding finding people on here you known, I did a local search with filters open. Didn't find anyone I knew but was astounded by the sense of entitlement from some men on their profile. The ratio on here must be 80% men to 20% women so it's never going to be easy, why blow your chances coming over all cocky (bit of Carry on humour there). The profiles in question must make women feel used just reading them, let alone wanting to meet the man. Maybe it's me but I imagine if you come across entitled on your profile how must women feel you would be like in real life?

Nothing new.. its not just males either "

This

I've seen women's profikes that say fab men should worship fab women.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

If anything, the profiles i've seen that have most screamed "entitlement" have been from women. Men's profiles have a greater tendency to be blank or have little useful text while women's have a greater tendency of being negative and ranty.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Following up another topic on the forums, regarding finding people on here you known, I did a local search with filters open. Didn't find anyone I knew but was astounded by the sense of entitlement from some men on their profile. The ratio on here must be 80% men to 20% women so it's never going to be easy, why blow your chances coming over all cocky (bit of Carry on humour there). The profiles in question must make women feel used just reading them, let alone wanting to meet the man. Maybe it's me but I imagine if you come across entitled on your profile how must women feel you would be like in real life?

Nothing new.. its not just males either Suzi, how can you say that "

I speak the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anything, the profiles i've seen that have most screamed "entitlement" have been from women. Men's profiles have a greater tendency to be blank or have little useful text while women's have a greater tendency of being negative and ranty."

That's not entitlement, that's spelling things out in black and white for the hard of reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anything, the profiles i've seen that have most screamed "entitlement" have been from women. Men's profiles have a greater tendency to be blank or have little useful text while women's have a greater tendency of being negative and ranty."

Some females profiles read more like War and Peace

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Following up another topic on the forums, regarding finding people on here you known, I did a local search with filters open. Didn't find anyone I knew but was astounded by the sense of entitlement from some men on their profile. The ratio on here must be 80% men to 20% women so it's never going to be easy, why blow your chances coming over all cocky (bit of Carry on humour there). The profiles in question must make women feel used just reading them, let alone wanting to meet the man. Maybe it's me but I imagine if you come across entitled on your profile how must women feel you would be like in real life?

Nothing new.. its not just males either "

No it isn't just males. It seems to me that people will overlook entitled attitudes from women of couples.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"If anything, the profiles i've seen that have most screamed "entitlement" have been from women. Men's profiles have a greater tendency to be blank or have little useful text while women's have a greater tendency of being negative and ranty.

Some females profiles read more like War and Peace "

My profile tells you how it is and works well for me! I definitely don’t think I am entitled

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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh


"Most men's profiles I've been messaged by have very little written on them.

I don't think I've come across an entitled sounding one."

Exactly my point. Very little written on a profile, in a crowded environment, is a sense of entitlement. Why would a woman respond to an near empty profile?

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Oooooooooo another "entitlement' thread. - Pulls up a chair and reaches for the popcorn

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Most men's profiles I've been messaged by have very little written on them.

I don't think I've come across an entitled sounding one.

Exactly my point. Very little written on a profile, in a crowded environment, is a sense of entitlement. Why would a woman respond to an near empty profile? "

We don’t

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Apparently I'm not entitled to see ladies in blue underwear.

Disgraceful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anything, the profiles i've seen that have most screamed "entitlement" have been from women. Men's profiles have a greater tendency to be blank or have little useful text while women's have a greater tendency of being negative and ranty.

Some females profiles read more like War and Peace

My profile tells you how it is and works well for me! I definitely don’t think I am entitled "

Your profile is nicely written, there are some with no breaks in there and some give up reading after the first few lines.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Apparently I'm not entitled to see ladies in blue underwear.

Disgraceful. "

Shocking behaviour.. get out you entitled gimp

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Oooooooooo another "entitlement' thread. - Pulls up a chair and reaches for the popcorn

"

You’re not entitled to sit there

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I don't think mine comes over as entitled, it says a little about me, but then we are like marmite, some will like you some won't, it is what it is at the end of the day

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Apparently I'm not entitled to see ladies in blue underwear.

Disgraceful.

Shocking behaviour.. get out you entitled gimp "

Oi. Less of the gimp.

Now - where's your pics?

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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I have a few demands on my profile, as they are very important to my enjoyment on here.

It's not an entitlement as I don't have the right to any of them, but without them I have no desire to meet.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

May I ask what kinds of entitlements you're talking about?

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Following up another topic on the forums, regarding finding people on here you known, I did a local search with filters open. Didn't find anyone I knew but was astounded by the sense of entitlement from some men on their profile. The ratio on here must be 80% men to 20% women so it's never going to be easy, why blow your chances coming over all cocky (bit of Carry on humour there). The profiles in question must make women feel used just reading them, let alone wanting to meet the man. Maybe it's me but I imagine if you come across entitled on your profile how must women feel you would be like in real life?

Nothing new.. its not just males either

I agree it's not just makes, women are just as guilty of it. My point is with just 20% of the profiles being women, why blow you chances coming across entitled to a meet?"

I think entitled is the wrong word for these profiles.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Is entitlement the new “in” fab word? Has it replaced preference?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Is entitlement the new “in” fab word? Has it replaced preference? "

We're entitled to a new word now and again.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The worst people for acting entitled are couples.

I’ve met and know some really lovely couples, I’ve also known some demanding, entitled, arrogant couples.

I could write stories about their behaviour and attitudes, in person and on fab.

Let’s go easy on guys for a while shall we?

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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh


"Following up another topic on the forums, regarding finding people on here you known, I did a local search with filters open. Didn't find anyone I knew but was astounded by the sense of entitlement from some men on their profile. The ratio on here must be 80% men to 20% women so it's never going to be easy, why blow your chances coming over all cocky (bit of Carry on humour there). The profiles in question must make women feel used just reading them, let alone wanting to meet the man. Maybe it's me but I imagine if you come across entitled on your profile how must women feel you would be like in real life?

Nothing new.. its not just males either

No it isn't just males. It seems to me that people will overlook entitled attitudes from women of couples."

I agree, it's not only men. Women can come across entitled knowing full well they can. With the male to female ratio on here women can do as they wish, men would still meet them.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The worst people for acting entitled are couples.

I’ve met and know some really lovely couples, I’ve also known some demanding, entitled, arrogant couples.

I could write stories about their behaviour and attitudes, in person and on fab.

Let’s go easy on guys for a while shall we? "

Does seem to be a lot of man bashing going on lately. I often think wow if someone had said that about a woman!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty a bit of cockiness or a slight whiff of arrogance plus some age filters set instead of the 18-99 year old prefix would make me message that guy even more, providing he was handsome of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely seeing some single males statutes, makes us think do you really think that's going to turn a woman on!! They seem to think your on fab which means you will fuk anyone and anyway they want

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Oooooooooo another "entitlement' thread. - Pulls up a chair and reaches for the popcorn

You’re not entitled to sit there"

Oh I am - Its a public space therefore I am entitled and also have the right -

But I do not have the "right" to make others sit with me, although I am "entitled" to ask.

And they are "entitled" and have the "right" to refuse

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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh


"May I ask what kinds of entitlements you're talking about?"

Some men seem to think just joining Fab will guarantee a meet. Just state the bare minimum on your profile and mark up the notches on the bedpost. Not realistic.....a sense of entitlement.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It could be argued that everyone is entitled to put what they want in their bios but sometimes perceived forum popularity means some think they are entitled to say what they want without repercussion. However as has already been said there is a tendency to overlook certain views or opinions based on who is expressing them.

For example a man starts a thread and gets torn to shreds while a virtually identical thread by a woman or couple is full of more tolerant replies.

The same applies to profile content.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"The worst people for acting entitled are couples.

I’ve met and know some really lovely couples, I’ve also known some demanding, entitled, arrogant couples.

I could write stories about their behaviour and attitudes, in person and on fab.

Let’s go easy on guys for a while shall we?

Does seem to be a lot of man bashing going on lately. I often think wow if someone had said that about a woman!!"

No one would ever say nasty things about a woman, they have those vaginas and stuff that guys like so much.

I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is entitlement the new “in” fab word? Has it replaced preference? "

Not for me.

Preference on fab in my personal opinion, means you choose the type of person you want to meet.

Entitlement to me means that you believe other people's preferences don't apply to you and that you're entitled to be treated with a certain respect that you don't apply to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But are some getting or had meets?

If someone new comes onto Fab they may look at profiles of the same gender to see what might 'work'. If they see an 'entitled' style profile that seems to 'work' - i.e. Has a reasonable amount of veris - then they may copy the 'style'. And that can end up proliferating. It will work for some and not others.

Even when someone asks for profile advice on the forum they are only getting what people on the forum would like to see on a profile.

There are thousands of people on Fab and, I would guess, most are just getting on with it. No matter what a profile is like if they are getting meets then something is working for them.

There are also other factors like accomodating, travelling, age range, first messages and sexuality.

A profile is just a single piece in the jigsaw puzzle of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst people for acting entitled are couples.

I’ve met and know some really lovely couples, I’ve also known some demanding, entitled, arrogant couples.

I could write stories about their behaviour and attitudes, in person and on fab.

Let’s go easy on guys for a while shall we?

Does seem to be a lot of man bashing going on lately. I often think wow if someone had said that about a woman!!

No one would ever say nasty things about a woman, they have those vaginas and stuff that guys like so much.

I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads"

Yup, trying to tear others down to build themselves up. It's pretty sad

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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh


"It could be argued that everyone is entitled to put what they want in their bios but sometimes perceived forum popularity means some think they are entitled to say what they want without repercussion. However as has already been said there is a tendency to overlook certain views or opinions based on who is expressing them.

For example a man starts a thread and gets torn to shreds while a virtually identical thread by a woman or couple is full of more tolerant replies.

The same applies to profile content. "

Well said. The problem is since the beginning of time men have had the urge to fuck, the younger a man is the greater the urge. Men will forgive or accept anything from a woman, as long as he can fuck her, its a natural instinct. The problems start after the deed is done .

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"May I ask what kinds of entitlements you're talking about?

Some men seem to think just joining Fab will guarantee a meet. Just state the bare minimum on your profile and mark up the notches on the bedpost. Not realistic.....a sense of entitlement."

I'd say that's more naivety or stupidity, akin to walking into a bar and just standing there expecting women to throw themselves at their feet...I'm pretty sure that the reality of the situation will soon dawn on them.

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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh


"But are some getting or had meets?

If someone new comes onto Fab they may look at profiles of the same gender to see what might 'work'. If they see an 'entitled' style profile that seems to 'work' - i.e. Has a reasonable amount of veris - then they may copy the 'style'. And that can end up proliferating. It will work for some and not others.

Even when someone asks for profile advice on the forum they are only getting what people on the forum would like to see on a profile.

There are thousands of people on Fab and, I would guess, most are just getting on with it. No matter what a profile is like if they are getting meets then something is working for them.

There are also other factors like accomodating, travelling, age range, first messages and sexuality.

A profile is just a single piece in the jigsaw puzzle of Fab."

Just be yourself as that will be who the other person will meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But are some getting or had meets?

If someone new comes onto Fab they may look at profiles of the same gender to see what might 'work'. If they see an 'entitled' style profile that seems to 'work' - i.e. Has a reasonable amount of veris - then they may copy the 'style'. And that can end up proliferating. It will work for some and not others.

Even when someone asks for profile advice on the forum they are only getting what people on the forum would like to see on a profile.

There are thousands of people on Fab and, I would guess, most are just getting on with it. No matter what a profile is like if they are getting meets then something is working for them.

There are also other factors like accomodating, travelling, age range, first messages and sexuality.

A profile is just a single piece in the jigsaw puzzle of Fab.

Just be yourself as that will be who the other person will meet. "

Exactly but maybe being yourself is someone with a 'sense of entitlement'.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


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I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads"

While this does happen, I've seen a definite increase in posts that could be construed as misandry.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

To avoid sounding entitled I have now amended my profile to read ‘bloke wants non-gobby bird to do as she’s told and make my legs shake!’ My inbox is open…. Ladieeees!!

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"The worst people for acting entitled are couples.

I’ve met and know some really lovely couples, I’ve also known some demanding, entitled, arrogant couples.

I could write stories about their behaviour and attitudes, in person and on fab.

Let’s go easy on guys for a while shall we?

Does seem to be a lot of man bashing going on lately. I often think wow if someone had said that about a woman!!

No one would ever say nasty things about a woman, they have those vaginas and stuff that guys like so much.

I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads

Yup, trying to tear others down to build themselves up. It's pretty sad"

This x1000 the amount of simping is unreal.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It could be argued that everyone is entitled to put what they want in their bios but sometimes perceived forum popularity means some think they are entitled to say what they want without repercussion. However as has already been said there is a tendency to overlook certain views or opinions based on who is expressing them.

For example a man starts a thread and gets torn to shreds while a virtually identical thread by a woman or couple is full of more tolerant replies.

The same applies to profile content.

Well said. The problem is since the beginning of time men have had the urge to fuck, the younger a man is the greater the urge. Men will forgive or accept anything from a woman, as long as he can fuck her, its a natural instinct. The problems start after the deed is done ."

Your reply is missing the word "some". Sex has never been a deciding factor for me regardless of age which is probably why I have as many women friends as I do men.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"It could be argued that everyone is entitled to put what they want in their bios but sometimes perceived forum popularity means some think they are entitled to say what they want without repercussion. However as has already been said there is a tendency to overlook certain views or opinions based on who is expressing them.

For example a man starts a thread and gets torn to shreds while a virtually identical thread by a woman or couple is full of more tolerant replies.

The same applies to profile content. "

That is the ethos of FAB forums, people mostly come in to the forums for attention - they change their viewpoint depending on who they think target audience is and if it will get them closer to getting a shag. Others will use exploit this for their own advantage.

"entitlement" is just a word which has a meaning within constrains and context.

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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh


"The worst people for acting entitled are couples.

I’ve met and know some really lovely couples, I’ve also known some demanding, entitled, arrogant couples.

I could write stories about their behaviour and attitudes, in person and on fab.

Let’s go easy on guys for a while shall we?

Does seem to be a lot of man bashing going on lately. I often think wow if someone had said that about a woman!!

No one would ever say nasty things about a woman, they have those vaginas and stuff that guys like so much.

I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads

Yup, trying to tear others down to build themselves up. It's pretty sad"

Not sure if that is aimed at me but I can assure you that is not my aim. I not concerned about getting a meet, I am already catered for in that respect. I am a bit disappointed with my fellow man, I think the sense of entitlement hides arrogance and stupidity, traits women never find appealing.

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By *ssexhampton OP   Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh


"But are some getting or had meets?

If someone new comes onto Fab they may look at profiles of the same gender to see what might 'work'. If they see an 'entitled' style profile that seems to 'work' - i.e. Has a reasonable amount of veris - then they may copy the 'style'. And that can end up proliferating. It will work for some and not others.

Even when someone asks for profile advice on the forum they are only getting what people on the forum would like to see on a profile.

There are thousands of people on Fab and, I would guess, most are just getting on with it. No matter what a profile is like if they are getting meets then something is working for them.

There are also other factors like accomodating, travelling, age range, first messages and sexuality.

A profile is just a single piece in the jigsaw puzzle of Fab.

Just be yourself as that will be who the other person will meet.

Exactly but maybe being yourself is someone with a 'sense of entitlement'."

Not getting a meet is not the end of the world. Fab should only be part of a broader life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a line somewhere between confidence and arrogance. Where you draw the line and how others interpret where the line is, is a tricky one.

Those with overtly arrogant profiles will still get meets as they will appeal to some. Don't concern yourselves with the "competition" as you are responsible for your own success on fab.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It could be argued that everyone is entitled to put what they want in their bios but sometimes perceived forum popularity means some think they are entitled to say what they want without repercussion. However as has already been said there is a tendency to overlook certain views or opinions based on who is expressing them.

For example a man starts a thread and gets torn to shreds while a virtually identical thread by a woman or couple is full of more tolerant replies.

The same applies to profile content.

That is the ethos of FAB forums, people mostly come in to the forums for attention - they change their viewpoint depending on who they think target audience is and if it will get them closer to getting a shag. Others will use exploit this for their own advantage.

"entitlement" is just a word which has a meaning within constrains and context.

"

We all like attention to some degree otherwise we wouldn't be on fab. I like being noticed and I like sex but I don't need either.

The problem is that some need both constantly and are happy to do whatever is required to achieve that.

I know of people who can't get through their day without public acknowledgement on fab and I don't just mean women. A very well known profile has asked why I don't acknowledge him on the forums and when I didn't reply he got someone else to ask me the same question.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


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Yup, trying to tear others down to build themselves up. It's pretty sad"

Isn't this indicative of the society we live in accross the board.

Politics, media, tabloids.

It is easier to try and make others look worse than trying to improve yourself.

Arn't the Forums for a large part simply pissing contest - to use a term

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

What's entitlement?

People are here for different reasons, some because sites like this provide the only or most important sex they get. For others it's a much smaller part of their lives - an occasional treat if the right person comes along. Expressing detailed or even rigid choices isn't necessarily entitlement, merely a reflection of that person's needs and circumstances. Women or men here who don't need or want to fuck someone different every day, week or month aren't 'entitled', they just don't want or need that. Are they 'better' than people who do need that level of frequency and variety? No. Just different.

If you don't/can't go out for meals often you'd probably like it to be exactly what you want when you finally do go. Fillet steak isn't better than turbot, it's just what you prefer and why would you accept one when the other is what you wanted and ordered? That's not an expression of entitlement it's an expression of choice and we're all entitled to it - male, female, couple or whoever.

We're talking about choosing swinging partners here, not making value judgements about people based on whether they fit certain physical criteria. We couldn't care less if our GP doesn't fit our swinging search criteria. All that matters is that he/she is pleasant and knows what they're doing. We choose not to meet smokers simply because we both hate the smell of cigarettes/smoke. That doesn't mean we believe they're second class citizens who should be locked away from society. Their choice is to smoke, our choice is not to swing with them just as they might well prefer not to meet non-smokers like us.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


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I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads

While this does happen, I've seen a definite increase in posts that could be construed as misandry. "

I can’t say that I’ve noticed an increase, not in the general scheme of things. It’s always been a pretty anti guy place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm entitled to a Big Mac and medium fries for £1.99 according to my bus ticket.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


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I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads

While this does happen, I've seen a definite increase in posts that could be construed as misandry.

I can’t say that I’ve noticed an increase, not in the general scheme of things. It’s always been a pretty anti guy place. "

I agree but sadly we are reaping the reward of 1000’s of arseholes who behave abhorrently with fancy a fuck messages then a torrent of abuse when surprisingly the lady in question isn’t won over! Whilst it’s wrong to tar all blokes with the same brush - given the ratio of decent guys on here to arseholes it’s understandable and maybe a lot of man bashing is an attempt to scare up one or two of the decent ones ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen many profiles that come across as entitled or arrogant. Male, female & couple profiles.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"

I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads

While this does happen, I've seen a definite increase in posts that could be construed as misandry.

I can’t say that I’ve noticed an increase, not in the general scheme of things. It’s always been a pretty anti guy place.

I agree but sadly we are reaping the reward of 1000’s of arseholes who behave abhorrently with fancy a fuck messages then a torrent of abuse when surprisingly the lady in question isn’t won over! Whilst it’s wrong to tar all blokes with the same brush - given the ratio of decent guys on here to arseholes it’s understandable and maybe a lot of man bashing is an attempt to scare up one or two of the decent ones ? "

Now I don't understand this "tar everyone with the same brush" mentality...to me, people are individual, and if they're a cockwomble, they're a cockwomble regardless of any other "box" that they happen to be in. And I wouldn't say anyone was an arsehole just because of a FAF message...they just don't approach this whole thing the way that I do, and therefore we're not compatible.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"If anything, the profiles i've seen that have most screamed "entitlement" have been from women. Men's profiles have a greater tendency to be blank or have little useful text while women's have a greater tendency of being negative and ranty.

Some females profiles read more like War and Peace "

yep pretty much xx

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"

I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads

While this does happen, I've seen a definite increase in posts that could be construed as misandry.

I can’t say that I’ve noticed an increase, not in the general scheme of things. It’s always been a pretty anti guy place.

I agree but sadly we are reaping the reward of 1000’s of arseholes who behave abhorrently with fancy a fuck messages then a torrent of abuse when surprisingly the lady in question isn’t won over! Whilst it’s wrong to tar all blokes with the same brush - given the ratio of decent guys on here to arseholes it’s understandable and maybe a lot of man bashing is an attempt to scare up one or two of the decent ones ?

Now I don't understand this "tar everyone with the same brush" mentality...to me, people are individual, and if they're a cockwomble, they're a cockwomble regardless of any other "box" that they happen to be in. And I wouldn't say anyone was an arsehole just because of a FAF message...they just don't approach this whole thing the way that I do, and therefore we're not compatible. "
the FAF message wasn’t the bit that makes them the arsehole I get different strokes etc but the follow up abuse definitely does. Hear so many horror stories of guys saying the most awful things because of a polite no thanks. It isn’t just guys either I once politely declined a lady and then received a ton of messages about how shallow I was - so the way they message wasn’t my issue as such but their reaction to the rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"May I ask what kinds of entitlements you're talking about?"

I think he's talking about the guys with big diks that think that's all every women on here must want and as long as they have one why shouldn't they get a meet off anyone they message pml you know the same kind that say age is just a number or thats a shame when told no lol

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


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I often think that the majority of ‘man bashing’ threads are other guys trying to show that they’re not like other guys. So they’re not man bashing, they’re ‘look at me’ threads

While this does happen, I've seen a definite increase in posts that could be construed as misandry.

I can’t say that I’ve noticed an increase, not in the general scheme of things. It’s always been a pretty anti guy place.

I agree but sadly we are reaping the reward of 1000’s of arseholes who behave abhorrently with fancy a fuck messages then a torrent of abuse when surprisingly the lady in question isn’t won over! Whilst it’s wrong to tar all blokes with the same brush - given the ratio of decent guys on here to arseholes it’s understandable and maybe a lot of man bashing is an attempt to scare up one or two of the decent ones ?

Now I don't understand this "tar everyone with the same brush" mentality...to me, people are individual, and if they're a cockwomble, they're a cockwomble regardless of any other "box" that they happen to be in. And I wouldn't say anyone was an arsehole just because of a FAF message...they just don't approach this whole thing the way that I do, and therefore we're not compatible. "

FAF?

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