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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi can anyone help me please, I am on the site for some fun and the sexyier the better, was hoping to find some good women who were looking for the same, a bit of pic swap, possibly c2c sex, then if we both have a connection then we can meet up, but when I get chatting with someone and then suggest something else, then they back off???? I'm starting to feel like a bit of a pest, don't mean to be pushy, what am I doing wrong??? All advice will be really appreciated x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Well think of your profile as your shop window, maybe it's not appealing to people.

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

The only thing i can say is don’t keep making the same mistake. Be patient and let whoever you are talking too take the next step if there’s to be one.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi can anyone help me please, I am on the site for some fun and the sexyier the better, was hoping to find some good women who were looking for the same, a bit of pic swap, possibly c2c sex, then if we both have a connection then we can meet up, but when I get chatting with someone and then suggest something else, then they back off???? I'm starting to feel like a bit of a pest, don't mean to be pushy, what am I doing wrong??? All advice will be really appreciated x"

What's the chat you habe before you suggest... what do you suggest and how do ypu say it.

Also, Looked at your profile, 'hi' would be an instant delete for me, so if sprt that out. 1 pic and it's of your cock... without knowing the chat you have hard to say, but The profile needs effort, I'm suprised your getting chats at all with it, just my opinion, you did ask.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

More effort required profile wise I'm afraid

Good luck

Jo x

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Hi OP, along with what others have said can I ask if you make it clear you would like to meet those you chat with soon as possible.

Some people are still cautious to meet during these times and if you do and they're happy to,maybe keep the chat to what was suggested their end and arrange a social meet. They might feel like the more you suggest too soon is being pushy. Best of luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi can anyone help me please, I am on the site for some fun and the sexyier the better, was hoping to find some good women who were looking for the same, a bit of pic swap, possibly c2c sex, then if we both have a connection then we can meet up, but when I get chatting with someone and then suggest something else, then they back off???? I'm starting to feel like a bit of a pest, don't mean to be pushy, what am I doing wrong??? All advice will be really appreciated x

What's the chat you habe before you suggest... what do you suggest and how do ypu say it.

Also, Looked at your profile, 'hi' would be an instant delete for me, so if sprt that out. 1 pic and it's of your cock... without knowing the chat you have hard to say, but The profile needs effort, I'm suprised your getting chats at all with it, just my opinion, you did ask."

Grr typos! battery charging so keyboard glitchy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do, thanks x

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"The only thing i can say is don’t keep making the same mistake. Be patient and let whoever you are talking too take the next step if there’s to be one.

Good luck. "

I agree with this too.. and also get chatting to more and see what they are looking for!!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Where to start.

You need a decent write up on your profile that says what you want and what you offer. One word is not going to grab anybodies attention.

Photos should be enticing.

Best advice is look at other single guy profiles, especially the more successful one and try to emulate them. Obviously don't copy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say you start chatting with someone, are we talking about chat in chat rooms or are you referring to private messages?

To be fair, I'm surprised you're getting that far. Your forum post here is longer and more informative that the bio on your profile - and, let's face it, anyone you message is going to look at your profile before they even think about opening that message.

Your profile says absolutely nothing about you. Nothing about what you like or, more importantly, what you bring to the table.

And I'm afraid to say that the majority of those who look at your profile are going to be thinking the same as me - complete lack of effort.

Seriously fella, it looks like you've signed up to fab and knocked that profile up in less than five minutes thinking that was all you'd have to do to be fighting women off with a shitty stick by lunch time.

Effort in = rewards out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK thanks so much everyone for the comments, pretty much all hit the nail on the head, just changed my info, so I will put in the hard work and see what happens, cheers again all, and more comments and suggestions are still welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you say you start chatting with someone, are we talking about chat in chat rooms or are you referring to private messages?

To be fair, I'm surprised you're getting that far. Your forum post here is longer and more informative that the bio on your profile - and, let's face it, anyone you message is going to look at your profile before they even think about opening that message.

Your profile says absolutely nothing about you. Nothing about what you like or, more importantly, what you bring to the table.

And I'm afraid to say that the majority of those who look at your profile are going to be thinking the same as me - complete lack of effort.

Seriously fella, it looks like you've signed up to fab and knocked that profile up in less than five minutes thinking that was all you'd have to do to be fighting women off with a shitty stick by lunch time.

Effort in = rewards out"

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