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By *amv1995 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

Evening, an (covid safe) opportunity has arisen!

I have been invited to join a couple for an evening soon, to say im alittle apprehensive is an understatment, its my first time with a couple… they know this! But could any more experience couples/singles give some secrets into the world im about to enter? I just dont want to come across as a complete amateur!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself. I'm sure if they know you're a first timer they'll make allowances and put up with some nerves. They might even think it's sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also a bit disingenuous to say it's your first time when your profile says you've done cuck/hotwife scenarios.

Which is it?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m not sure there’s a secret. But be honest with yourself and them. Communication is key. Be yourself, and give it a go. The best way to find out if it’s for you is to try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be respectful of their relationship and boundaries, you can't go wrong. Overthinking it can sometimes effect how the meet goes.. relax and have fun!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Take a deep breath..be yourself...they obviously like you.

Go with the flow and take your time and enjoy.

Good luck...not that you'll need it.

Nerves are to be expected.

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By *amv1995 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton


"Also a bit disingenuous to say it's your first time when your profile says you've done cuck/hotwife scenarios.

Which is it? "

Cuckhold yes… this is an evening with both him and her, playing as a 3!

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By *amv1995 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton


"I’m not sure there’s a secret. But be honest with yourself and them. Communication is key. Be yourself, and give it a go. The best way to find out if it’s for you is to try it. "

Thanks for the vote of confidence mate! Very much needed. Ive played with wifes before… never as a 3, not sure that changes much, but for me it feels completely new!

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By *amv1995 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton


"Take a deep breath..be yourself...they obviously like you.

Go with the flow and take your time and enjoy.

Good luck...not that you'll need it.

Nerves are to be expected."

Very very kind of you. Thankyou!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Hi for a drink first maybe?

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By *amv1995 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton


"Hi for a drink first maybe? "

I know the couple well, its mainly nerves/excitement about playing with the both of them, its new territory for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no secret just be yourself and relax. Nerves come with it and are natural, have fun

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Be yourself and just let things happen naturally, there's no secret to it really it's different for everyone, just be respectful of their boundaries etc, I for example normally let the couple lead a lot of time x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s great being nervous. I love the butterflies.

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By *amv1995 OP   Man
over a year ago

luton

Just to let you know, the evening went better than expected, we all had a really fun time, have arranged to meet again in a few weeks! Thanks all for your advice! X

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"It’s great being nervous. I love the butterflies. "

Stagefright can be really good, ask any AM/DRAMer

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Hi for a drink first maybe?

I know the couple well, its mainly nerves/excitement about playing with the both of them, its new territory for me!"

Should be ok then, just go with the flow

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Just to let you know, the evening went better than expected, we all had a really fun time, have arranged to meet again in a few weeks! Thanks all for your advice! X"

Ah great OP..glad you enjoyed your evening

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