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By *histle79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Someone told me this as a way of a reply. Does that mean they don’t think they have a chance with me or that I don’t have a chance with them…?

I’m assuming it’s the latter

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

I'd say it's the former...although that's a bit strange if you've messaged them first.

Of course, it might just be what they think of as a polite, softly-softly way of declining.

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By *histle79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Who knows!?!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If they said it to you I would think they mean you’re out of their league meaning they’re not good enough for you but as Lily said it’s a bit of an odd thing to say if you messaged them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no league on fab just sexual compatibility

Or lust fun or fun because yous get on and find each other’s chat good

That’s what makes fab so good

People from all walks off life can been from the rich to the poor form the famous to the average joe it’s what makes fab so wonderful

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

That's me fucked then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone told me this as a way of a reply. Does that mean they don’t think they have a chance with me or that I don’t have a chance with them…?

I’m assuming it’s the latter

"

When I say it I mean the person is too hot for me and I don't have a chance with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone told me this as a way of a reply. Does that mean they don’t think they have a chance with me or that I don’t have a chance with them…?

I’m assuming it’s the latter

When I say it I mean the person is too hot for me and I don't have a chance with them.

"

You were meant to keep that quiet

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By *histle79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

If it’s that then it’s a great compliment !

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If it’s that then it’s a great compliment !"

Did you send a face pic?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"That's me fucked then "

And not in a good way!

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By *histle79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"If it’s that then it’s a great compliment !

Did you send a face pic?"

Yep, that’s all I sent (plus message)

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

It means they feel you are too good for them makes me sad people feel that way but I guess it’s a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's me fucked then "

Oh go on then. I’m game if you are

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

Rather a sad way of looking at things. Where all attracted to different things. If someone said to me i was out their league i wouldnt want to meet them anyway. I like quitely confident guys

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Someone told me this as a way of a reply. Does that mean they don’t think they have a chance with me or that I don’t have a chance with them…?

I’m assuming it’s the latter

"

We've said the very same thing to people who have messaged us!

We just don't feel that we'd be comfortable with them.

Yeah, I get that it's our issue and looks don't matter etc. but sometimes they bloody do.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It could be that she didn't fancy you and was using it as an excuse or she genuinely thinks you are out of her league x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Rather a sad way of looking at things. Where all attracted to different things. If someone said to me i was out their league i wouldnt want to meet them anyway. I like quitely confident guys"

Yeah I don’t like the phrase at all. There are no leagues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone told me this as a way of a reply. Does that mean they don’t think they have a chance with me or that I don’t have a chance with them…?

I’m assuming it’s the latter

When I say it I mean the person is too hot for me and I don't have a chance with them.

"

.

Outsider:

As if!!! With tits like yours?? I’m out of your league!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone told me this as a way of a reply. Does that mean they don’t think they have a chance with me or that I don’t have a chance with them…?

I’m assuming it’s the latter

When I say it I mean the person is too hot for me and I don't have a chance with them.

.

Outsider:

As if!!! With tits like yours?? I’m out of your league!!"

Filters make them look better than reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone told me this as a way of a reply. Does that mean they don’t think they have a chance with me or that I don’t have a chance with them…?

I’m assuming it’s the latter

When I say it I mean the person is too hot for me and I don't have a chance with them.

.

Outsider:

As if!!! With tits like yours?? I’m out of your league!!

Filters make them look better than reality.

"

If only I could get my hands on them.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don't usually say it but I have thought it lots of times and not replied for that reason.

Although they have shown interest, it's based on very limited information and a 1 in a million picture of me that happens to be decent.

Not feeling the pressure as much here on Fab because it's casual but I can definitely relate to the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's definitely leagues on here ..I'm in conference league on here but division 1 in real life pushing for play off positions hahap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *histle79 OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

We’re talking now so not all bad. But I hadn’t come across that before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't usually say it but I have thought it lots of times and not replied for that reason.

Although they have shown interest, it's based on very limited information and a 1 in a million picture of me that happens to be decent.

Not feeling the pressure as much here on Fab because it's casual but I can definitely relate to the person."

.

It’s a very sad sentiment as you’re basing it on your own bias to decide what another is attracted to.

You’re depriving someone of the opportunity to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means they feel you are too good for them makes me sad people feel that way but I guess it’s a compliment "

Sounds like you have heard this too often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's definitely leagues on here ..I'm in conference league on here but division 1 in real life pushing for play off positions hahap"

Would you say the league here of your own making? It’s what everyone imagines to be a league.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

My league is very small.

So small it tends to get forgotten about - like Monaco.

But like Monaco - I'll make you do "Wow".

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