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Do u trust people who say send a pic then they say no to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Answers below

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I think its only fair to give and receive on in return...if they've requested one

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No...if they wouldn't send one..Nor would I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want a pic .. be sure to send one .. !

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

No way if they requested one it’s only fair to expect one back

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The request is probably because that person hasn’t either got any pictures at all, or no face picture. So it’s not unreasonable to ask for a picture and if you’re not interested then turn that person down.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Answers below "
why do I need to trust someone. Although I dont need to send a photo as have plenty of face photos...

But in the past when I didn't, I'd expect some people not to want to meet me after seeing a face photo.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont get games people play with photos. I always had a clear face picture on my profile and expected one in return. If you cant have one on your profile send with first message. Some will like you and some wont. What would the point be of someone sending a return picture if theyve already rejected you

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

If you're asking for a face pic, send a face pic.

Gbat

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I often send them when asked to then get the sorry not for me after they've stated yours gets mine but 99%of the time yours doesn't get theirs op

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think if someone wants to see my face, they should send their pic too.

I've had this in past, people asking, but weren't willing to reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have not got a face picture on our profile but have in our friends photos . When we send a message or receive a message we always send a face picture so they know who they are talking too .

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I often send them when asked to then get the sorry not for me after they've stated yours gets mine but 99%of the time yours doesn't get theirs op

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

If I'm interested enough to ask for a pic, I will send mine in the message, however I am not sending mine when they ask, especially when they are just curious to know what I look like...

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Answers below why do I need to trust someone. Although I dont need to send a photo as have plenty of face photos...

But in the past when I didn't, I'd expect some people not to want to meet me after seeing a face photo. "

We show our faces. If they don't want to meet us, that's fine.

If they dont want to send one to us that's also fine.

.but it wont lead to a meet.

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Op you got get used to the fact women and couples hold the balance of power on here so they decide if your worth a pic but u have to send yours first in hope to receive and like I said above the chances of receiving one in return is very slim,better to get to know them casually through chat and let them make the first move or send their pic for you to reciprocate I've found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone messaged me asking for a face pic, I would expect them to have attached one themselves, if they hadn’t I would not send mine.

No one is obliged to send a face pic, even if someone has sent theirs. If you aren’t interested, it’s your right to say no and to not send one.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Ultimately you have the choice whether to send a face pic or not.

I don't send them on demand, nor do I ask for them. If I've been chatting to someone & there is a connection, & it feels like it might potentially lead to a meet, then I will send them a face pic. It's up to them whether they send one in return, I certainly don't expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it a question of a trust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They asked, you took a leap of faith, they said no.. where does trust come into it? Maybe I didn't get it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trust nobody!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I trust nobody! "

Not even me?

Pfffffft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust nobody! "

Changing username to nobody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust nobody!

Not even me?

Pfffffft. "

I trust you with my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust nobody!

Changing username to nobody. "

I trust you with my cum blobs and my life!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

That is everyone I send a face pic to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust nobody!

Changing username to nobody.

I trust you with my cum blobs and my life! "

Oh the glory of the blobs. I thought this day would never come. Sniff Sniff.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I trust nobody!

Not even me?

Pfffffft.

I trust you with my life!

"

That's because you know my buns of steel are bulletproof.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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If I approach a person first I will send a photo and if someone approaches me first I ask for a pic to be attached.

The choice to contact someone who wants a photo is always yours - nobody forces you to message that profile

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I trust nobody! "

Quite right too! You have a pretty face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send if asked. Nothing to lose

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My face normally has them running for their life

Or

Laughing so much they need a Tena Lady.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

All our pics are available public. If someone doesn’t have any or very coy ones we wanna see who they are. If they’re not for us, then we wouldn’t continue. That’s fair, isn’t it?

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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Leeds & Harrogate

Its their prerogative. There is NO obligation to post or send pics.

Having said that I do know where you are coming from of course. But some people (for work and other reasons) may need to remain anonymous or not have any digital way of being recognised. As an example we've met a fairly famous TV personality via here. But she needed to hide her identity. So, yes, at 1st we were a bit "oh she's messing us about/time waster" type of gut reaction. But we ended up pleasantly surprised.

There are other things as well as pics to ascertain 'validity' or even 'trust'. We have these here fangled things called telephones these days. They're great... you can even talk to each other!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the site needs to change its way tbh too many catfish profiles on here I like what u said about friends seeing face pic in friends request maybe the site should change it to this sort of way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site needs to change its way tbh too many catfish profiles on here I like what u said about friends seeing face pic in friends request maybe the site should change it to this sort of way "

How should it change? I still don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't exchange face pics straight away, and often the people I speak to value discretion too so I tend not to bring up face pics unless we're getting along really well. I don't mind if they don't fancy me after that - I can't be everybody's type!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I never go first but i always reciprocate.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I wouldn't ask for one if I wasn't prepared to send one in return, however? If they sent me one first and they're really not.my cup of tea, it's pointless me sending one back as I won't be meeting them.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

As I know I'm not a psycho stalker who would make someone's life a misery after being rejected, I don't send my face pic first.

Learnt that lesson the hard way.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I wouldn't ask for one if I wasn't prepared to send one in return, however? If they sent me one first and they're really not.my cup of tea, it's pointless me sending one back as I won't be meeting them."

And they could use your photo for revenge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ask for one if I wasn't prepared to send one in return, however? If they sent me one first and they're really not.my cup of tea, it's pointless me sending one back as I won't be meeting them.

And they could use your photo for revenge."

I hear that best thing is to stay away from the bad minded ones and stick to the discreet ones who treat you good and don’t talk there private life.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

We would never send pics especially OH, unless there was a good enough reason. If they wanted to see what we looked like there is always cam in chat.

If people ask for pictures without actually making any effort or conversation then its goodbye from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More answers below!!!!

Tony

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't ask for one if I wasn't prepared to send one in return, however? If they sent me one first and they're really not.my cup of tea, it's pointless me sending one back as I won't be meeting them."

Best thing is when u do get that connection with someone who’s real and someone you meet

Just got to watch the catfish on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an age old conundrum of sites like this

People expect you to compromise your anonymity whilst preserving their own

It won't go away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the site needs to change its way tbh too many catfish profiles on here I like what u said about friends seeing face pic in friends request maybe the site should change it to this sort of way

How should it change? I still don't understand. "

Cause there’s a lot of fake profiles and you don’t really no who’s behind the profile

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We have enough pics on our profile to probably do a photo fit and know what we looked like

I think it depends on the other person as to how open we are with face pics. If you’ve only got 1 photo on your profile then we’d expect to see more of yours as we’ve got plenty so you can form an opinion easily of us.

If a face pic is sent to us and we didn’t want to pursue things we wouldn’t send ours - as there’s no point (here’s what you could have had ) and equally we’ve had it where we’ve sent ours first and not had one back.

There’s no set rules, we just assess it as a request comes in…

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned down a meet with a couple after sending my pic to them at their request then they refused to send one back but still wanted me to meet them blind

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I think the site needs to change its way tbh too many catfish profiles on here I like what u said about friends seeing face pic in friends request maybe the site should change it to this sort of way

How should it change? I still don't understand.

Cause there’s a lot of fake profiles and you don’t really no who’s behind the profile "

But a face pic won't stop catfish, fake profiles can easily send fake face pics.

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