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By *ussieChris OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall

A touchy subject for some, but I'm asking anyway. Sorry in advance if this causes any hastles.

Has anyone ever been caught out when having sex, not being able to finish?

How did it effect you?

How did it effect your partner of the moment?

I know there are medicines etc that can effect your performance etc, I'm on some of those meds . What caused it for you?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I had a partner who only came about once a month. I just got used to the fact that he probably wouldn't ejaculate and it was nothing to do with him not enjoying it. We had great sex.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I sometimes don't....but it's all about the taking part .. not about who finishes when

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

In my last relationship, he never bothered to make me cum and would happily leave me to finish myself off after he'd done his deed. Definitely not about that life anymore!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"In my last relationship, he never bothered to make me cum and would happily leave me to finish myself off after he'd done his deed. Definitely not about that life anymore!"
that's mean of him

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By *ussieChris OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"In my last relationship, he never bothered to make me cum and would happily leave me to finish myself off after he'd done his deed. Definitely not about that life anymore!"

Wow that's harsh of him.. Well let's hope he shivels up and can't get it up anymore...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often don’t cum but doesn’t mean I enjoy it any less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had times when I haven't cum with no discernible reason. I can keep going and I know it's not going to happen and eventually just stop. It's annoying but hasn't been a big deal for either me or the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I can't cross the finishing line due to medication side-effects. It's frustrating. Still lots of other fun to be had though.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Why do you say caught out?

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By *ussieChris OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"Why do you say caught out?"

Caught out as in wasn't expecting it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's definitely times that I have struggled- annoyingly I find it hard ti finish first thing in the morning which is a bit shit as I like snuggly morning sex.

If we've gone for round 2 or 3 then it can occasionally happen but doesn't leave me at all frustrated then.

Mr

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"There's definitely times that I have struggled- annoyingly I find it hard ti finish first thing in the morning which is a bit shit as I like snuggly morning sex.

If we've gone for round 2 or 3 then it can occasionally happen but doesn't leave me at all frustrated then.

Mr"

I’m the complete opposite, can go for hours at night but nearly always wake with a huge hard on around 4-6am and last maybe 15-30 mins tops !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone has times where they don’t cum, but it doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy it. It’s about the whole experience.

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By *ussieChris OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Sweet, so the general consensus is that, it happens.. don't stress.

Cheers all. Not as worried now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens , sometimes if I am having sex just for the sake of having sex then I start thinking why the hell am I having sex because I am bored while having sex.

It just kills the whole vibe.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"It happens , sometimes if I am having sex just for the sake of having sex then I start thinking why the hell am I having sex because I am bored while having sex.

It just kills the whole vibe.

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So why bother ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens , sometimes if I am having sex just for the sake of having sex then I start thinking why the hell am I having sex because I am bored while having sex.

It just kills the whole vibe.

So why bother ?"

Just for the sake of having sex.

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