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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do older women actually fantasise over younger men, or is it a myth ?

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Do older women actually fantasise over younger men, or is it a myth ? "

It is a myth.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We know one woman who goes for men twenty years younger than her and usually gets annoyed at their lack of maturity.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

younger men are hot to look at and fuck once or twice ... but that's it... you soon get bored and unfulfilled by their immaturity

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"We know one woman who goes for men twenty years younger than her and usually gets annoyed at their lack of maturity. "

About right isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it’s easy to tarnish a whole demographic with one brush, when the majority are. But I can assure you that not all of us are lacking maturity ??

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

The best thing about being into cougars at an early age is that eventually you'll be the same age. Just be patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do older women actually fantasise over younger men, or is it a myth ? "

It’s a bit of a myth

We have to balance the immaturity and lack of conversation from a younger man with the older one who is bitter about his ex and moans about her all the time.

So Cubs generally win

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By *otwife Lilith and LeoCouple
over a year ago

NW London

More of a reality for me, as I only meet imaginative young men in their twenties.

Lilith x

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Let's just say, I wish I was in my youth again, when I was a pioneer of Milf's, Gilf's, and toy boys. One of the classics being a police sergeants wife who requested me to have sex with her wearing only cowboy boots, and stetson hat, as was a bit of a fashion back in the days of, "Midnight Cowboy," and "Who shot JR?" Try keeping a Stetson hat from slipping over the end of your nose when you are in full swing in the front of a Triumph 2000, with the reclining seats down, not easy!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Love them

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Fantasise? No.

Do we meet them? Yes.

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By *reativeBurnsWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Fantasise? No.

Do we meet them? Yes."

Same for me. Usually when I’m talking to or meet a younger guy he’s like “so you like younger guys “

But like I don’t like them cause they’re young. If anything it’s despite them being young. It’s not a fantasy to me. But if I vibe with a person I won’t care so much about age.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Do older women actually fantasise over younger men, or is it a myth ? "

A young man is a mythter, not a myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bobcat not full grown cougar yet.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Are all women the same?

Do all young men fantasise about older women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like threads like this only add fuel to the fire of showing younger guys as immature.

Older women believe we see them as some sort of conquest which makes it harder to have a genuine conversation with them to show the depth to our personalities. Just my 2 cents anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"younger men are hot to look at and fuck once or twice ... but that's it... you soon get bored and unfulfilled by their immaturity "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"younger men are hot to look at and fuck once or twice ... but that's it... you soon get bored and unfulfilled by their immaturity "

Bit harsh, I'm more than a penis dammit!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I feel like threads like this only add fuel to the fire of showing younger guys as immature.

Older women believe we see them as some sort of conquest which makes it harder to have a genuine conversation with them to show the depth to our personalities. Just my 2 cents anyway "

Not really because we know the mature ones and the idiots who see older women as a conquest or a bucket list tick off. I know you and I don’t really see an age thing when I chat to you because you’re not an immature little fuckboy like some of them are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like threads like this only add fuel to the fire of showing younger guys as immature.

Older women believe we see them as some sort of conquest which makes it harder to have a genuine conversation with them to show the depth to our personalities. Just my 2 cents anyway

Not really because we know the mature ones and the idiots who see older women as a conquest or a bucket list tick off. I know you and I don’t really see an age thing when I chat to you because you’re not an immature little fuckboy like some of them are x"

Awww you and your way with words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like threads like this only add fuel to the fire of showing younger guys as immature.

Older women believe we see them as some sort of conquest which makes it harder to have a genuine conversation with them to show the depth to our personalities. Just my 2 cents anyway

Not really because we know the mature ones and the idiots who see older women as a conquest or a bucket list tick off. I know you and I don’t really see an age thing when I chat to you because you’re not an immature little fuckboy like some of them are x

Awww you and your way with words "

WOW

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I feel like threads like this only add fuel to the fire of showing younger guys as immature.

Older women believe we see them as some sort of conquest which makes it harder to have a genuine conversation with them to show the depth to our personalities. Just my 2 cents anyway

Not really because we know the mature ones and the idiots who see older women as a conquest or a bucket list tick off. I know you and I don’t really see an age thing when I chat to you because you’re not an immature little fuckboy like some of them are x

Awww you and your way with words

WOW "

You don’t agree?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I feel like threads like this only add fuel to the fire of showing younger guys as immature.

Older women believe we see them as some sort of conquest which makes it harder to have a genuine conversation with them to show the depth to our personalities. Just my 2 cents anyway

Not really because we know the mature ones and the idiots who see older women as a conquest or a bucket list tick off. I know you and I don’t really see an age thing when I chat to you because you’re not an immature little fuckboy like some of them are x"

I agree with Foolhardly, and I agree with Nora.

This is quite the day!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Are all women the same?

Do all young men fantasise about older women?"

Most of them

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Do older women actually fantasise over younger men, or is it a myth ? "

I think lots of different people have lots of different fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll need to wait until I'm older and report back

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I'll need to wait until I'm older and report back "

Haha yeah your a bit young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a cougar so I do

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

The best aren't they

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford


"Do older women actually fantasise over younger men, or is it a myth ? "

I got called a cougar once........grrrr

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"Do older women actually fantasise over younger men, or is it a myth ? "

It’s hit and myth

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I like younger than me

but alot younger they seem to be very needy and constantly wanting to meet and don't get it or like it if I'm busy with my family and life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it’s all down to the individual , just like some men like older women and some like younger women everyone has their preferences I guess

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"younger men are hot to look at and fuck once or twice ... but that's it... you soon get bored and unfulfilled by their immaturity

Bit harsh, I'm more than a penis dammit!"

It's a shame how many of young guys tarnish that statement of being "more than just a penis"... most act totally superficial and self centred in their approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"younger men are hot to look at and fuck once or twice ... but that's it... you soon get bored and unfulfilled by their immaturity

Bit harsh, I'm more than a penis dammit!

It's a shame how many of young guys tarnish that statement of being "more than just a penis"... most act totally superficial and self centred in their approach. "

I think like you said, it's sign of immaturity which may apply to both men and women. Young men may act superficial in their approach but there are younger women who tend to like that as they take it as a sign of confidence. I think older women appreciate the inner confidence of men a lot more.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


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I think like you said, it's sign of immaturity which may apply to both men and women. Young men may act superficial in their approach but there are younger women who tend to like that as they take it as a sign of confidence. I think older women appreciate the inner confidence of men a lot more."

Inner confidence shows all by itself. It's "Big Dick Energy" - as the young people say

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I feel like threads like this only add fuel to the fire of showing younger guys as immature.

Older women believe we see them as some sort of conquest which makes it harder to have a genuine conversation with them to show the depth to our personalities. Just my 2 cents anyway "

Yes, this is exactly my perception when 21 year olds message me. Admittedly, a prejudice, but it is very characteristic that they all* use inflated compliments to try and get my attention, immediately failing, because it comes across as insincere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think like you said, it's sign of immaturity which may apply to both men and women. Young men may act superficial in their approach but there are younger women who tend to like that as they take it as a sign of confidence. I think older women appreciate the inner confidence of men a lot more.

Inner confidence shows all by itself. It's "Big Dick Energy" - as the young people say "

That's true, I guess it's all about being confident with yourself and not caring how that shows to others which can be more prevalent in older men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like threads like this only add fuel to the fire of showing younger guys as immature.

Older women believe we see them as some sort of conquest which makes it harder to have a genuine conversation with them to show the depth to our personalities. Just my 2 cents anyway

Yes, this is exactly my perception when 21 year olds message me. Admittedly, a prejudice, but it is very characteristic that they all* use inflated compliments to try and get my attention, immediately failing, because it comes across as insincere. "

Like the point I made above, that could just be because that's what works for most younger women who like to feel special and above others. They learn eventually, even if they have to crash and burn a few times

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