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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So who believes you have like a soul mate or whatever out there ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some degree I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sew that just made me start singing Echo & the Bunnymen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its possible to have more than one? Theres an awful lot of people in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met mine. He was everything. He swept me off my feet. I fell madly in love with him and it felt completely like we were meant to be. Sadly it transpired he was a fucked up narcissistic liar who was married to someone else.

So yes I believe they exist but that doesn't mean it always works out.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Well it would be nice but I think mine needs directions or something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I was a little short on my opening , I believe in people having someone who is perfectly suited for them , but at the same time , whether they ever find them or not is a completely different story

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes. But I think that there are different facets to everyone's soul and as a result it's unlikely there is just one soul mate for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a soul mate but I do sometimes get the feeling of fate happening.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have to believe it is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in soulmates, you can connect with many people throughout your lifetime. We connect with people through attraction, interests, morals and life goals.. the rest is up to you to put the work in to a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soul mate yes

But a soul mate doesn’t necessarily mean a life long partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do indeed.

What will be will be, We will meet certain people who will significantly impact on us good and bad.

As for soulmates yes… does this mean you’re destined to be together perhaps not. Right time right place and circumstances

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"So who believes you have like a soul mate or whatever out there ?? "

Be nice to just find someone compactible and available who adores me

... it's like the million pound wish... like the lottery, I never win it

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

I have loved and I have lost… but I have never as yet found a soul mate.

Is that good thing or a bad thing ?

When I think on it further… I’m happy with that and have yet to find out what life throws at me

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I found mine, but whether it was "destiny*" or just plain luck, I'll never know.

*I can only hear the word "destiny" in Darth Vader's voice

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I did.

And now I don't.

Well not me personally. Other people then yeah, rock on and be happy.

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By *elightfulharmonyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d like to believe there is someone out there for everyone

I’m yet to cross paths with mine and times a ticking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soul mates are forged! It takes years - in the fires of passion x the stresses of life x

Don’t kid yourself - if it’s instantly done it’s instantly undone

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes. I was 41 before i found mine

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

I had one but 2020 took her

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Yes.. But they're not always the person your meant to be with forever! I feel like some people are my tribe whether I know them for short or long times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did but not so sure now

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


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I had one but 2020 took her "

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Hi op I did but I'm very unsure now however I try to keep an open mind xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I had one but 2020 took her "

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes but I don't believe you will only have one

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I think there are lots of people out there that could be great partners. I find it a bit of a pessimistic outlook to think there might only be one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to believe but not anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to believe but not anymore!"
snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicky is definitely my other half.

Just a shame that I am a twat and so is she, making us 100% twats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't used to think so but do now. Going to test the theory at long last tomorrow, as it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I definitely believe it. I think there is someone for everyone. It's just about being lucky enough to find them.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes, I definitely believe it. I think there is someone for everyone. It's just about being lucky enough to find them. "

But if it's fate, it's not luck. It was meant to be. And if it was mean to be, that means you had zero choice and nothing you did would ever change the outcome.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes i do.

I am a hopeful romantic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in fate or destiny. I don't believe in soul mates or 'the one'. We will all be compatible with a number of people. Whether or not we find them is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I definitely believe it. I think there is someone for everyone. It's just about being lucky enough to find them.

But if it's fate, it's not luck. It was meant to be. And if it was mean to be, that means you had zero choice and nothing you did would ever change the outcome. "

I understand what you are saying but in my head I am making sense!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not really, that would require believ

ing in a soul.

Tim Minchin says it best in his song If I didn't have you (someone else would do).

The full lyrics are worth a read.

Mr

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Coningsby

I used to until 4 years ago but then she cheated and we got divorced

Now not so sure but happy to be proven wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do believe in soulmates but you have to shovel through a whole load of shite before you find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soul mates, maybe... Just one... No

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No

I don’t think I I do really. I don’t “believe” in much. I’m not one for fate/karma and all that stuff. Things just happen. No reason. They just do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So who believes you have like a soul mate or whatever out there ??

Be nice to just find someone compactible and available who adores me

... it's like the million pound wish... like the lottery, I never win it "

I’d happily fold myself into your cleavage pocket x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

I don’t think I I do really. I don’t “believe” in much. I’m not one for fate/karma and all that stuff. Things just happen. No reason. They just do. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can have more than one soulmate. They come for you to learn your lessons, and then they stay or move on, depending what you need.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'd like to think so but even if there was the chances of ever finding them are slim to none sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can have more than one soulmate. They come for you to learn your lessons, and then they stay or move on, depending what you need.

"

I like this

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"So who believes you have like a soul mate or whatever out there ?? "

Not so much soul mates.

But energies do attract to each other.

Some are more compatible than others. But an energy comes into your life for a reason.

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I believe in fate....if you are meant to be then eventually you will always find a way back to each other, regardless of life choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I have a soul with which to find a mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met mine. He was everything. He swept me off my feet. I fell madly in love with him and it felt completely like we were meant to be. Sadly it transpired he was a fucked up narcissistic liar who was married to someone else.

So yes I believe they exist but that doesn't mean it always works out. "

Same!

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

They say Odin and Freya were destined to be together since the dawn of time and nothing could change that. My own experiences when my OH I met it was like an electric charge. It was like suddenly the whole world made sense, the missing piece of my personal jigsaw of life was found and the whole picture now made sense. Fate, destiny, forces of nature, there is definitely something in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a lovely idea

There are a lot of people in the world - maybe there are a few people who could be soul mates out there for all of us?

Sometimes its about being in the right place- physically and in your life - at the right time.

Not everyone gets to meet that special person at the right time.

I still like the idea and the romance of finding that special person

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I found mine

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I met mine. He was everything. He swept me off my feet. I fell madly in love with him and it felt completely like we were meant to be. Sadly it transpired he was a fucked up narcissistic liar who was married to someone else.

So yes I believe they exist but that doesn't mean it always works out. "

So true .happened 2 me orther way around x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can have more than one soulmate. They come for you to learn your lessons, and then they stay or move on, depending what you need.

I like this "

It’s what I believe

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because we are designed to love/care for more than one person I don't believe in soul mates x

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