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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have now had 2 couples both be very interested in seeing me and then flake. One on Saturday, meet was set up was just waiting on the address and then blocked and the other reached out to me asking for a mfm to only ignore me and block me when it came to setting a meet up.

Anyone else have this issue or is it just me that people want to mess about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens often. Could be just a man wanking. Or the husband set up a meet without the wife knowing. Or something real life came up so they couldn't make it anymore.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"I have now had 2 couples both be very interested in seeing me and then flake. One on Saturday, meet was set up was just waiting on the address and then blocked and the other reached out to me asking for a mfm to only ignore me and block me when it came to setting a meet up.

Anyone else have this issue or is it just me that people want to mess about?"

Try and stay away from new unverified by a meet profiles!

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think you have been talking to single males OP

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens often. Could be just a man wanking. Or the husband set up a meet without the wife knowing. Or something real life came up so they couldn't make it anymore."

But then why wouldn't they just ask to reschedule?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you have been talking to single males OP

Jo x"

You think?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I think you have been talking to single males OP

Jo x

You think?"

I do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab. "

How do you wein through them to actually get a meet? Cause I'm yet to get one this time around

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It happens.

We were the flaky couple in a situation yesterday. We did tell the person that our plans had to change with good notice though

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab.

How do you wein through them to actually get a meet? Cause I'm yet to get one this time around "

Do you have sex chats?

If so it was just for wank material.

Don't get into the sex chat, and you're less likely to have this problem, in my experience .

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab.

How do you wein through them to actually get a meet? Cause I'm yet to get one this time around "

You go to clubs or socials when they're back up and running, unless only goal is emptyting your balls then you go to someone who provides that service at a fee.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people are not compatible with most other people. Ut takes time to work things out, so the further you progress in evaluation, it just potentially needs 1 thing to stop it going further - especially if there's any hesitancy. People don't just speak with 1 other, so it can also be that the others are better matched and this includes for availability, preferences etc, as well as physical and personality.

Not fulfilling an agreed time/place/location meet isn't acceptable though. They should be reported.

Blocking happens when they don't want to go any further. A polite explanation should be made, if the definite meet is off though, to save wasted investment.

Learn as you go, refining your filtering technique.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab.

How do you wein through them to actually get a meet? Cause I'm yet to get one this time around "

We've only had a couple of weeks of meetings, so it's very early days and many of us have yet to arrange a meet.

Single men will always have to have appropriate expectations and patience, whilst investing lots of effort to make success here initially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have now had 2 couples both be very interested in seeing me and then flake. One on Saturday, meet was set up was just waiting on the address and then blocked and the other reached out to me asking for a mfm to only ignore me and block me when it came to setting a meet up.

Anyone else have this issue or is it just me that people want to mess about?

Try and stay away from new unverified by a meet profiles! "

It's not just them.

I've had similar from Meet verified people

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab.

How do you wein through them to actually get a meet? Cause I'm yet to get one this time around

You go to clubs or socials when they're back up and running, unless only goal is emptyting your balls then you go to someone who provides that service at a fee."

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By *unandfriendship4uMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I wasted a year of my fab life being led on and no shows.hence why i like the clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens.

We were the flaky couple in a situation yesterday. We did tell the person that our plans had to change with good notice though"

They gave no notice at all. Just ignored and then blocked when I asked if we were still on for 'today'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab.

How do you wein through them to actually get a meet? Cause I'm yet to get one this time around

Do you have sex chats?

If so it was just for wank material.

Don't get into the sex chat, and you're less likely to have this problem, in my experience ."

Nah. No sex chat. Just talking about kinks and how the meet would play out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most people are not compatible with most other people. Ut takes time to work things out, so the further you progress in evaluation, it just potentially needs 1 thing to stop it going further - especially if there's any hesitancy. People don't just speak with 1 other, so it can also be that the others are better matched and this includes for availability, preferences etc, as well as physical and personality.

Not fulfilling an agreed time/place/location meet isn't acceptable though. They should be reported.

Blocking happens when they don't want to go any further. A polite explanation should be made, if the definite meet is off though, to save wasted investment.

Learn as you go, refining your filtering technique. "

So you think they both found someone better?

They definitely should have said something instead of blocking and ignoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab.

How do you wein through them to actually get a meet? Cause I'm yet to get one this time around

Do you have sex chats?

If so it was just for wank material.

Don't get into the sex chat, and you're less likely to have this problem, in my experience .

Nah. No sex chat. Just talking about kinks and how the meet would play out "

That's sex chat. He had a wank and doesn't need to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens alot on here, you report them to admin and all that gets done is they block you from messaging each other and leave them on the site to repeat it with the next people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The world is full of flakes, and not just on Fab.

How do you wein through them to actually get a meet? Cause I'm yet to get one this time around

Do you have sex chats?

If so it was just for wank material.

Don't get into the sex chat, and you're less likely to have this problem, in my experience .

Nah. No sex chat. Just talking about kinks and how the meet would play out

That's sex chat. He had a wank and doesn't need to meet you."

I was thinking the same thing that sounds a lot like sex chat to me.

In my experience at least 20/30% of couples profile on here are single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have now had 2 couples both be very interested in seeing me and then flake. One on Saturday, meet was set up was just waiting on the address and then blocked and the other reached out to me asking for a mfm to only ignore me and block me when it came to setting a meet up.

Anyone else have this issue or is it just me that people want to mess about?"

Keep your pecker up.

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