FabSwingers.com forum: Are you an open book or a mystery?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When opening a discussion e.g. messaging or chatting, do you prefer to be frank and candid about yourself or to leave plenty to the imagination, yet to be discovered?

I'll confess to the former. People being mysterious always looks like they've got something to hide, or maybe I'm just cynical

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I don't think I could be more transparent if I tried

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Open book.

But I seem to have lost some of them. Maybe they're with my marbles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, I'm open as in I'll always be honest with people if they ask me something. But at the same time, you can't give everything of yourself to everyone, trust needs to be earnt for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much a wide open book

best way to be so there’s no confusion haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit off both more keep working life and fab life separate

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I'm an enigma wrapped in a mystery.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm pretty much an open book, I'll happily explain that I suffer from anxiety and body confidence issues. Open book about what my bits look like no

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I'm a mystery wrapped in an enigma

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'll be open about the things I want to be. I don't hide things I just don't tell people stuff I don't want to I've kicked around life and the internet long enough to know that there are people looking to find the smallest weakness

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When we get to a point of taking the chat away from here we are very open with people. We find it’s the best way to be, so they become more open, so we all get to know each other better.

We have become good friends with people this way so when we do meet, it’s just the next step of the friendship formed

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I am a mystery, wrapped in an enigma, wrapped in a conundrum, lost in a Scotch mist.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I would go as far as to say secretative. I don’t see any reason to change that really

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I am open and honest to a point. I have a fab life and a private life, I tend to keep the two of them separate. I respect anyone who does the same and I don't enquire, ask questions about anyone's personal life. If they want to divulge anything outside of their fab life then that is up to them.

Happy fabbing everyone. ??

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have double lives real life and fab life

My friends and regular playmates cross into my real life happily

The rest don't need to know anything about my real life details, me and my personality is enough

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

A bit of both. I don't give out a lot of personal information because I found out the hard way early on some people will try and use it against you on here even if it's to try and force you to meet them.

But if someone gains my trust then I'm an open book to them but it takes a good while to do that especially on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fairly open. As I've been told my profile is pretty 'realistic' anyway so if you've read that and contact me you should have a fairly good idea of what to expect.

I might generate a bit of mystery on the forums with some of my postings but I'm fairly frank and open when talking about MH issues on here.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’m pretty open - but wouldn’t put a banner in the front window saying ‘Hey - I’m a swinger’.

However - I’m very open and honest If I fancy someone and want to get jiggy with them - and try to be tactful if I don’t.

I’m a bit of a wimp with people I don’t like though - I’d generally rather just avoid them rather than confront them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide everything. I hate when people ask questions. Easiest way to avoid it is to either ignore, distract or make something up.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm pretty open about most things, there will always be some stuff or details of things that just don't come to the fore straight from the off but I will talk about pretty much anything about myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both I reckon. I like to me straight forward but I’m uncomfortable talking about myself

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

I am an open book, with blank pages...

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

I’ve more secrets than a magician

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

A Myth and a Mystery........

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have no filter, but because of work, I can be a bit cautious.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

If I am comfortable with someone then I am quite open, but it can take me a while to get there

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I let people know what I want them to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mystery. I keep my life private

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Boringly open I think.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"When opening a discussion e.g. messaging or chatting, do you prefer to be frank and candid about yourself or to leave plenty to the imagination, yet to be discovered?

I'll confess to the former. People being mysterious always looks like they've got something to hide, or maybe I'm just cynical

I’m an open book. You get what you see

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm open, why hold back unless it's something they really don't need to know like your last bowl movement

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm a bit of a mix until you get to know me, then it all pours out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm open, why hold back unless it's something they really don't need to know like your last bowl movement

I think it's important for a housemate to know I've moved my bowls. Usually from the drainer to the cabinet.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm open, why hold back unless it's something they really don't need to know like your last bowl movement

I think it's important for a housemate to know I've moved my bowls. Usually from the drainer to the cabinet. "

An e makes all the difference to my comment, whoops

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I’m pretty transparent and direct in a sense but certain things I don’t discuss or talk before meeting in person for sure… then wide open book like my legs

so don’t think I’m mysterious at all

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Open book, with the rest of my life being somewhat of a mystery. I like a simple life, so I just keep things open and clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fairly open. The rest's on a need to know basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m an open book.... I will answer as honestly as I can x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I’m a very open book

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Mysterious obvs

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Mysterious obvs

Lies

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Too many backstabbers and gossipers around.

People get to know what I choose to tell them. I will always be honest though x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I suppose I'm a bit of an open book!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hide stuff, but I don't advertise either, and I'm reserved on first meeting. A lady friend/colleague once disclosed to me in a moment of d*unken indiscretion...'you're so boring'. When she knew me better she changed to ...'wtf happened to you?'....I only share if I care.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m guarded who I speak to and what I choose to share on here and in the real world.

As I say to friends, ask a question and you’ll get an honest answer, but I will only answer what you ask.

Very few really know me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't hide stuff, but I don't advertise either, and I'm reserved on first meeting. A lady friend/colleague once disclosed to me in a moment of d*unken indiscretion...'you're so boring'. When she knew me better she changed to ...'wtf happened to you?'....I only share if I care."

I only share if *they* care . Most random internetters don't

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By *unandfriendship4uMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Direct and upfront. Think that's my down fall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very open. If I like someone, I'm happy to share most things. If I trust them, nothing is off limits between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only share if *they* care . Most random internetters don't"

Well occasionally, I don't care if they care...

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