FabSwingers.com forum: Hidden profiles

By *uliette500 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have no problems with people hiding their profile and have done so myself once or twice.

I have just been accused of being rude and ignorant for even asking to see a guys profile as he wanted to keep it hidden for personal reasons.

He messaged first and I wanted to see his profile before I sent a proper reply.

Is he correct?

Am I being unreasonable? or do others not reply to hidden profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t reply to a hidden profile but yet peeps can post what they want on a profile and how do you know it’s real!!!

I’d say stay well clear lucky escape if he had an attitude xxxxxx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nar tell him to sod off.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I dont bother doing anything other than deleting anything that comes from a hidden profile, I dont see the point of them contacting me at all if I can't see who they are.

I'm often the same when it comes to face pics as well, attraction is all about the face so do yourselves a favour and send one of you want a response.

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"I have no problems with people hiding their profile and have done so myself once or twice.

I have just been accused of being rude and ignorant for even asking to see a guys profile as he wanted to keep it hidden for personal reasons.

He messaged first and I wanted to see his profile before I sent a proper reply.

Is he correct?

Am I being unreasonable? or do others not reply to hidden profiles? "

You're not unreasonable. It's not blind date.

I very rarely reply to sillouette profiles.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Hi op

he is in the wrong for messaging you and not attaching a picture. I personally don't reply to hidden profiles.

It seems pointless them contacting me xx

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By *uliette500 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Thanks to you all.

I just wanted to know I wasn't alone.

I think it's just good manners if you message someone suggesting a meet to at least have your profile on show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never responded to a message or wink from a hidden profile. There's no point getting to the messaging point unless you have a good idea if you could be a match.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I just wouldn’t respond to a hidden profile.

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By *uliette500 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I just wouldn’t respond to a hidden profile. "

He actually sent a really good message so I politley asked if he would unhide his profile. That's when I got called rude and ignorant.

As a previous reply said it was a lucky escape and his true colours where shown.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've no issue with anyone hiding their profile I've done it myself on a few occasions but if someone new messages me I check their profiles before I answer if I can't see their profile I just don't reply.

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