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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Do you get the butterfly feeling in your stomach when you are of to meet someone? I always do, no matter how many times I've met that person.

I think once I don't then I'll retire from fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah I get that x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I definitely do.

That combination of excitement and anticipation, mixed with a little nerves

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Absolutely. It's all part of the fun.

C

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Definitely x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

They are almost unbearable for a first meet but then become just a pleasant tingle subsequently.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes I do. Not just when I'm meeting someone but when I'm preparing to go and see them, thinking about it... you get the idea. I love the butterflies and the anticipation, sometimes it can cross over to proper nerves but I can normally frame it so they aren't too bad.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Mine start at the beginning of the week in which we are due to meet, I get rather excitable and will have a big smile so it's a dead giveaway to my mates

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Makes u feel alive knowing that person will b with u soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I haven't met anyone from here I can confirm that I would get butterflies and be full of nervous energy at least a day or so before it was due to happen.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's nice to know that guys can feel them too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got butterflies and I’m not even meeting anyone!!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’ve got butterflies and I’m not even meeting anyone!! "

Awwww x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I haven't met anyone from here I can confirm that I would get butterflies and be full of nervous energy at least a day or so before it was due to happen."

Yeah, what he said. except my nervous energy would be from the moment it had been agreed upon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I do but then again no one wants to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get the butterfly feeling in your stomach when you are of to meet someone? I always do, no matter how many times I've met that person.

I think once I don't then I'll retire from fab x"

Not had the pleasure of that yet but I did get it going over a hump on the way to the seaside last weekend.

This is a lovely subject. Quite sweet really

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Even though I haven't met anyone from here I can confirm that I would get butterflies and be full of nervous energy at least a day or so before it was due to happen.

Yeah, what he said. except my nervous energy would be from the moment it had been agreed upon."

Thats like mine.... I'm like a kid waiting for Christmas and counting down the days x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a while since I met anyone new, however they most definitely happen.

Not just with new people either, I get that nervous excitement with people I've met often too

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Always, to the point I think I’m going fart my way through the meet

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Even though I haven't met anyone from here I can confirm that I would get butterflies and be full of nervous energy at least a day or so before it was due to happen.

Yeah, what he said. except my nervous energy would be from the moment it had been agreed upon."

Ah yes! This is what I'm like! It's really difficult for me to not spaff excited energy everywhere so I try and be less erm Tigger about it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not usually for new men I meet.

Only for someone if Iv met them a few times and actually like them so I then tend to care what they think about me more and I get more excited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A rush of adrenaline, which certainly dont help when cuddling. They must think I'm gonna have a cardiac. But always a great feeling nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I haven't met anyone from here I can confirm that I would get butterflies and be full of nervous energy at least a day or so before it was due to happen.

Yeah, what he said. except my nervous energy would be from the moment it had been agreed upon."

Yes. In truth so would mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I haven't met anyone from here I can confirm that I would get butterflies and be full of nervous energy at least a day or so before it was due to happen.

Yeah, what he said. except my nervous energy would be from the moment it had been agreed upon.

Ah yes! This is what I'm like! It's really difficult for me to not spaff excited energy everywhere so I try and be less erm Tigger about it all."

Good to hear some of you are as well. I’ve never met someone I’ve engaged with online first except at work! Socially, entirely new for me.

Who wants to take my virginity!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always, to the point I think I’m going fart my way through the meet "

This would be so endearring!

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Butterflies in the build up to the meet then tingles all over when he steps through the door.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I love the butterfly feeling. It's part of the build up for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always, to the point I think I’m going fart my way through the meet

This would be so endearring!"

Only because you do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I get them the whole day.. mixture of excitement, nerves and generally shitting myself The first meet after lockdown is going to be extra nerve wracking!

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By *elightfulharmonyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Do you get the butterfly feeling in your stomach when you are of to meet someone? I always do, no matter how many times I've met that person.

I think once I don't then I'll retire from fab x"

Hell yeah to the point I get so nervous I can barely talk or i chat crap til we part. So not sexy

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Oh definitely, I haven't met anyone for a while so trying to find the right person to meet soon and I'm getting the butterflies just thinking about and organising it!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Of course, those butterflies are all part of the fun of it all, the build up of anticipation and the hope that things will go well and that you'll both like each other.

I get a bit of a fizz too if I get a message from someone I like especially if it's unexpected and you had no idea they like you

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Absolutely yes. Always.

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By *att040Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Always, it’s an important part of the enjoyment! The anticipation of a meet is like nothing else. I can say that as I have one in 10 minutes time??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, every time! For a first meet I'm telling myself "play it cool, Nell. Play it cool". Then I get adrenaline tummy and have to seek the nearest public facilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I haven't met anyone from here I can confirm that I would get butterflies and be full of nervous energy at least a day or so before it was due to happen.

Yeah, what he said. except my nervous energy would be from the moment it had been agreed upon.

Ah yes! This is what I'm like! It's really difficult for me to not spaff excited energy everywhere so I try and be less erm Tigger about it all.

Good to hear some of you are as well. I’ve never met someone I’ve engaged with online first except at work! Socially, entirely new for me.

Who wants to take my virginity!!!! "

Only if you keep the hat on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes I get nervous.

More nervous about what she will think of me more than anything.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Think its all part of the excitement , would be strange if we felt nothing

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, every time! For a first meet I'm telling myself "play it cool, Nell. Play it cool". Then I get adrenaline tummy and have to seek the nearest public facilities "

It would probably set off my IBS

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes, every time! For a first meet I'm telling myself "play it cool, Nell. Play it cool". Then I get adrenaline tummy and have to seek the nearest public facilities

It would probably set off my IBS "

IBS and not so much butterflies, more like moths here.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’ll let you know if it happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once clothes are off and she's kicked me back into the hallway I feel a whole lot better

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Mine usually disappear after he's kissed me

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Mine usually disappear after he's kissed me "

And the disappointment sets in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... Everywhere... Like you, I probably wouldn't bother, if I didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely and I love that feeling

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes ! Got a new meet next week have famny butterflies allready at thought had a whatsapp cam first Time this morning just to say hi been talking over a year x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes although not quite as much now as i only see regular guys although ive not seen any of them during lockdown so my nerves about seeing them again is as though i was meeting them for the first time

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Yes ! Got a new meet next week have famny butterflies allready at thought had a whatsapp cam first Time this morning just to say hi been talking over a year x"

Fanny lol x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Do you get the butterfly feeling in your stomach when you are of to meet someone? I always do, no matter how many times I've met that person.

I think once I don't then I'll retire from fab x"

I married the man who I met here that gave me butterflies in January and he still has that effect on me most days now.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Mine usually disappear after he's kissed me

And the disappointment sets in? "

Yeah on his part usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get the butterfly feeling in your stomach when you are of to meet someone? I always do, no matter how many times I've met that person.

I think once I don't then I'll retire from fab x

I married the man who I met here that gave me butterflies in January and he still has that effect on me most days now. "

That's amazing.

Well done

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