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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

They're probably just looking for new experiences and if they enjoyed their time with you they're wanting to share those new experiences with you. If it's not something you're interested in then just say so and any decent guy will respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody likes being a tool to a fantasy. Object not a subject. Your profile is hidden atm but do you usually state that you are not interested in that?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Fantasy probably

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait."

Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that’s what I’m thinking but why is he intrested in meeting the couple does he like to be with more people at once

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.

Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either. "

*single

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.

Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either. "

Only scousers will get that!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.

Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

Only scousers will get that!"

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Its a pretty common want for multiples, but he should respect your wishes and not keep on about it after the first no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reading bween the lines

Couple = I see a couple on here or talked to a couple but they don’t meet single guys but are happy to meet other couples for swap I really want to bang his wife will you help me do so you get to bang her husband

Other females = well most guys fantasy a three some with 2 woman thats why hard to come by hence the unicorn stats for woman who play with couples

Other man = my mate wants a bang at you as I been telling him going to pretend I found him on fab

Or someone noticed you verified me and you turned him down he’s asked me to set up the meet ie tell her you want see her with you and another guy and I come along she keeps turning me down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There’s one guy that wants to do stuff with the guy aswell so why can’t he just go on his own as they are both bisexual

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "

I’d like a lady never mind a couple

All the single ladies please stand up

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now

I’d like a lady never mind a couple

All the single ladies please stand up "

All the single ladies. It you wan it then ya gotta put a ring on it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"There’s one guy that wants to do stuff with the guy aswell so why can’t he just go on his own as they are both bisexual "

I know a few bisexual men who are only interested in mmf to be fair and not interested in one to one meets with other men.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.

Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

Only scousers will get that!

"

And Wools

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.

Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

Only scousers will get that!

And Wools "

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I think people on here have a wide range of interests - they are more open to exploration - more liberal thinking - so it kinda follows what most of the other posters have said - there could be any number of reasons for them wanting to involve you - it’s really about if it suits you and if it doesn’t then they should respect that. If they don’t then move on as there are 20 guys to every woman on here - not an official stat - just a guess and there will be tons that are happy to meet you and meet you again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They either want to share that experience with you, because they like playing with you.. Or they think you will make it easier to attain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to place this on the other foot

Women I've met have often spoken about wanting to meet other women but are nervous.they ask me if I would be there or be available to make sure they are ok so if it isn't going well they can be removed from the situation.

My reaction is always raised eyebrows and have you thought about this? And who are you thinking of? It's lots to consider, not all choices are easy ones.

I don't dismiss a women for asking me questions or get the hump by thinking she now just wants women I'm out!

People are inquisitive and nervous about first steps into the unknown.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I actually want singles more than couples.

I'd like to try being with a couple one day, but I'm not actively seeking that.

Perhaps they are wanting the one on one with you, but now feel comfortable enough with you to express their other desires? Unless they stated they didn't want to see you without meeting a couple, I wouldn't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes a man has said that I’ve asked will it just be us two he said yeah and I’ll find a couple then I said again I just want us two he said yes but with someone else

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"There’s one guy that wants to do stuff with the guy aswell so why can’t he just go on his own as they are both bisexual "

Quite a few men feel better about bisexual experiences if there's a woman present, some just like the idea of a threesome and some will just be wanting to try new stuff. The only way you'll get s proper answer though is by asking the men you're meeting

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Some see women as a ticket to a bigger ride........

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Yes a man has said that I’ve asked will it just be us two he said yeah and I’ll find a couple then I said again I just want us two he said yes but with someone else "

He's just a muppet then.

Get rid of him, there are better on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes a man has said that I’ve asked will it just be us two he said yeah and I’ll find a couple then I said again I just want us two he said yes but with someone else "

Op - use reply + quote.

If he’s not listening to you now, and not hearing your no, it doesn’t bode well for a meet.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "

Weather it's always been there or not I don't know but I've started to notice increasingly the use of the Honey trapping technique.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

#notallmen

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "

Ask the question and set your rules from day 1, tell the men you won't meet other couples.

To not set ground rules and be caught 5 times with the same problem isn't great

Change nothing, nothing changes

Good luck

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

In this scene, a man with a woman has more options than a man on his own. My guess is he sees the possibility of other doors opening when he and you are together in a way that they are don't when he's on his own. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"reading bween the lines

Couple = I see a couple on here or talked to a couple but they don’t meet single guys but are happy to meet other couples for swap I really want to bang his wife will you help me do so you get to bang her husband

Other females = well most guys fantasy a three some with 2 woman thats why hard to come by hence the unicorn stats for woman who play with couples

Other man = my mate wants a bang at you as I been telling him going to pretend I found him on fab

Or someone noticed you verified me and you turned him down he’s asked me to set up the meet ie tell her you want see her with you and another guy and I come along she keeps turning me down "

Very insightful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some see women as a ticket to a bigger ride........"

I must note down this line!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either. "

Hey, Dingle is beautiful, and has the best chippies in the world.

Dunno about the guys though.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now

I’d like a lady never mind a couple

All the single ladies please stand up

All the single ladies. It you wan it then ya gotta put a ring on it "

Bit too much commitment for me

All this talk oooft rings and fingers bend over please

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

Hey, Dingle is beautiful, and has the best chippies in the world.

Dunno about the guys though. "

I guess if you like terraced houses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s mfm it’s not gay ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

Hey, Dingle is beautiful, and has the best chippies in the world.

Dunno about the guys though.

I guess if you like terraced houses. "

Cross purposes I think. I meant Dingle in Co. Kerry, Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "

Just to meet would be a fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.

Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

Only scousers will get that!"
dingle is a town in kerry, southern Ireland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I meet a single men and then he always asks let’s meet up again with a couple or another single female or single male. Is the man just using me but why am I not good enough to satisfy him or something I’m not looking for relationship but I met him with just intentions of meeting him if he wanted another couple he should of said when we first started talking so five men have done this to me now "

The same that others have said there are many different reasons but I’m the same as you I would like that honesty from the beginning. It’s not too difficult to ask do you or are you interested in couples? This then leaves the door open to later suggestions if you say yes.

When I meet single women it’s because that’s who I want to spend time with. In the rare occasion I met couples then I need to know they are a couple and not just 2 people who meet together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand your ground OP...I am straight so the couples thing is a definitive no and some do see it as a challenge (ooh would love to see you pop your bi cherry) gets deleted and blocked.

Respect me, Respect my wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the opposite on more than one occasion where the female wanted to add more to the equation

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

Hey, Dingle is beautiful, and has the best chippies in the world.

Dunno about the guys though.

I guess if you like terraced houses.

Cross purposes I think. I meant Dingle in Co. Kerry, Ireland "

We're talking about a part of Liverpool called Dingle .

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"First of all, it's a swinging site so wishing to explore with couples and multiples isn't exactly leftfield.

BUT, there are quite a few men who will "fake couple up" with a single woman, just to gain themselves access to demographics who won't entertain dingle men, or at least single men of their quality. Women are often used as bait.

Yeah, I wouldn't meet a guy from Dingle either.

Only scousers will get that!dingle is a town in kerry, southern Ireland. "

It's also a part of Liverpool

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

In my experience most of the time in the next breath after meeting it's can we get another female involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience most of the time in the next breath after meeting it's can we get another female involved "

Looking at your profile, I'd be happy with just yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be happy with a single woman, just can't seem to attract any hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience most of the time in the next breath after meeting it's can we get another female involved "

I can honestly say id be more than satisfied with just you and wouldn't have any need to involve anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#becauseFYFF

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