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Reverse psychology. Finding “the one” on here

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By *UNISHR23 OP   Man
over a year ago

heathrow

By knowing each others desires and “secrets” could this potentially be a match made in heaven or Isit simply a recipe for disaster...... no other relationship has worked out long term for me so I may give this a go

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

In my experience relationships from here rarely work

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It could work. Who knows.

There's a beautiful love story on here with a recent announcement to give you hope OP

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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8 years down the line and my fiancé and I are very happy. It can work Op. Equally it can be bloody awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how you would explain it to the grandkids.

"Met your grandad while I was in an orgy in a club, after he came on my face"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I met my partner in an adult cinema so no secrets between us and weve been together 15 years

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Not sure how you would explain it to the grandkids.

"Met your grandad while I was in an orgy in a club, after he came on my face" "

How is that smh different to the thousands of grand parents whose story was 'we got d*unk on hooch, reef and smirnoff ice then she let me shag her behind the bins at kicking out time'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is an amazing place to meet someone. I think it’s very upfront and to the point, and when it comes to things like swinging and poly etc it’s much easier to find people who relate to that lifestyle on here rather than on a standard dating website.

I wouldn't say go looking for love. But be yourself, get to know people and see where it leads you.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"In my experience relationships from here rarely work "

There are lots of couples on here who have lasted years after meeting on here.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"In my experience relationships from here rarely work "

In my experience they do. I know more that have worked than haven’t.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The best way is to know what you want and to be free and open to it. Then I think to largely go about meeting people, using no tricks.

Trust is earned and we each have our inner vulnerabilities, which may not stem from sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By knowing each others desires and “secrets” could this potentially be a match made in heaven or Isit simply a recipe for disaster...... no other relationship has worked out long term for me so I may give this a go "

If you want someone to swing with or have an open relationship then maybe.

If you’re looking for an exclusive long term relationship then in my view it’s highly unlikely it would work out

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"By knowing each others desires and “secrets” could this potentially be a match made in heaven or Isit simply a recipe for disaster...... no other relationship has worked out long term for me so I may give this a go "

Knowing someone's desires and secrets is what makes relationships successful. It's possible to have that in any relationship not just a swinging one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why is it reverse psychology?

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I find it difficult on dating sites to find someone as I find it hard to tone myself down. Here I am what I am, probably why I've been single 6 years ()

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can work, it was a disaster for me and completely left me burnt and untrusting.

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