FabSwingers.com forum: Love or money?

By *evaquit OP Couple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

What would you settle for?

Yes, you can have a loving AND a wealthy relationship but that's not realistic for everyone, so if there was a choice which one long term would you settle for? The better looking, more compatible person is poor and the not so great looking but offers a wealthy lifestyle, who would you choose? Just interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one with the biggest tits ...

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

The one I got on with best.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

The one that helps out around the house and can make poached eggs.

I wouldn’t know what to do with lots of money. I’d much prefer someone compatible and house broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to love someone in order to tolerate sharing all my time and space with them. I was married to a wealthy person and now I'm a disabled single mum who is reliant on benefits to top up my earnings. I'm far happier now than I was in an unfulfilling marriage.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

To me there is more wealth in love.

I would be the richest man alive if I had a loving relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you settle for?

Money, by default. I've got no interest in love really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have much interest in either anymore... Not having to worry about money would be nice tho...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have a moral compass that I’m very proud of…so it’s the money for me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Don't think I trust love anymore so it would have to be the wealthy option as I don't know what that's like and both would no doubt eventually end in heartbreak anyway so may as well live the high life for a change.

Saying that nobody could buy me so they'd definitely have to bring more to the table than money. Guess I'm screwed

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Money

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Don't think I trust love anymore so it would have to be the wealthy option as I don't know what that's like and both would no doubt eventually end in heartbreak anyway so may as well live the high life for a change.

Saying that nobody could buy me so they'd definitely have to bring more to the table than money. Guess I'm screwed

Can we just screw on the table?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Saying that nobody could buy me so they'd definitely have to bring more to the table than money. Guess I'm screwed

Can we just screw on the table?"

How much money do you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have money.

it allows me to do what i want, when i want, how i want.

you start getting into love and then you cant, things change and if i wanna lay down d*unk in a ditch so be it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Neither. I don’t want any kind of relationship.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Without sounding greedy I would take the money. It would be great to spend my older years having the things and going places I have never been able to afford before. I would need to have a couple of dogs to love though.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Money please, I'm selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess the answers to this question will be based on experience. If you have love, you'll say love, if you don't have love, you'll say money.

That being said, love everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOVE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love would always win for me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Guess the answers to this question will be based on experience. If you have love, you'll say love, if you don't have love, you'll say money.

That being said, love everytime

I have plenty of love but very little money and love brings hurt, I don't think a good bank balance would get me down

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Wealthy one. Give it a few years, divorce, take half their stuff, go find love.

That was easy

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh I'd pick love over money every second of the day and I am very materialistic.

I can't imagine a life without love. It's what makes life worth living imo.

I'd take wealth over shitty love though.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Money, lot`s of the filthy stuff, it turns me on.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If you had asked “what would be your measure of life’s success” I would say to find love. Money comes and money goes, that’s what money does but to love and be loved.....ah now that is the stuff of dreams

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Saying that nobody could buy me so they'd definitely have to bring more to the table than money. Guess I'm screwed

Can we just screw on the table?

How much money do you have

I reckon we would get by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love everytime, you cant buy it

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I can't vision myself in a relationship again and I'm very content without romantic love. So if I can put my own spin on it please

I would choose money and never have to worry about finding the money for flights to see my family abroad.

It saddens me a bit they missed all of my 20s but on the bright side I plan to see them very soon

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Poorer for love, with the right personality, as it's a duo, not just him and his prior income

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Compatibility.

There is a richness in love far beyond what wealth can afford.

For wealth can afford all things, but can never have one thing above all.

Enough.

With the right person(s), love is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you settle for?

Love doesn’t last indefinitely

I’d give for the person I got along with best and when it ends we could hopefully remain friends

So in my view personality tops both love and money

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Money probably.

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We dropped lucky and both think each other are gorgeous in every way and we both think each other are brilliant people too, neither of us are impressed by money, money only buys bigger stuff, it doesn’t finish each others sentences, it doesn’t make you make you a brew every morning for you to wake up to or make you a packed lunch while you’re taking the dog for a morning walk so you don’t have to?? Money is dick, easy come by whores, just pictures of the queen!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've been poor and it ain't pretty. Money is easy to lose and difficult to come by, if the stark choice was in front of me I'd sit down with both people and really discuss what we want our of life. If the poor one was happy to remain poor I'd go for the rich one and it the rich one thought he didn't have to make an effort because he had money I'd look for someone else altogether or stay single.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Money, to experience the world and work on passion projects.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"What would you settle for?

So the choice isn't love here.

It's about looks.

You go with the one you love because you'll sure as shit regret that you didn't down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you settle for?

So the choice isn't love here.

It's about looks.

You go with the one you love because you'll sure as shit regret that you didn't down the line. "

Chill those passions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d choose the one more interested in sex no point having a hot wife if they are frigid. I should know lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"What would you settle for?

Interesting that you never mentioned which one made you happy but concentrated on wealth and looks.

In the words of Jessie J's song

It's not about the money, money, money

We don't need your money, money, money

We just wanna make the world dance,

Forget about the price tag

Ain't about the ch-ch-ching ch-ching

Ain't about the bl-bling-bl-bling

Wanna make the world dance,

Forget about the price tag

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