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Sudden but severe impotence

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By *.TwistedChristian76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Really struggling mentally and want to discuss this with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn’t meant to sound flippant, but maybe your Doctor? If its sudden and severe and come from nowhere that sounds like something to get checked.

Good luck my friend

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Echo above. Discuss it with your doc.

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

Best advice I can give you is to go to your GP or if there's a drop in GUM clinic you'll be able to be seen straight away. Explain the situation and get yourself checked out.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

It's 21:45 at night. I suspect his Dr might not be available! Perhaps he's looking for supportive chat with people who have experienced it while waiting for an appointment? Lots of people with different medical conditions do the same.

OP, obviously as a woman I can't provide any real life exoerive or advice other that to understand it must be worrying for you,especially when on a site like this and wanting to enjoy all it offers.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Are you in pain?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Downside of being in your 40s possibly? I have a medical condition that started a few years ago that can randomly flair up and kill my erection instantly then 5 mins later, I'm back to normal. Nothing inherently serious and it just came with age but as a swinger, you can see the problem it can cause.

I have no idea if or when it will hit and can go for weeks without a flair up but regular meets know about it and understand. I'll.just swap to doing something else whilst my body recovers. If we go to a club I'll cheat and pop a viagra.Nothing to be ashamed of. I'm just not as young as I once was.

Do go speak to your doctor though. Always get a medical opinion when theres a big noticable change to your body

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Have you changed/started any medication?That can affect things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are in any pain then I would call 111 immediately.

As others have suggested an urgent trip to the doctor is highly advised.

I cant offer any other advice but I very hope you get the support and advice you need. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inboxed you, my lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your angst here op but hopefully it will turn out to be nothing serious and could be something simple like stress related but as mentioned the doctor is your best bet.

I personally struggled for six months when I stopped spunking thinking it must be cancer but it just turned out to be a muscle had packed up and I was jizzing into my bladder when I orgasmed.

Best of luck

Tony

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A pharmacist could potentially help you with an understanding chat about it, before seeing your Dr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really struggling mentally and want to discuss this with someone"

There’s far more to sex than being able to get an erection.

I’ve been in relationships with a couple of men who couldn’t … but what we did do was amazing.

Focus not on the lack of erection but on what you can do to satisfy your partner in and out of the bedroom … you may well find it’s not longer an issue for you when you’re focusing on something other than your todger

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