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"Rachael NSP Fever Tree Lexi I like a lot of people but I admire those 4 for different reasons. x " Can I just add mine is admiration for the things they’ve had to deal with in ways I don’t think I ever could. I admire lots of people on here but this is more wow I couldn’t deal with that in the way you have ![]() | |||
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"There are a few forum women who have shown me that even though we face challenges it's possible to rise again. These women have been a sorce of strength for me. And I'm so grateful to them. Hippychick. Tuberose. Not so posh. Saffron Princess Peach. There are probably others who I'm missing but this is who I can think of. ![]() Im in a warrior mode today and you are melting me down. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Honestly. So many different people for different reasons, some unique to them. But in some of those people despite admiring some qualities there are those that I can't take to, that part of them just does not vibe with me - be it dislike, disagreement, or just not my style. " You don’t need to get on with people to admire them, they’re two very different things. I do think that some people conflate the two though, or maybe it’s those that we get close to, that we learn their troubles and so learn to admire | |||
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"There are a few forum women who have shown me that even though we face challenges it's possible to rise again. These women have been a sorce of strength for me. And I'm so grateful to them. Hippychick. Tuberose. Not so posh. Saffron Princess Peach. There are probably others who I'm missing but this is who I can think of. ![]() Aww, thank you beautiful ![]() | |||
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"There are a few forum women who have shown me that even though we face challenges it's possible to rise again. These women have been a sorce of strength for me. And I'm so grateful to them. Hippychick. Tuberose. Not so posh. Saffron Princess Peach. There are probably others who I'm missing but this is who I can think of. ![]() ![]() ![]() Raaaaarrr, I now have you pictured in a wonder woman costume!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I used to like QueenLeviosa. She flew in the face of.. Well everything. " I also think that QL is a warrior for such a young woman and I admire her strength so much. ![]() | |||
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"There are a few forum women who have shown me that even though we face challenges it's possible to rise again. These women have been a sorce of strength for me. And I'm so grateful to them. Hippychick. Tuberose. Not so posh. Saffron Princess Peach. There are probably others who I'm missing but this is who I can think of. ![]() ![]() Anytime gorgeous! ![]() | |||
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"I used to like QueenLeviosa. She flew in the face of.. Well everything. I also think that QL is a warrior for such a young woman and I admire her strength so much. ![]() Hello you two. Nice to see you back xx | |||
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"Without getting too soppy, I think we all go through things in our personal life that get us down but we all keep going. Even when we feel like it's all falling apart we still get up the next day and keep pushing through. I chat to lots of people on here that have gone through, or are going through, so much but keep smiling. They really are an inspiration xx" They must be very lucky to be able to confide in someone like you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There are people who have had to handle adversity that have done so without sharing on the forum or with people of fab via messaging quite what they are going through. For many using fab can be a distraction from the adversities that they are experiencing in their personal lives. I would not welcome anyone nominating or shouting out on a forum thread about my adversities that I may have shared via DM. Sorry but that's my personal viewpoint. NBVN x " That’s fair enough. I did think a similar thing when writing the OP, that not everyone knows what folks in here go through and not everyone talks openly about issues or even about their lives. It’s not only about that though, people can be admired for any reason. I do recognise that not everyone uses fab in the same way or for the same reasons, so for some, no one knows what they go through or what they achieve | |||
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"Hard to name, but i admire the people on here that don’t walk around everything with kiddie gloves on and give real thoughts and opinions. 90% of people here give soft sweet answers to everything because it’s a big popularity contest and no one wants to set a foot wrong. " That will be me then ![]() | |||
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"Hard to name, but i admire the people on here that don’t walk around everything with kiddie gloves on and give real thoughts and opinions. 90% of people here give soft sweet answers to everything because it’s a big popularity contest and no one wants to set a foot wrong. " I wear kiddie gloves coz I'm child sized, I know I'm blunt but there are times where explaining something softly, concisely and with patience works far better than a verbal barbed wire trimmed baseball bat to the chops. Learning people helps. Same as with everything different people respond better to different approaches. | |||
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"Honestly. So many different people for different reasons, some unique to them. But in some of those people despite admiring some qualities there are those that I can't take to, that part of them just does not vibe with me - be it dislike, disagreement, or just not my style. You don’t need to get on with people to admire them, they’re two very different things. I do think that some people conflate the two though, or maybe it’s those that we get close to, that we learn their troubles and so learn to admire" That's what I'm getting at, sorry. Maybe could have worded it differently to be clear. I'm saying I admire some people for certain qualities but in those same people I do, for lack of a better word, dislike them for some qualities. Despite not getting on with them, or not taking to them I do actually still admire them for some part. Which is why I could not make a shortlist because there is no shortlist. | |||
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"Hard to name, but i admire the people on here that don’t walk around everything with kiddie gloves on and give real thoughts and opinions. 90% of people here give soft sweet answers to everything because it’s a big popularity contest and no one wants to set a foot wrong. I wear kiddie gloves coz I'm child sized, I know I'm blunt but there are times where explaining something softly, concisely and with patience works far better than a verbal barbed wire trimmed baseball bat to the chops. Learning people helps. Same as with everything different people respond better to different approaches. " I agree with this. I'm no stranger to not shying away from rustling a few jimmies even if it is an unpopular opinion or turns people against me, but you can say the same thing, and make the same point while still being harsh and blunt. I'm fine if people don't like me, or my way of doing things, but that doesn't mean I can't attempt to be civil and adjust slightly to cater to how others prefer a softer approach. The issue is when softly directly conflicts or hinders the point being made, or to downplay things. Different situations and different approaches work best on different people. Neither extreme is perceived well or helps the cause. | |||
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"For the people that have written lists, can I ask what it is about these people that you admire? I think that the temptation is to just list friends but this is a different thing. Of course you can admire friends but those that you admire might not happen to be friends. Just writing a list of people is only half of it, as always the important bit is in the ‘why?’ " Sorry Tea but I believe that I have given enough reason as to why without going into personal details. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nora, Not So Posh, Tuberose, Princess Peach are a few of the ladies that come to mind in here ![]() Thats very kind of you, even though took me by surprise.. and I'm crap with surprises. ![]() | |||
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"For the people that have written lists, can I ask what it is about these people that you admire? I think that the temptation is to just list friends but this is a different thing. Of course you can admire friends but those that you admire might not happen to be friends. Just writing a list of people is only half of it, as always the important bit is in the ‘why?’ " To do could give away personal information, so no just a name suffices | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() Hey I got a mention. Rest of you meh ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() Nice to know .. I’m not completely avoided ... thanks ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Looool ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lol xx | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Awww not by me ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ruready86 - he’s fantastic! I’ve been going through some stuff (mental health related) and he’s been there for me. Such a great guy! " I'm pleased to see you have someone that's helping you make things that little bit easier ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() Me? I feel flattered ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() Xxx | |||
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"People who don’t seek validation or approval, they have enough self confidence and belief in themselves and what they are doing. Who plough their own furrow without bending to societies conventions and the status quo, those that hold firm when the zeitgeist demands the opposite. " Thank you for picking me. X | |||
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"Hard to name, but i admire the people on here that don’t walk around everything with kiddie gloves on and give real thoughts and opinions. 90% of people here give soft sweet answers to everything because it’s a big popularity contest and no one wants to set a foot wrong. " Aye. Indeed they do. | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you ![]() | |||
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"People who don’t seek validation or approval, they have enough self confidence and belief in themselves and what they are doing. Who plough their own furrow without bending to societies conventions and the status quo, those that hold firm when the zeitgeist demands the opposite. e.g Lemonbuttercream. Thank you for picking me. X " You’re very welcome ![]() | |||
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"These threads have a tendency to leave people out So on that note you are all great in your own way Keep being Unique xxx" Thats why I never name names as it is just a popularity contest. I don’t have to name him as he already knows x | |||
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"These threads have a tendency to leave people out So on that note you are all great in your own way Keep being Unique xxx Thats why I never name names as it is just a popularity contest. I don’t have to name him as he already knows x" Xx agreed x | |||
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"These threads have a tendency to leave people out So on that note you are all great in your own way Keep being Unique xxx Thats why I never name names as it is just a popularity contest. I don’t have to name him as he already knows x" Your Awesome ![]() | |||
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"These threads have a tendency to leave people out So on that note you are all great in your own way Keep being Unique xxx Thats why I never name names as it is just a popularity contest. I don’t have to name him as he already knows x Your Awesome ![]() I'm just me. Nothing special. I do have to say though that I admire you for how you include everyone on threads that you start. Not many do xx | |||
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"These threads have a tendency to leave people out So on that note you are all great in your own way Keep being Unique xxx Thats why I never name names as it is just a popularity contest. I don’t have to name him as he already knows x Your Awesome ![]() Thankyou xx | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Cockosaurus and Warrilad. Both have overcome so much but just get on with it. They're strong, compassionate men whom I adore immensely. ![]() Thank you ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes my beauty ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I am quite new to joining in with the forum, trying to get to know you all better but you all seem quite tight knit already so it's hard! So as I don't really know people and their back stories I can't really comment. It probably sounds cliché but everyone has a reason to be admired. " Awww ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Cockosaurus and Warrilad. Both have overcome so much but just get on with it. They're strong, compassionate men whom I adore immensely. ![]() ![]() That was a crap reply sorry ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Aww your welcome luvvy ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You're very welcome sausage ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You're so lovely ![]() | |||
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"Cockosaurus and Warrilad. Both have overcome so much but just get on with it. They're strong, compassionate men whom I adore immensely. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Your lovely candy. Don't change xx Aww thank you Patrick danger ranger ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() xx | |||
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"I'm still new here so it's a long way for me to slowly make connections with more people in the forums but the ones I can remember off the top of my head Yasmeen KinkyinkedBi Noochie CherryBomber CurvyPrincess Patrick Ranger can't remember his whole fab name James who I more speak to in messages but such a lovely kind hearted guy NYC sausgae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ohh ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still fairly new to these forums and more on the periphery lurking in the shadows that involved, but I've gotta say that it's a brilliant place to be. I enjoy seeing the community and hope to ease into it a bit more over time; it's amazing how one can still be socially awkward even over social media! ![]() Don't worry I'm still new too ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm still fairly new to these forums and more on the periphery lurking in the shadows that involved, but I've gotta say that it's a brilliant place to be. I enjoy seeing the community and hope to ease into it a bit more over time; it's amazing how one can still be socially awkward even over social media! ![]() You definitely should post more, i like your posts. | |||
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"I'm still fairly new to these forums and more on the periphery lurking in the shadows that involved, but I've gotta say that it's a brilliant place to be. I enjoy seeing the community and hope to ease into it a bit more over time; it's amazing how one can still be socially awkward even over social media! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I shall happily take the compliment, thank you! Hope Fab is all you're wanting it to be? X | |||
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"I'm still fairly new to these forums and more on the periphery lurking in the shadows that involved, but I've gotta say that it's a brilliant place to be. I enjoy seeing the community and hope to ease into it a bit more over time; it's amazing how one can still be socially awkward even over social media! ![]() Is it my charm, humour, or general innocence that you like most? ![]() | |||
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"People who don’t seek validation or approval, they have enough self confidence and belief in themselves and what they are doing. Who plough their own furrow without bending to societies conventions and the status quo, those that hold firm when the zeitgeist demands the opposite. " ![]() | |||
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"I'm still fairly new to these forums and more on the periphery lurking in the shadows that involved, but I've gotta say that it's a brilliant place to be. I enjoy seeing the community and hope to ease into it a bit more over time; it's amazing how one can still be socially awkward even over social media! ![]() ![]() All of the above ![]() ![]() | |||
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