FabSwingers.com forum: Would you hide after viewing a profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey ladies and gentlemen

Would you have a look at someone’s profile and then hide your profile/block them afterwards?

I seem to get it quite a lot where someone will look and then when I try to have a look back they have their profile hidden. Very frustrating in my opinion but what’s everyone else think about it ?

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

People seem to do it aaaall the time to me, send me a message but profile is hidden and no pic in the message, frustrating!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Dont look who's viewed you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People seem to do it aaaall the time to me, send me a message but profile is hidden and no pic in the message, frustrating! "

Palezy2 it is very frustrating isn’t it. I don’t know why they do that kind of thing. It’s quite bizarre that they would send you a message and not have a pic for you to see and a bio to read through to take your attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont look who's viewed you "

Yasmeen. I can’t help myself as I know I can see who has viewed me I have to look. I guess you could say it’s a bit ocd

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Dont look who's viewed you

Yasmeen. I can’t help myself as I know I can see who has viewed me I have to look. I guess you could say it’s a bit ocd"

I'm the same I message them

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion."

You cant

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

You cant"

Can when I buy the site supporter thing.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Probably had their profile hidden already. Many do. Therego don’t fret. Probably not aimed at you.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

You cant

Can when I buy the site supporter thing."

Ahhh

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

You cant

Can when I buy the site supporter thing.

Ahhh

Not bought it again since first lockdown

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont look who's viewed you

Yasmeen. I can’t help myself as I know I can see who has viewed me I have to look. I guess you could say it’s a bit ocd

I'm the same I message them

Yeah but if they have hidden their profile you can’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

You cant

Can when I buy the site supporter thing."

Even as a site supporter you can’t view hidden profiles

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Dont look who's viewed you

Yasmeen. I can’t help myself as I know I can see who has viewed me I have to look. I guess you could say it’s a bit ocd

I'm the same I message them

Yeah but if they have hidden their profile you can’t "

Hidden ones ignore them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they realised that they didnt want to meet you afterall

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

You cant

Can when I buy the site supporter thing.

Even as a site supporter you can’t view hidden profiles "

true but you can’t even look without the site supporter status. I guess they have their reasons for being hidden, if they wanted to meet or chat I imagine they’d message.

I suppose the only thing that would be annoying is if they’ve hidden themselves because they know you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

You cant

Can when I buy the site supporter thing.

Even as a site supporter you can’t view hidden profiles

true but you can’t even look without the site supporter status. I guess they have their reasons for being hidden, if they wanted to meet or chat I imagine they’d message.

I suppose the only thing that would be annoying is if they’ve hidden themselves because they know you."
I never thought about that

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

You cant

Can when I buy the site supporter thing.

Even as a site supporter you can’t view hidden profiles

true but you can’t even look without the site supporter status. I guess they have their reasons for being hidden, if they wanted to meet or chat I imagine they’d message.

I suppose the only thing that would be annoying is if they’ve hidden themselves because they know you. I never thought about that "

Just trying to make you paranoid for bed

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Hey ladies and gentlemen

Would you have a look at someone’s profile and then hide your profile/block them afterwards?

I seem to get it quite a lot where someone will look and then when I try to have a look back they have their profile hidden. Very frustrating in my opinion but what’s everyone else think about it ? "

Hi Op, I have blocked those that I find aren't my type to avoid them stumbling across mine, messaging and then potentially pestering me for a reply but I don't hide my profile.

That's come from a time guy messaged me and was really nasty because I didn't reply to his message saying to me he remembers speaking to me on POF and I apparently got angry with him when he mentioned sex and he knew I was pretending not to be a cheap slut

I knew he was lying as I never used that site fully but it's because of that I won't have anyone talk to me like that as much as I can avoid xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t as I don’t give away much in the profile anyway. Do sometimes check who’s viewed me on a rare occasion.

You cant

Can when I buy the site supporter thing.

Even as a site supporter you can’t view hidden profiles

true but you can’t even look without the site supporter status. I guess they have their reasons for being hidden, if they wanted to meet or chat I imagine they’d message.

I suppose the only thing that would be annoying is if they’ve hidden themselves because they know you. I never thought about that

Just trying to make you paranoid for bed

Lol good try. Takes me a lot to get paranoid and I don’t take it personally as I understand everyone has their own preference what they’re looking for so it’s more of a frustrating ocd thing for me I think lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey ladies and gentlemen

Would you have a look at someone’s profile and then hide your profile/block them afterwards?

I seem to get it quite a lot where someone will look and then when I try to have a look back they have their profile hidden. Very frustrating in my opinion but what’s everyone else think about it ?

Hi Op, I have blocked those that I find aren't my type to avoid them stumbling across mine, messaging and then potentially pestering me for a reply but I don't hide my profile.

I knew he was lying as I never used that site fully but it's because of that I won't have anyone talk to me like that as much as I can avoid xx"

There’s just no need for people to be nasty just cos they don’t fit the preferences of others. Such a shame that they’re like that

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Hey ladies and gentlemen

Would you have a look at someone’s profile and then hide your profile/block them afterwards?

I seem to get it quite a lot where someone will look and then when I try to have a look back they have their profile hidden. Very frustrating in my opinion but what’s everyone else think about it ?

Hi Op, I have blocked those that I find aren't my type to avoid them stumbling across mine, messaging and then potentially pestering me for a reply but I don't hide my profile.

I knew he was lying as I never used that site fully but it's because of that I won't have anyone talk to me like that as much as I can avoid xx

There’s just no need for people to be nasty just cos they don’t fit the preferences of others. Such a shame that they’re like that "

Exactly and its people like that who can spoil it for others.I think its hard for most not to paint others with the same brush.

Alot become either a nuisance or nasty because they don't get a reply or are told not intrested and I'm sure if it was outside of fab they would accept that gracefully. It's really annoying that alot use a screen to hide and act of character. Everyone is still a real person on these social media platforms whether they show their identity or not.

The trolling behaviour is just unacceptable xx

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By *reston_SmallGirlCouple
over a year ago

Preston

We have blocked people after viewing their profile based on things they say in the description.

It's just to save any time tbh, as we have no desire to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they realised that they didnt want to meet you afterall"

^this

Just because someone has looked at your prifile, it doesn't necessarily follow that they will want to meet you.

They may decide you're not for them after having viewed you.

If they did, surely they'd drop you a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep an eye on your viewed number.

Let's say for argument sake (on the app) you have 101 views and this goes back to 100 and up again to 101. If this happens a bit someone is viewing you, blocking you then unblocking you again and so on.

You need to find that person and permanently block them so their game is stopped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies and gentlemen

Would you have a look at someone’s profile and then hide your profile/block them afterwards?

It's possible and likely the profile was already hidden when they looked at your profile.

They could choose to look for several reasons, via the forum or updates section as examples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason I look in ninja mode as I don’t want everyone I look at the assume I’m interested in them when it’s usually just because I’m a nosy cow

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

I get your frustration but there lot of reasons someone may look at a profile without wanting a interaction so you need to get over ....

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I don't have because I perve in ninja stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey ladies and gentlemen

Would you have a look at someone’s profile and then hide your profile/block them afterwards?

I seem to get it quite a lot where someone will look and then when I try to have a look back they have their profile hidden. Very frustrating in my opinion but what’s everyone else think about it ?

Hi Op, I have blocked those that I find aren't my type to avoid them stumbling across mine, messaging and then potentially pestering me for a reply but I don't hide my profile.

I knew he was lying as I never used that site fully but it's because of that I won't have anyone talk to me like that as much as I can avoid xx"

Awww hugs people can be so nasty and there’s no need to be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could have been hidden for so many reasons. Its not all about you

that's what I always tell myself.

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