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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Has any of you started off as friends for benefits but then it becomes more one way.. how did you deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by more one way?

PW

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I would like a friend with benefits

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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"What do you mean by more one way?

PW"

Have more feelings towards them than they have for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't we all my last one moved on and never came back

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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"Don't we all my last one moved on and never came back "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't we all my last one moved on and never came back "

Thats fab!!

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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"Don't we all my last one moved on and never came back

Thats fab!! "

Mines was before fab we just decided to dable a bit with fab when we got talking about things we wanted to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't we all my last one moved on and never came back

Thats fab!!

Mines was before fab we just decided to dable a bit with fab when we got talking about things we wanted to try"

Cool hope you enjoyed yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I never experienced that OP.

I may sound cold here but my fwb's were carefully selected (not at all saying yours are not) more that I chose them for a purpose. Obviously sexual attraction, and a connection with their personality and humour but the main point was that I could never consider them as potential relationship partners and that I could very easily walk away from them.

With me being clear to myself and with them this helped reduce that risk of one sided feelings from me anyway and enabled great fun for however long it lasted to be the ethos.

In the end I walked away from them because I felt it had run its course as I was no longer super excited to meet up, instead it started to feel like a familiar routine.

I hope things work out for you OP.

NBVN x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My last long term partner started out as a FWB, strange how things happen

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"No I never experienced that OP.

I may sound cold here but my fwb's were carefully selected (not at all saying yours are not) more that I chose them for a purpose. Obviously sexual attraction, and a connection with their personality and humour but the main point was that I could never consider them as potential relationship partners and that I could very easily walk away from them.

With me being clear to myself and with them this helped reduce that risk of one sided feelings from me anyway and enabled great fun for however long it lasted to be the ethos.

In the end I walked away from them because I felt it had run its course as I was no longer super excited to meet up, instead it started to feel like a familiar routine.

I hope things work out for you OP.

NBVN x "

Exactly the same as me x

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By *not123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sp1


"No I never experienced that OP.

I may sound cold here but my fwb's were carefully selected (not at all saying yours are not) more that I chose them for a purpose. Obviously sexual attraction, and a connection with their personality and humour but the main point was that I could never consider them as potential relationship partners and that I could very easily walk away from them.

With me being clear to myself and with them this helped reduce that risk of one sided feelings from me anyway and enabled great fun for however long it lasted to be the ethos.

In the end I walked away from them because I felt it had run its course as I was no longer super excited to meet up, instead it started to feel like a familiar routine.

I hope things work out for you OP.

NBVN x "

Nope not cold at all I need to change my way of thinking... just ive known him since I was 11 then he moved away at 21 lost contact for 28 years met up 3 yrs ago decided we would friends with benefits then he said we were a bit more than friends with benefits I grew alot fonder where he still friends. Need to change lol

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By *ot2bfunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve had a couple of friends who I’ve slept with… one is still my friend, the other who is married couldn’t accept that I spend time with other ladies and hates my guts! Go figure!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't feel the same way then the best thing to do is cut contact or it's going to end in tears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they don't feel the same way then the best thing to do is cut contact or it's going to end in tears."

Very sound advice.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Isn't FWB an NSA arrangement so why expect the other person to have an emotional investment in it ? surly its unfair to expect that.

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