FabSwingers.com forum: Help with intro messages

By *cottish-sin69 OP Man
over a year ago

scotland

Hi guys ive not been very lucky with meets on here and i think my intro messages might be the problem this was my last msg that i sent to someone but i dont know where i might of gone wrong can anyone help plz

"Hi there hows it going im scottishcub a young lad whos after a bit of fun and exitment and was wondering if you would care to join me on this adventure know as fab swinggers haha"

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By *irthlingMan
over a year ago

stroud

There are so many reasons why people may not reply on here - too many to list.

However, for what my advice is worth (as I also have a pretty terrible return rate on messages), I would tailor your message to the persons profile - give some evidence that you’ve read it. Your example looks like one you could cut and paste into any intro and people really don’t like that.

Oh, and always include a pic.

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By *cottish-sin69 OP Man
over a year ago

scotland

That message was tailored to there bio sadly haha and i did send a pic its just so hard on here for a single lad ant it

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

You've been verified by tv/ts and that's the only verification You don't display. There's nothing bad about it however You describe yourself as straight guy and for us it's doesn't add up.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Hi guys ive not been very lucky with meets on here and i think my intro messages might be the problem this was my last msg that i sent to someone but i dont know where i might of gone wrong can anyone help plz

"Hi there hows it going im scottishcub a young lad whos after a bit of fun and exitment and was wondering if you would care to join me on this adventure know as fab swinggers haha""

There is absolutely nothing in that messege that says you have taken time to read my profile and tailored to me. It justbloksike a generic copy and paste messge which I would ignore.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's very generic. You could send exactly the same message to ten thousand women.

I think you should say why you are contacting them. Why were you drawn to their profile? How do you think you meet what they are looking for? Alternatively, don't talk about anything about your journey. Respond to something that interests you about something they wrote in the forum or their profile. Just chat.

Another very simple thing would be to use their name. Just start off with "Hello, [insert name]". That is immediately more personal than 90% of the messages we receive.

Also, there was no punctuation in your message. I felt quite out of breath reading it.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Hi there hows it going im scottishcub a young lad whos after a bit of fun and exitment and was wondering if you would care to join me on this adventure know as fab swinggers haha""

Before I even read a message and read the profile first!

Nothing stands out apart from your negativity against other guys and how inexperienced you are!

You bio needs to sell you not the others on here!

So unfortunately that message would be read and deleted. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's against site rules to post the contents of personal messages, so you may find yourself on the naughty step if an admin spots this thread but as others have said it's extremely generic and looks like a cut and paste message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can write like Shakespeare or lord Byron if you are not her type she won’t reply either. Anyway as a single guy you have 0.01 chance to have your message read never mind reply. Just put that into your head right now, use the site for some toilet distraction but don’t expect meeting up.

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By *cottish-sin69 OP Man
over a year ago

scotland

Thank you guys for the help

To answer a post the verification you state is from a nice social encounter at one of the first group partys i had gone to but sadly they have left the site so there verification will not show up

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