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By *urchoicenow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

We see a lot of accounts saying they can't respond to all the messages they get.

We get 1 or 2 a week, tops.

Do you get loads of messages?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope. Haven't had one for days.

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

5-10 a day on average

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

It depends. When We put a new picture or video then we get an avalanche of messages but usually we get couple messages daily. When we post a meet there's usually less messages so we guess most of fab users are more into online activities than meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I hide a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my own activity. Tempted to hide now as inbox looks like a junk yard atm.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If I have my filters open and show a new, risqué photo at the right time of day I can get hundreds of messages.

I don't want hundreds of messages to reply to, so I use filters and a terrible photo of me as a profile pic.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"We see a lot of accounts saying they can't respond to all the messages they get.

We get 1 or 2 a week, tops.

Do you get loads of messages? "

No, we get a couple a week like you. I reply to any that have anything half decent to say. I ignore "How are you?" and "Wanna meet?" messages, which unfortunately is most of them. Luke

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It's very rare I get unsolicited messages, so when I do, I will always reply

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I lost count at 30 this morning... Had actual conversations with maybe 4 or 5.

Most of those aren't with a view to meet just talking about forum posts.

Only 1-2 people I'm interested in talking to with maybe a chance.of meeting. Most of the messages are one line things that make me roll my eyes then delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess im lucky but i have regular messages from women.

ive built up some very nice friendships and they are lovely people.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I don't get many messages had about 3 different people message today all of which I've previously been talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages? On here? How do I check?

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

With main filters off and being active on here maybe 50 new ones a day, put up a explict picture and that jumps to a couple of hundred new ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our filters on... otherwise we just got dick pick after dick pick, thats not what we're after

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By *urchoicenow OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"We have our filters on... otherwise we just got dick pick after dick pick, thats not what we're after "

Love your mask x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters are on so i get less than 5 new messages a week. Its peaceful here. I like it.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Far and few between but I'm guessing its the same for most men waking up checking their inbox and finding new 10 plus messages would be a rare thing but could be wrong

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Filters are on so i get less than 5 new messages a week. Its peaceful here. I like it. "

Do you prefer it that way?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends if I upload a new picture x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see a lot of accounts saying they can't respond to all the messages they get.

We get 1 or 2 a week, tops.

Do you get loads of messages? "
usually as soon as I post a new public photo. That's the reason I keep them private at times.

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By *oxy lady40Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Average around ten a day thanks to filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have our filters on... otherwise we just got dick pick after dick pick, thats not what we're after

Love your mask x"

Thanks

Got a couple more somewhere... Might get them out soon and take some more pics with Grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two a month is good going for me, on past experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same as many other guys on the site barely get 1 or 2

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depends on my activity and filters.

At the moment my filters are as high as they go, so, yes, easily.

Pre-pandemic, 30-100+ a day. Not a chance.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Maybe 2 new ones a day some days more if I post a pic but usually only about 2 .I've tight filters on because I don't want a load of mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at the moment as I'm private and some filters are on. But if I upload a new photo on public I can get hundreds.

When you're a couples account your profile isn't shown to as many people as a single profile, so that could be a reason your messages are quite low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10+ a day now my photos are private.

After going on cam or posting a public photo it can be 100's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Though when I have public pics they are not very revealing and apparently my profile isn't very welcoming haha.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't get many but have friends that get hundreds a day but usually ones with minimal effort put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you girls just do a mass delete as they get Tedious in reading the same crap- look at my cock or wanna meet up and fuck me lol some guys on here can be rather thick should we say if you want to at least meet up for fun! Again just an observation

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't count, but I certainly don't get hundreds!

My filters are quite strict now, so that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on how much I put in to be honest

On the forums all day can expect 30-40 messages with the day worse on a weekend lol that 12 midnight People d*unk horn give it come to mine to fuck I pay the taxi

If new pic but not on much can expect 60-70 a day

If not on much and no new pic about 10-15

If new pic and on forums all day and it’s a Friday or Saturday night well over 200 with the bulk off them come in a hour or 2 period bween 12-2 in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed when on the cam chats that when a lass is on with should we say little or next to nothing on that the guys are like vultures and ask stupid and daft things like get ya tits out etc sorry but some guys do need to have respect for the girls here

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I have my male filters turned off at the moment because most of the ones I get are from the fab shadow man display pic saying hi

That or just a guys mouth no pic attached and still pestering for a reply that ones who attach a pic are usually not my type. Let's not start with my profile icks either looool xx

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We use unofficial filters - no married men, no flashers and must attach face pic - which discounts a large proportion of fab, we usually get one or two per day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting regularly, I could get 5 while reading/deleting one... It was a bloody nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a message???

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Ten a day, on average?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No, but I use filters to stop some messages.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

Posting pics and setting a status gets messages.

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