FabSwingers.com forum: Meet now

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I don't get these requests so I wouldn't know

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Its not even vaguely flattering.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get these requests so I wouldn't know

I'd count yourself lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not even vaguely flattering. "

I agree but thought I'd put it out there. Surely some people like it.... maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete these types of messages. Even if I had nothing else to do but watch paint dry, I'd rather watch paint dry than meet a complete stranger at the drop of a hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not flattering. Leaves you feeling like you're just a piece of meat, free prostitute etc. And like you I'd worry about when they showered last.

Plus whatever happened to a bit of flirty talk beforehand to get the mood going? I love that. So meet now doesn't appeal to me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete.

Next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just delete these types of messages. Even if I had nothing else to do but watch paint dry, I'd rather watch paint dry than meet a complete stranger at the drop of a hat. "

Feelings mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"

I never really respond.

I would guess that most might have jobs but work shifts, nights, evenings etc so that might explain any odd timing.

I hope they shower but that’s not a given on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope not flattering. Leaves you feeling like you're just a piece of meat, free prostitute etc. And like you I'd worry about when they showered last.

Plus whatever happened to a bit of flirty talk beforehand to get the mood going? I love that. So meet now doesn't appeal to me at all.

PW"

Exactly!! Where's the build up!?

Also, noone wants sweaty, anything

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I wouldn't even entertain the motion, hen at the moment I'm not looking to meet anyone anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always free but never get a response then when I do get meets people can’t believe that people ain’t even met me yet on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

this tickled me

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Nope not flattering. Leaves you feeling like you're just a piece of meat, free prostitute etc. And like you I'd worry about when they showered last.

Plus whatever happened to a bit of flirty talk beforehand to get the mood going? I love that. So meet now doesn't appeal to me at all.

Exactly!! Where's the build up!?

Also, noone wants sweaty, anything

Well not before hand anyway

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"I don't get these requests so I wouldn't know

I'd count yourself lucky

Well, yes, but it would be nice to be wanted at least...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a male, I don't get them. But they sound to me like chancers who have probably searched for people nearby and tried their luck. I can't imagine they have much success with those tactics though.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

Well I don't know about anyone else, but I'm constantly in the sex gear waiting. Not on the bed though. In the kitchen poised to put the kettle on and provide refreshments prior to the boning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

this tickled me "

Meet now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

Well I don't know about anyone else, but I'm constantly in the sex gear waiting. Not on the bed though. In the kitchen poised to put the kettle on and provide refreshments prior to the boning."

Biscuits AND a shag over the kitchen table? Marry me?

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Never had one so couldn’t possibly comment

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

Well I don't know about anyone else, but I'm constantly in the sex gear waiting. Not on the bed though. In the kitchen poised to put the kettle on and provide refreshments prior to the boning.

Biscuits AND a shag over the kitchen table? Marry me?"

As long as you're in the sex gear too.... you're on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone had a meet now type of message from a single female profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

Well I don't know about anyone else, but I'm constantly in the sex gear waiting. Not on the bed though. In the kitchen poised to put the kettle on and provide refreshments prior to the boning.

Biscuits AND a shag over the kitchen table? Marry me?

As long as you're in the sex gear too.... you're on!"

I'm in a gravy stained t-shirt and grey granny pants. Hop on

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

Well I don't know about anyone else, but I'm constantly in the sex gear waiting. Not on the bed though. In the kitchen poised to put the kettle on and provide refreshments prior to the boning.

Biscuits AND a shag over the kitchen table? Marry me?

As long as you're in the sex gear too.... you're on!

I'm in a gravy stained t-shirt and grey granny pants. Hop on

Ooooh I found my mojo!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Has anyone had a meet now type of message from a single female profile?"

I kinda did a couple of days ago if I'm honest ...

But OMG erm just no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

this tickled me

Meet now?

Aye sure! I'm in my lingerie, freshly showered....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

Well I don't know about anyone else, but I'm constantly in the sex gear waiting. Not on the bed though. In the kitchen poised to put the kettle on and provide refreshments prior to the boning.

Biscuits AND a shag over the kitchen table? Marry me?

As long as you're in the sex gear too.... you're on!

I'm in a gravy stained t-shirt and grey granny pants. Hop on

Ooooh I found my mojo!"

Should I just stand in the kitchen making the tea and biscuits for when you two are done?

I will not be in full sex gear as it’s too hot! Might find me naked though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has anyone had a meet now type of message from a single female profile?"

Ooooh great question!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has anyone had a meet now type of message from a single female profile?

I kinda did a couple of days ago if I'm honest ...

But OMG erm just no

There's that too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"They see the pics and assume we are made up and wearing the sex gear, laying on the bed waiting.

It's rude of us to say no when they have been so kind to offer to put us out of the misery of our sexual frustration.

Well I don't know about anyone else, but I'm constantly in the sex gear waiting. Not on the bed though. In the kitchen poised to put the kettle on and provide refreshments prior to the boning.

Biscuits AND a shag over the kitchen table? Marry me?

As long as you're in the sex gear too.... you're on!

I'm in a gravy stained t-shirt and grey granny pants. Hop on

Ooooh I found my mojo!

Should I just stand in the kitchen making the tea and biscuits for when you two are done?

I will not be in full sex gear as it’s too hot! Might find me naked though!

Good plan! It is warm after all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message "

We're you not concerned about hygiene levels and if you fancied her in person?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I just say no ty I dont meet like that x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I get a lot, especially of I'm logged on during the day. They often get short shrift as I'm. Working from home.

I'd always shower before though but how long does it take to shower and wash your bits lol

They always want me to accommodate though

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"

It must be awful to be so popular and in demand

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Seriously though, I get these and just think "really?".

Weigh up the pros and cons and once that 2.5 milliseconds is done just say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message

We're you not concerned about hygiene levels and if you fancied her in person?

I'd chatted to her before and I'm assuming that the majority of folk are of reasonable hygiene levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I got one of these messages I’d assume I’m being set up to get robbed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did this once.

A women messaged me saying she wanted to meet now.

She invited me round and when I got there she handed me the dog on its lead and said nice to meet you.

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"

Meet now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously though, I get these and just think "really?".

Weigh up the pros and cons and once that 2.5 milliseconds is done just say no thanks."

Exactly! It’s conveyor belt sex without all the build up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?

It must be awful to be so popular and in demand

Not really popular if it's just some random looking to shag anything with a pussy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message

We're you not concerned about hygiene levels and if you fancied her in person?

I'd chatted to her before and I'm assuming that the majority of folk are of reasonable hygiene levels.

Scroll up fella

someone else said its not always the case..but I guess everyone has individual experiences

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I got one of these messages I’d assume I’m being set up to get robbed."

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I hate them it just shows me they haven't read my profile. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message

We're you not concerned about hygiene levels and if you fancied her in person?

I'd chatted to her before and I'm assuming that the majority of folk are of reasonable hygiene levels.

Scroll up fella

someone else said its not always the case..but I guess everyone has individual experiences "

I live in fear of unprocessed sweetcorn!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message

We're you not concerned about hygiene levels and if you fancied her in person?

I'd chatted to her before and I'm assuming that the majority of folk are of reasonable hygiene levels.

Scroll up fella

someone else said its not always the case..but I guess everyone has individual experiences

I live in fear of unprocessed sweetcorn!

Oh, my god.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

How about "meet in an hour?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about "meet in an hour?"

Aha! I'd meet you now and you know it (if it wasn't for work)

We'd just shower together, again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate them it just shows me they haven't read my profile. Xx"

This is true too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did this once.

A women messaged me saying she wanted to meet now.

She invited me round and when I got there she handed me the dog on its lead and said nice to meet you.

Wtaf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s more legible than the messages I get, when I do get messages. I’m still chasing work, so I can’t comment about people with time on their hands. You are definitely one of the lucky ones still being in employment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Seriously though, I get these and just think "really?".

Weigh up the pros and cons and once that 2.5 milliseconds is done just say no thanks."

I just delete

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That’s more legible than the messages I get, when I do get messages. I’m still chasing work, so I can’t comment about people with time on their hands. You are definitely one of the lucky ones still being in employment."

I count myself very lucky indeed to still have a job.

Still, regardless, those kinds of messages are just...

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"How about "meet in an hour?"

Aha! I'd meet you now and you know it (if it wasn't for work)

We'd just shower together, again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"

Messages like that for me are the most irritating. Like as if we are desperately sitting at home just waiting to be asked to meet. Some are just under the impression that's its dial a ride here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get 7 weeks paid holiday a year and never meet without a shower , I suppose im just well organised

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?

Messages like that for me are the most irritating. Like as if we are desperately sitting at home just waiting to be asked to meet. Some are just under the impression that's its dial a ride here.

Dial a ride

I get what you mean. Its like the expect

"Thank you for message kind sir. I'm so grateful to you, I'd love to meet you right now - I have been waiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get 7 weeks paid holiday a year and never meet without a shower , I suppose im just well organised

A shower?! Get you!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about "meet in an hour?"

Aha! I'd meet you now and you know it (if it wasn't for work)

We'd just shower together, again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They sit in the depths of my inbox'marked unread'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just a shower aftershave ..teeth scrubbed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not just a shower aftershave ..teeth scrubbed

Ooh loook at you pulling out all the stops

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message

We're you not concerned about hygiene levels and if you fancied her in person?

Then he would be out like a shot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha just the same as a vanilla date ..might even bring flowers ..

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'd ignore them and have done so

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

I’d bet that if you said “yeah ok then” they’d chicken out anyway

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I did so this a couple times a few years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message

We're you not concerned about hygiene levels and if you fancied her in person?

Then he would be out like a shot too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d bet that if you said “yeah ok then” they’d chicken out anyway "

Haha, probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've only had that kind of message once and I'd have been round to her house in a shot had I not had to be in work 15 minutes after I got said message

We're you not concerned about hygiene levels and if you fancied her in person?

Then he would be out like a shot too

Unless I've been catfished she's definitely attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not even vaguely flattering. "

Agree

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By *irthlingMan
over a year ago

stroud

"Has anyone had a meet now type of message from a single female profile?"

I had one many years before I joined Fab, back when chatrooms were a thing. Anyway, she wanted me to come round immediately and, frankly, I didn’t believe her to be real. I asked for a quick phone call just so that I could hear a female voice, and she obliged. Suffice to say I was in the car in all of 5 seconds!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've had several today after commenting on this thread..... spooky.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We don't respond. Those messages go straight in the bin. We have even written in our profile that we'll do that so nobody should be surprised.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How dirty do you lot think people are

I've had some great last minute meets.

Not one of them dirty or smelly

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I get those & assume they've basically just messaged every profile that is local and online in the hope that someone, it really doesn't matter who, will give them a shag. No thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had several today after commenting on this thread..... spooky."

Ahahah wasn't me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Now that depends on how fit they are and whether I really want to get in his pants

Its like seeing a gorgeous guy in a club, the right time is the right time

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I've had several today after commenting on this thread..... spooky.

Ahahah wasn't me "

No..... I don't think it was. You don't usually have such a hairy bum or peen

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Delete and block

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"

Haha I wish I got asked

I’d decline obviously but be nice to have the interest

I’m at the minute I feel my D has been retired for any fun/sexual activity

not by choice

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"How dirty do you lot think people are

I've had some great last minute meets.

Not one of them dirty or smelly "

Me too.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I just ignore those type of messages. It would just never happen in my world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on my mood and how hot they are. Also how horny I am haha. I’ve done it a few times. Some haven’t been great’

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Just another thread that ends up bashing what other people like

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’ll get some but it’s usually at some weird time and I’m almost half asleep

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Delete and block "

Same here

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Iv only ever got one meet now from a couple a few years back and I said yes told them I was at work and I'd like to shower and come they said no problem you can shower at ours win win

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I particularly like when I say no thanks and they message me back "I'm within half a mile" like geographical proximity will get me as wet as a mermaid's minge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got 1 from bloke and i guess you could say it made me feel violated, I'd be worried about my personal safety meeting someone that demands like that

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No, I always think they've probably sent it to several people at once, see if anyone takes them up on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I particularly like when I say no thanks and they message me back "I'm within half a mile" like geographical proximity will get me as wet as a mermaid's minge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just another thread that ends up bashing what other people like "

Not bashing anyone. Just people's personal preference and discussing if we would or wouldn't.

Doesn't matter to me if people do meet like that.. I just my own thoughts and reservations for why I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll get some but it’s usually at some weird time and I’m almost half asleep"

Is then when you're contemplating if you even need sleep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely do I respond to them and if I do it’s on the back end off a meet and I am still ready

If they want a meet now we’ll they just going to need to take seconds like it or lump it

I find them pretty insulting to be honest like I am some sort off free escort that’s to be ready at all times just waiting to be fucked

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I particularly like when I say no thanks and they message me back "I'm within half a mile" like geographical proximity will get me as wet as a mermaid's minge.

Love it

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I’ll get some but it’s usually at some weird time and I’m almost half asleep

Is then when you're contemplating if you even need sleep?"

Yes and then I look at my bed and it looks like so much less of a hassle. Depends how nice you are and how far you are i guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them, as I find that it instantly puts me off that person for all those reasons you mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll get some but it’s usually at some weird time and I’m almost half asleep

Is then when you're contemplating if you even need sleep?

Yes and then I look at my bed and it looks like so much less of a hassle. Depends how nice you are and how far you are i guess? "

Hahaha! I know exactly what you mean. Cozy is always hard to leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the statuses ‘who wants to suck my cock now’

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Prefer a meet now that turns up than a guy that pester's for ages then doesn't fucking turn up or message to say they aren't coming

#notbitter #atall #fuckingtimewaster

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And the statuses ‘who wants to suck my cock now’"

These too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Prefer a meet now that turns up than a guy that pester's for ages then doesn't fucking turn up or message to say they aren't coming

#notbitter #atall #fuckingtimewaster

I get that side of things tbh. I see why it's for some people. Time wasters are the worst

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By *im4play4uMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"

I hate the whole meet now thing-y. I like to make effort, take my time to get ready and clean and also I love a bit of anticipation and back story…

I get it if you are in a club or something and end up having some fun. But you got ready beforehand and are already there.

So meet now is a no from me

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Meet now messages are probably sent to multiple people so even then there's no guarantee of them turning up because you're one of many to receive a copy and paste

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By *im4play4uMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"I particularly like when I say no thanks and they message me back "I'm within half a mile" like geographical proximity will get me as wet as a mermaid's minge.

Ha ha! Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get the big issue. Its a sex site and people are looking to meet when free so if someone is free then why not. At least they are genuine unlike the fantasists who talk the talk but have no intention of ever meeting anyone. Good luck to them i say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?

Messages like that for me are the most irritating. Like as if we are desperately sitting at home just waiting to be asked to meet. Some are just under the impression that's its dial a ride here.

totes get this! Like we have nothing else in our lives .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont get the big issue. Its a sex site and people are looking to meet when free so if someone is free then why not. At least they are genuine unlike the fantasists who talk the talk but have no intention of ever meeting anyone. Good luck to them i say. "

That's fine if you don't get it. Don't need you to

Just chatting about my experience. Each to their own and you do you but for me - I'm about connection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meet now messages are probably sent to multiple people so even then there's no guarantee of them turning up because you're one of many to receive a copy and paste "

That's also probably true.

Although it's possible they won't show- pre planning with someone I've chatted to for a bit is better for me personally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?

I hate the whole meet now thing-y. I like to make effort, take my time to get ready and clean and also I love a bit of anticipation and back story…

I get it if you are in a club or something and end up having some fun. But you got ready beforehand and are already there.

So meet now is a no from me "

This!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I’ll get some but it’s usually at some weird time and I’m almost half asleep

Is then when you're contemplating if you even need sleep?

Yes and then I look at my bed and it looks like so much less of a hassle. Depends how nice you are and how far you are i guess?

Hahaha! I know exactly what you mean. Cozy is always hard to leave "

Of course if you were 10 minutes down the road that is a no-brainer. But when the pillow feels so nice and the brain says nah fuck it I’ll just lie here and do it myself

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"I don't get these requests so I wouldn't know

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I dont get these either lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll get some but it’s usually at some weird time and I’m almost half asleep

Is then when you're contemplating if you even need sleep?

Yes and then I look at my bed and it looks like so much less of a hassle. Depends how nice you are and how far you are i guess?

Hahaha! I know exactly what you mean. Cozy is always hard to leave

Of course if you were 10 minutes down the road that is a no-brainer. But when the pillow feels so nice and the brain says nah fuck it I’ll just lie here and do it myself

Hahaha!! Whack out the baby oil and the flesh light and stay comfy. Meet the following day!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's the 3am "I'm in a hotel near you, do you drive?" ones that amaze me.

Does that line ever work?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I’ll get some but it’s usually at some weird time and I’m almost half asleep

Is then when you're contemplating if you even need sleep?

Yes and then I look at my bed and it looks like so much less of a hassle. Depends how nice you are and how far you are i guess?

Hahaha! I know exactly what you mean. Cozy is always hard to leave

Of course if you were 10 minutes down the road that is a no-brainer. But when the pillow feels so nice and the brain says nah fuck it I’ll just lie here and do it myself

Hahaha!! Whack out the baby oil and the flesh light and stay comfy. Meet the following day!"

Never use baby oil with a fleshlight as it will ruin it, water based lube only

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Wont ever "meet now".

Getting to the point where so few people put any effort into this. They just seem.to think a shag is going to fall in their laps.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"It's the 3am "I'm in a hotel near you, do you drive?" ones that amaze me.

Does that line ever work?

It sort of has with me. It wasn't the first message though, he'd been in the same hotel once a month for ages and we got chatting after a couple of FAF messages.

One night he messaged as I was just about to drive home from work, so I drove to the hotel instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the 3am "I'm in a hotel near you, do you drive?" ones that amaze me.

Does that line ever work?

Not with me.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

The last guy to send me a ‘meet now’ message had ‘need emptying!’ as his status. Classy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wont ever "meet now".

Getting to the point where so few people put any effort into this. They just seem.to think a shag is going to fall in their laps.

Feels that way sometimes.

I get its a "sex" site (nah its a swingers site but I digress) - some people don't mind random meets. More power to them

I've found most are about chatting and connection. Not just another bang.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The last guy to send me a ‘meet now’ message had ‘need emptying!’ as his status. Classy

Yummy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the 3am "I'm in a hotel near you, do you drive?" ones that amaze me.

Does that line ever work?

It sort of has with me. It wasn't the first message though, he'd been in the same hotel once a month for ages and we got chatting after a couple of FAF messages.

One night he messaged as I was just about to drive home from work, so I drove to the hotel instead."

This is a bit different, as you said. Glad it worked out for you though x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"The last guy to send me a ‘meet now’ message had ‘need emptying!’ as his status. Classy

That really shouldn't make me laugh as much as it did, but thank you for the giggle!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"It's the 3am "I'm in a hotel near you, do you drive?" ones that amaze me.

Does that line ever work?

It sort of has with me. It wasn't the first message though, he'd been in the same hotel once a month for ages and we got chatting after a couple of FAF messages.

One night he messaged as I was just about to drive home from work, so I drove to the hotel instead."

That's a bit different to a randomer out of the blue asking if I can get out of bed and go service them for free

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the 3am "I'm in a hotel near you, do you drive?" ones that amaze me.

Does that line ever work?

It sort of has with me. It wasn't the first message though, he'd been in the same hotel once a month for ages and we got chatting after a couple of FAF messages.

One night he messaged as I was just about to drive home from work, so I drove to the hotel instead.

That's a bit different to a randomer out of the blue asking if I can get out of bed and go service them for free

"Service them"

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"

We don't reply and we don't find it fattering, especially since our profile makes it clear that we're not interested in doing it. Far from being a compliment, it smacks of desperation.

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over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"

What are these “meet now” messages you speak of?

What even is a message actually?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?

What are these “meet now” messages you speak of?

What even is a message actually?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always getting "meet now?" messages and it's made me wonder a couple things;

Dont these people have jobs? I definitely do!

What about hygiene and shower fresh? Unless you're THAT good, it's unlikely I've just stepped out the shower when you message.

I see it as a "i want a shag and you're close" kind of message.

Do you respond? Do you find it flattering or no?"
very annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These kind of messages really wind me up! As if you would I don’t get what some think we are & as for inviting a complete stranger into your home just like that they got no bloody chance ha

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