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"Couples that play together with other couples is supposedly the purest form of swinging. But what about the couples that play separately with single people? Assuming their partner knows then this is swinging, not cheating. So... do you think it is cheating if one half of the couple has sex with another person and only tells their partner afterwards? Or should they tell their partner beforehand for it to be considered swinging?! This is not an issue for us, we have our own rules and ideas. We are just interested to know what other people think. " The definition of cheating is different depending who you ask about it. Some say any sort of sex other than with your partner is cheating. Some say if you have sex without the other partner knowing is cheating. And there are a whole host of variables in between. Me I think its all for an individuals conscience and not really for me to pass judgement on others. | |||
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"But what about the couples that play separately with single people? Assuming their partner knows then this is swinging, not cheating" I'm bi, my OH is Gay, therefore, he's not interested in female contact, I do, with his approval, have the option to meet single females purely for sex Having been together for 23 years, if he doesn't trust me now, he never will | |||
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"But what about the couples that play separately with single people? Assuming their partner knows then this is swinging, not cheating I'm bi, my OH is Gay, therefore, he's not interested in female contact, I do, with his approval, have the option to meet single females purely for sex Having been together for 23 years, if he doesn't trust me now, he never will " yoohoooo ! Hello bogofs | |||
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"yoohoooo ! Hello bogofs " Hello Laine Looking sexi as ever | |||
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"Couples that play together with other couples is supposedly the purest form of swinging. But what about the couples that play separately with single people? Assuming their partner knows then this is swinging, not cheating. So... do you think it is cheating if one half of the couple has sex with another person and only tells their partner afterwards? Or should they tell their partner beforehand for it to be considered swinging?! This is not an issue for us, we have our own rules and ideas. We are just interested to know what other people think. The definition of cheating is different depending who you ask about it. Some say any sort of sex other than with your partner is cheating. Some say if you have sex without the other partner knowing is cheating. And there are a whole host of variables in between. Me I think its all for an individuals conscience and not really for me to pass judgement on others. " Thanks everyone | |||
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"As far as I see it it's only couples that are really swingers anyway, singles are just sex tourists looking for a shag, where a couple are allowing others to share their partner." Sex tourists eh? Should I send postcards? | |||
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"As far as I see it it's only couples that are really swingers anyway, singles are just sex tourists looking for a shag, where a couple are allowing others to share their partner." how i see it too | |||
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"As far as I see it it's only couples that are really swingers anyway, singles are just sex tourists looking for a shag, where a couple are allowing others to share their partner." As a single I am sharing my body. | |||
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"As far as I see it it's only couples that are really swingers anyway, singles are just sex tourists looking for a shag, where a couple are allowing others to share their partner." So 'swinging' couples looking for single men or women to 'swing' with, are looking for sex tourists ? | |||
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"Surely it just depends on the rules that are in place within the relationship? " +1 | |||
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"Unless you have permission from your partner to have sex first and tell later then it is cheating..." For you but not necessarily for others. | |||
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"As far as I see it it's only couples that are really swingers anyway, singles are just sex tourists looking for a shag, where a couple are allowing others to share their partner." Disagree. | |||
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