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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Parents use the kids as weapons?!

I’ve had done to me in the past, it’s hard. I had to fight see my kids, an I went court and eventually won the case. But I never really got over the fact someone could be that cruel to deny their child seeing the other parent (especially when parent is willing to spend time & money and help mother with what she needs) just baffles me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This like a human shield but opposite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because fuckwits breed!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I’m very pro equal parental rights unless exceptional reasons why there shouldn’t be.

My mum used us against my dad & I swore I would never do that.

J x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Because narcissists don't care if their own children are collateral damage as long as they hurt you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're the lowest of the low, the only ones who are hurt are the children. If you'd wilfully hurt your child, you shouldn't be their parent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My lads mam, went real funny when I got with someone new.. years later and had a family. That’s when the problem started, I had people saying it’s cause she’s “jealous” but the woman herself was in a relationship, engaged and had another child just like to think, she enjoyed being an awkward fucker.. who enjoyed wasting my time and money

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've got no offspring of my own, but have seen it happen in the past with a previous relationship that I was in many moons ago, it's a sad case indeed when it comes to that, that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you OP.

I spent a total of 7.5 years fightingbthrough courts.

Eventually got custody of one, but other went into Foster care due to the emotional abuse from mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s people that do that that make it difficult for genuine cases where their is serious risk.

I know one case here where a woman was begging the courts and social services not to give access to her ex, she lost her case, he was granted access. He took the two children 4 and 7 drowned them, put them in their beds, killed the dog as well then hung himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s people that do that that make it difficult for genuine cases where their is serious risk.

I know one case here where a woman was begging the courts and social services not to give access to her ex, she lost her case, he was granted access. He took the two children 4 and 7 drowned them, put them in their beds, killed the dog as well then hung himself. "

Cases like that, I grant and respect. And that’s where A) Justice system fails B) Social services fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes mothers do so because they believe they should safe guards their children. But they don't have enough evidence to present to children's services for example.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I’m very pro equal parental rights unless exceptional reasons why there shouldn’t be.

My mum used us against my dad & I swore I would never do that.

J x"

Same all around

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Because narcissists don't care if their own children are collateral damage as long as they hurt you. "

This is far too close to home. My childhood in three lines

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

People are petty. And they'll use whatever they can to hurt people they feel have wronged them.

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