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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you ever cheated on a partner?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

When I first got with my ex I was still seeing another woman, so I guess I have to say yes

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Does being on fabs count to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've also been cheated on

Not sure which made me feel the worst.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No I never have and never will

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, walked in on my ex cheating tho. Happiest day of my life; gave my clarification that it wasn’t all in my head

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Does being on fabs count to

Only if they don't know x

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Yes because he had cheated on me, so I fucked his best mate

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Does being on fabs count to

Just messages to someone on any platform that are suggestive counts as cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never, been cheated on as she was still married when she told me it was over between them, then she went back to him broke my heart for years.

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over a year ago

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Only once, cos she kept accusing me of doing it, which I never had. this was back in 1989, we split up the next year basically through her jealousy and possessiveness, she's 5 years and 2 days older than me and we still remain good friends

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

No never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but my ex did

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never have. I've been cheated on and could never imagine inflicting that pain on someone I was supposed to love x

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

No. I actually turned down sex when with a partner. Gives you mixed feelings when the relationship ends but I still have my sense of honour to keep me warm at night

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"No. I actually turned down sex when with a partner. Gives you mixed feelings when the relationship ends but I still have my sense of honour to keep me warm at night

To clarify, the sex I turned down would have been with an illicit 3rd party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Nope.

Even after the last 3 years without any physical contact with the ex.

We hadn't split, so I wouldn't do it.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Plenty

In fact I always cheat, because I always just assume they’re cheating. So it’s like preemptive cheating

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Have you ever cheated on a partner? "

Like a one off or an affair

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Have you ever cheated on a partner?

Like a one off or an affair "

Like sleeping with someone else while you are in a relationship.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Have you ever cheated on a partner?

Like a one off or an affair "

That's a yes then, both cheating

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yes but only after he sexually assaulted me. Was my way of reclaiming by own body back. In hindsight I should have just picked my things up and walked out the door without a second thought.

But we had kids and at the time I wanted to move past the assault, but I couldn't and eventually left.

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Nope, never. Have had it done to me and its no fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cheated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 19 after being cheated on repeatedly by my then boyfriend. The guilt was horrible. It was a messed up relationship, I should have just dumped him after the first time he cheated.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

No I’ve never cheated

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I met him just as I left school in 1992.

He cheated on me 7 months later & we split for 6 weeks. Then a year later I cheated on him & again we split for 6 weeks. Got back together, house, kids, married. Then he cheated on me again in 2011/12 & I made him leave when I found out. It nearly destroyed me but our kids kept me going.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have never cheated.

NBVN x

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I met him just as I left school in 1992.

J x"

Why did you keep going back after the continuing cheating?

Was the one second chance not enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Have you ever cheated on a partner? "

I think a lot of people who say they haven't both men and women must be telling porkies ok not everyone on this tread but in general no one get their knickers pants in a twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but i have been cheated on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever cheated on a partner?

Like a one off or an affair "

Just say yes.

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By *ohnny3333Man
over a year ago

fleetwood

Ive been cheated on but i dont mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cheated but been cheated on few times, loyalty and honesty means alot to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't cheated. An ex started sleeping with someone else before he left me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met him just as I left school in 1992.

J x"

You're right the kids give me strength

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Plenty

In fact I always cheat, because I always just assume they’re cheating. So it’s like preemptive cheating "

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'll be honest ...

Yes ... And some know why and those that don't never will ..

So that's about it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I was close. I still feel shame that I came close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha Ha... fkin brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I couldn't cheat I've seen the damage it does.

Trust is one of the most important things a women needs from a man she loves and cares about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, been cheated on but it was ultimately the best thing to ever happen as I'm much happier now

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Have you ever cheated on a partner?

Like a one off or an affair

Just say yes."

Its a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And been cheated on. And been the other man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever cheated on a partner?

Like a one off or an affair

Just say yes.

Its a no from me"

Took you long enough

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

No. Faithfull for 23 years. The ex denies cheating on me but I damn well know she did. I'm still in recovery mode really. Lonely at times but proud of myself for getting a grip & keeping fighting. But I miss somebody to love & hug.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Nope. But that’s not to say I’m a very good partner, I’ve never really been in love with someone I have been a partner of, I care about them, in my way, but never really fall for them and in a way, I guess that is cheating.

I tend to disassociate myself and grow distant so they end up cheating on me and I can say “well that’s that then”. Bit of a coward really. Sorry

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes I’ve cheated and been cheated on

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Never xxx

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

No xxx

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Yes before I grew up. I was married for 13 years and I didn’t cheat despite being regularly accused of it.

Nowadays though I wouldn’t consider being in a totally monotonous, oh sorry monogamous, relationship.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Nope.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Wife (now ex) never. FB..well.. is mutual cheating and we both honest to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. But that’s not to say I’m a very good partner, I’ve never really been in love with someone I have been a partner of, I care about them, in my way, but never really fall for them and in a way, I guess that is cheating.

I tend to disassociate myself and grow distant so they end up cheating on me and I can say “well that’s that then”. Bit of a coward really. Sorry "

You sound like me..lol

I would say I’m a good partner initally but then my independence creeps in and I tend to distance myself, which then leads my partner to cheat on me

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Nope,don’t believe in it.if I’m unhappy enough to want to cheat in a relationship then it’s time to walk away rather than cause hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the wife never,

Only on here,and we both cheat,

But also confess,

It's our thing,love it x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes once

It was with my first partner when we were 18 and we both did, once we sat down and had the conversation and realised we were happy to share each other, we embarked on our poly relationship and stayed together for 13 years in that dynamic

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By *ornygezzaMan
over a year ago

west mids

Yes it didn’t feel good at all I ended things with my partner after wouldn’t do it again

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

No. But I've only had one partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I was married and I had an affair for many years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you define as cheating, exactly?

I never had sex with anyone else but I did kiss someone during my 15 year relationship.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

No, but had it done to me....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Yes, I've also been cheated on

Not sure which made me feel the worst. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I couldnt put someone else through how i felt when i discovered my husband had done it to me

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I met him just as I left school in 1992.

J x

Why did you keep going back after the continuing cheating?

Was the one second chance not enough?"

I was 16 the 1st time & 35 the 2nd time. I was 17 when I did it to him. We were just kids with lots to learn

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Sadly yes. The only mitigation is that my marriage was pretty much beyond repair at the stage I had an affair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughing my socks off at some replies in this thread, errr what site are we on ?!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Laughing my socks off at some replies in this thread, errr what site are we on ?!"

Swinging isn’t about cheating

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Laughing my socks off at some replies in this thread, errr what site are we on ?!"

What has that got to do with cheating?

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