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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Answers below

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Their humour, their cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing they're all weirdos

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Their soul

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I like their cane and dark glasses

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Nothing....I just window shop .

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

The way they delete and don’t reply to me - just playing hard to get, such a turn on.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

They make me laugh till a little bit of wee pops out.

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By *ilo_Stitch69Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Tattoos always

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Witty profile

Pictures

Similar interests

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By *ilo_Stitch69Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Banter as well has to be up there , cant take people that to serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wit... humour and banter

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By *1ueWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

He gives great advice on the forum & of course his face

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s funny the longer I’m here the less I’m interested in pics of boobs and pussy. I like a bit of style and vulnerability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much cash she got I can get me hands on

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By *eanyabzMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Blowjob pics

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Their banter - have to be able to have a giggle as I'm just not a serious person.

Also having tattoos or strong thighs usually catches the eye too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour .. and how they carry themselves ..

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

A well thought-out profile including interesting photos and and a bit of sense of humour in the text.

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By *ilo_Stitch69Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"A well thought-out profile including interesting photos and and a bit of sense of humour in the text."

I agree with this , I cant personally connect with a profile that says will fill in later .. but been on site over a year

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I find people who are willing to talk to me very sexy.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I find people who are willing to talk to me very sexy."

Me too, not banter or flirting but really talking. I love getting long messages telling me random and normal stuff about what’s going on in their lives, I’m

Immediately more interested in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Me too, not banter or flirting but really talking. I love getting long messages telling me random and normal stuff about what’s going on in their lives, I’m

Immediately more interested in them "

I enjoy that as well. A bit of slice of life normal stuff along with the wit.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Good sense of humour and a beautiful soul

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Good sense of humour and a beautiful soul "

Fuck me felt my ears burn

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Vibe n pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness, getting a vibe from them and knowing you’ll have a laugh, you can tell when someone has a good soul

Love when we can talk about general every day stuff as well as naughtiness. x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Good sense of humour and a beautiful soul

Fuck me felt my ears burn"

Sorry about that

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Good sense of humour and a beautiful soul

Fuck me felt my ears burn

Sorry about that "

It's cool, my eyebrows took a little singe damage but other than that I'm dandy

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Good sense of humour and if they give off a good vibe, the ability to chat normally to them about anything and not just flirty stuff x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Whinging posts about the injustice on the site and a plethora of cock pics is usually pretty irresistible

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Whinging posts about the injustice on the site and a plethora of cock pics is usually pretty irresistible "

I did a sex wee reading that. Ooooft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is so much to simply just adore. A peculiar amusement for mind and body.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Good sense of humour and a beautiful soul

Fuck me felt my ears burn

Sorry about that

It's cool, my eyebrows took a little singe damage but other than that I'm dandy "

Do they need licking?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ladies who sit on my knee at socials

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Attraction, sense of humour, have a laugh and a bit of a flirt and talk about more everyday stuff than sexual stuff xx

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Oh, definitely those that type fill in later…not!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Good sense of humour and a beautiful soul

Fuck me felt my ears burn

Sorry about that

It's cool, my eyebrows took a little singe damage but other than that I'm dandy

Do they need licking? "

I think I would strangely enjoy that if you could twist the greys around your tongue and pluck the fuckers at the same time we're in business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Vibes

Humour

Tattoos and piercings make me weak

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Ladies who sit on my knee at socials "

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"How much cash she got I can get me hands on "

Loooooool this one tickled me too much xx

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Wit, humour..and eyes..green ones are my kryptonite

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Their posts.

Always informative, serious and factual. No drivel or fluff. Just the facts presented and articulated well.

They're confident in what they have to say, and don't undermine their messages with misplaced humour.

I find their prose quite erotic in a way, probably in the same manner some mathematicians adulate about the beauty found in pure maths, for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, wit, sarcasm, username, photos.... If they have ponies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour, wit, sarcasm, username, photos.... If they have ponies "

Damn. I was doing so well till ponies.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"Humour, wit, sarcasm, username, photos.... If they have ponies "

You meant penis

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Nothing they're all weirdos"

Looooool xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing they're all weirdos"

I reckon it's a gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour, wit, sarcasm, username, photos.... If they have ponies

Damn. I was doing so well till ponies. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour, wit, sarcasm, username, photos.... If they have ponies

You meant penis "

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Good sense of humour and a beautiful soul

Fuck me felt my ears burn

Sorry about that

It's cool, my eyebrows took a little singe damage but other than that I'm dandy

Do they need licking?

I think I would strangely enjoy that if you could twist the greys around your tongue and pluck the fuckers at the same time we're in business!"

I do have a strong tongue, I'll give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour and personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Constant messages back and forward,

being open, not being judgemental and knowing how to put a smile on my face

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

An interesting profile and then the quality of conversation. You just click with some people and the talk just flows and i know I've found a good one.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I honestly don’t know. I can’t really explain. They do or they don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great Connection. With funny, interesting friendly messages back and forth. Beautiful eyes and smile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That elusive ‘click’

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If they can read mainly.

Wrote a profile so anyone who can read and matches what I’m looking for on here, they get preferential treatment

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Do they like Converse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lips.... if there is a fetish for lips, I def have it.

Eyes and smile, and then personality.

The rest just falls into place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cheeky banter

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s the whole package and how they interact, personally or across the forums - male or female

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"That elusive ‘click’"

Yes that’s a better way of putting in than I did.

Definitely this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words!!!

How they use them, what they say, how they post, what they think….

and photos, taken with thought, care given to it, imagination.

Yes, I know what sort of site this is.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"That elusive ‘click’"

It definitely is elusive at times!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Depends what i'm looking for.

Mostly their mode of speech and how they conduct themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence, the art of conversation, being down to earth, easy going, humour, a get up and go attitude and no signs of jealousy or possessiveness or wanting to lay claims because boy am I sick of that crap.

And if they have physical things I'm attracted to then that's a bonus for me.

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By *rishCouple2kCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire

For us, it's about the style and the look. I would much rather see a beautiful woman in lingerie and see her confidence than fully naked.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Intelligence, the art of conversation, being down to earth, easy going, humour, a get up and go attitude and no signs of jealousy or possessiveness or wanting to lay claims because boy am I sick of that crap.

And if they have physical things I'm attracted to then that's a bonus for me. "

Yep that’s the whole package! If you find one see if there’s one for me too please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There politeness

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"There politeness "

Thank you please....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and there sexy ness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chins and jawlines I pay attention to. If a guy has no full face pictures ok his profile but you can see a hint of the jawline you can tell if the rest of them is going to be handsome. I’ve never been wrong. Although it does present some handsome baldies when I like hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There politeness

Thank you please.... "

Yeah as most don’t even bother

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Oh and there sexy ness "

Damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence, the art of conversation, being down to earth, easy going, humour, a get up and go attitude and no signs of jealousy or possessiveness or wanting to lay claims because boy am I sick of that crap.

And if they have physical things I'm attracted to then that's a bonus for me.

Yep that’s the whole package! If you find one see if there’s one for me too please "

I've found one, plus a couple more in the background. It's doable. You just have to stick it out.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Sexy eyes is my first draw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and there sexy ness

Damn!"

Your just grumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile that is longer than 3 words.

JK

But on a serious note. The personality more than pictures. If someone can walk the talk then that is sexy to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The way they delete and don’t reply to me - just playing hard to get, such a turn on. "

Ah that’s what it is. I thought they didn’t want to spk so I deleted too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Erudite wit, a playful sense of humour that can poke fun at the absurdities of life. I like people who challenge me and make me think, where I can read their interactions with myself or others and smile. Lots of things but those are the easiest to write atm.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Coherence

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Humour, not taking life too serious and the ability to make us giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was his personality that first attracted me as his pics at that time were shocking. We chatted a lot. When we finally met his smile and twinkle in his eyes attracted me instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erudite wit, a playful sense of humour that can poke fun at the absurdities of life. I like people who challenge me and make me think, where I can read their interactions with myself or others and smile. Lots of things but those are the easiest to write atm. "

U got great boobs

Just saying what I am thinking

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Without sounding too much like a zombie, their brrrraaaaaaiiiiinnnnnnns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their choice in bedroom wallpaper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Witty profile

Pictures

Similar interests

"

same here.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

A good profile initially draws me in or how they interact on the forums .Once we chat a good sense of humour and being able to chat about something other than sex keeps me interested .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good profile initially draws me in or how they interact on the forums .Once we chat a good sense of humour and being able to chat about something other than sex keeps me interested ."

And be within the age range…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy that knows the difference between confidence and arrogance xx

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Which Warhammer army they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which Warhammer army they have "

Chaos warriors obviously

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

He is laid back, good fun and sexually satisfying.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Which Warhammer army they have "

Fantasy or 40k?

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By *agan gentlemenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Depth in profile text and updates. Reading between the lines.

For

personality

wit

and intelligence.

But also quite partial to eyes and lips (on the face :p) when shown.. Apart from that rest is window dressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously I like someone that I find physically attractive in their pictures.

But then they have to come across as fairly intelligent and know what they want on their profile. Then its all about seeing if their initial messages appear to be actually written in full sentences which contain real information!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Which Warhammer army they have

Fantasy or 40k?"

40K

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Which Warhammer army they have

Chaos warriors obviously "

Death Guard!

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

If they are my type and fit my preference. Attractive face then a decent cock is a bonus. Not too fussed about body but love a nice butt

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By *agan gentlemenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Black legion.. Abaddon kick azzz lol

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

He's a really decent man, has a beautiful smile and exudes sexiness.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes


"He's a really decent man, has a beautiful smile and exudes sexiness.

"

Definitely Fab

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Which Warhammer army they have "

Space Wolves (m) and Eldar (f)

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Which Warhammer army they have

Space Wolves (m) and Eldar (f) "

Empire (m) and High Elves (f)

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I find reading and replying to a message I sent the biggest turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her eagerness to suck ones peni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way they write in threads

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Kindness, getting a vibe from them and knowing you’ll have a laugh, you can tell when someone has a good soul

Love when we can talk about general every day stuff as well as naughtiness. x "

exactly this

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By *orningGrindMan
over a year ago

south wales

Confidence.

And politeness. Far too many rude people on here

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Kindness, getting a vibe from them and knowing you’ll have a laugh, you can tell when someone has a good soul

Love when we can talk about general every day stuff as well as naughtiness. x "

Exactly this. Someone I can be friends with as well as lovers

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

A full face picture alway helps, yes, I know about people's reason to stay hidden.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

A heightened appreciation of smut goes a long way

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Their smile and eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kindness, getting a vibe from them and knowing you’ll have a laugh, you can tell when someone has a good soul

Love when we can talk about general every day stuff as well as naughtiness. x "

This...

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By *trkenitMan
over a year ago

Clovis

A Lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman reaching for the stars with her feet firmly on the floor.

And you have to be able to chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of into fakes this week op

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"A good profile initially draws me in or how they interact on the forums .Once we chat a good sense of humour and being able to chat about something other than sex keeps me interested .

And be within the age range…"

my filters aren't set in stone

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Which Warhammer army they have

Space Wolves (m) and Eldar (f) "

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A good ice cream lover

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