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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

That university has got me working again.

So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.

Am

I right or wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... Nope... Nuh uh... Nooooo

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"No... Nope... Nuh uh... Nooooo "

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I don’t think I am just depends who I’m chatting with I think

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

Depends who I’m playing with and how lazy I feel tbh haha

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t think I am just depends who I’m chatting with I think "

So for you it depends on the person?

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

...


"That university has got me working again.

So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.

Am

I right or wrong? "

I think the university have invested in group mind control because I was considering the same today.

I'm not particularly submissive but the forum ladies appear more submissive to me than the forum men.

I see and get messages from more submissive men than the forum stats would suggest though. It's been mentioned before that the forum isn't really representative of fab as a whole though.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I don’t think I am just depends who I’m chatting with I think

So for you it depends on the person?"

Yes I was actually thinking about this earlier are you reading my mind woman

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

Noooooo defo' more Dominant, and some times all depends on how I feel and the guy!!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"That university has got me working again.

So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.

Am

I right or wrong?

I think the university have invested in group mind control because I was considering the same today.

I'm not particularly submissive but the forum ladies appear more submissive to me than the forum men.

I see and get messages from more submissive men than the forum stats would suggest though. It's been mentioned before that the forum isn't really representative of fab as a whole though."

Yes I guess so. I was just having a conversation with someone and it just made me think so I thought I’d do a thread

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Submissive most of the time gives me a rest from being the bossy one in normal day to day life

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person "

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t think I am just depends who I’m chatting with I think

So for you it depends on the person?

Yes I was actually thinking about this earlier are you reading my mind woman "

Haha. Yep!

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

That university gets everywhere.....

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"That university gets everywhere..... "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm a switch so it entirely depends what mood I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive is very much me.

PW

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I'm more on the submissive side xxx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Mainly submissive but a bratty one but will switch and be dominant. But I'm also happy enough being neither.

Totally depends on my mood and the person I'm with.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I don’t think I am just depends who I’m chatting with I think "

Cough cough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nnnnnnnnnoooooooooooooooooo

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Depends on the dynamic, I’m likely to submit more over time, the more I get to know someone and trust them the more likely I am to submit to them

I like a balance, an ability to be able to take control and completely let go is where the magic happens xx

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nnnnnnnnnoooooooooooooooooo "

Hahaha. I sort of knew that would be your answer

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!"

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Depends on the dynamic, I’m likely to submit more over time, the more I get to know someone and trust them the more likely I am to submit to them

I like a balance, an ability to be able to take control and completely let go is where the magic happens xx"

Yes. I get this

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though "

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she a complete train wreck

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"she a complete train wreck"

Who?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The follow up questions for me would be:

How do you view (define?) your submission and how do you exhibit/show your submission?

E.g.: letting your partner take control in the bedroom, ensuring your partner’s satisfaction comes before your own etc.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!"

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The follow up questions for me would be:

How do you view (define?) your submission and how do you exhibit/show your submission?

E.g.: letting your partner take control in the bedroom, ensuring your partner’s satisfaction comes before your own etc."

Like most things though. I would imagine it’s very subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should have never of removed the handcuff from the radiator in the kitchen.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am "

Hmmmm OK

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK "

Trying to make out she’s shy!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Pretty much yes, there's the odd time I might take control but it's very rare

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy! "

I don't like you two any more

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy!

I don't like you two any more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont fool for it posh

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"dont fool for it posh"

Shh.... I'm shy

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I don’t think I am just depends who I’m chatting with I think

Cough cough "

That’s still frowned upon

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy!

I don't like you two any more "

Did you expect to ease back in to the forums

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I don’t think I am just depends who I’m chatting with I think

Cough cough

That’s still frowned upon "

This is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like labels. I have lots of tricks up my sleeves.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy!

I don't like you two any more

Did you expect to ease back in to the forums "

I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like labels. I have lots of tricks up my sleeves. "

can always cut them out of the clothes you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy!

I don't like you two any more

Did you expect to ease back in to the forums

I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!"

Loving the t-shirt

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy!

I don't like you two any more

Did you expect to ease back in to the forums

I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!"

don’t be silly!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm definitely naturally submissive in nature when with the right guy.

But I have a huge number of guys that message me who say they are sub

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy!

I don't like you two any more

Did you expect to ease back in to the forums

I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!"

Oh you actually did haha .. This is me we are talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely am, and the more stressed out I am, the more submissive I become.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy!

I don't like you two any more

Did you expect to ease back in to the forums

I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!

Loving the t-shirt "

Thanks lovely

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If you'd asked me a year ago I'd have said I don't know.

But turns out that yep.... I am. For the right person

Yes I guess it does depend on the person. I find that with a lot of things though. I can shock myself with the filth I come out with to some people, yet with others I’m just not like that and more on the shy side. It’s strange!

I'm shy with everyone to start with as you well know..... doesn't stop the filth coming out though

You’re a lot of things posh but not once has shy and you ever been associated in my mind!

But.....

But.....

But.....

I so am

Hmmmm OK

Trying to make out she’s shy!

I don't like you two any more

Did you expect to ease back in to the forums

I thought there might be some sort of grace period where you people were nice to me in light of my brokenness!don’t be silly! "

So mean to me. I expect boobie hugs to make up for it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I think that in the Lounge, definitely. In Swinger's Chat lots of submissive men post comments, possibly more so than women.

I don't know if I am. I'm not sure if I'm submissive. I'm both and neither at the same time. I'm still exploring my sexuality and working it out, maybe it's the case of I've not met the right one yet and I actually am? Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting, very interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting, very interesting. "

Sorry, wrong thread.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I think that in the Lounge, definitely. In Swinger's Chat lots of submissive men post comments, possibly more so than women.

I don't know if I am. I'm not sure if I'm submissive. I'm both and neither at the same time. I'm still exploring my sexuality and working it out, maybe it's the case of I've not met the right one yet and I actually am? Who knows. "

Oh I see I’ve never ventured out of the lounge. Too scary for me

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think that in the Lounge, definitely. In Swinger's Chat lots of submissive men post comments, possibly more so than women.

I don't know if I am. I'm not sure if I'm submissive. I'm both and neither at the same time. I'm still exploring my sexuality and working it out, maybe it's the case of I've not met the right one yet and I actually am? Who knows.

Oh I see I’ve never ventured out of the lounge. Too scary for me "

It is good to see what things are out there. But also stay close to the safety of the lounge.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I think that in the Lounge, definitely. In Swinger's Chat lots of submissive men post comments, possibly more so than women.

I don't know if I am. I'm not sure if I'm submissive. I'm both and neither at the same time. I'm still exploring my sexuality and working it out, maybe it's the case of I've not met the right one yet and I actually am? Who knows.

Oh I see I’ve never ventured out of the lounge. Too scary for me

It is good to see what things are out there. But also stay close to the safety of the lounge. "

I ventured into the virus one once. That was quite enough

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"That university has got me working again.

So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.

Am

I right or wrong? "

I'm not sub. I want and appreciate equal say and dynamic with a play mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life, haha, no way

In play..yes

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live


"That university has got me working again.

So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.

Am

I right or wrong? "

It depends what mood I am in. Sometimes I just love being submissive...many different ways too...

a favourite is being on my knees, hands tied behind my back & whatever else...just being controlled in general.

Other times I like being submissive in life too out in the big wild world too..

Other times I am as Dom as they come.. Lol and I've got a couple guys who just LOVE that side of me

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

It appears so. I dont like the label and I'm more likely switch with the right person.

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You are wrong there my dear!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No I'm not submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’m submissive but very few have been able to get me to submit to them.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I'm switch. Depends on the person/mood/scenario.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nnnnnnnnnoooooooooooooooooo

Hahaha. I sort of knew that would be your answer "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's weird in the bedroom I am submissive. Outside I am not. Jecckle and Hyde.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but only with those I trust. And so far that’s only 2 people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not remotely submissive.

Except for with one person.

However I find on here stating you enjoy taking control, fills your inbox full of men who just don't get what that means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too right.

back to the kitchen girls!

iron my shirt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sub at all..

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It's weird in the bedroom I am submissive. Outside I am not. Jecckle and Hyde."

I think that’s quite a common thing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right.

back to the kitchen girls!

iron my shirt! "

More like bend over, hand me spatula and count to 20 whilst mopping up my kitchen floor and your tears.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

No, not submissive in or out of the bedroom

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right.

back to the kitchen girls!

iron my shirt!

More like bend over, hand me spatula and count to 20 whilst mopping up my kitchen floor and your tears.

"

you must be mistaken. your talking to a Man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That university has got me working again.

So ladies. Are you more on the submissive side do you think? From the forums etc I tend to think a lot of women seem to be, definitely more than men.

Am

I right or wrong?

I'm not sub. I want and appreciate equal say and dynamic with a play mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right.

back to the kitchen girls!

iron my shirt!

More like bend over, hand me spatula and count to 20 whilst mopping up my kitchen floor and your tears.

you must be mistaken. your talking to a Man!"

Respect is earned not ordered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right.

back to the kitchen girls!

iron my shirt!

More like bend over, hand me spatula and count to 20 whilst mopping up my kitchen floor and your tears.

you must be mistaken. your talking to a Man!

Respect is earned not ordered. "

get us a cuppa while your up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally no. Once upon a time, the idea of me ever submitting to anyone was laughable but things and people change over time and I'm currently exploring a side of me I never knew existed. It's fun Don't think I could be that way with anyone else though.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Not at all.

I would hope that most people are their authentic selves, howeverN societal expectationss do influence gender norms.

Women have been socialised to be accommodating and our place in the world is nor as strong as men's. Also, women have also been taught to seek validation from men and appeal to what men find attractive.

It's quite alarming to see a generation of very young girls making light of being ch0ked and slapped via TikTok but that's what happens when the likes of 50 Shades influences popular culture.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"too right.

back to the kitchen girls!

iron my shirt! "

Assume the position! Don't act like you don't know!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

So all in all it mostly tends to depend on the person and also the trust element. I tend to agree on both of those.

Thanks for joining in. It’s interesting getting people’s different views on things

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Sub with sass...

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Not at all.

I would hope that most people are their authentic selves, howeverN societal expectationss do influence gender norms.

Women have been socialised to be accommodating and our place in the world is nor as strong as men's. Also, women have also been taught to seek validation from men and appeal to what men find attractive.

It's quite alarming to see a generation of very young girls making light of being ch0ked and slapped via TikTok but that's what happens when the likes of 50 Shades influences popular culture. "

As for the first part of your comment I think that’s a very different subject to what we’re talking about here. Can’t comment on the second part really as I don’t have tik tok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub with sass...

"

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right.

back to the kitchen girls!

iron my shirt!

Assume the position! Don't act like you don't know! "

I do know. Dinners late where is it

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Nope. But I'm not dominant either. I like a level playing field. I am masochistic with certain people, which I suppose could be seen as submissive, but it's really not.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm a bratty little cunt.

Rare as rocking horse shit that I'm mega sub. I guess I'm kinda the same as in most other situations, I fuck about, play my mouth and let an air biscuit fly

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m neither. I’m just bossy and demanding. I like an assertive fella, keeps me in check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooh nononononononono.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im neither submissive or dominant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for the right man

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I’m neither. I’m just bossy and demanding. I like an assertive fella, keeps me in check."

Exactly, me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely submissive as not very confident.... occasionally, with the right person, I come out of myself a little...

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Nope, very balanced here

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Generally in life I am not submissive at all, in a dynamic with the right man though is a very different story.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I'm not a sub, I play with a couple of sub men, but most want degradation and I am not into that, so I mainly seek confident, bossy men as I like the mental and physical power play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for dinner.

Serving here is terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the dynamic, I’m likely to submit more over time, the more I get to know someone and trust them the more likely I am to submit to them

I like a balance, an ability to be able to take control and completely let go is where the magic happens xx"

Me too.. and oh when that dynamic happens, esp with a great kisser, it is pure magic.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I love the fluidity of who takes the lead, though I do much prefer assertive and dominant men.

I concluded that I was wholly submissive until recently... I never knew I could involuntarily growl

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’m submissive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very submissive with Mr, he’s earnt my submission and I’ll do anything for him (with discussion and consents), but I’m also sometimes cheeky, a bit bratty and at times a sulky, pouty little

Hippy/angel

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I seem to be able to bring out the submissive side in men even those who have always considered themselves dom so i think anyone can switch given the right dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I'm fairly submissive in bed. I don't have a problem with it xx

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