FabSwingers.com forum: Does someone’s figure really matter ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Mine most certainly does to me.

Mrs

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Not really if you have connection with someone

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

It does for some, it doesn't for others.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

To a certain extent yes. I know what I’m physically attracted to and what I’m not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to us no

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to me no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a sheriff told me once:

go for the curvy women.

great for the shade in the summer.

warm in the winter.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

My preference is purely personality

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

I feel it does hate my figure would like to get it down to actually look sexy

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

"I feel it does hate my figure would like to get it down to actually look sexy "

But I also have no preference do prefer chunkier man p not so fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter to me as long as we are compatible and click etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There deffo has to be some physical attraction for me but that said there’s no one particular size that I go for. I often find beauty and sexiness in a whole range of sizes and mental attraction and general chemistry also play a big part for me. So in short it’s not the first or only thing I’ll think about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"a sheriff told me once:

go for the curvy women.

great for the shade in the summer.

warm in the winter."

Rude.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"To a certain extent yes. I know what I’m physically attracted to and what I’m not. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It only matters to narrow minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to me... I still assume mine will to someone else tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both agree it does. We like what we like, regardless of what that is.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It only matters to narrow minded people "

No. I don’t agree with this at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To a certain extent yes. I know what I’m physically attracted to and what I’m not. "

This but.... Awesome personality and/or very clever naughty mind overcomes any physical preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It only matters to narrow minded people "

I think this is quite rude. It's no difference to liking or not liking anything else in life. If we all liked the same things the world would be a boring place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a sheriff told me once:

go for the curvy women.

great for the shade in the summer.

warm in the winter.

Rude.

he also said you can tell that way shes a good cook.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"To a certain extent yes. I know what I’m physically attracted to and what I’m not. "

Yeah I would say the same here xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Not necessarily figure, but there are certain attributes I have a preference for.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Not to me, I have been with a size 12 and a size 22.

To me it's personality physical attraction first and foremost, if there was nothing between the ears I wouldn't be interested in the first place

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

As with most things on here it will matter a lot to some & not so much to others.

Whilst there are undoubtedly other factors to take into account, I do think that an attraction is important & that applies to both personality and looks/physique. It isn't wrong to have preferences.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Not really if you have connection with someone "

^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I think it also very much depends on what you are looking for from a meet with the person/people.

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

I have my preferences which intially draws me to someone but the connection and how the person comes across will always be the biggest factor. Attraction often surprises me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Profit figures. They have to cum up high.

Friends with Profits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My figure matters more than anybody else's to me - I'm not confident lately as I'm at my biggest. Need to get control of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My figure matters more than anybody else's to me - I'm not confident lately as I'm at my biggest. Need to get control of my life. "

i totally get that. many women feel this way

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Yes. Profit figures. They have to cum up high.

Friends with Profits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Profit figures. They have to cum up high.

Friends with Profits.

We are square on the laugh including comments today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My own matters to me a lot. With others, I have a general preference but it depends more on connection and attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine does to me

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's part of the mix but certainly not the only factor.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"It's part of the mix but certainly not the only factor. "

Exactly.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

It matters to me to look in decent shape but that's just myself, I like a wide range of women's figures though, physical attraction for me comes from the pose and most certainly the choice of clothing/lingerie rather than body size and shape. That said I don't think skinny ladies with a straight up and down figure have as much appeal as a rounded curvy figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It only matters to narrow minded people "

In the same way you wouldn't meet anyone over 76, or maybe it just comes down to preference and what you are attracted to.

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I always assume mine does, I feel like I have to clarify with someone multiple times that they understand that I'm a big woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab it absolutely does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men have figures ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No figure is right or wrong. We're all attracted to what we like - each to their own. For me, nah not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men have figures ? "

I mean, I’m guessing technically they do, but it’s not a term used to describe male body shapes, fascinating stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No figure is right or wrong. We're all attracted to what we like - each to their own. For me, nah not really. "

Good comment x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not really. I tend to go on their sexual magnetism, y’know when you look at someone and you know they know how to fuck real good? I go by that, whatever size that comes in as that makes someone very sexy to me.

For sex anyway. Romance is more complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are young and dumb, then yes, then you wise up, and learn that it is in the head that makes the best sex x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I'll probably get lynched for this but, for me, yes it definitely does.

Personality undoubtedly matters as well from the point of view of social interaction, but at the end of the day I'm not looking for a life partner on here, I'm looking for like minded people to have sex with &, for me to want to have sex with someone, there needs to be a physical attraction as well as a mental one.

On the flip side, I'm a curvy girl and I am well aware that some people won't find my figure attractive, and that's absolutely OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... to a degree.

I don’t find skinny/slim/thin men attractive at all and the same with massively obese men.

Anything in between I’m attracted too.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Yeah, course it does, if you're not attracted to a certain size/shape you're not attracted.

They might be the most amazing person, but if the spark/tingle isn't there then...

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Only in your bank account

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yes. It's what initially attracts me to someone...if I don't find them attractive I'm not usually going to be too interested in finding out what their personality is like. I know, I'm incredibly shallow for only wanting to have sex with people I fancy

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Yes... to a degree.

I don’t find skinny/slim/thin men attractive at all and the same with massively obese men.

Anything in between I’m attracted too. "

So you don't find your own body shape attractive?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yes. It's what initially attracts me to someone...if I don't find them attractive I'm not usually going to be too interested in finding out what their personality is like. I know, I'm incredibly shallow for only wanting to have sex with people I fancy

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This ^^^ 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the connection with the other person matters most for me....

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not shallow at all. I honestly don't believe anyone that says they do it different to this.

If they did, then there would be a lot less people in the world feeling alone and unattractive.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Yes... to a degree.

I don’t find skinny/slim/thin men attractive at all and the same with massively obese men.

Anything in between I’m attracted too.

So you don't find your own body shape attractive? "

I'm a chubster but seems I have a thing for the slimmer gent. I didn't notice before we joined here and I started paying more attention, but I seem to gravitate towards slimmer guys. I rarely find bigger guys attractive, despite being a fatty. Fuck knows why, but that's just me.

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By *idnightTaskCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope.. humour, brain, wit, life experiences are far more attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes... to a degree.

I don’t find skinny/slim/thin men attractive at all and the same with massively obese men.

Anything in between I’m attracted too.

So you don't find your own body shape attractive? "

I clearly wrote men as that’s who I’m attracted too.

What I find/think is attractive in women is different and not relevant as I don’t go around fucking them.

Nice put down though because I said I don’t like slim/thin men it must mean I’m unattractive too. Bloody shot me for having a preference. If someone doesn’t like my figure then they don’t need to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It absolutely does as it’s human nature to be physically attracted to someone. They can have the greatest personality in the world but if you don’t ‘fancy’ them physically, then even with the greatest will in the world, it won’t work permanently.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm not fixed but physical attraction will always be a component of deciding who shags me

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