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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Do you derail threads away from the OP? Is it bad etiquette to do so or is it just part of the wonder of the forums?

If you find yourself going off on a tangent, do you start a new thread?

No right or wrong answers, I’m just curious

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I try not to. I might occasionally get rail roaded into a flirt.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

Good question I wondered that myself it will be interesting to see the answers we get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So today the weather was nice Tea, perfect for iced tea even.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I likes Armadillo’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was my poor attempt at derailing. Anyway, I'm guilty of these sometimes when a thread inspires me somehow. So not a bad intention.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I try not to. I might occasionally get rail roaded into a flirt.

"

Are there threads for flirting?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"So today the weather was nice Tea, perfect for iced tea even.

"

Do love ice tea, you brew your own?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"That was my poor attempt at derailing. Anyway, I'm guilty of these sometimes when a thread inspires me somehow. So not a bad intention. "

Yeah I'm occasionally guilty of this too I guess

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"So today the weather was nice Tea, perfect for iced tea even.

"

I’m not against using ice…

Is this that flirting that La Luna was talking about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So today the weather was nice Tea, perfect for iced tea even.

Do love ice tea, you brew your own?"

Aha. In Long Island.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Will England win the euros?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So today the weather was nice Tea, perfect for iced tea even.

I’m not against using ice…

Is this that flirting that La Luna was talking about? "

No. It's just my derailing train of thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you all seen I’ve put one of my videos back on?

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

The Whitings on the wall for the fish pun thread, I wonder how long this will last

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I likes Armadillo’s"

Natures equal and opposite reaction to Dime bars, so I’ve heard

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"So today the weather was nice Tea, perfect for iced tea even.

Do love ice tea, you brew your own?

Aha. In Long Island."

Ah round yours for afternoon tea then.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I think I do it. But mainly if someone comments something then I comment in reply then they comment and I feel bad not replying! .

So yeah I think I’m guilty. I don’t think it matters too much though. Depends what kind of thread it is. Probably best not to have a conversation on the secret service or one of those fuck avoid threads as it would kinda spoil it.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

What's everyone's favourite cake?

What was the question again...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Oops

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

At times its natural for threads to wander about a bit just like a conversation does. But often they are derailed by two people talking and flirting back and forth. Kinda annoying but then considering that's what the site is about is not surprising.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"The Whitings on the wall for the fish pun thread, I wonder how long this will last"

You did that on porpoise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just post what pops into my head or something I read might suggest another thread. If I derail it's not intentional (he says twirling his moustache and laughing) it just happens.

I don't think it matters if a thread gets derailed and sometimes the tangent can be of interest itself. I've seen some threads where there's about three different conversations happening.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Will England win the euros? "

At some point…

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At times its natural for threads to wander about a bit just like a conversation does. But often they are derailed by two people talking and flirting back and forth. Kinda annoying but then considering that's what the site is about is not surprising."

Very good point

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Oops "

You derail conversations!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I just post what pops into my head or something I read might suggest another thread. If I derail it's not intentional (he says twirling his moustache and laughing) it just happens.

I don't think it matters if a thread gets derailed and sometimes the tangent can be of interest itself. I've seen some threads where there's about three different conversations happening.

"

I agree.

If it’s roughly on topic, then it’s expected and often a natural extension of the conversation. It’s very rare that a thread runs fully on point

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield


"I just post what pops into my head or something I read might suggest another thread. If I derail it's not intentional (he says twirling his moustache and laughing) it just happens.

I don't think it matters if a thread gets derailed and sometimes the tangent can be of interest itself. I've seen some threads where there's about three different conversations happening.

I agree.

If it’s roughly on topic, then it’s expected and often a natural extension of the conversation. It’s very rare that a thread runs fully on point"

sometimes it gets tough to tell who's texting replying to who about what subject

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I actually think there can be a distinct difference between derailing a thread and one going off at a tangent from it's original intent.

Derailing generally suggests a deliberate attempt to take a thread away from the original intent, whereas going off at a tangent is normally just the natural meanderings of a conversation taking shape as points are thrown back and forth.

Now of course it depends on the type of thread too - it's very difficult to take a "snog, kiss avoid" type thread off at a tangent but the more debatey type threads I think it's only natural that it happens, and more often than not it's bought back to the OP at some point as a late comer posts in response to the OP without reading how the thread has flowed since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just post what pops into my head or something I read might suggest another thread. If I derail it's not intentional (he says twirling his moustache and laughing) it just happens.

I don't think it matters if a thread gets derailed and sometimes the tangent can be of interest itself. I've seen some threads where there's about three different conversations happening.

I agree.

If it’s roughly on topic, then it’s expected and often a natural extension of the conversation. It’s very rare that a thread runs fully on point

sometimes it gets tough to tell who's texting replying to who about what subject"

Just throw comments in here and there - it all adds to the grand conversation.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No if a conversation goes on for more than a couple of comments I move to private messaging

I am guilty of reading what I think it says rather than what it actually says and can tangent off on a different topic though...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"Oops

You derail conversations! "

You should try being in my head

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"No if a conversation goes on for more than a couple of comments I move to private messaging

I am guilty of reading what I think it says rather than what it actually says and can tangent off on a different topic though..."

Tuesday, about 5

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

….So, who’s looking forward to the Euros? (sorry Tea Monkey)

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"….So, who’s looking forward to the Euros? (sorry Tea Monkey) "

I don’t believe your apology is sincere

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Do you derail threads away from the OP? Is it bad etiquette to do so or is it just part of the wonder of the forums?

If you find yourself going off on a tangent, do you start a new thread?

No right or wrong answers, I’m just curious "

Not intentionally derail, but some tangents can be suitable to remain in the main thread especially if I think the information could be useful to someone reading that thread at a later time.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

So who likes cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still quite new to the forums, so I'm finding my feet a bit. I always try to stick to the subject as much as possible though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still quite new to the forums, so I'm finding my feet a bit. I always try to stick to the subject as much as possible though. "

Booo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still quite new to the forums, so I'm finding my feet a bit. I always try to stick to the subject as much as possible though.

Booo!"
Booo again!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"So who likes cake?

"

I prefer puppies

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"So who likes cake?

I prefer puppies "

Your puppies are very popular

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"So who likes cake?

I prefer puppies "

I do love puppies, especially yours but I love all of you, inside and out

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

I've just read that your computer is far more likely to get a virus from visiting religious sites than it is from visiting porn sites.....

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"So who likes cake?

I prefer puppies

Your puppies are very popular "

Lovely puppies....nice smile too

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I've just read that your computer is far more likely to get a virus from visiting religious sites than it is from visiting porn sites....."

Thank god for that

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I like to stick to the subject unless I sense that it wasn't posted for me to and its a playful type of thread to see how it unfolds otherwise I like to make that OP feel like I am adding my participation into their thread xx

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"So who likes cake?

I prefer puppies

Your puppies are very popular "

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"So who likes cake?

I prefer puppies

I do love puppies, especially yours but I love all of you, inside and out "

Aww you are very kind

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"So who likes cake?

I prefer puppies

Your puppies are very popular

Lovely puppies....nice smile too"

Thank you

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Soz

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"So who likes cake?

I prefer puppies

Your puppies are very popular

"

Case in point

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I try not to. I might occasionally get rail roaded into a flirt.

"

Been guilty of this in the past

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I've never knowingly derailed a thread, I do go off on tangents though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to stick to the subject unless I sense that it wasn't posted for me to and its a playful type of thread to see how it unfolds otherwise I like to make that OP feel like I am adding my participation into their thread xx"

I enjoy reading your postings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t do it on purpose but yes I might end up adding something not quite relevant … flirting in amongst replies? … possibly guilty of that a little too It’s like oh fancy seeing you in here though isn’t it?

I’m a fan of the little side conversations, they’re often funny … but not if it’s a barny or a pissing contest - seen a few of them x

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I like to stick to the subject unless I sense that it wasn't posted for me to and its a playful type of thread to see how it unfolds otherwise I like to make that OP feel like I am adding my participation into their thread xx

I enjoy reading your postings "

Awww think I've only done one, don't know what other one to start but thank you xxx

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Kfc is nice. Got some cider in the fridge chillin

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No I add to them

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

[Removed by poster at 07/06/21 14:59:40]

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I dont do that, but I have noticed that few are doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t do it on purpose but yes I might end up adding something not quite relevant … flirting in amongst replies? … possibly guilty of that a little too It’s like oh fancy seeing you in here though isn’t it?

I’m a fan of the little side conversations, they’re often funny … but not if it’s a barny or a pissing contest - seen a few of them x"

I like your distractions

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