FabSwingers.com forum: Has every meet been successful or not as you thought it would have been

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on how you measure success.

Not all of mt "meets" have resulted in anything more than a chat and a coffee but in all but one case I enjoyed it nether the less.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Hell no

"Gone in 60 seconds" springs to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some grate meets had some bad meets been let down

Just part off fab

Had some meets that were grate up in till a point that it turned bad

Couple off years ago meet a guy one Saturday evening

We get down to it and his phone gose off he picks it up turns out it’s his wife yes honey sorry I still at work sorry I got called out be home in a hour as he continues to pump away felt sick to my stomach for his wife also was a bit mad ( so I am work am I ) made me feel very dirty and low he was shocked that I kicked him out after he hung up the phone just lucky I didn’t start when he was on the phone

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

I go with no expectations so I’m never let down. If she turns up, then it’s been a successful time for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have successfully met everyone we've agreed a date and time with. We haven't successfully met everyone we've agreed to meet though one of two of them just stopped responding to messages when we suggested a time and place.

We've had many hugely enjoyable meets which we'd class as successful. Then there were the others...

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I’ve had a few ups and downs

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes, never had a bad one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've had some that went a bit wonky

but we made the best of it

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I've had a few not go as planned, and a few cringeworthy ones. Most boring of all is the total no-show of course!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have been lucky enough to have had great meets. Not a bad one. Just one didn't lead to more meets because there was no chemistry. Been with one fwb for almost a year and every meet is a good as the last.

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Never had a bad one and only had one that had no action, ok for 10yrs on and off here

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

All but one but I'm happy that one didn't Go ahead and as a mutual agreement just didn't anything like the photo

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By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The majority of meets have had have been successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 07/06/21 02:15:49]"

No I've met two Cat-Fish before...& all I'll say is... Shock-Horror

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Oh and the couple who forgot to mention that the husband was bi on here before the meeting

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

My first proper "meet" was disappointing. So I'm still waiting to pop my Fab cherry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ups and downs are a part of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's been successful in a sense of learning something each time. Sometime the unexpected or wanted.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Social meets no. Sexual meets yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I've had some that went a bit wonky

but we made the best of it"

Would straighten you out good and proper

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My first proper "meet" was disappointing. So I'm still waiting to pop my Fab cherry

Cherry popping season

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 07/06/21 02:15:49]

No I've met two Cat-Fish before...& all I'll say is... Shock-Horror

Omg shocking to hear

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"My first proper "meet" was disappointing. So I'm still waiting to pop my Fab cherry

No lack of willings candidates there i'm sure

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

It kind of depends on your success criteria.

We have enjoyed all the meets we have had at the time. The only thing that would mark some of them down is the ghosting that has happened after a couple of meets, but such is life.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve always done a social meet for a first time meet, to see if we connect face to face, and also if the person is serious about turning up. I’ve had a few no-shows, a couple of ghostings, and some of the socials there was no chemistry.

The biggest disappointment for me, was the club scene, but I guess I expected too much

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Most of my meets has been great , a few bad meets

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Few bad and few good.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Haha not remotely. Some have gone better, some as expected, some a pleasant surprise, some I was stood up for, some now make funny stories to tell friends

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Some meets definitely have been better than others,theres no denying that

Sometimes you just have more chemistry with someone and others the spark has been missing.

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