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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im working with a 28yo woman who is reasonably intelligent when ive seen her away from work, but when shes at her desk she puts on an act of a stupid character that's petty, immature and ignorant.

Is it something women in particular do and if so, why? It must be hard work, 40 hrs a week to behave like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she does it to try and fit in for what ever reason.

And no not all women do that either.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Perhaps she adjusts to her environment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe she does it to try and fit in for what ever reason.

And no not all women do that either. "

Not all women, but not sure if men do that. But its incredibly irritating to the point i could kill her!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps she adjusts to her environment. "

Call centre environment

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By *1n_eaterMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe she is thick and puts on a little intelligence away from work !!!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not all women do that, I certainly don't.

Maybe she's trying to fit in, act the way she thinks people think she should.

Ask her!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not all women do that, I certainly don't.

Maybe she's trying to fit in, act the way she thinks people think she should.

Ask her! "

I could but have to work with her. I have asked for a transfer to another department

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Maybe she does it to try and fit in for what ever reason.

And no not all women do that either.

Not all women, but not sure if men do that. But its incredibly irritating to the point i could kill her! "

I once worked with a guy who answered every question with "ooh, I don't know, but when you find out let me know".

It initially worked well for him - the rest of us did all the work and he just coasted (can't expect him to do anything when he doesn't know how anything works).

He was the first person out of the door when the company made people redundant - there's only so long you can claim ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe she is thick and puts on a little intelligence away from work !!! "

Lol yes, the others are fine the way they conduct themselves , it's just her. Im the oldest there by a long way, .. Old enough to be their dads lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe she does it to try and fit in for what ever reason.

And no not all women do that either.

Not all women, but not sure if men do that. But its incredibly irritating to the point i could kill her!

I once worked with a guy who answered every question with "ooh, I don't know, but when you find out let me know".

It initially worked well for him - the rest of us did all the work and he just coasted (can't expect him to do anything when he doesn't know how anything works).

He was the first person out of the door when the company made people redundant - there's only so long you can claim ignorance."

Yep, must be hard work to act 40 hrs a week too

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Not all women do that, I certainly don't.

Maybe she's trying to fit in, act the way she thinks people think she should.

Ask her!

I could but have to work with her. I have asked for a transfer to another department "

She's offending you with her behaviour while she's taking calls?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm surprised you asked if all women do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im working with a 28yo woman who is reasonably intelligent when ive seen her away from work, but when shes at her desk she puts on an act of a stupid character that's petty, immature and ignorant.

Is it something women in particular do and if so, why? It must be hard work, 40 hrs a week to behave like that "

In what way is she petty immature and ignorant?

I'm like that at work because I hate the work and the management is incompetent.

I'm the same out of work though. No intelligence here.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Not all women do that, I certainly don't.

Maybe she's trying to fit in, act the way she thinks people think she should.

Ask her!

I could but have to work with her. I have asked for a transfer to another department "

Maybe that was her aim

What industry do you work in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not all women do that, I certainly don't.

Maybe she's trying to fit in, act the way she thinks people think she should.

Ask her!

I could but have to work with her. I have asked for a transfer to another department

Maybe that was her aim

What industry do you work in? "

Call centre, probably lol, though she's like that with other people too

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Not all women do that, I certainly don't.

Maybe she's trying to fit in, act the way she thinks people think she should.

Ask her!

I could but have to work with her. I have asked for a transfer to another department

Maybe that was her aim

What industry do you work in?

Call centre, probably lol, though she's like that with other people too"

It's definitely a manipulation technique. Used to manage a calm centre myself and seen a lot of people (not just women) do it to carry favouritism with the bosses and the call distribution desk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" In what way is she petty immature and ignorant? "

Talking in a baby voice, one example : asking me "what's 7 times 9" out the blue,

Showing me how to use a telephone without asking her to, sulking, ignoring me if i need information for tasks, lately she's been in a huff fo4 some reason, staring at me and making it obvious she's avoiding me.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I dumb down at work, I dont need to be high achieving there and I'm not aiming to climb the ladder there. There are things that I COULD do, but there are people that will do it for me. I'll also do things for others to offset that though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not all women do that, I certainly don't.

Maybe she's trying to fit in, act the way she thinks people think she should.

Ask her!

I could but have to work with her. I have asked for a transfer to another department

Maybe that was her aim

What industry do you work in?

Call centre, probably lol, though she's like that with other people too

It's definitely a manipulation technique. Used to manage a calm centre myself and seen a lot of people (not just women) do it to carry favouritism with the bosses and the call distribution desk. "

Yep i thought that but wasn't sure

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Im working with a 28yo woman who is reasonably intelligent when ive seen her away from work, but when shes at her desk she puts on an act of a stupid character that's petty, immature and ignorant.

Is it something women in particular do and if so, why? It must be hard work, 40 hrs a week to behave like that "

So one person you know does this who just happens to be a woman so you think women will know why she does it?

Can you show me your qualifications that enable you to rate someone's intelligence please.

It's like groundhog day, pass me the 1940's someone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I worked with a man like this. There were certain things he just couldn't do because after all he was just a helpless man . It was a ploy to get people (women) to do things he didn't want to, some of my colleagues fell for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I worked with a man like this. There were certain things he just couldn't do because after all he was just a helpless man . It was a ploy to get people (women) to do things he didn't want to, some of my colleagues fell for it "

Yeah that sounds like her lol.

I worked with a guy who was flat out lazy, judt kept skiving off the toilets whenever any work came in. Manager just let him do it. When i did it for a genuine toilet visit i got a feking rollicking. Its the only job i walked out of. Im sure a skive ass feker like him would be a big help! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work with a woman who thought that Cyril Smith was The Pope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I work with a woman who thought that Cyril Smith was The Pope "

Could be worse.. She could have thought it was rhyming slang for a piss

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