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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the angle you're taking on this one

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

So the woman should be responsible for catering to all shapes and sizes?

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wear one no exceptions.

i bring my own.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"So the woman should be responsible for catering to all shapes and sizes?

LvM"

That’s what I thought. I’ve never bought them.

And as for the last bit of the question. The answer is never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry protection but expect a guy to carry too. No bb ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam expensive these condoms nowadays, wouldn’t want to break the single fella’s bank would we

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

It's the guys responsibility to supply the raincoat and make sure it is warn, it's for our protection as much as our partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"So the woman should be responsible for catering to all shapes and sizes?

LvM"

Also bring different aftershaves and mints so the guy can choose - drop a £1 on the box, pick your condom, aftershave and mint

Be authentic and have it all displayed in the toilet

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should be responsible.

What if the lady provides the condom, puts holes in them and then you end up with germs or a kid you didnt ask for?

If youre exclusively seeing each other then a conversation should be had about when its ok to stop using condoms, otherwise use them all the time.

Thats just my 2 penneth worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*"

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"So the woman should be responsible for catering to all shapes and sizes?

LvM

Also bring different aftershaves and mints so the guy can choose - drop a £1 on the box, pick your condom, aftershave and mint

Be authentic and have it all displayed in the toilet

K"

"No splash, no gash!"

LvM

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover "

That’s not true. I’m 50 and still not out of the woods on that score.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have always brought condoms when meeting anyone and even though it has been discussed beforehand it is amazing how some men forget them.

And no it should not be just the woman's responsibility it should be both.If one can't be bothered to buy then it shows that they are not actually serious when they claim they practice safe sex. And now it would put me off continuing a meet if a guy 'forgot' them.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I don’t feel its the responsibility of one person over the other, ideally both parties should ensure they have brought some.

If they haven't brought any I don’t automatically assume they want to be fucked bare, if anything I assume they forgot them or worse case scenario were expecting us to provide them.

Its always something we bring with us regardless.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover "

Damn you like to live dangerously don't you

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why would a man ecoevt a woman to be responsible for his own sexual health?

Surely the only correct answer is everyone should carry condoms?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

Damn you like to live dangerously don't you "

Sunday funday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dam expensive these condoms nowadays, wouldn’t want to break the single fella’s bank would we "

I'd still be using the ones I bought in 2005. They're at the back of a drawer somewhere

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

Damn you like to live dangerously don't you

Sunday funday "

Sunday duck and cover day lol I commend your bravery

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Dam expensive these condoms nowadays, wouldn’t want to break the single fella’s bank would we

I'd still be using the ones I bought in 2005. They're at the back of a drawer somewhere "

Get yourself down your local Gum clinic. They give them out for free when you get a check up

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I've always taken them in the past, but have been happy to let him use his preferred brand/size.

With an FWB or partner, there's no set time limit, but once you've had a discussion about it and have both been tested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have now put yourself on to probably 90% of women on fabs avoid list for those very views!

Well done and happy Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have now put yourself on to probably 90% of women on fabs avoid list for those very views!

Well done and happy Sunday "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms are free from the GUM clinics, when I have STI tests via Frisky Wales I always accept the offer of free condoms. I have condoms of various sizes.

I discuss safe sex in advance of a meet and I accept it is equally my responsibility to ensure they are worn. Both myself and my boyfriend will ensure bareback sex does not occur and there have been times when we have both had to remind our playmates that they are imperative or play stops.

When myself and my boyfriend decided to begin a relationship with each other and bareback was discussed, we both had an STI check before we stopped using condoms.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have now put yourself on to probably 90% of women on fabs avoid list for those very views!

Well done and happy Sunday "

Still leaves 10% ...remove 4% on my looks....take another 5% on women i would avoid...and take another 4% for age and distance...and that leaves me with .....oh fuck!!!! To late to delete my last message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to play bare so I don't have any. If the guy wishes to play safe then he needs to have his own xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have now put yourself on to probably 90% of women on fabs avoid list for those very views!

Well done and happy Sunday

Still leaves 10% ...remove 4% on my looks....take another 5% on women i would avoid...and take another 4% for age and distance...and that leaves me with .....oh fuck!!!! To late to delete my last message? "

Exactly!!

Learn to play safe and bulk buy and they won't put you out of pocket too much and then your at less risk of your knob falling off and more meets potentially!

Best Sunday advice that ever....

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Lol you just dug a deep hole for yourself on that one mate. Its always down to the male to not only supply the condom, but has the added presure to perform aswell.the women on here are really fussy which puts even more pressure on the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover "

Did you not do sex education.....

They are not just to stop a women getting pregnant..

If you can’t manage to get condoms

Then I doubt you make it to the clinic either ..

So ladies run for the hills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some to hand, but only one size and type. A couple of times we have run into an issue where a guy hasn't found them comfortable - too bad, he should have brought his own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always provide small condoms. Only a couple of men have ever brought their own. It's russian roulette!

I jab holes in them so they don't get full of air when he's pounding me. Don't want to shag a balloon.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I always provide small condoms. Only a couple of men have ever brought their own. It's russian roulette!

I jab holes in them so they don't get full of air when he's pounding me. Don't want to shag a balloon.

"

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I always bring my own. Better to be safe than sorry. As a man you never know if the women is trying to get herself pregnant or if she is deliberately spreading a disease. Rare but it does happen. I always wear two just in case one breaks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always bring my own. Better to be safe than sorry. As a man you never know if the women is trying to get herself pregnant or if she is deliberately spreading a disease. Rare but it does happen. I always wear two just in case one breaks. "

'Disease, disease

Spreading the disease

With some help from Captain Trips

He'll bring the world down to his knees'

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham


"I always have some to hand, but only one size and type. A couple of times we have run into an issue where a guy hasn't found them comfortable - too bad, he should have brought his own!"

I always have some but would expect the guy to also come prepared (although they most often do not). And I just have regular size so if the guy's well endowed it'll be a squeeze but I always insist, or let's not bother. I mean if you're bigger than regular, you should definitely be providing your own, or I would assume you're turning up empty handed, expecting bareback

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Men should bring their own, in the right size for their penis, having discussed prior with the woman if she requires latex free. I made the mistake of having sex with a guy off here, who'd said he was well endowed (not that I'm especially bothered with size). I assumed our Skyns large would therefore suffice. His penis was maybe 5", so large were certainly not suitable. He did have his own condoms, but that didn't improve the meet but that's something else entirely.

Only the man knows how big his penis genuinely is, and therefore knows what type of condom fits him size-wise. Latex free by default covers all bases.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Also I will never have sex with anyone other than Mr KC without a condom, no matter how many times we meet.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've always brought my own as i've seen this as my responsibility. It also eliminates the risk of only having normal sized ones available

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I've always brought my own as i've seen this as my responsibility. It also eliminates the risk of only having normal sized ones available "

. Get you !

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I always have some but would expect the man to have some as well. When I went to clubs with my partner before he died, we wouldn’t have played with a single guy if he didn’t have his own because who goes to a club without...(you’d be surprised). Bareback is only ever for an exclusive relationship and who knows how long it takes to get there.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I usually take my own as its the least I can do as I'm getting to sleep with them. As for how many times till get to take it off, I wouldn't even if they said was ok. I don't want to risk getting anyone pregnant and I definitely don't want to risk catching anything. Leave the no glove love for exclusive partner I say

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By *azza80Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely my responsibility!! I will always wear one and not really be interested in going in without thanks.

My cock...my job to bring my coat.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I think the men should be carrying them as its him that has to wear them and he knows his size.

I'm not going to stop using them for a risk of the fun of it and later on a possible std or sti then having to go to a clinic.I would rather be safe than sorry xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

No, you’re wrong. The onus is 100% on the man to bring condoms, it’s then the ladies choice whether she wants him to wear one or not, if he doesn’t want to wear one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

Why wouldn’t you want to wear a condom with a stranger? You don’t care if she gets pregnant or if you catch a sti or are you just plain tight and don’t want to spend your money on condoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

I always carry them but if you don't bring your own and mine don't fit... No sex for you! And he will always be wearing one, regardless of how often I see him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be commenting later in this thread about my options on this topic and stuff, stay tuned.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Playing without a condom is like playing a game of Russian Roulette with your health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be commenting later in this thread about my options on this topic and stuff, stay tuned. "

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Between wisbech & Kings lynn

Carry my own, I have 2 kids that were planned and not risking a 3rd one.

Plus it's just a shitty move not to use one without permission

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"I have always brought condoms when meeting anyone and even though it has been discussed beforehand it is amazing how some men forget them.

And no it should not be just the woman's responsibility it should be both.If one can't be bothered to buy then it shows that they are not actually serious when they claim they practice safe sex. And now it would put me off continuing a meet if a guy 'forgot' them. "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am latex intolerant so I always have latex free but would discuss with my partner before hand to check he’s ok with them. It is both parties responsibility. I have only done bareback in a fully tested fwb situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it crazy that some men don’t bring their own...

I always carry skyns latex free, I’d never expect them to be provided.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I always make sure I have them to hand in a couple of sizes or brands so there's no excuse of I forgot to bring one or they won't fit, I'm not risking my health (having a mum that gets freebies helps so it doesn't break the bank)

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It takes two to fuck. Both should be prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I provide my own but some partners have also brought ones as well.

I think it's everyone's responsibility to make sure it's worn, we are all grown ups and it's for all our protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

That’s not true. I’m 50 and still not out of the woods on that score. "

Same here my wife can still but no contraception work for her and don't want the bar, only me can BB with meets from past always condom on as she especially me don't want someone else child!!!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Hubby always makes sure I have a supply of condoms in my purse when I’m going out

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Mates Skyns are the best comfortable fit for my cock, and have the added advantage of being latex-free, which suits everyone I have met so far, and the reason I always bring my own condoms to a meet, and also for club visits (after one bad reaction to the free ones available in one particular club)

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Everybody is responsible. Everybody should be prepared. It's better to have more people than necessary to deal with it than to have nobody prepared.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I would always provide my own. I would always wear one regardless of how many times I’ve seen her.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I will be commenting later in this thread about my options on this topic and stuff, stay tuned. "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Surely the responsible thing to do is *both* people involved having a conversation in advance about it and deciding what precautions to take and who will be taking them - if you can't do that and agree then it's questionable if you should be meeting at all.

I've always bought condoms and have always had a conversation with people I'm meeting beforehand, including if they have a preferred brand or have any allergies etc that may need to be taken into account.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I think it is up too individuals to be responsible for themselves.

I always have an empty crisp packet and an elastic band in the car, you never know when you’re going to need it.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I bring my own. I don’t trust anyone else to have any that will actually fit.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

You should always wear body armour in the heat of battle x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have a variety of brands and sizes, because it's truly astonishing how many guys say they always insist on condoms then turn up without and somehow don't get along with whatever brand I happen to have.

I will always provide them, but guys I see regularly tend to have their own.

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"You should always wear body armour in the heat of battle x"

or as I told my son in our “birds and bees” chat:

“If you’re going to walk in the rain, never go without a raincoat”

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I always provide them, I will not have any excuse why one won’t be used.

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd expect both parties to bring protection but would rather suggest using the ones that I'd carry because I know I'm happy to fork out for the expensive ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is up too individuals to be responsible for themselves.

I always have an empty crisp packet and an elastic band in the car, you never know when you’re going to need it. "

Salt n vinegar makes it tingle.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I am allergic to latex free condoms ...

But health must come first..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is up too individuals to be responsible for themselves.

I always have an empty crisp packet and an elastic band in the car, you never know when you’re going to need it.

Salt n vinegar makes it tingle. "

I use Cheese and Onion to ccover the smell

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"So the woman should be responsible for catering to all shapes and sizes?

LvM"

And we have to assume no one is lying or it will be flopping off his cock.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

When my wife meets new guys it is condom for full sex always the only guy apart from me who is allowed to fuck her bare back is her fuck buddy . He has become a good friend who helped us start out on our swinging life style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is up too individuals to be responsible for themselves.

I always have an empty crisp packet and an elastic band in the car, you never know when you’re going to need it.

Salt n vinegar makes it tingle.

I use Cheese and Onion to ccover the smell "

Gonna try this.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I expect the man to have condoms with him. I always carry condoms in my bag in case he has forgotten.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We always have them. If we get the opertunity why miss out, if we've not got them.

Although, the woman (or lots of), go the a time, effort and money of hair, make up, lingery, stockings ect. None of it cheap. Guy turns up, maybe has flopped his cock in the sink half hour before. It astounds us, they turn up to play without them. Or they have no clue how to put them on and waist 2 (of ours) just trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely they guys responsibility.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder. "

Crisp bags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

Well fabber you have safe sex listed on your profile so by that I would guess you would already have some with you just to make sure, I personally bring them just incase the other hasn't

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

I wear my own and bring my own..call my cautious but know it can’t have been tampered with then.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Being lazy, cba to read all replies. One of them days!

It is the responsibility of both parties. I forgot to grab some before heading out one time. Thankfully she was prepared. Disaster averted!

Two parties involved, each one needs to take a conscious decision to protect at the very least your own body and health, but that of both parties also.

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By *oir_desireMan
over a year ago

London

I remember my date asked me once why I would do it to myself when I told her I have only one condom. Luckily she was better prepared than me.

Since then when I meet someone I make sure I have enough for the night.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

Crisp bags. "

Ah, I have a jumbo sized bag of Skips I shall put in my handbag.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

Crisp bags.

Ah, I have a jumbo sized bag of Skips I shall put in my handbag."

They aren't safe enough, needs to be wotsits

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

That’s not true. I’m 50 and still not out of the woods on that score. "
me either. But pregnancy is only one reason I make all meets on fab wear condoms. I take my own as I need latex free but if a man didnt have any I'd probably not play as it comes across that he was hoping for bb.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

Oh good lord

Why would someone leave their sexual health in the hands of another person?? What's the big deal about being prepared??

As for going bb, the only time I would be comfortable with it would be when both parties were being exclusive...so that ain't happening any time soon

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Why on earth is this ever a question over who should supply condoms.

Just buy some you tight fucks....seriously

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

That’s not true. I’m 50 and still not out of the woods on that score. me either. But pregnancy is only one reason I make all meets on fab wear condoms. I take my own as I need latex free but if a man didnt have any I'd probably not play as it comes across that he was hoping for bb. "

Oh hell yeah. That’s like trusting someone with your life. No chance. Only person I’d ever trust 100% is me.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

That’s not true. I’m 50 and still not out of the woods on that score. me either. But pregnancy is only one reason I make all meets on fab wear condoms. I take my own as I need latex free but if a man didnt have any I'd probably not play as it comes across that he was hoping for bb.

Oh hell yeah. That’s like trusting someone with your life. No chance. Only person I’d ever trust 100% is me. "

What about me?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

That’s not true. I’m 50 and still not out of the woods on that score. me either. But pregnancy is only one reason I make all meets on fab wear condoms. I take my own as I need latex free but if a man didnt have any I'd probably not play as it comes across that he was hoping for bb.

Oh hell yeah. That’s like trusting someone with your life. No chance. Only person I’d ever trust 100% is me.

What about me? "

Haha. 99.999999999999% I’d 100% trust you that much

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By *onnieSoak79Man
over a year ago

Gillingham

I can’t believe it’s even a question, bring your own fella, and don’t expect to be bb ever! No one should put their health at risk like that

Bb only with exclusive partners in a closed group is a worthy risk

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By *fricanguyMan
over a year ago

warr

Whst if she brought u size Xl hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

Who’s responsible for getting the man dressed, the man or the woman, I mean I can get my pants and socks on, but I don’t see why I should have to do the rest myself, I mean if the woman wants to see me dressed looking smart then she should dress me, why’ve I got to do it all myself whaaaaaa whaaaaaa ?!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"I always bring my own. Better to be safe than sorry. As a man you never know if the women is trying to get herself pregnant or if she is deliberately spreading a disease. Rare but it does happen. I always wear two just in case one breaks. "

Please tell me you're joking.

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By *22Bee222Man
over a year ago

...

Clearly both parties are responsible. But out of the two of us only I know the size and type I require therefore I bring my own... I bring a handful actually. You never know do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a bit of a stupid practice saying the woman should be responsible, there are so many size veriation plus latax/latex free for people with allergies do you just expect every woman to have dozans of options for a man to choose from? I always have a couple of differant kinds in my toy draw but I would expect a man to have the foresight to bring his own tbh

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

If this is the big serious announcement thread then I want my money back. I've organised a street party with finger buffet and all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is this even a serious question, I think the OP is just posting a deliberately provocative arguement!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If this is the big serious announcement thread then I want my money back. I've organised a street party with finger buffet and all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn’t even a debate, if you are not adult enough to care about your own sexual health then you deserve blue waffle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we always provide our own, that way we know they are safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this is the big serious announcement thread then I want my money back. I've organised a street party with finger buffet and all"

Our street has got the bunting out, my neighbours are asking whether he was referring to the bareback thread, Im keeping a low profile, I fear I hyped it up too much.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

Buy your own condoms

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

Crisp bags.

Ah, I have a jumbo sized bag of Skips I shall put in my handbag.

They aren't safe enough, needs to be wotsits "

I'm just surprised a VWE guy hasn't been along suggesting Monster Munch

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

Not gonna lie OP id be embarrassed to ask the girl im about to fuck if she had condoms lol

That conversation can go sideways real quick..

Im a medium and if she said she only has large ones laying around id be fucking devastated

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"How is this even a serious question, I think the OP is just posting a deliberately provocative arguement!"

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys me again, say a man goes down on a woman, is it the man’s job to use his tongue or is it the woman’s job to waggle his tongue about for him, just wondering what men are expected to do ?’ Look forward to hearing from you all soon.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I just keep variety of chocolate bars in my draw. The the guy can pick one..I'll eat it and he can use the wrapper as a condom. Like that bloke on Jeremy Kyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this is the big serious announcement thread then I want my money back. I've organised a street party with finger buffet and all

Our street has got the bunting out, my neighbours are asking whether he was referring to the bareback thread, Im keeping a low profile, I fear I hyped it up too much. "

My washing line is like bunting today with all the condoms hanging on it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

Crisp bags.

Ah, I have a jumbo sized bag of Skips I shall put in my handbag.

They aren't safe enough, needs to be wotsits

I'm just surprised a VWE guy hasn't been along suggesting Monster Munch "

Pickled onion or flaming hot?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always provide my own.

Surely if a chap says "I forgot to bring them" the answer is, "oh I forgot to say I have genital warts, wanna share them?"

And if his answer is yes, then a one way ticket to the clap clinic is where his next visit should be...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

I always have them with me ….. just incase you didn’t and think I’ll let you get away with it!

I actually think you should provide them, regardless!

No matter how many times I meet them the rules are the same!! Good sex doesn’t have to be reckless sex!

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"If this is the big serious announcement thread then I want my money back. I've organised a street party with finger buffet and all

Our street has got the bunting out, my neighbours are asking whether he was referring to the bareback thread, Im keeping a low profile, I fear I hyped it up too much.

My washing line is like bunting today with all the condoms hanging on it. "

Busy weekend then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey maybe she could pay your petrol money if she wants to meet you or for the wear and tear on shoes etc?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How dare people saw forums are dull and slow.....thank you everyone xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i carry my own, and because i have a fussy foof prefer to use my own, but if he isnt carrying too, chances are i might “forget” that i brought any and have to postpone (cancel) the whole event

if a guy didnt think to bring condoms to sex , then he doesn’t normally use them and im not going to enjoy any of it thinking about what i possibly caught during foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed."

God didn't create anything, someone that never existed couldnt have created anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed.

God didn't create anything, someone that never existed couldnt have created anything."

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed."

God helps those who help themselves so if you don't want to help yourself by increasing chances of catching something you can do that as God also gives us choices

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed."

God also didn't create cars or shoes, so I hope you walk barefoot to every meet.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed.

God also didn't create cars or shoes, so I hope you walk barefoot to every meet. "

Loooooooooooooooool this tickled me too much but that's very true it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed.

God also didn't create cars or shoes, so I hope you walk barefoot to every meet. "

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Why is it up to the woman to request and facilitate safe sex, shouldn’t it be both partner’s responsibility to safe guard their sexual health?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed."

They were created for procreation, so, no fucking for pleasure, and definitely no oral or anal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed."

Did he design the Technological device you sent that message from, or was it sent via carrier pigeon ?

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

Crisp bags.

Ah, I have a jumbo sized bag of Skips I shall put in my handbag.

They aren't safe enough, needs to be wotsits

I'm just surprised a VWE guy hasn't been along suggesting Monster Munch

Pickled onion or flaming hot?! "

For those of us well endowed, then there is always the Grab Bag sized packets or even the Pringles can.

For those if us not well endowed there's always a packet of nuts on the side, I think nobbies nuts are just the right shape as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

I do actually provide condoms since I prefer a specific latex free brand. And I'd never be okay with anyone except my husband not using a condom, regardless of how many times we'd met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wear one no exceptions.

i bring my own."
that’s how it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both people are responsible. I bring my own latex free skyn condoms and lube too as I’m sensitive down there. I also buy XL ones incase he’s girthy AF.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

No BB ever here. That's reserved for us and guys who don't appreciate that are free to find people here who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

Crisp bags.

Ah, I have a jumbo sized bag of Skips I shall put in my handbag.

They aren't safe enough, needs to be wotsits

I'm just surprised a VWE guy hasn't been along suggesting Monster Munch

Pickled onion or flaming hot?!

For those of us well endowed, then there is always the Grab Bag sized packets or even the Pringles can.

For those if us not well endowed there's always a packet of nuts on the side, I think nobbies nuts are just the right shape as well."

A Pringles can also works well for less endowed men. Until it gets wet....

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Both parties are responsible

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Save money by washing the condom afterwards and keeping it to use next time.

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By *terobs6869Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

I'm wearing it, I provide it.

I think it's pretty cheap to expect a woman to supply your condoms. It doesn't matter if she is insisting that you wear it, that's her right.

I can't imagine many women being impressed if you took that stance with them.

It's no different to her expecting you to be hygienic. Do you want her to buy your shower gel too?

How would you feel if she said that if you were insisting on bareback you had to pay for her pill?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

Crisp bags.

Ah, I have a jumbo sized bag of Skips I shall put in my handbag.

They aren't safe enough, needs to be wotsits

I'm just surprised a VWE guy hasn't been along suggesting Monster Munch

Pickled onion or flaming hot?!

For those of us well endowed, then there is always the Grab Bag sized packets or even the Pringles can.

For those if us not well endowed there's always a packet of nuts on the side, I think nobbies nuts are just the right shape as well."

Clearly a sensible chap

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

Seriously??

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

Think these are questions that should all be covered BEFORE you meet as should be a individual choice .

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Both are responsible. I always bring condoms but sometimes guys have their own preferences of what they want to wear. I could meet someone 1000 times, he's still going to be wearing a condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bring the condoms, it's very rare for them to have XS size and they otherwise slip off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed.

God also didn't create cars or shoes, so I hope you walk barefoot to every meet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bareback with Sir, but owe'd only been with each other since we met. It's only now that we're venturing out with others. If condoms are needed, they supply them. Guys know their preference.

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By *r.PringleMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Even though I rarely have full sex, I always provide my own condoms so that I have correct size s/m. Plus I always make sure I have latex free condoms as I've met a few ladies who are allergic to latex.

If a man wants to have sex with a woman (or man) then it is his responsibility to provide his own condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God didnt create cock and pussy with a piece of latex on them. These organs are for a purpose. Use them as they were designed."

No, but as you mentioned what you believe God did, if you believe in the bible, you only sleep with the opposite sex, only when you're married and have sex to try for a baby. Hence no condoms.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"What happens if I arrive for the sex and I've forgotten to take my condoms with me?

Would he expect a blow job, or run down the corner shop?

I need to set a reminder.

Crisp bags.

Ah, I have a jumbo sized bag of Skips I shall put in my handbag.

They aren't safe enough, needs to be wotsits

I'm just surprised a VWE guy hasn't been along suggesting Monster Munch

Pickled onion or flaming hot?!

For those of us well endowed, then there is always the Grab Bag sized packets or even the Pringles can.

For those if us not well endowed there's always a packet of nuts on the side, I think nobbies nuts are just the right shape as well."

Leave a few nuts in the packet and you've got ribbed

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Save money by washing the condom afterwards and keeping it to use next time. "

Sally please tell me your joking looool xx

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Save money by washing the condom afterwards and keeping it to use next time.

Sally please tell me your joking looool xx"

That's what they had to do years back. They got given one really thick condom in a box and did have to wash it between uses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what the big deal is, bareback is totally safe. Live a little guys!

*Runs for cover*

And most women on here are of an age when getting pregnant is a long way in the past.....now I will run for cover

That’s not true. I’m 50 and still not out of the woods on that score. "

Just let us know which woods your hanging out in lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not one person’s responsibility. It’s about having an adult conversation and figuring out what each of you want. I personally prefer bareback (yes I know and accept the risks and don’t need a lecture) but I will wear condoms if I’m meeting people who don’t. I will also take my own if that’s the case but I’m also prepared to use theirs if that’s what they would prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

Ok this will help you.

One of your friends decide that you should go hiking.

Do they have to buy you hiking boots or do you bring your own?

I get ainvitation to the beach do you expect them to bring you swimming shorts or do you bring your own?

There is your answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Googles sarcasm and sense of humour*

Search results: 0

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off?

Ok this will help you.

One of your friends decide that you should go hiking.

Do they have to buy you hiking boots or do you bring your own?

I get ainvitation to the beach do you expect them to bring you swimming shorts or do you bring your own?

There is your answer."

I wouldn't go hiking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off?

Ok this will help you.

One of your friends decide that you should go hiking.

Do they have to buy you hiking boots or do you bring your own?

I get ainvitation to the beach do you expect them to bring you swimming shorts or do you bring your own?

There is your answer."

You put boots on your cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off?

Ok this will help you.

One of your friends decide that you should go hiking.

Do they have to buy you hiking boots or do you bring your own?

I get ainvitation to the beach do you expect them to bring you swimming shorts or do you bring your own?

There is your answer.

You put boots on your cock? "

So I have to take boots to a meet? My size or hers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off?

Ok this will help you.

One of your friends decide that you should go hiking.

Do they have to buy you hiking boots or do you bring your own?

I get ainvitation to the beach do you expect them to bring you swimming shorts or do you bring your own?

There is your answer.

You put boots on your cock?

So I have to take boots to a meet? My size or hers? "

I'd probably say hers but then you could be hung like a giraffe

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By *ent doggerMan
over a year ago

kent


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

I'm responsible for my own health, if the woman wants me to wear 1 or not, she has no choice. I provide for me and I'll always wear it.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I have a reusable one. For environmental purposes ((will no one but me think of the turtles?))

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I have a reusable one. For environmental purposes ((will no one but me think of the turtles?))"

I hope it's biodegradable?!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I think both should have that responsibility.

I'd take ownership anyway.

But..I'd expect the guy to be prepared and also be carrying.

Before my husband and I had unprotected sex we were both tested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read a thing once where a lady poked holes through the wrapper and into a condom with a needle I'll bring my own thanks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers and fabettes, I know I know..this has been discussed before.....but who is responsible for making sure condoms are worn? I think if a woman wants me to wear one then she should provide it? If you insist on condoms how many times will you meet that person before he can take his cock sock off? "

it all depends if you want sex, we always provide them, if you dont tho, you are going home frustrated, condoms, while not perfect are better than nothing, even if you have been tested the day before, whos to say you havnt slept with some one since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and judging by your lack of meets, most on here feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a condom big enough for some big dicks!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Only bareback I do is shirt off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only bareback I do is shirt off!!"

You are too daring

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Only bareback I do is shirt off!!

You are too daring

"

My middle names!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only bareback I do is shirt off!!

You are too daring

My middle names!! "

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By *ralwizardMan
over a year ago

Thornaby

I'm thinking whoever the host is, should be the one to provide the protection and everyone should always have some stored away just incase at anytime!

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