FabSwingers.com forum: Is it really?

By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Better to have loved and lost than never love at all?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Better to have loved and lost than never love at all?

The story of my life, and yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe so, I hope the day never comes but if I lost hubby I would be grateful for the time we had. When you truely love someone, time is not an issue

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes. I think so.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

If you have never loved then maybe ignorance is bliss, or the grass is always greener, and maybe a bird in the hand is worth two in a bush

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes i believe so.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Yes I belive so as life is about exploring and discovering new things, if you have never loved then you have never experienced the joy that it brings.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Yes, I'd say so...I can't imagine a life having never loved or been loved, it's such a wonderful feeling, however fleeting it may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better off without

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes for sure!

With people and animals! All that love we would have missed out on otherwise! And those fond memories stay with us!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Being in love is wonderful and yes at times agonisingly painful but absolutely worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is.

Heartbreak sucks though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been in love or been loved so I guess for me the grass is greener but I would like to experience it once

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, I think so. Love can be infuriating, heartbreaking, exhausting and so many other things. It also brings with it hope, that soaring happiness you feel with them, comfort and joy. There's no feeling quite like it so I'd happily put up with the negatives if it brings such highs into my life.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Love, however fleeting it may be, can make you feel amazing, wanted and part of something bigger than just you.

I pity anyone who has never felt this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if love is such a wonderful thing you are claim it to be.

why are you single and not in love with someone?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

It is a bit like the question whether you want to trade times of sadness & despair for times of happiness.

I d say for me I would want the highs in life and accept the lows as part of it. We probably would not appreciate the highs without having the lows?

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By *inBleuMan
over a year ago

Sunny Yorkshire

Absolutely so!

All part of life’s great tapestry and better than an unemotional one!

In the end your happiness and well-being is your responsibility alone.

Accept that, mount the roller coaster and enjoy the ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope...

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"if love is such a wonderful thing you are claim it to be.

why are you single and not in love with someone? "

There are many kinds of love! Children animals and partners! I choose to b single and to never love a man again! But have felt love for them and dont regret! But now I manage with love of my family/pets and settle for good friendship with men! For my own reasons x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is. It hurts so damn much when it's lost, but I don't regret it for a moment. Just don't know if I'll see it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if love is such a wonderful thing you are claim it to be.

why are you single and not in love with someone? "

Love comes in many forms and doesn't have to be a romantic relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life without love, is like a fire without flame.

Granted that flame will always burn us eventually.

Love will always hurt, be it relationship wise, family or anything else.

Having lost both my mother and dog 7 months ago(mother) and 5 months ago(the pooch) unexpectedly love really really hurts.

But that's life right.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Better to have loved and lost than never love at all?

Most definitely, then you know you’ve lived a life. To be loved and love back is wonderful I’m loved currently by my children and it’s enough for me. My little boy (he’s 7) regularly comes up for a cuddle and tells me he loves me.

Not bothered about romantic love currently, happy enough on my own but if it comes along fine, if not I’ve done it and I feel that’s enough for me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I don't think it is. I don't think it leads us to appreciate more on the whole, I think it leads us to fear loss again, become insecure and have attachment issues.

Just me then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather not love at all .. can’t get hurt then ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah however much it hurts afterwards.

The memories you make are worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you could have otherwise achieved during the period of "loving". I'm an old romantic ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love in any form is always worth it ... life devoid of love can only be sad

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

"Better to have loved and lost than never love at all?"

Depends on how you look at it. Is it better to do something very fun and very dangerous (and love is, if anything, a pursuit potentially very harmful to your mental health) or not do it all?

If love is worth it, what about hard drugs? Or skydiving? Or or or...

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"if love is such a wonderful thing you are claim it to be.

why are you single and not in love with someone? "

You can be in love with someone and still be single, loving someone doesn't mean that you have to be a couple in the sense that most of society expects you to be, me and my meta are very much in love with each other but are both still single people who can see, date and sleep with other people in our own right sometimes we may even see them together, we don't live together and are free to lead separate lives if we choose to.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Of course it will always be worth it. Even a lost love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Everyone I've ever loved has broken my heart.

It won't stop me from loving in the future.

I hope that those men will one day look back and remember me fondly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better to have loved and lost than never love at all?

How would you ever have lived, if you’ve never experienced love, living without love is not living, it’s existing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it’s not worth it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it depends on the nature of the loss and how you're able to deal with it. For some the loss of love seems to taint the rest of their life

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Depends upon the love and how that love was lost!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the worst thing that can happen is losing yourself. Not someone else.

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over a year ago

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Mmmm not too sure pain for loving someone and scared of loosing not sure. Wish I was hard hearted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You learn so much about yourself and other people when you love someone and have a relationship. The richness of experience that loving partners, children, friends etc has given me is precious. I'd not give up those experiences for anything, even the painful ones.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It is, but the pain of loss can be the worse thing in the world, it can break you.

But you come out the other side a little stronger and also a little harder, because you never want to go through that again

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I believe it is. I don't regret any love that made me happy at one point. The trick is knowing when to call it a day before any bitterness develops.

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