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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone hope you’re having a great Saturday and the weather is beautiful for everyone

I have been on here a while and I am really struggling to find any ladies that are interested and I’m starting to think what is wrong with me

If you think there is anyway I can improve my profile then I would appreciate so much

Have a great weekend

Josh xx

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By *hortie69Man
over a year ago

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Sadly fab is a numbers game sadly buddy,

Your profile seems OK lots of decent photos etc.

You have to catch the right women's attention, or couples etc when they are looking.

Keep searching and you will find what you want.

If your just after a quick hook up. I'd say try other dating apps.

Women and couples on fab are after more than a quick fumble.

Also be active on the forums and in the chat rooms as well.

Good luck

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By *hortie69Man
over a year ago

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Also your age rang could put people off as 18-99 is just giving of the signs of maybe coming across desperate for any age.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I was here for a long ass time before I had any interest in me.

I have now been here for a longer ass time and I have just a handful interested in me. And I'm perfectly fine with that because those few interested are worth more than the full inbox attention and interest the ladies of fab get anyday.

Just drop any and all expectations and let it take its course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m having the same issue been on and off for years and always find it hard to either interact or try and get a conversation starter, where do you start with it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The advice I will always give is to go to socials and meet ups. The website is great once you have a good network of people you have met. The verifications roll in and everything gets easier.

Profiles are easy to forget but physical interactions are memorable

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

You've been on here 5 weeks! As people are coming out of lockdown. People will have friends and past regular meets they want to catch up with and people will also have suffered message fatigue for sure!

What were your expectations when joing the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone hope you’re having a great Saturday and the weather is beautiful for everyone

I have been on here a while and I am really struggling to find any ladies that are interested and I’m starting to think what is wrong with me

If you think there is anyway I can improve my profile then I would appreciate so much

Have a great weekend

Josh xx"

You're a great looking guy with a great body. Don't let the lack of replies get you down, I think people get a bit swamped with messages.

-Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The advice I will always give is to go to socials and meet ups. The website is great once you have a good network of people you have met. The verifications roll in and everything gets easier.

Profiles are easy to forget but physical interactions are memorable "

Good point I think here, at the moment tho it’s having the time to head to these meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 2 more veris than a lot of men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here 5 weeks and have had 2 verifications...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Hi everyone hope you’re having a great Saturday and the weather is beautiful for everyone

I have been on here a while and I am really struggling to find any ladies that are interested and I’m starting to think what is wrong with me

If you think there is anyway I can improve my profile then I would appreciate so much

Have a great weekend

Josh xx"

5 weeks is nothing, barely a toe in yet, be patient

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Nothing's wrong with you OP, this Fab and that's just how it goes. Get along to the clubs (when they open) and you'll see things a lot differently.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You're very new here, after over a year during which people could not meet. And whilst thousands of men and others joined, going to the back of the queue, of people who others wanted to meet.

It always takes a very long time, in the perspective of men, to get established here. Only your expectations can be adjusted and managed by you to reflect the reality.

Looking at your text, you mentioned natural dom and suggested flexibility. And then continue to include details of hair pulling etc, when perhaps you may have already said enough?

Your photos are reasonable and I fabbed a couple. Not too much dick pics is good.

It is a lot of effort here for single men. If your profile reflects you and is honest, that's ideal. Experiment with adjustments, to gauge any differences.

Good luck!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Hi everyone hope you’re having a great Saturday and the weather is beautiful for everyone

I have been on here a while and I am really struggling to find any ladies that are interested and I’m starting to think what is wrong with me

If you think there is anyway I can improve my profile then I would appreciate so much

Have a great weekend

Josh xx"

Five weeks is no time on Fab.

You have a half decent profile and photos. Nothing else you can do really.

If people out there aren't finding your profile attractive then that is just the way it is.

Patience is a virtue that single men definitely need on here, however there are loads of guys like you on here looking for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow well wasn’t expecting that many replies!

Thank you all so much for your advice and I guess I just have to be patient and I’m sure I can do that!

I also am not into on offs so normally want to chat more than anything and see if there is any connection or mental attraction but I suppose it will all come in time

Thank you so much everyone

You’re all so lovely kind and genuine

Happy Saturday

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is difficult for guys, plus you are on the younger spectrum which puts some of us older ones off (not all by any means) It’s nothing personal but too close in age to kids for example,

Plus many of us have built connections over the past year and are prioritising meeting up with them when the time is right rather than building new connections.

Just be patient and it will work out and don’t get disheartened. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're on the Young side. Especially for me.

But awesome motorbike pic, I've fabbed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no magic fix to get people to be interested. Your profile should be as you would like it as it's ultimately a reflection of who you are and your personality.

The only advice I can give you is don't take things too personally, have a sense of humour and just be yourself. You will find the best playmate for you that way! Good luck

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Wrong with you

Nothing

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

There's nothing wrong with you, Berry! I've seen you interacting on the forum & you're hilarious. As well as gorgeous!!

You're just too young for me, sadly.

But please just be patient & carry on being you. We need guys like you and my mate Tallaght on the forum! Xcx

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Best way to stand out is get yourself away from the screen and out there meeting people. Socials, clubs and parties are the way to go now we’re coming out of lockdown…

Took me close to 18 months to build up the verifications I have so just remember it’s a marathon not a sprint

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Pity your not nearer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone hope you’re having a great Saturday and the weather is beautiful for everyone

I have been on here a while and I am really struggling to find any ladies that are interested and I’m starting to think what is wrong with me

If you think there is anyway I can improve my profile then I would appreciate so much

Have a great weekend

Josh xx"

When are you coming to Leeds?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not entirely sure you have a problem OP - here 5 weeks and verified twice already tells me that, or leads me to suspect this is either a thinly veiled look at me thread or that your expectations are set wrong and you were expecting more.

You've a decent profile and pics and from this thread alone it's obvious to see you won't be short of interest once we start to come out of lockdown a little bit more and people are more open to meeting.

Just keep doing what you've been doing I'd say

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"Pity your not nearer "

Not sure you were referring to myself or the OP here

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