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By *uckold wannabe 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sittingbourne

any genuine mistresses on here? xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

That may well depend on what you define as both "genuine" and "Mistress" to be honest, as well as your idea of what one is matching with theirs

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By *bbyBiTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Genuine mistress here

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yes, when I'm in the mood.

I think there's quite a few of us

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

I’m not sure there are that many of you. I’ve been looking for ages. Mistress are rare on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very vague, depends on your definition and what you’re looking for as it can be quite a broad spectrum, for example..

Do you want to be humiliated, belittled, hog tied, whipped or do you want to be shat on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and that point is difficult to get across....

Broad scale of D/s play

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm sometimes a Goddess.

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch


"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....

Broad scale of D/s play "

That is true personally I’m more of a pleasure sub. Although I understand correction may be required

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....

Broad scale of D/s play "

Which is where communication is key as is the importance of both dominants and submissives being able to define what D/s means to them if they are ever to hope to find someone whose definition matches their own.

Unfortunately many (mainly men) still have the stereotyped whips and chains and the submissive doing as they're told view of D/s which at best is deluding themselves and at worst incredibly dangerous.

I wouldn't even contemplate entering into my submissive mode without a lot of communication and mutual trust/respect having been built beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping a keen eye on this thread

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"any genuine mistresses on here? xx"

There are but you might find that other sites are better for what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....

Broad scale of D/s play

Which is where communication is key as is the importance of both dominants and submissives being able to define what D/s means to them if they are ever to hope to find someone whose definition matches their own.

Unfortunately many (mainly men) still have the stereotyped whips and chains and the submissive doing as they're told view of D/s which at best is deluding themselves and at worst incredibly dangerous.

I wouldn't even contemplate entering into my submissive mode without a lot of communication and mutual trust/respect having been built beforehand."

May I add, newbies wanting to experiment, need to do some reading research, before they contemplate if this scene is for them...

When they have, they'll be able to communicate on any D/s level.

"I'll do whatever you want Mistress" isn't cutting it for me

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

There is.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....

Broad scale of D/s play

Which is where communication is key as is the importance of both dominants and submissives being able to define what D/s means to them if they are ever to hope to find someone whose definition matches their own.

Unfortunately many (mainly men) still have the stereotyped whips and chains and the submissive doing as they're told view of D/s which at best is deluding themselves and at worst incredibly dangerous.

I wouldn't even contemplate entering into my submissive mode without a lot of communication and mutual trust/respect having been built beforehand.

May I add, newbies wanting to experiment, need to do some reading research, before they contemplate if this scene is for them...

When they have, they'll be able to communicate on any D/s level.

"I'll do whatever you want Mistress" isn't cutting it for me "

Absolutely - the first advice I usually offer to anyone with an interest in exploring is to read, read and read some more, and when they think they've done enough reading to read some more

Too often you see things like "I'll do anything" or "No limits" being put forth - funny how that changes when you ask if they'd get something tattoo'd on their forehead or similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and that point is difficult to get across....

Broad scale of D/s play

Which is where communication is key as is the importance of both dominants and submissives being able to define what D/s means to them if they are ever to hope to find someone whose definition matches their own.

Unfortunately many (mainly men) still have the stereotyped whips and chains and the submissive doing as they're told view of D/s which at best is deluding themselves and at worst incredibly dangerous.

I wouldn't even contemplate entering into my submissive mode without a lot of communication and mutual trust/respect having been built beforehand.

May I add, newbies wanting to experiment, need to do some reading research, before they contemplate if this scene is for them...

When they have, they'll be able to communicate on any D/s level.

"I'll do whatever you want Mistress" isn't cutting it for me

Absolutely - the first advice I usually offer to anyone with an interest in exploring is to read, read and read some more, and when they think they've done enough reading to read some more

Too often you see things like "I'll do anything" or "No limits" being put forth - funny how that changes when you ask if they'd get something tattoo'd on their forehead or similar "

Ohhh haha

I'm going to remember that line!

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By *icker20.Man
over a year ago

Swindon

Looking for local mistress too..

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

I’m a nuclear sub - marvel at my love missile!! that ends my valuable contribution to this thread…

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