FabSwingers.com forum: The sought after fabbers.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do the more sought after people on fab find it harder to get on in fab?

Are they treated differently because of the assumptions people quite easily make?

Assumptions being that they receive loads of messages and attention and can as a result take their pick of who they want. That they'll only go for hot people. That they wouldn't go for certain types etc etc.

Do these people get put on a pedestal if you like, for want of a better phrase.

Do they get more comments about how they look rather than people actually getting to know them? Or do people bit even try chatting because they think there is no hope?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about you op?

Your a lovely women, when we have spoken. How do you deal with all the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deliberately offset my coolness by pretending to be a nerdy ginger geek. I hardly get a second glance by most, if only they knew what they were missing out on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a heavy subject for Friday evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so tough you wouldn't believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be a bit of each of those all depends on who the fabber is and who the viewer is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's so tough you wouldn't believe. "

What she said.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"It's so tough you wouldn't believe.

What she said.

What she said about what she said.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I'm not popular I couldn't handle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads "

www.themostsoughtafterfabbers.com

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No one wants me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Get on with the forum or with fab in general? Those who are top of hot pics or forum popular?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"No one wants me

You're very wrong there! We like you a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants me

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants me

Pretty sure lots of people do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say some of the forum women may be put on a pedastel or are presumed to be more popular.

When I first started using the forum I noticed certain women initially who seemed to stand out more. After awhile I would notice others who appealed more to me.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"No one wants me

Come join me in the kitchen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get on with the forum or with fab in general? Those who are top of hot pics or forum popular?

Either. Whatever makes someone sought after.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I know no one wants me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I purposely put hidious photos of me on my profile to deter people from messaging.

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=J-_30HA7rec

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't think you would find many people would recognise themselves as "more sought after". They probably don't compare their experience with others very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know if your sought after? Is there a chart?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know if your sought after? Is there a chart?

There's always a spreadsheet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand this pedestal/out of leagues thing. We are all on the same level and anyone who thinks that way, have a little confidence in who you are and what you can offer

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"No one wants me

Come join me in the kitchen.

What are we making

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about you op?

Your a lovely women, when we have spoken. How do you deal with all the attention.

Really don't consider myself myself as one of the sought after ones. And I've spent weeks not allowing people to message anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads "

I have no idea how you would tell.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"I don't understand this pedestal/out of leagues thing. We are all on the same level and anyone who thinks that way, have a little confidence in who you are and what you can offer

Couldn’t agree more.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Get on with the forum or with fab in general? Those who are top of hot pics or forum popular?

Either. Whatever makes someone sought after. "

I think sought after only matters if it's by the kind of people you want to be sought by, if that makes sense? Yeah I've not got the most popular pictures, I'm definitely a rubbish flirt on here and many probably don't have a clue what I'm about. But I've made friends with both genders on here. And there are some I'm really chuffed like me. But that is me in real life also I have a few people who I'm mates with. Others are more social butterflies and have lots of mates. I kinda see this place as being the same

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I don't understand this pedestal/out of leagues thing. We are all on the same level and anyone who thinks that way, have a little confidence in who you are and what you can offer

This is so very true

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

People don't talk to me and are surprised when I express an interest in them. That's not because I'm sought after or popular on the forums, it's because they probably think I'm too busy typing waffle on here.

I do think that quite a few people believe in leagues or assume that certain people would only like a particular aesthetic. I don't subscribe to leagues buuut I do understand why some people do. Take hot pics - there's little point messaging a woman when she's on there and then later complains about receiving 25 billion messages. Sometimes people might have low self esteem and think what's the point of messaging this person?

I don't want 101 messages from random men and women, I'd rather have a few from those I actually like.

Sorry for the waffle! I've been trying to cut down but old habits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know if your sought after? Is there a chart?

There's a whole ven pie-agram on the topic somewhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know if your sought after? Is there a chart?

There's always a spreadsheet

Oh please share, did I make the cut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know if your sought after? Is there a chart?

There's a whole ven pie-agram on the topic somewhere... "

I always miss these things!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know if your sought after? Is there a chart?

There's always a spreadsheet

Oh please share, did I make the cut?

I'll just fire up the algorithm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know if your sought after? Is there a chart?

There's a whole ven pie-agram on the topic somewhere...

I always miss these things!!

Nope your in

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads

I have no idea how you would tell. "

Okay, without meaning to sound full of myself, I'll go with the assumption that I may be, based on getting a constant stream of messages and a decent amount of fabs when I upload pictures.

I've never really found much that hinders me on here, barring not finding anyone that I'm attracted to. What I've been looking for has changed over the years, but I've always done my own thing and searched rather than respond to incoming unsolicited messages, so I guess it doesn't really matter whether I'm sought after or not because I've always sought out those that I'm interested in.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’ve had to take on staff to help me with the amount of attention I get!

In other news, man bites dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had to take on staff to help me with the amount of attention I get!

In other news, man bites dog. "

Again, thank you for the job. Although I should point out that the 'computer' you provided me with was actually an empty cardboard box with a screen painted on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know if you’re “sought after”??

We would 4 or 5 messages a day unless we have just put a new pic up and then it can be more. But I guess that’s pretty standard.

It’s the folks who always are top of the ‘hot pics’ I guess who can pic and choose but no idea how they get there each day.

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wrapped empty box meant so much more than a material plaything

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I’ve had to take on staff to help me with the amount of attention I get!

In other news, man bites dog.

Again, thank you for the job. Although I should point out that the 'computer' you provided me with was actually an empty cardboard box with a screen painted on it.

Silence serf, get back to work, *cracks whip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea if I count as being 'sought after' but getting lots of messages is actually quite a barrier to finding someone to connect with. On days where I've posted a photo, I tend to avoid my inbox and just hang out in the forums where I can to chat to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a competition?

Personally feel many people on here are overly intelligent and open to enjoying life

If is a competition of meeting I’m not involved

If is a competition of wit and humor... I am very impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea if I count as being 'sought after' but getting lots of messages is actually quite a barrier to finding someone to connect with. On days where I've posted a photo, I tend to avoid my inbox and just hang out in the forums where I can to chat to people

I can't account for anyone else but if you weren't almost as far away from me as you could get in this country, you would be sought by me for sure. Not just forum sought but cup of coffee or glass of wine kind of sought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sought after is deemed to be different from the majority. They are seen to have choices that others lack, hence would never choose the ‘lesser’ option that we are ‘stuck with.’

Our perception is that they cannot be like us. They must be happy because they can choose and have whatever they want and we are always happy when we can have what we think we want. They must simply ignore all others and focus only on other sought afters because we imagine that must be heavenly.

All of this is based on our own perception of what we want. If we had that, we would be happy.

Sometimes, it can be lonely to be sought after. No one sees you.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Sought after by some is a stay a million miles away by others, I dont think there are many at all if any who are liked by all.

Nobody on here is on a pedestal that high and often that pedestal is being shook by a few anyway.....it's a snake put out there folks

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Sought after by some is a stay a million miles away by others, I dont think there are many at all if any who are liked by all.

Nobody on here is on a pedestal that high and often that pedestal is being shook by a few anyway.....it's a snake put out there folks

Pit.....for God's sake

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads

I have no idea how you would tell.

Okay, without meaning to sound full of myself, I'll go with the assumption that I may be, based on getting a constant stream of messages and a decent amount of fabs when I upload pictures.

I can relate lily, a lot of my messages start with I know I'm probably out of your league, I honestly don't see myself the way they seem to and it baffles me sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The grass is greener the light is brighter

Yet with a nudge... you have everything and lovely to see you can explore realms of fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree you admit to loneliness

Respect passion and desire burns

Direct it positively

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

I don’t want to be sort after.. not saying its a bad thing as some need the attention for whatever reason.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We get a lot of attention for our pics but I wouldn’t consider us sought after at all.

We chat to the people we want to chat to rather than waste time on people we don’t. We are polite to people who message but we see little point in having long conversations with people who we aren’t wanting to be friends or friends with benefits with.

So I’d say we are using FAB how we want to and not wasting time on things we don’t want to.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Reckon I've got a couple of .22 calibre bullets with my name on but that's not the sought after we're on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t want to be sort after.. not saying its a bad thing as some need the attention for whatever reason.

Sought after isn’t a choice sometimes. They are simply sought after, not that they necessarily court it.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I don’t want to be sort after.. not saying its a bad thing as some need the attention for whatever reason.

Sought after isn’t a choice sometimes. They are simply sought after, not that they necessarily court it."

In my opinion on fab being page 1 on hot pics.. asking for fabs is asking to br sought after.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Reckon I've got a couple of .22 calibre bullets with my name on but that's not the sought after we're on about "

We all love you though

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not fussed if I'm sought after or not which is why I regular hide my profile or disappear for months at a time. I don't need or crave the validation/attention that some appear too.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

"Reckon I've got a couple of .22 calibre bullets with my name on but that's not the sought after we're on about "

.22 calibre won’t penetrate the Peach.

I’m pretty sure those who want to take you on know to come with a .50 cal and 200 rounds of link.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

I don't give a fig if I was on a pedestal or not I am me as you are you.....

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No body should really be put on a pedestal as we're all humans and if someone looks great then they've just been lucky with genes.

For me I have to be attracted to looks and personality or the looks count for absolutely nothing and I won't be interested in them.

That's just my opinion though

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By *illagazMan
over a year ago

yeovil

"Do the more sought after people on fab find it harder to get on in fab?

Are they treated differently because of the assumptions people quite easily make?

Do these people get put on a pedestal if you like, for want of a better phrase.

Do they get more comments about how they look rather than people actually getting to know them? Or do people bit even try chatting because they think there is no hope?

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wow that is me, i would love to chat get to know someone but most of the women usually say not my type not interested or hit delete button. It would be so nice just to be involved xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sought after by some is a stay a million miles away by others, I dont think there are many at all if any who are liked by all.

Nobody on here is on a pedestal that high and often that pedestal is being shook by a few anyway.....it's a snake put out there folks

A man from Mars is a bee to flowers (quote The King And I)

A lady from Venus .. i do not understand.. but consider the constant attention from men is harrassing and with encumbrance of many responsibilities that are easily overlooked

Queen elisabeth the first

I have always so behaved myself that, under God, I have placed my chiefest strength and safeguard in the loyal hearts and good-will of my subjects; and therefore I am come amongst you, as you see, at this time, not for my recreation and disport, but being resolved, in the midst and heat of the battle, to live and die ..

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Does getting more attention mean they are more sought after though?

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By *illagazMan
over a year ago

yeovil

"How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads

I have no idea how you would tell.

Okay, without meaning to sound full of myself, I'll go with the assumption that I may be, based on getting a constant stream of messages and a decent amount of fabs when I upload pictures.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sought after by some is a stay a million miles away by others, I dont think there are many at all if any who are liked by all.

Nobody on here is on a pedestal that high and often that pedestal is being shook by a few anyway.....it's a snake put out there folks

A man from Mars is a bee to flowers (quote The King And I)

A lady from Venus .. i do not understand.. but consider the constant attention from men is harrassing and with encumbrance of many responsibilities that are easily overlooked

Queen elisabeth the first

This

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Reckon I've got a couple of .22 calibre bullets with my name on but that's not the sought after we're on about

.22 calibre won’t penetrate the Peach.

I’m pretty sure those who want to take you on know to come with a .50 cal and 200 rounds of link."

Or just a logo on the floor for me to stand on. That's takes fuckers out daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reckon I've got a couple of .22 calibre bullets with my name on but that's not the sought after we're on about

.22 calibre won’t penetrate the Peach.

I’m pretty sure those who want to take you on know to come with a .50 cal and 200 rounds of link.

A real man would take those bullets for u

Or just a logo on the floor for me to stand on. That's takes fuckers out daily "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reckon I've got a couple of .22 calibre bullets with my name on but that's not the sought after we're on about

.22 calibre won’t penetrate the Peach.

I’m pretty sure those who want to take you on know to come with a .50 cal and 200 rounds of link.

Or just a logo on the floor for me to stand on. That's takes fuckers out daily "

.22? That's Mossad territory. WTF have you done to upset the Izzies? You'd better come to my bunker

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Again it depends on people's definition of sought after? Is that the same as popular and if so what determines if someone is popular?

I haven't sent a first contact message in 15 months but I post in the forums almost every day and people have been known to respond to my posts. Does that make me popular or sought after? No it certainly doesn't. That's just fab perception.

Despite posting daily and engaging with others I average one message every 3 weeks. I have gone for much longer without receiving one though.

During my time here I have been told by 3 different people who got in touch that they didn't expect me to reply to their message because they thought it would be lost among the deluge and I would be too busy with others to reply.

My forum interaction is my only engagement with fab and there are forumites I get on with despite knowing nothing about them and never having spoken to them. Likewise there are people I refuse to engage with because of their forum attitude.

Being sought after is not my raison d'etre.

Of the messages I do get, 70% refer to my pics and the rest to my forum comments but very few go beyond the second or third message because I find we have little or nothing in common.

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By *imatureMan
over a year ago

sligo

"No one wants me

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I doubt that very much

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

No you're not just boobs, you've got a great peach of a bum too

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"No one wants me

Come join me in the kitchen.

What are we making

Lemon drizzle cake!!!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads

I have no idea how you would tell.

Okay, without meaning to sound full of myself, I'll go with the assumption that I may be, based on getting a constant stream of messages and a decent amount of fabs when I upload pictures.

I can relate lily, a lot of my messages start with I know I'm probably out of your league, I honestly don't see myself the way they seem to and it baffles me sometimes

That’s how we started speaking. Still think it now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People don't talk to me and are surprised when I express an interest in them. That's not because I'm sought after or popular on the forums, it's because they probably think I'm too busy typing waffle on here.

I don't want 101 messages from random men and women, I'd rather have a few from those I actually like.

Sorry for the waffle! I've been trying to cut down but old habits."

There's a lot of truth in this. I've definitely been the other person in this scenario - figuring that someone would be inundated with messages from people they'll probably find more attractive so what's the point? I appreciate that that's not an attractive trait and people find confidence sexy and all, but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

No you're not just boobs, you've got a great peach of a bum too

Waaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean like the silver shiny football stickers ?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"You mean like the silver shiny football stickers ? "

More like the shiny pogs and slammers.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

we have spoken in the past (now i know who you are) and the conversations were good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course.....but its our fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

we have spoken in the past (now i know who you are) and the conversations were good"

Thanks

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

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That's because funishment is so good

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m not forum popular or fab popular but I’m pretty happy with that - makes my inbox more manageable at least.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads

I have no idea how you would tell.

Okay, without meaning to sound full of myself, I'll go with the assumption that I may be, based on getting a constant stream of messages and a decent amount of fabs when I upload pictures.

I can relate lily, a lot of my messages start with I know I'm probably out of your league, I honestly don't see myself the way they seem to and it baffles me sometimes

That’s how we started speaking. Still think it now x"

Think I've proven I'm not

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"I’m not forum popular or fab popular but I’m pretty happy with that - makes my inbox more manageable at least.

You’re pretty groovy baby

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I’m not forum popular or fab popular but I’m pretty happy with that - makes my inbox more manageable at least.

You’re pretty groovy baby

£5 is in the letterbox

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"I’m not forum popular or fab popular but I’m pretty happy with that - makes my inbox more manageable at least.

You’re pretty groovy baby

£5 is in the letterbox

I couldn’t possibly accept cash!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I’m not forum popular or fab popular but I’m pretty happy with that - makes my inbox more manageable at least.

You’re pretty groovy baby

£5 is in the letterbox

I couldn’t possibly accept cash!

Sainsbury’s Vouchers?

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

It is far easier to be unpopular than popular

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"I’m not forum popular or fab popular but I’m pretty happy with that - makes my inbox more manageable at least.

You’re pretty groovy baby

£5 is in the letterbox

I couldn’t possibly accept cash!

Sainsbury’s Vouchers?

In kind would be ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure on this one as I see alot of statuses saying want meet etc everyday from people who clearly have 100s to choose from

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont think id want to be one of the sort after. I imagine gwtting 100s of messages a day would be a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean I am pretty popular, one of my pictures was liked 6 times and I think I had a wink and two messages in one day a few weeks back.

On a serious note, I don't know how you ladies/men/couples cope with constant mail and harassment on cams. The thought of the admin involved gives me a headache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

You do surprise me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

You do surprise me

I know

, I’m NEVER deliberately cheeky

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

You do surprise me

I know

, I’m NEVER deliberately cheeky

Lol I never poke in the ribs or slap bums and RUN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

You do surprise me

I know

, I’m NEVER deliberately cheeky

Lol I never poke in the ribs or slap bums and RUN

And I never stick my tongue out, knowing I’ll get in trouble

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

You do surprise me

I know

, I’m NEVER deliberately cheeky

Lol I never poke in the ribs or slap bums and RUN

And I never stick my tongue out, knowing I’ll get in trouble

I get in big trouble for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

You do surprise me

I know

, I’m NEVER deliberately cheeky

Lol I never poke in the ribs or slap bums and RUN

And I never stick my tongue out, knowing I’ll get in trouble

I get in big trouble for that

So do I

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

You do surprise me

I know

, I’m NEVER deliberately cheeky

Lol I never poke in the ribs or slap bums and RUN

And I never stick my tongue out, knowing I’ll get in trouble

I get in big trouble for that

So do I

Yet we do it all the same, I wonder why

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It's so tough you wouldn't believe. "

Totally agree

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"How would you know if you're sought after, particularly as a woman?...I mean, we all get constantly bombarded with messages judging by frequent posts on threads

I have no idea how you would tell.

Okay, without meaning to sound full of myself, I'll go with the assumption that I may be, based on getting a constant stream of messages and a decent amount of fabs when I upload pictures.

I can relate lily, a lot of my messages start with I know I'm probably out of your league, I honestly don't see myself the way they seem to and it baffles me sometimes

That’s how we started speaking. Still think it now x

Think I've proven I'm not

I beg to differ haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone messaging me should look at my most recent pictures and see what the fab situation is. Lots of fabs equal lots of visits to your profile equal lots of messages.

My profile gets a lot of traffic but it doesn’t put people off from messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’m sought after, but I do get a lot of remarks about the way I look, which is lovely, but I’m not just boobs

Behave you, you're one naughty angel too

I try my best

(to be naughty

That's because funishment is so good

I do like funishment!

You do surprise me

I know

, I’m NEVER deliberately cheeky

Lol I never poke in the ribs or slap bums and RUN

And I never stick my tongue out, knowing I’ll get in trouble

I get in big trouble for that

So do I

Yet we do it all the same, I wonder why

I know, I can’t understand it

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You all look the same lying down

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Anyone messaging me should look at my most recent pictures and see what the fab situation is. Lots of fabs equal lots of visits to your profile equal lots of messages.

My profile gets a lot of traffic but it doesn’t put people off from messaging. "

You are ridiculously fit so I'm one of the 8000 gabbers, but I would doubt you'd be after a hairy dad bod so probably wouldn't message. One would assume you already have your pick of gents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of who you are and how you perceive yourself just remember your shit still stinks the same

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Regardless of who you are and how you perceive yourself just remember your shit still stinks the same

Not mine, surely

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I would far rather be respected by a few than sought after by many x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regardless of who you are and how you perceive yourself just remember your shit still stinks the same

Not mine, surely

No my darling. You shit glitter and rainbows

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Regardless of who you are and how you perceive yourself just remember your shit still stinks the same

Never change your blunt ways.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I would far rather be respected by a few than sought after by many x"

You get both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regardless of who you are and how you perceive yourself just remember your shit still stinks the same

Never change your blunt ways.

You know me well Meli

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Regardless of who you are and how you perceive yourself just remember your shit still stinks the same

Not mine, surely

No my darling. You shit glitter and rainbows

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