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Dancers make the best lovers

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington

..ok dancer might be a strong word, but people who know how to dance in general and have rhythm (and mobility)...do they perform better sexually? My question might be a bit biased having a background in dancing , however I have always been complimented for "the moves". Not sure if there's actually a correlation between dancing and being "good in bed" and honestly after movies like Dirty Dancing and Magic Mike, it kinda became like a stereotype as well.

What are your opinions/experience ? I had one woman mentioning that she had the worst sex with a dancer , so there's definitely that, but in general, are dancers better lovers?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

What kind of dancing OP? Just being nosey.

I think having rhythm helps definitely as long as it synchronises with your partner. And years of ballet as a kid means even though I'm quite big I'm still flexible. Definitely being able to stand on tip toes for ages helps with kissing tall men lol.

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"What kind of dancing OP? Just being nosey.

I think having rhythm helps definitely as long as it synchronises with your partner. And years of ballet as a kid means even though I'm quite big I'm still flexible. Definitely being able to stand on tip toes for ages helps with kissing tall men lol. "

My background is in street dance/ hip hop

I have been to some ballet classes as well, but will never be a le to stand on my toes :P

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By *lice1010Couple
over a year ago

CROYDON

Pre covid I danced a lot. 3-4 times a week at classes and freestyle events. Mainly jive, tango and blues all "partner dances" so you learn to follow and be in touch with the other person. It becomes automatic if you've danced for some time. I'm sure it helps with sensuality and connection in the bedroom too, and with being comfortable in close contact with the opposite sex .

Really missing dancing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not tap dancers.

imagine all that tippy tappy shit in the middle of the night. do my fucking head in riverdance bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good dance! Missed a good boogie recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dance like Mr Bean.. what does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research says they do ... apparently

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Sex is about the chemistry between 2 people.

You can be the best lover in the world(or so you think)but unless that magic is there between the 2 of you...

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I'm not great at dancing (though I think that's a confidence thing tbh), but I'm amazing at rhythm action games on console, so can definitely keep a rhythm going

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Sex is about the chemistry between 2 people.

You can be the best lover in the world(or so you think)but unless that magic is there between the 2 of you..."

Correct.x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I dance like I've been electrocuted or am having a seizure, but I still think I'm good at the sex thing

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

As it's a sensuous, creative art form, I'd expect dancers tend to make good lovers.

See also: musicians, sculptors, etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dance like I've been electrocuted or am having a seizure, but I still think I'm good at the sex thing "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"not tap dancers.

imagine all that tippy tappy shit in the middle of the night. do my fucking head in riverdance bollocks"

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I dont believe they do. Sex isn't about how you move, it's about chemistry and a connection. Without those no matter how good a mover you are the sex is going to be crap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dance like Mr Bean.. what does that mean? "

YES! thats my dance moves are mr bean inspired twist and thrust! twist and thrust!

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

Well id love to say this is true as I love a good dance and think im great hahahaha (jokes) but hubby has no dance rhythm at all yet great rhythm in bed unless he is just following me and my moves hahaha

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Is it the music playing that gives rhythm then?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've never asked a man who was a good lover to dance for me

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"I dont believe they do. Sex isn't about how you move, it's about chemistry and a connection. Without those no matter how good a mover you are the sex is going to be crap x"

Of course, However the question relates more to sexual performance. The chemistry/connection/spark between the two should already be there at that point.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Latin American dancers must be red hot in bed then.

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham


"Is it the music playing that gives rhythm then? "

Oh defo!! I think im a stripper if a song comes on I can shake my thing too ha!!

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Is it the music playing that gives rhythm then? "

You are born with rhythm...you either have it or don't

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I dont believe they do. Sex isn't about how you move, it's about chemistry and a connection. Without those no matter how good a mover you are the sex is going to be crap x

Of course, However the question relates more to sexual performance. The chemistry/connection/spark between the two should already be there at that point. "

Why should being a dancer make the sexual performance different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dance like Mr Bean.. what does that mean?

YES! thats my dance moves are mr bean inspired twist and thrust! twist and thrust! "

Guess we can be shit at sex together then

*Plays Mr Boombastic*

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The best lovers are musicians.

On a separate note, I have been playing the piano for 40 years. Luke

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"I dont believe they do. Sex isn't about how you move, it's about chemistry and a connection. Without those no matter how good a mover you are the sex is going to be crap x

Of course, However the question relates more to sexual performance. The chemistry/connection/spark between the two should already be there at that point.

Why should being a dancer make the sexual performance different? "

Dancers tend to have a better understanding of their own body and better mobility... at least so they say, there's always a difference between theory and practical applications. And we are talking in general terms rather than individuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female dancer, i can see it helps with my flexibility and posture but I can't really say I've noticed any difference between male dancers and non-dancers when it comes to their sex moves

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I dont believe they do. Sex isn't about how you move, it's about chemistry and a connection. Without those no matter how good a mover you are the sex is going to be crap x

Of course, However the question relates more to sexual performance. The chemistry/connection/spark between the two should already be there at that point.

Why should being a dancer make the sexual performance different?

Dancers tend to have a better understanding of their own body and better mobility... at least so they say, there's always a difference between theory and practical applications. And we are talking in general terms rather than individuals "

I think everyone has an understanding of their own body whatever their profession. I guess flexibility would be the only difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only dancing I do is a trip head first between her boobs

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"I dont believe they do. Sex isn't about how you move, it's about chemistry and a connection. Without those no matter how good a mover you are the sex is going to be crap x

Of course, However the question relates more to sexual performance. The chemistry/connection/spark between the two should already be there at that point.

Why should being a dancer make the sexual performance different?

Dancers tend to have a better understanding of their own body and better mobility... at least so they say, there's always a difference between theory and practical applications. And we are talking in general terms rather than individuals

I think everyone has an understanding of their own body whatever their profession. I guess flexibility would be the only difference."

...and mobility and probably also that they have a better understanding of how the human body moves (biomechanics) and can move, but I agree that doesn't always mean good sex

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’ve danced for 30yrs and for me there are definitely aspects of being a dancer that help in the sexual sense, rhythm, coordination, endurance, flexibility however all of those things don’t equate to being better in bed than someone who doesn’t dance. I think dancing gives me confidence and perhaps less hang ups when it comes to just letting go with someone xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Only dancing I do is a trip head first between her boobs"

Thats the best kind

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By *oonshadowWoman
over a year ago

COVENTRY

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By *oonshadowWoman
over a year ago

COVENTRY

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By *oonshadowWoman
over a year ago

COVENTRY

I like a man who can do the hokey y

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By *elethWoman
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I would expect a tendency to better proprioception to help too.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"What kind of dancing OP? Just being nosey.

I think having rhythm helps definitely as long as it synchronises with your partner. And years of ballet as a kid means even though I'm quite big I'm still flexible. Definitely being able to stand on tip toes for ages helps with kissing tall men lol. "

I do modern jive and Tango. I don't know about it making you better in bed but I have found that in the dancing circles being a good dancer really dies increase a womans attraction to you.

It's a double edged sword Though, it's such a small world that if you are too much of a player your reputation suffers.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Pre covid I danced a lot. 3-4 times a week at classes and freestyle events. Mainly jive, tango and blues all "partner dances" so you learn to follow and be in touch with the other person. It becomes automatic if you've danced for some time. I'm sure it helps with sensuality and connection in the bedroom too, and with being comfortable in close contact with the opposite sex .

Really missing dancing "

I do Modern Jive and Tango freestyles Wonder if we have ever crosses paths?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, I don't think so. Although I imagine being fit and having stamina helps in ways. I can only squat bounce on a dick for about 3 or 4 minutes until I fall over.

I think amazing sex is much more about the chemistry with the other person. Who am I going to remember more? The dancer that I met 5 minutes ago? Or the guy who fills every part of my body with lust, excitement and desire?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Would it not make a better case of being lovers make the best dancers?

I can't dance for shit, but I'm a pretty damn good lover... So I'm told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only dancing I do is a trip head first between her boobs

Thats the best kind "

Always a pleasure to end up on those air bags

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over a year ago

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Oh I do so enjoy a bit of dancing. I have rhythm, though I say it myself I don’t know if helps when you get down to the mucky stuff though …. oral to the beat?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I always used to think it was the case. So imagine my excitement when meeting a gorgeous woman in a Taipei nightclub, she was a fantastic dancer and she looked incredible in a matador type jacket and shirt skirt. Worst shag I’ve ever had, huge disappointment. Her fault obviously!

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

An ex girlfriend of mine was a dancer and had all sorts of issues with food and body image... wasn’t that into sex unfortunately.

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"An ex girlfriend of mine was a dancer and had all sorts of issues with food and body image... wasn’t that into sex unfortunately. "

I wouldn't relate that to being a dancer, but more to showbiz or competitions...a lot of dancers are working in that industry and it is forcing them to maintain a certain image ( that's a whole other conversation)

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"..ok dancer might be a strong word, but people who know how to dance in general and have rhythm (and mobility)...do they perform better sexually? My question might be a bit biased having a background in dancing , however I have always been complimented for "the moves". Not sure if there's actually a correlation between dancing and being "good in bed" and honestly after movies like Dirty Dancing and Magic Mike, it kinda became like a stereotype as well.

What are your opinions/experience ? I had one woman mentioning that she had the worst sex with a dancer , so there's definitely that, but in general, are dancers better lovers?"

M dances, you might just be right.

E

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