FabSwingers.com forum: How many times have you left fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And came back under a different username?

Just saw another person reappear with a different name.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Never under a different username.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

None. I do take breaks, sometimes for months at a time.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Left loads of times but always have same username except in the early days when I had a different name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once, a five year gap

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Zero. This is my only account

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None but we hide our profile a lot x

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

I leave everyday and always come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to leave every year just before my profile got to a year old. Sometimes I’d leave in a grump but come back a week later but this profile I think is over two years old.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Have never left FAB since its inception but profile name has changed a bit, my view/belief in FAB as a lifestyle/swinging site has changed. My first time leaving FAB is imminent return unlikely, FAB for me is not what it was I still have a few friends here, rest have left as they are of the same opinion.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll admit I have. Its not a result of me trying to message people again in the hope of a different outcome. I always accept rejection as I respect mutral attraction must be there. Ive done it out of frustration of making connections but realising due to distance etc, its never going beyond smalltalk and likely frustrating for both parties. So I call it a day and start afresh after a short break as I miss the interaction that the site can bring.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Fab is the Swingers version of Hotel California

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I leave and rejoin intermittently. I leave as and when I get involved in more serious relationships away from Fab and when they finish rejoin for some fun x

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"I used to leave every year just before my profile got to a year old. Sometimes I’d leave in a grump but come back a week later but this profile I think is over two years old. "

do you recon you'll last till year 3 then

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Never left in nearly 15 years, used to be superramfan for the first 9 of them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to leave every year just before my profile got to a year old. Sometimes I’d leave in a grump but come back a week later but this profile I think is over two years old. "

Why just before a year? Are old dated profiles less attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have left a few times always came back with the same username which isn't my current username as I changed it last week, if I leave again will probably return with this name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few profiles over the years. I really enjoy it on here, but tend to get a bit tired of the sudden ghosting and last minute cancellations without a valid reason. I'll leave for a few months, do something else with my time and come back when the mood takes. Losing your verifications is the worst part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my third profile... I killed my first one for safety, few months later started another one under a random name but didn't like it, so killed that one, then started another one as Midnight Fetish, before i realised you can change your name on fab lol.. Back now to my favourite Midnight

Doh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take breaks here and there and just hide my profile

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

None, zero. We've been on with the same profile over 10 years (hence all the verifications)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once ... was only on for 4 months on that one ..

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I left once after a day. Then came and haven't left since I hide my profile sometimes or just don't log on at times.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Once but when I left it was for around 2 years not days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the last 10 years a few times. I have had many different names over that time.

Greedy two

Greedy one

Insert here

Cherry pie

To name but a few

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

Just once taking a break for four years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only actually "left" once. Came back on as a couple, went our separate ways and kept the account for myself. I take time out from the forums now and again but I'm usually lurking around, looking for some new target practice!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

None but have changed changed name a couple of times

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is 4th profile. 1st time I joined I met a guy a week after joining put myself in a dangerous situation and deleted the account straight away. 2nd time had a guy threaten to share my pics with family and work. 3rd time I took a break . Now I just hide my profile and resist logging in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once, but nobody noticed anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never left hid my profile for a few weeks last year due to being ill but never don’t that since.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I've never left - just hidden profile and taken myself off for a couple of months! Doing a profile again is too much like hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Never this is my only account at the moment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. Left once but used the same name!

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over a year ago

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I've never left - just hidden profile and taken myself off for a couple of months! Doing a profile again is too much like hard work

Exactly this. 99% of people always come back at some point so why bother having to do it all again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 times.

I was pink mist a long long time ago.

Then I was Wyldstyle.

I've been Sinderella for a while though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice.... boomerang

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Never

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Twice,once a long time ago and once last year

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Nope

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I left once - came back a few years later under a different name.

I prefer this name anyway tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once. I'm here to stay now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left as Lois came back as Hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd account. Was originally mabel99, then hippychick on the same account, then I left and came back as your fallenangel, left and came back as your fallen angel (a variation), and that’s the account I’m keeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never left - just hidden profile and taken myself off for a couple of months! Doing a profile again is too much like hard work

Exactly this. 99% of people always come back at some point so why bother having to do it all again?"

I think it depends on reason for leaving.

I always just used to hide my profile in the 5 years I was on fab at first. Last year though I think had different issues for a lot of people.

I think the main thing to remember is that we are all entitled to be here and if it gets uncomfortable, due to others, we should just say bollocks to them and stand our ground. Obviously easier said than done sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 times now

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We took a break for a few months at the end of feb... our username pretty much stays the same apart from the year changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once or twice.

Or fifty two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I’ve returned after a 3 year absence under a different user name only because I couldn’t remember my last one and had deleted my profile

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Twice.

One was after a bad experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive left nearly everyday, but then say, no one more day, get the forum on......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

If I leave im very unlikely to return but if I did I would use the same name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once or twice.

Or fifty two

That’ll make me once-a-week Willy over the last year!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Never.

If I leave im very unlikely to return but if I did I would use the same name. "

Haha I’ve said that all 127 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3rd account. Was originally mabel99, then hippychick on the same account, then I left and came back as your fallenangel, left and came back as your fallen angel (a variation), and that’s the account I’m keeping

I liked Hippychick

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

5th time here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd time here 2nd using this name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked Hippychick

But, but, now I’m an angel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I liked Hippychick

But, but, now I’m an angel

Angel that looks good on her knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i left when bored or starting a project that will comsume all my efforts.

other times i have left is when in a serious relationship and then i dont feel its right being on a site like this if your committed to building something with someone

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Once PB, always PB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a different user name but have left fab meny a times for viruses reason

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Once PB, always PB."

There’s only one PB

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Once PB, always PB.

There’s only one PB

One is quite enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never left in nearly 7 years, but I'm close to leaving for good now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never left in nearly 7 years, but I'm close to leaving for good now. "

How are you feeling? Did it go ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is the Swingers version of Hotel California

yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha more times than I care to remember over the last 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never left. Not yet anyway lol

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I left once for several years and wandered back here a while ago now

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I’ve never left but did take a break for about a year, just didn’t come on but left the profile up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on previously for about four months with same profile name, didn’t achieve anything. This time, got a load of pics fabbed and got verified in three weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And came back under a different username?

Just saw another person reappear with a different name."

I have deleted and rejoined 5+ times, always rejoined with the same name.

It’s men being tossers that cause me to delete then after a break I rejoin - but keep old username so that if people remember me from before they will hopefully get back in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never left Fab under this solo profile.

Why would I?

If you leave you lose all of your verifications and have to start all over again.

If I get a bit fed up. I simply apply ALL filters for a little while. Put a profile header saying that I am not currently meeting. And keep my status update section blank. And I rarely get anyone messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked Hippychick

But, but, now I’m an angel

I often wondered what happened to you. We use to talk and then you just disappeared off my hotlist.

But meh, we move on

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Twice

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve never left, been here 3 years or so now. I hide my profile when I need a little break.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Never left. When I do it will be for good.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Never. I've changed my name once but when I need a break I hide my profile, have a silhouette avatar and relish the enigma I've suddenly become.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once because the first time I joined was the wrong time

now I’m in a good place and on a great path

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I left a few years ago (K) and didn’t think I was coming back so killed my profile.

When I started my single profile again last year, I liked the idea of starting again to see how I’d fare as a new single male.

I came across C’s profile within the first 2 weeks. She enjoyed corrupting newbies so she’ll say I cat-fished her

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

This is my second single profile in 10 years...I was originally MissDeMena many years ago

Also had three separate couples accounts over the years...

DonkeyDoodleDandy

VanillaSplices

BiBeforeYouTri

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Once, 5 years ago as I’d met someone in the nonFAB world.

Back with the same username.

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

This is my third account.

Had my first single account, met my ex on here and we made an account.

Broke up deleted both accounts and left fab for a while.

Now rejoined

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 4 or 5 times. It's too addictive

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

This is my third account.

Had my first single account, met my ex on here and we made an account.

Broke up deleted both accounts and left fab for a while.

Now rejoined

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Not really left Fab as such.

Both of us have had couples profiles before with FWB’s

Just has had a previous single guy profile, (TallBaldGuy, for those who remember).. but we’ve never actually left, just changed who we are.

We both use this profile as our main one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once with a different username was originally MissBella then changed to RaspberrySmoothie and stuck with it

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Just once, briefly.

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